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sta1100
14-02-2010, 07:17 AM
To call bro$

Need some feedback how many of your
GF/wife when have sex does not allow you to kiss them, lick them 69, suck & touch them, reason giving is dirty,itchy
Troublesome to remove the top clothing and tired.
Before having kid everthing is OK after kid everthing goes down the drain$
Did tell her the problem but seem to me there is not improvement.
From a very confuse guy

sammyboyfor
14-02-2010, 09:04 AM
Before having kid everthing is OK after kid everthing goes down the drain$
Did tell her the problem but seem to me there is not improvement.
From a very confuse guy

That's quite normal. Just get yourself a new girlfriend or wife. After a couple of years, the cycle will repeat itself and it will be time to change partners again.

Why else do you think Hollywood couples separate after a short period. It's because their relationship goes stale. Lesser Mortals like yourself are no different.

Punder
14-02-2010, 10:06 AM
how long have u been married?

kIds how old.

sta1100
14-02-2010, 10:16 AM
how long have u been married?

kIds how old.

Married 10+ kid 7+

gambit88
14-02-2010, 08:22 PM
To call bro$

Need some feedback how many of your
GF/wife when have sex does not allow you to kiss them, lick them 69, suck & touch them, reason giving is dirty,itchy
Troublesome to remove the top clothing and tired.
Before having kid everthing is OK after kid everthing goes down the drain$
Did tell her the problem but seem to me there is not improvement.
From a very confuse guy


Maybe you wife has STDs and don't want to spread them to you,
or she has some other guy's load in her pussy that she doesn't want you to taste :o :(

For your sake, i hope my guesses are wrong man........

turbo_slk200
14-02-2010, 08:30 PM
The key to hot sex after marriage for so long is to use some romance to win your wife back ....... especially after u get married so long and even have children already.....

take care of her emotions....and she will take care of you in the bed !!

I am sure you know how to be romantic, right??

sta1100
14-02-2010, 10:04 PM
The key to hot sex after marriage for so long is to use some romance to win your wife back ....... especially after u get married so long and even have children already.....

take care of her emotions....and she will take care of you in the bed !!

I am sure you know how to be romantic, right??

Hi bro turbo

thanks for your feedback try already even talk to her still the same, every time complain tired

sta1100
14-02-2010, 10:10 PM
Maybe you wife has STDs and don't want to spread them to you,
or she has some other guy's load in her pussy that she doesn't want you to taste :o :(

For your sake, i hope my guesses are wrong man........

Hi Bro gambit 88

to be frank unlikely she don't allow me to do her RAW everytime must use condom even during her Red Bean soup, she say shoot inside in dirty everthing cannot no this no that even sex in bed must ve quick if not she want to sleep
please give me some advice

thanks

fishyprawn
15-02-2010, 04:13 AM
Did you show her enough $$$ ?? :D

sammyboyfor
15-02-2010, 05:37 AM
please give me some advice

thanks

Get rid of her. She sound like absolute crap. :rolleyes:

alanthegreat
15-02-2010, 09:48 AM
threaten her that u will stray if she continues. and pls act according to the threat. prefer you to bring the girl home and do it on your marital bed. let her catch u.. when she wants to kill u, tell her that she has been counting for this occasion.

liberatte
15-02-2010, 10:19 AM
TS it would be your duty to educate your female. Also, it was your fault that u did not brinng up your expectations during your interview with her. Also, i would believe that you won't DITY 10 years ago right? Right now, speak to ur wife about what u want. Don't be too direct just make it sound like "if you don't give, i can always outsource"

topcook1
15-02-2010, 02:06 PM
My opnion is that her sexual urge has gone down and no much passion ....Anyway is very normal. If you are not sextified , just go for ONS or pay sex.

sta1100
15-02-2010, 02:07 PM
My opnion is that her sexual urge has gone down and no much passion ....Anyway is very normal. If you are not sextified , just go for ONS or pay sex.

Hi

Are you married or single ??

marcf
15-02-2010, 04:48 PM
Buy her a nice jewellery.

Scientists have discovered that women looking at jewellery gets stimulated the same way as men look at chio bus!

Or maybe tidy up yourself and show her the guy that she married 10 years ago :)

gambit88
16-02-2010, 09:42 AM
Hi Bro gambit 88

to be frank unlikely she don't allow me to do her RAW everytime must use condom even during her Red Bean soup, she say shoot inside in dirty everthing cannot no this no that even sex in bed must ve quick if not she want to sleep
please give me some advice

thanks

Bro sta1100,

If You Cannot Even Do RAW On You GF/Wife, I Think Something Is Seriously Wrong.

I Don't Think It's About Hygiene & Tiredness Anymore.
If She Really LOVES You, She Will Worship Your Semen.

You May Need To Start Looking For New GF/Wife Fast.

Manfese_Widz
16-02-2010, 10:21 AM
even sex in bed must ve quick if not she want to sleep

thanks

Bro stall1100, now, this is serious. Then wat's the point of having sex if it needs to be done ve quickly?? Why needs to be ve quickly, coz you turn her off, or what?

Seems that sex is becoming a chore for her, but then, she is "forcing" herself to go with it so as to fulfill her role as a wife. If this prolongs, you really have to make a decision on your next step.

fishyprawn
16-02-2010, 11:39 AM
Buy her a nice jewellery.

Scientists have discovered that women looking at jewellery gets stimulated the same way as men look at chio bus!

Or maybe tidy up yourself and show her the guy that she married 10 years ago :)

Haha... I think going to a FL is much cheaper..:D

darksiders
16-02-2010, 12:09 PM
Bro, I suggest spending quality time alone together with your wife, like a weekend midnight movie or a nice dinner. After that followed by drinks session, then go to a hotel to round it up. You might not want to get her too drunk, to a point of high will do.

It works for me cos my partner becomes turned on with just a little alcohol. You gotta find her soft spot ! Maybe jewellery or LV bag will work too !

cumfast
16-02-2010, 07:13 PM
I would say still try to kiss her body... suck her breasts... lick her pussy but she will reject... but when she reject, have alot of patience and tell her you love her.

You love her right?

Ace_venture
16-02-2010, 09:13 PM
Having read though the thread,i somehow feel there is some form of unlying issue your wife is facing and its something you guys need to have a good heart to heart talk about.

Sit her down,and let her know u really need to talk about it.Address the issue and find out what's really the matter.

It could go either way....Smooth sailing heart to heart talk or it could turn alittle nasty if she's got some form of issue somewhere which you might not have realised.

Hope all turns out well for you at the end of the day.

~Cheers~

S.B.Y
16-02-2010, 11:23 PM
how many of your GF/wife when have sex does not allow you to kiss them, lick them 69, suck & touch them, reason giving is dirty,itchy

Maybe reason as below and also remember the Bobbitt case

threaten her that u will stray if she continues

No offence Mas alanthegreat

S.B.Y
16-02-2010, 11:34 PM
Did you show her enough $$$ ?? :D

Halo Mas fishyprawn

How Ts going to show the money when every bonk session he has to buycondoms

S.B.Y
16-02-2010, 11:39 PM
Bro stall1100, now, this is serious. Then wat's the point of having sex if it needs to be done ve quickly?? Why needs to be ve quickly, coz you turn her off, or what?

Seems that sex is becoming a chore for her, but then, she is "forcing" herself to go with it so as to fulfill her role as a wife. If this prolongs, you really have to make a decision on your next step.

I think its named Spouse's Obligation. Works both ways

S.B.Y
16-02-2010, 11:42 PM
Bro, I suggest spending quality time alone together with your wife, like a weekend midnight movie or a nice dinner. After that followed by drinks session, then go to a hotel to round it up. You might not want to get her too drunk, to a point of high will do.Maybe jewellery or LV bag will work too !

Intoxication only works once or twice and how to afford LVs,jewellery & hotels of every bonk sessions after condoms

S.B.Y
16-02-2010, 11:47 PM
need to have a good heart to heart talk about.

Sit her down,and let her know u really need to talk about it.Address the issue and find out what's really the matter.

It could go either way....Smooth sailing heart to heart talk or it could turn alittle nasty if she's got some form of issue somewhere which you might not have realised.

Sound advis Mas Ace_venture. :)

btw Advis is spelled Indo style and Mas is Bro in Indo

sta1100
17-02-2010, 04:34 AM
I would say still try to kiss her body... suck her breasts... lick her pussy but she will reject... but when she reject, have alot of patience and tell her you love her.

You love her right?

yes still very much

sta1100
17-02-2010, 04:41 AM
Bro, I suggest spending quality time alone together with your wife, like a weekend midnight movie or a nice dinner. After that followed by drinks session, then go to a hotel to round it up. You might not want to get her too drunk, to a point of high will do.

It works for me cos my partner becomes turned on with just a little alcohol. You gotta find her soft spot ! Maybe jewellery or LV bag will work too !

hi bro darksiders

to be frank I'am not keen to shower her with expensive gift, if only this will work I don't think this relation ship can go on, it nit about $$$ that will work

valent
17-02-2010, 05:13 AM
best thing is to talk to her and ask why is she behaving that way. if she is talking abt getting/ feeling dirty when having sex, complaining abt having to clean the mess, it already mean one thing.. she does not enjoy sex with you anymore..she would then say, wait for her to have the mood then u can perform sex on her. if this happens u should be worrying bro as u will be experiencing this for the rest of your life. you need to change it... have a less stressful life as stress is one factor that started to this "lazy/tired" behaviour of hers.

samyboys
16-03-2010, 09:13 AM
Hi Bro gambit 88

to be frank unlikely she don't allow me to do her RAW everytime must use condom even during her Red Bean soup, she say shoot inside in dirty everthing cannot no this no that even sex in bed must ve quick if not she want to sleep
please give me some advice

thanks

my situation in the bedroom is quite similar to yours bro

tyro
16-03-2010, 04:18 PM
Look for another contractor that provides the services you required.

singexpat
16-03-2010, 05:41 PM
When house no food to eat, eat outside...
BUT NVR TABAO BACK!! :cool:

small1
16-03-2010, 05:52 PM
have the same situation as u bro. but i'm not married. I always wan she object. cannot even kiss! i told her we not in court. why keep objectin? :confused: then the reasons flow out like urs which i wont repeat coz hear the same thing everday till i can say it backwards.
My suggestions might help coz to me it help a little but it will go back to square 1.
1.) try dun touch her for few weeks. avoid body contact. she dun let u touch then u also dun let her touch. :p she will start to wonder if u have other women outside juz tell her. Now dun have but u dun let me touch u sooner or later something bound to happen. its a human instinct.
2.) buy her a vibrator but chances of it is once she got used to it she might wan tt more than u:D

sta1100
11-08-2010, 08:46 AM
I would say still try to kiss her body... suck her breasts... lick her pussy but she will reject... but when she reject, have alot of patience and tell her you love her.

You love her right?

I do love her and alot, I;am trying my best to work thing out

sta1100
11-08-2010, 08:49 AM
Having read though the thread,i somehow feel there is some form of unlying issue your wife is facing and its something you guys need to have a good heart to heart talk about.

Sit her down,and let her know u really need to talk about it.Address the issue and find out what's really the matter.

It could go either way....Smooth sailing heart to heart talk or it could turn alittle nasty if she's got some form of issue somewhere which you might not have realised.

Hope all turns out well for you at the end of the day.

~Cheers~

Tks Bro Ace, for your concern, I've talk to her about it, and she have told me is the work that making her tired, end of the day we need to work out, it can't be a single side work and the other party just take. some time is very lonely got no one to turn too

sta1100
11-08-2010, 08:56 AM
best thing is to talk to her and ask why is she behaving that way. if she is talking abt getting/ feeling dirty when having sex, complaining abt having to clean the mess, it already mean one thing.. she does not enjoy sex with you anymore..she would then say, wait for her to have the mood then u can perform sex on her. if this happens u should be worrying bro as u will be experiencing this for the rest of your life. you need to change it... have a less stressful life as stress is one factor that started to this "lazy/tired" behaviour of hers.

Hi valent, there is some improvement, but depend on her mood, now i just wait for her to give green light, I've thought of FL but this is no a long term solution.

hope she get the picture, thing I need to tell her have told her, if she don't get the pic, well the next step will see how

sta1100
11-08-2010, 09:01 AM
The key to hot sex after marriage for so long is to use some romance to win your wife back ....... especially after u get married so long and even have children already.....

take care of her emotions....and she will take care of you in the bed !!

I am sure you know how to be romantic, right??

Doing work upgrading now, there is some changes in her

wishfulking
12-08-2010, 10:57 PM
talk to her and find out more

if she is tired or stressed from workplace - try a getaway vacation, make her relax and do what you did 10 yrs ago

if she lost her sex appetite - talk to her and try understand the root cause

if she don't understand - tell her about your need and how much you want from her

if none above work - don't threaten her by saying you going to eat outside. just do it quietly, play safe and continue to show how much you need her