my story - tear in cd

[worriedguy26]

just had to get this out.

had a massage today at one of the more popular HCs listed in this forum.
first we had bbbj, then after she capped me, i had another bj with me thrusting hard against her mouth.

we then started fj after she begged me to, but after 30secs-1min, i pulled out and we realized that there was a small tear in the cd, about 0.5cm in diameter. Nearly had a heart attack; had no mood to continue fj after that. had a quick hj then left, with her constantly reassuring me that she had no diseases.

can't stop thinking about it, will be going dsc to check in 6 wks time.
apparently the tear happened during the capped bj - i was thrusting too hard and her teeth might have caused it.
so that's about 30 secs - 1min of exposure of 1cm^2 of my cockhead.

this is actually my first fj at a HC, how can i be so suay? =/
i hope hope hope i don't get any stds. *prays

sigh. feel much better now that i've posted this. i'm glad tt this forum exists.
really regret it, will be staying away from HCs for some time.
I've let everyone down..

[peanut123]

welcome to the club. Practically everyone who has commercial sex would have at least 1 scare in their lifetime. From what you said, it doesn't seem very risky. Go for a checkup in 1 month, and then again at 3 months for peace of mind.


just had to get this out.

had a massage today at one of the more popular HCs listed in this forum.
first we had bbbj, then after she capped me, i had another bj with me thrusting hard against her mouth.

we then started fj after she begged me to, but after 30secs-1min, i pulled out and we realized that there was a small tear in the cd, about 0.5cm in diameter. Nearly had a heart attack; had no mood to continue fj after that. had a quick hj then left, with her constantly reassuring me that she had no diseases.

can't stop thinking about it, will be going dsc to check in 6 wks time.
apparently the tear happened during the capped bj - i was thrusting too hard and her teeth might have caused it.
so that's about 30 secs - 1min of exposure of 1cm^2 of my cockhead.

this is actually my first fj at a HC, how can i be so suay? =/
i hope hope hope i don't get any stds. *prays

sigh. feel much better now that i've posted this. i'm glad tt this forum exists.
really regret it, will be staying away from HCs for some time.
I've let everyone down..

[xpinkyx-moment]

good luck for u ~ take care ~

[worriedguy26]

thx for the reassurances guys. it helped a lot.
i will pray when i go to dsc in a few wks time..

[itsme]

Bro, I feel you. Caution though, you might re-consider bbbj, as we are certainly exposed during the course. Always safe to be capped. At the end of the day, we can hv piece of mind. We also pray for you, that you be safe.

[nottituck]

play safe dude

[Robert Lee]

Hi Bro,

Don think too much. Go for the checkup and wait for the result.

In the mean time, stay cool and chill

[Devil4U]

hey brother relax...i know its not easy to wait for the check up coz u need at least 1 mth. After that still got to wait another 2 mths to final cfm. For these 3 mths, just get urself bz with life. Get a sport starts a hobby, care for those people u are suspose to care. U will find that things can be much better. Don worry so much. Don end up get sick becoz of over stress. Take care

[nokia88]

If u care bout ur sex partners dun have sex till u are cleared by doctors .

Use excuses like ot daily to siam

Play safely .

[wallace741852]

good luck to you

[BOSSES]

Bro! . Take care and dun get stress out. Remember not to try anything exotic such as cunninglingus, BBBJ, Anal stuff and kissing. You will never know what the fuck they carry and who was their last customers. I always treat them like toilet bowl sometimes when I have sex with them. Occassionally, you get good FL who gives you some GFE feeling that you feel that you are making love to them. PLEASE DUN GET CARRY AWAY. PROSTITUTE are not wife and girlfriend.

Lastly, I think I know how u feel. Try to stop having sex for a while and do something more meaningful in life, like some brothers say here. BUT Please dun be complacent again when the results after the test shows negative. You might not be so lucky next time. Stay positive for now and live on.

Cheers

[bob.corleone]

while i agree with prostitutes are NOT wife or gf, i don't agree on treating them like a toilet bowl because if u do then aren't u having sex with a toilet bowl, am i right?

even though they are prostitute, they are still human beings. at least treat and refer them as one.

anyway TS take care n be safe.
peace bro.

[Mike1972]

Talking about scare... Did it with one girl, then one week later she told me she's pregnant lol... Didn't believe her at ALL!

[peanut123]

Bro

You are partially right. We should treat them civilly : be polite, dun be harsh or play too rough unless its a fetish that she's agreeable to, don't mistreat them. I generally talk and chat with them as if they were my friends or colleagues, but I'm careful to limit that to the hotel room only.

However, don't confuse being civil with being careless. You have to always keep in mind that their chosen (and I stress that they are usually here on their choice ) profession does come with risks and a unsavory reputation for good reasons.

They are not always clean from a health perspective, and they have sucked and fucked more dicks than you can possibly imagine. From that angle, you have to assume that they are possibly diseased and take precautions, just like you'll take an extra step of wiping down a public toilet before sitting on it.



while i agree with prostitutes are NOT wife or gf, i don't agree on treating them like a toilet bowl because if u do then aren't u having sex with a toilet bowl, am i right?

even though they are prostitute, they are still human beings. at least treat and refer them as one.

anyway TS take care n be safe.
peace bro.

[impartial]

It happened to me on 3 occasions. Luckily there were non-eventful. It's always risky to get involve in commercial sex.

[sammyboyfor]

while i agree with prostitutes are NOT wife or gf, i don't agree on treating them like a toilet bowl .

Whores aren't toilet bowls but licking a prostitute can be even more dangerous than licking one.

Thorough precautions are therefore necessary when coming into contact with whores as they can pass you all sorts of nasties.

[jnudes]

I haven't suffer this so far....everything is removed perfectly after sex and clean thoroughly by the WLs.

[Dettolboy_77]

My advice is this- If you scare don't play in the first place. For me I have the similar kind of feeling and everytime my buddy will tell me thjis "Just Fxxk and Forget"... God Bless

[Fatboy39]

The chances are that WLs are more scared of STDs than you. They are usually well protected or else most FLs would have HIV already. Win lottery is much easier than you ngam ngam ho tu tiok a WL with HIV and your CD broke at the same time.

Look up PCR-test under NAT-test in Wikipedia.org.

This test can be done 2 weeks after exposure and is new and accurate. Hospitals in SG offers it. Hope that this would help calm your anxiety.

Will pray for you. Good luck bro!

[Fatboy39]

Whores aren't toilet bowls but licking a prostitute can be even more dangerous than licking one.

Thorough precautions are therefore necessary when coming into contact with whores as they can pass you all sorts of nasties.

Damn Right Bro!!!

[wondergal]

bro ur condom tear so small?by right condoms fail should be catastrophic wan leah..really is rip off wan wad..

No, not always catastrophic. I have experienced small tear.

[worriedguy26]

hi, firstly, thanks bros for all the encouragement and comments.

just to bring some closure to this thread - i went to dsc last week for checkup on the dot at the 6th week mark. the staff were very polite and everything went smoothly. fortunately, i tested negative for everything.

the HIV test results came back really quickly, took only about 5min. the rest of the results comes back to you in an anonymous sms about a week later.

meanwhile, i'm really glad that i managed to stay away from HCs these 5 weeks, realized that my good looks really deserve better girls than those PRCs who only really care about cash (thanks mod for that reminder). managed to make plenty of great female friends meanwhile and I don't think i'd be going back to HCs anytime soon. maybe once or twice a year.

again, to all bros, thanks for all the kind words and i do hope that you guys can learn my lesson without going through a painful scare like what I've been through. imagine 6 weeks of worry just for a few minutes of pleasure with a girl who only cares about your wallet.

cheers and happy NDP to everyone on sbf!

[1sly]

No, not always catastrophic. I have experienced small tear.


How did you response ans what did you do after you found out there is a tear?

[sammyboyfor]

How did you response ans what did you do after you found out there is a tear?

I'm not sure you'll get an answer because it happened more than 10 years ago.