Unprotected Oral Sex is NOT safe sex

[sammyboyfor]

The question "Is BBBJ / Painting safe?" has been asked once or twice a week for the last 10 years!

Here's the answer.

Fellatio [BBBJ] :

http://std.about.com/od/riskfactorsforstds/a/oralsexsafesex.htm

Cunnilingus [Painting] :

http://std.about.com/od/sextips/ht/safecunnilingus.htm

[Big Sexy]

people.. please read this link as well.,.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=40699&page=4
esp..post 53 and 57



Here's the answer.

[mg8888]

Thx boss for info .

Will try to keep that in mind during groping sessions when still sober .

[vampire]

I am always hoping for the day where everyone chooses protected BJ. In fact, I think that should be a policy. That little extra bit of good feeling without condom is simply not worth the risk and anxiety of getting an STD.

[nottituck]

sigh...!

i remember one friend kena some virus and he used to insist that oral sex is safe.

nowadays i can only trust the tenga deep throat cup (http://tengatango.ecrater.com/p/3382056/tenga-kinky-pack-3-variations-of-deep) for oral sex thing, then when i in the mood use condom and f**k my mistress in china.

i dont even kiss her!

oral sex is not safe!

"life is hard when your job sucks and your wife doesnt" - anon. :p

[ilovesingapore]

wat is the point of oral sex when you use a condom? it is no difference sucking a piece of pacifier. rubber-taste!

[peanut123]

wat is the point of oral sex when you use a condom? it is no difference sucking a piece of pacifier. rubber-taste!

Eh, considering that most of the forummers here are GUYS, how is protected blowjob like sucking a pacifier unless the guys are giving blowjobs ??? In that case, they should be going to a gay forum, not a guy-bang-working-ladies forum.

If you are a girl, then there are many flavored condoms available. Just choose a nice fruity flavor and off you go.

[arsenal_84]

insisting on protected bj is also a form of respect for these FLs...i trust the rubber more than i trust the girl.

[ShaggyDog]

Agree to that.
Most women don't have symptoms for some of the most common STDs. They won't know but the men catch it and usually know..
One of the FLs from Dome 1 left more than just memories. I doubt she got treated. And now she's back in action after one month 'home leave'..
So definitely not worth the extra BB for the STD of a BJ..

[fullicegray]

Is oral sex still unsafe if is just one partner all the way?

[fullicegray]

if say we are having oral sex with one partner.. will that post any risk?

[sammyboyfor]

if say we are having oral sex with one partner.. will that post any risk?

That all depends on how many partners your partner has you twit. :p

[joew2005]

ya .....
1 x 1 = 1
1 x 2 = 2
1 x 3 = 3 .....

[zacefron]

Of from mnow on I"ll use condom when even having a blowjob.

[ShaggyDog]

Please keep in mind that there is also a risk of getting infected when you are painting her.. An oral dam would help here.. Or even when fingering her and touching yourself afterwards a certain risk remains..
As they say: no risk, no fun

[si-mi-hoot]

Yes, 100% agree, I don't understand why some of my female friends insist on using condoms when having sex with their boyfriends but suck their cock raw and swallow their sperm...... same risk of STD isn't it?!?!?!?! :confused::eek:

[ShaggyDog]

Even higher because the sperm came all the way where the bacteria sit. For sure, some got picked up along the way..

[FLdude]

Agree to that.
Most women don't have symptoms for some of the most common STDs. They won't know but the men catch it and usually know..
One of the FLs from Dome 1 left more than just memories. I doubt she got treated. And now she's back in action after one month 'home leave'..
So definitely not worth the extra BB for the STD of a BJ..

Hey bro, may i know the contact from dome 1 that you're talking about? Cus i recently tried a FL from dome 1 who just came back from abt 1mth break. If it's not convenient to tell me here, can PM me.

If it's the same girl, i go for checkup straight away. Also would appreciate it if you could tell me wat STD she has. Thanks.

[sammyboyfor]

Yes, 100% agree, I don't understand why some of my female friends insist on using condoms when having sex with their boyfriends but suck their cock raw and swallow their sperm...... same risk of STD isn't it?!?!?!?! :confused::eek:

Condoms are used to prevent pregnancy.:rolleyes:

[kgbkgb]

The safest way is to be fully protected whether its fj, bl or whatever. Try wearing a latex shorts(those with a hole for the penis) in conjunction with a condom . This will also protect against herpes and genital warts

http://www.tlsrubbergear.com/proddetail.php?prod=MB6004

[Big Sexy]

huh? fully protected?
that is rubbish... you could still get something nasty from a BJ.



The safest way is to be fully protected whether its fj, bl or whatever. Try wearing a latex shorts(those with a hole for the penis) in conjunction with a condom . This will also protect against herpes and genital warts

[kgbkgb]

Yr chances of contracting anything from a bj is almost nil if u're fully protected the way I described.

[hilrtougi]

I licked dunno how many assholes of malaysian masseuses.. luckily i m fine.:o

[Mikalimkiki]

I am a newbie to this and just starting to cheong. I had unprotected bbbj last week from a FL. I just found out that receiving oral sex is also risky. Wish I realized earlier. It was quite vigorous and she sucked for like 15 minutes before I exploded. She also licked my balls, thigh and anus. So the exposure was quite long.

However I also read that oral is also less risky than intercourse, and the receiver is at a much lower risk than the person giving the blowjob. Now given that probability means that someone who cheong his whole life may not get anything and someone who cheong once can catch something, what is the risk level here for a receiver if:

1. the girl shows no symptoms and has no ulcers, etc
2. I did not finger her nor lick her anywhere
3. all these while my didi was leaking out fluid, not sucking in fluid
4. my didi has no broken skin

This is freaking me out a bit and I am imagining all kinds of sensation down below. Its been almost a week since but no symptoms yet.

How often have you had bbbj only and not all's well?

Please don't blast me or ridicule me, I am new to this.

[sgspycam]

hi bro,

a person may carry the disease irregardless of whether or not he/she shows symptoms or ulcers.

it also has no relation to whether your cock is sucking fluid or not because the transmission mechanism is via the membrane of the skin and not via the urethra or any tubes.

based on what you have said, the risk might not be high but it would still exist.

that being said, in order to give yourself a peace of mind, it's best to get yourself tested and know for sure whether or not you really have a clean bill of health rather than being paranoid and trying to assess risk.

also, condoms are not 100% safe, hence, don't just think that condoms alone can make you invincible.

just my 2 cents worth, thanks

[sammyboyfor]

Now given that probability means that someone who cheong his whole life may not get anything and someone who cheong once can catch something, what is the risk level here for a receiver if:

1. the girl shows no symptoms and has no ulcers, etc
2. I did not finger her nor lick her anywhere
3. all these while my didi was leaking out fluid, not sucking in fluid
4. my didi has no broken skin

This is freaking me out a bit and I am imagining all kinds of sensation down below. Its been almost a week since but no symptoms yet.



What sort of answer are you looking for? If I tell you that based on the circumstances you describe, your risk of catching an STD is 0.0032%, would that allay your anxieties or would it make things worse?:rolleyes:

In reality, the risk of life threatening HIV is low while the risk of viral STDs such as herpes and genital warts is somewhat higher and symptoms are often absent even if the infection has taken hold.

My advice is to simply put the episode behind you and get on with life. If you want further comfort, get yourself tested in a couple of months for all known STDs known to man. :p

[tian_cai007]

I am a newbie to this and just starting to cheong. I had unprotected bbbj last week from a FL. I just found out that receiving oral sex is also risky. Wish I realized earlier. It was quite vigorous and she sucked for like 15 minutes before I exploded. She also licked my balls, thigh and anus. So the exposure was quite long.

However I also read that oral is also less risky than intercourse, and the receiver is at a much lower risk than the person giving the blowjob. Now given that probability means that someone who cheong his whole life may not get anything and someone who cheong once can catch something, what is the risk level here for a receiver if:

1. the girl shows no symptoms and has no ulcers, etc
2. I did not finger her nor lick her anywhere
3. all these while my didi was leaking out fluid, not sucking in fluid
4. my didi has no broken skin

This is freaking me out a bit and I am imagining all kinds of sensation down below. Its been almost a week since but no symptoms yet.

How often have you had bbbj only and not all's well?

Please don't blast me or ridicule me, I am new to this.

I have contacted Gonorrhea from a legal CAT 150 WL from oral sex. What makes you think you can be spared from FLs??? Better stop all sexual activities and go for checkup...

[soaringboy]

so if u wear condom for oral but she lick your balls, there is still chances?
then wad about licking of other part of skin?

and i suppose frenching is as much as the same with condom since you enter her mouth or yours.

[sammyboyfor]

so if u wear condom for oral but she lick your balls, there is still chances?
then wad about licking of other part of skin?

and i suppose frenching is as much as the same with condom since you enter her mouth or yours.

You're at risk of catching herpes.

[soaringboy]

Thanks for the answer^^ sounds like i should stay home and just read forum instead:'p

[sammyboyfor]

Thanks for the answer^^ sounds like i should stay home and just read forum instead:'p

Life is inherently risky. There are many activities where the consequences are a lot worse than a rash in the groin area.

193 people were killed on public roads last year and many thousands suffered serious injury. If life's risks compel you to become a recluse and prisoner in your own home, the risk of death while traveling would be a far more valid reason.

[Moderat]

It is extremely unlikely that you would catch HIV from a blow job as very little virus is present in saliva.

"In June 2002, a study conducted amongst 135 HIV negative Spanish heterosexuals, who were in a sexual relationship with a person who was HIV positive, reported that over 19,000 instances of unprotected oral sex had not led to any cases of HIV transmission."

[4Dguru]

Skin is the largest human organ. Most of the STDs will enter your body when there is a breakage in the epidermis layer of the skin. Micro-organisms such as viruses, bacteria, parasites will enter through these breakages and compromise your immune system.

[timetra]

If I think I caught something from BBBJ where should I go get checked and looked at?

Any advice?

[4Dguru]

http://www.dsc-sexualhealth.com.sg/index.asp

If I think I caught something from BBBJ where should I go get checked and looked at?

Any advice?

[batty]

"Oral sex 'big cause of throat cancer'",

Straits Times, Wednesday, 5 Oct 2011, page A10.

NEW YORK: Throat cancer in men is more likely to be caused by a virus linked to oral sex than smoking, an American study has suggested.

Researchers who examined throat tumour tissue collected from 271 patients over a 20-year period found that oral cancer linked to the human papillomavirus, or HPV, shot up to 72% from 16%.

Put another way, the number of people diagnosed with HPV-related oral cancer in 2004, the year the study ended, was triple the number diagnosed in 1988, according to the study, published in the Journal of Clinical Oncolody on Monday. ...


This is only if the girl you are performing cunnilingus on has HPV. I believe that men can be carriers of HPV but show no symptoms. I cannot say for certain if this is true. Yesterday's New Paper also has an article on unprotected oral sex which I have not read. I very very seldom or never lick WL, FL or girlfriends' vulvas nowadays. In the past I did so but probably less than eight.

If cunnilingus is your thing, cover your tongue with a condom or a clean plastic sheet. Hold it with the fingers of your two hands where the ring of the condom is and lick. That is a barrier, right?

[batty]

Oral sex can cause throat cancer

22:00 09 May 2007 by Roxanne Khamsi

People who have had more than five oral-sex partners in their lifetime are 250% more likely to have throat cancer than those who do not have oral sex, a new study suggests.

The researchers believe this is because oral sex may transmit human papillomavirus (HPV), the virus implicated in the majority of cervical cancers.

The new findings should encourage people to consistently use condoms during oral sex as this could protect against HPV, the team says. Other experts say that the results provide more reason for men to receive the new HPV vaccine.

Maura Gillison at Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health in Baltimore, Maryland, US, and colleagues collected blood and saliva samples from the throats of 100 patients diagnosed with cancers of the tonsils or back of the throat. The scientists also took samples from 200 healthy people for comparison.

By combining the blood and saliva samples with antibody molecules, Gillison's team could tell whether a person had ever had an HPV infection.

Cancer traps
All of the study participants provided information about their sexual history, including the number of people with whom they had engaged in oral sex.

After controlling for other risk factors for throat cancer, such as drinking and smoking, the analysis revealed that people who had prior infection with HPV were 32 times as likely to have this cancer as those with no evidence of ever having the virus. And those who tested positive for a particularly aggressive strain of the virus, called HPV-16, were 58 times more likely to have throat cancer.

By comparison, either smoking or drinking increases the risk of such cancer by about threefold.

The throat cancers analysed in the new study mostly started in the "crypts" of the throat - the grooves at the base of the tonsils. This might be because the tonsil grooves trap infectious particles, suggests Mark Stoler of the University of Virginia in Charlottesville, US, who was not involved in the study.

High risk levels
The study also revealed a link between oral sex and throat cancer caused by HPV. People who had one to five oral-sex partners in their lifetime had approximately a doubled risk of throat cancer compared with those who never engaged in this activity - and those with more than five oral-sex partners had a 250% increased risk.

There was an even stronger link between oral sex and throat cancers clearly caused by HPV-16 (those tumours that tested positive for the strain). People with more than five oral sex partners had a 750% increased risk of these HPV-16-caused cancers.

"This study is important because it is putting all of the pieces together," says Gillison. "We need to add oral HPV infection to the list of risks for oral cancer," she adds.

Virus vaccine
A vaccine against several of the most aggressive strains of HPV linked to cervical cancer received approval from the US Food and Drug Administration in 2006. However the plan to vaccinate adolescent girls with this vaccine developed by Merck, called Gardasil, has received some criticism.

There have been no studies investigating whether the vaccine can also protect against throat cancer, but the new evidence linking HPV to throat cancer could lead to broader vaccination with Gardasil. "We will see a push for vaccination in men," says Stoler, who has been involved in the development of the vaccine.

Tonsil and throat cancers affect about two in every 100,000 adults in the US. The new results could promote the development of spit tests for HPV infection to help identify people at high risk for these cancers, researchers say.

Journal reference: New England Journal of Medicine (vol 356, p 1944)


(The above was taken word-for-word from http:www.newscientist.com)

[rikki10]

where should I go if i wanna get checked for anonymously? please advice?

[sammyboyfor]

where should I go if i wanna get checked for anonymously? please advice?

Should be "Please ADVISE.". "Advice" is a noun.

Check out the DSC website.

[rokhard]

Bro, at the moment you cannot test for HPV and don't forget there are many strains for HPV.

You can't even vaccinate against HPV with Gardasil because it only affords protection against HPV, if the virus is not already in your system. As long as you have have any sexual exposure, you are likely to be exposed to HPV.

If you are a virgin and you have a virginal partner, you have little to worry about this HPV.

It is estimated that more than 50% of the population is a HPV carrier. The only thing you can protect yourself is maintain your health and immune system, and go to the doctor as soon as you see signs of any disease.

For more information, read: http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=238418&highlight=hpv

where should I go if i wanna get checked for anonymously? please advice?

[ahJet]

Hi Samter Bro here. Pls help.. 8 weeks ago I had a unprotected oral sex from a prostitute.. After 2 weeks later I found out my penis head start to have rasher, but no itchy, no pain when uri or discharge & other.. Just rasher on penis head.. Is there any STD tat related to this symptom?

[blizt13]

that solved one of my doubt which running in my mind long ago....
if everyone know this, please support protected oral sex....!!:eek:

[shiokpleasure]

Thanks for the answer^^ sounds like i should stay home and just read forum instead:'p

Stay home & watch porn la, safer

[Hyper99]

New strain of antibiotic resistant gonorrhea spreading from Japan; Found in tokyo prostitute's throat.

It will only be a matter of time before it hits Singapore.

http://newsonjapan.com/html/newsdesk/article/90879.php

[Neodamus]

Here is a interesting read on the risks of unprotected oral sex:

http://www.salon.com/2012/08/19/how_risky_is_oral_sex/

[xiaodidi8]

Hi Samter Bro here. Pls help.. 8 weeks ago I had a unprotected oral sex from a prostitute.. After 2 weeks later I found out my penis head start to have rasher, but no itchy, no pain when uri or discharge & other.. Just rasher on penis head.. Is there any STD tat related to this symptom?

sounds like balanitis candida fungal infection. dont be scared, very ez treatment. buy clotrimazole and apply for 7 days (twice daily)

rash will begin clearing up overnight, but you must treat for 7 days

candida fungus spores are all over your body. when you have oral sex, the friction may cause your glans to tear, and the spores will implant themselves and start to grow. very normal "STD"

[Dnblover]

I should have read this BEFORE my visit to ktv!!!!

Got a bbbj from a viet girl, lasted less than 5 min. Shiok first but worry afterwards.

Went back n read up on risk of hiv, std, etc. then realised knn can get std one! But i read from a singapore clinic doing hiv screening tt the odds of kenna AIDS if u receive a bj from a person is 1 in 20000. So heng at least not likely to kena AIDS.

But now a bit paranoid will kena other stds. My 2IC tip there a bit sore, got the inflammation feeling. I dunno if its my mind playing tricks or the csw kept rubbing my cock when i wearing jeans n kena abrasion or i dio disease liao.

I had my bbbj just 2 days ago. Can any std show symptom so fast? Any senior bros can advise? I scared spread to my wife sia...

[sammyboyfor]

I had my bbbj just 2 days ago. Can any std show symptom so fast? Any senior bros can advise? I scared spread to my wife sia...

The best option is to see a doctor. There is no way of diagnosing diseases over the internet. ;)

[Dnblover]

Lol true tt doctor is the best option. But i was thinking cannot be everytime visit csw then go doctor to verify. Anyway still have to wait a while if not probably no symptoms for doc to diagnose.

[MrWaiGo]

hi bros,

6months ago i has sex at gl with protection, but i did not when for a HIV/STD check...

but these few days, i had sex with fl again and the cd broke while bonking... :(

now my kuku bird head got one black & white dot...

so can I go for a HIV/STD check now?

[ultraeqd1987]

Just so you all know, Cunnilingus (painting) can cause throat/mouth cancer in the painter (man or woman).
:eek: :eek: :eek:

http://www.guardian.co.uk/film/2013/jun/02/michael-douglas-oral-sex-cancer

A note though, Michael Douglas is also a notorious boozer and smoker. Smoking and booze increases your risk in contracting cancer from other sources (apart from the carcinogen effects of smoking/alcohol). His cancer was biopsied to be from HPV (STD related) though.

Well just another reason that we will soon get a full body condom...

[sniper968]

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/facts/infectionoralsex.htm

From a medical site.

[hungry88]

Best to is abstain from all BBBJ with prossies completely. Not worth the risk. You only live once.

[revenant88]

Hmm actually I don't quite like BBBJ considering the risk.
But it's kinda a SOP when you cheong. What can I do? :)

[marclove]

Thanks for the good information

[opqwopqw]

yea BBBJ certainly pose some risk in getting STD, so try not to go for BBBJ and no frenching and painting. still can chiong but try to avoid such stuff if possible. Chiong and stay healthy. Also if any concern, go to DSC, dont waste time google for answer as this only increase ur anxiety.

[KaiMcintire]

Thank you for the information

[AngChiew]

Best to is abstain from all BBBJ with prossies completely. Not worth the risk. You only live once.

Would agree on this

[XinJiao]

Guys

Visited a freelance massage lady.
Normal massage, but no bj/etc.

Only HJ.

But now my kaki itch like hell..... Scatching makes it worst.

Now is Sian cos might be towel dirty... Haiz....

[Big Sexy]

scratching will only make it worse..
go pop a antihistamine pill, if it doesnt get better, go see a doctor


But now my kaki itch like hell..... Scatching makes it worst.

Now is Sian cos might be towel dirty... Haiz....

[ColdBlood99]

Guys

Visited a freelance massage lady.
Normal massage, but no bj/etc.

Only HJ.

But now my kaki itch like hell..... Scatching makes it worst.

Now is Sian cos might be towel dirty... Haiz....


try to put army powder on it, maybe will be less itchy.

[XinJiao]

Now I have a small sore in between the balls n anus.... Stress Liao....... :(:(

Going to see a doc later.... Haiz......

Not sure if sway... Piece of advice... Next time bring own tower if visiting FL Massage....

[kurios]

Dear Bros,

Taking a serious look, all sex acts are unsafe. No matter how safe is still unsafe unless remain faithfully to one and only partner.

An advice, please think before act. For the few minutes of enjoying and got to worry after that, is not worth especially for married ones. Always, put your family before you.

[linrx]

Abit off-topic here, still that's precisely the reason why Guan Yin i.e. Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva normally keeps her mouth shut especially when crafters made figurines of her https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HfGmZfYBJ8E

[Baddecisions]

Hi all. Had protected bj yesterday with FL. intended for massage but cos it's my first time, I thought it's protocol. she licked my nipple area and gave me protected bj (which lasted for 10secs max because I suffer from PE). Never intended to engage her FJ services cos she does both massage only and FJ. Wanted the former.

Never thought I would engage FL but too stressed with life so not thinking straight. It's always been my personal choice not to partake in this activity. Really regretting now. Also been worrying since last night.

What are my risks now in terms of STD/HIV? Very worried about getting herpes because it is incurable. Also worried about getting STDs or even worse, HIV. Very hard to explain to family. Didn't manage to sleep last night because keep worrying. So paranoid that now as long as my 2IC itch or the area around 2IC itch, I will go toilet and check immediately. Help and advice please. Tmr go doctor do test also too early to test for anything.

Plan to still go ahead Tmr and get tested for herpes to see if I already have it since most ppl say a lot of ppl have it but don't know. If I really get tested positive for herpes, I wanna know if I got it from yesterday's session or alr had it before. Will get tested for whatever based on doctor's advice too.

But ultimate question is, how high is my risk now for any STD/HIV given my limited exposure. Am I being too paranoid?

[DoctorTan]

Hi all. Had protected bj yesterday with FL. intended for massage but cos it's my first time, I thought it's protocol. she licked my nipple area and gave me protected bj (which lasted for 10secs max because I suffer from PE). Never intended to engage her FJ services cos she does both massage only and FJ. Wanted the former.

Never thought I would engage FL but too stressed with life so not thinking straight. It's always been my personal choice not to partake in this activity. Really regretting now. Also been worrying since last night.

What are my risks now in terms of STD/HIV? Very worried about getting herpes because it is incurable. Also worried about getting STDs or even worse, HIV. Very hard to explain to family. Didn't manage to sleep last night because keep worrying. So paranoid that now as long as my 2IC itch or the area around 2IC itch, I will go toilet and check immediately. Help and advice please. Tmr go doctor do test also too early to test for anything.

Plan to still go ahead Tmr and get tested for herpes to see if I already have it since most ppl say a lot of ppl have it but don't know. If I really get tested positive for herpes, I wanna know if I got it from yesterday's session or alr had it before. Will get tested for whatever based on doctor's advice too.

But ultimate question is, how high is my risk now for any STD/HIV given my limited exposure. Am I being too paranoid?

Here's the rundown:

1. HIV - no risk
2. Syphilis - negligible risk
3. Hepatitis - no risk (you are probably vaccinated anyway)
4. Chlamydia + Gonorrhea - small risk
5. Herpes - risk
6. HPV - risk
7. Mollusucm - risk

[glitz]

What a reminder for all...

[sam91]

How many bros kena by giving bbbj with hse 79 rowell ladyboy? (No fluid in mouth)

Meanwhile I just curious why party girls so daring n me turned into a mice after this yolo encounter?

[linrx]

No sex is the safest sex. Depends on each person's mental and physical well being also, la!

[Xyberduke]

Just a gentle reminder after hearing from a fellow patron yesterday.

If you engage FLs, reduce your risk by not having bbbj with those on short visit visas. They do not undergo any form of health checks. Several have STD (including HIV), and some may not even know they have it.

[linrx]

Just a gentle reminder after hearing from a fellow patron yesterday.

If you engage FLs, reduce your risk by not having bbbj with those on short visit visas. They do not undergo any form of health checks. Several have STD (including HIV), and some may not even know they have it.

Do not disagree with Xyberduke. Yet, this is slightly on the difficult side judging since the past week has also been International Women's Day. STDs including HIVs take two parties to transmit, i.e. it is not possible that Zika virus even can appear in one party in the absence of some source e.g. the mosquito had bitten an infected pregnant woman or one party has slept with another that is infected with Zika virus. In fact these days with Zika, it has become quite poignant that we should consider including Zika as part of the broad definitions of STDs.

The past few months Singapore has been relatively safe from dengue and consequently Zika, we do not know what is going to happen in April and May which are usually the hotspots of dengue outbreaks.

Unprotected oral sex is indeed not safe sex, but these days even being bitten by aedes mosquitoes can spread STDs, don't forget. NEA is telling us that they are releasing male Wolbachia-Aedes mosquitoes already, this is a somewhat localised topic that one may be keen on reading on, I won't understand how effectively these male mosquitoes are at controlling the biting female population, but in general perhaps, don't do oral sex without a condom.

[Rockm4n]

Dear Bros,
I went to a massage bar to have my massage
Suddenly the massage lady bbj me for 10 sec before I ask her to stop, and she finish off me when a hj
May I ask if I'm any risk of UTI?
I did a check with doctor tan clinic after 1 week + 2 days exposure, came out nothing.
Is this conclusive for c and g std?
Till now I still feel my kkj like got problem. Sometime I feel my pee is abit warm, I dunno is I think too much already or what. Hope Dear Bros can clear my doubt.
Tia!

[sammyboyfor]

Dear Bros,
I went to a massage bar to have my massage
Suddenly the massage lady bbj me for 10 sec before I ask her to stop, and she finish off me when a hj
May I ask if I'm any risk of UTI?
I did a check with doctor tan clinic after 1 week + 2 days exposure, came out nothing.
Is this conclusive for c and g std?
Till now I still feel my kkj like got problem. Sometime I feel my pee is abit warm, I dunno is I think too much already or what. Hope Dear Bros can clear my doubt.
Tia!

The only way to clear all doubts is to get yourself tested once more in a month's time.

[Big Sexy]

i dont think u need to be worry about getting UTI from oral sex..

as for the window period for stds..
check out this post.
https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=13850811&postcount=10


Dear Bros,
I went to a massage bar to have my massage
Suddenly the massage lady bbj me for 10 sec before I ask her to stop, and she finish off me when a hj
May I ask if I'm any risk of UTI?
I did a check with doctor tan clinic after 1 week + 2 days exposure, came out nothing.
Is this conclusive for c and g std?
Till now I still feel my kkj like got problem. Sometime I feel my pee is abit warm, I dunno is I think too much already or what. Hope Dear Bros can clear my doubt.
Tia!

[Rockm4n]

i dont think u need to be worry about getting UTI from oral sex..

as for the window period for stds..
check out this post.
https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=13850811&postcount=10
As for c n g std, is it 80% conclusive if I'm test negative for 9 days?

[Big Sexy]

i am not sure what test was done for u..Dr tan will be the best person to advise on that...

be it 80%, 85% or 90% .. bottom line is, it isnt conclusive.. so take take sam advice.. if u are uncertain on the result... The only way to clear all doubts is to get yourself tested once more in a month's time.

As for c n g std, is it 80% conclusive if I'm test negative for 9 days?

[cloisteredmingl]

Thank you for you great sharing with us bros, thumbs up for more sharing :)

[wrxstik]

i am not sure what test was done for u..Dr tan will be the best person to advise on that...

be it 80%, 85% or 90% .. bottom line is, it isnt conclusive.. so take take sam advice.. if u are uncertain on the result... The only way to clear all doubts is to get yourself tested once more in a month's time.

Is Dr Tan anonymous test or MOH will know the result ?

[Rockm4n]

Update, I actually done a check in doctor tan clinic, turn out the urine test is negative after 4 weeks.
I later confess to doctor that I have ML do prostate massage on me 2 occasions, hence we found out properly my prostate was infected with bacteria, prescribe some doxycycline for 2 weeks, on the 1st week still have didi sensation, 2nd week manage to get feel abit better... A warning to all Bros, don't always think the ML finger is clean.. Better check and make sure they wash their hands or use gloves whenever they stick their fingers to!

[architecture]

http://www.drtanandpartners.com/std-symptoms-in-receptive-oral-sex/
found this to be very useful

[Kusotare]

Dear boss and doctors,

I'm aware all forms of unprotected oral sex definitely contains risk of std. I'm just wondering from a probability point of view, is there a higher risk for transmission if ejaculation occurs versus oral without ejaculation? Or there's no difference? Thanks

[Big Sexy]

the simple answer is Yes esp if you are the receiver

is there a higher risk for transmission if ejaculation occurs versus oral without ejaculation? Or there's no difference? Thanks

[blurtoad000]

I received a cbj from a WL but is was covered by a very thin plastic sheet ( that look like a small plastic bag)


I google and found out that this might be called a dental dam but dental dam is more like a square sheet of paper but what the WL used is more like a plastic bag shape.

Any bro know what is this plastic?

Assuming that it is a dam, is it an effective protection? Or same risk as a bbbj??

Thanks for any advice

[sammyboyfor]

I received a cbj from a WL but is was covered by a very thin plastic sheet ( that look like a small plastic bag)


I google and found out that this might be called a dental dam but dental dam is more like a square sheet of paper but what the WL used is more like a plastic bag shape.

Any bro know what is this plastic?

Assuming that it is a dam, is it an effective protection? Or same risk as a bbbj??

Thanks for any advice

As long as there is an effective barrier the risk is lowered.

[Big Sexy]

plastic wrap ?
extract from https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=4243907&postcount=233

A makeshift dental dam can be made out of a condom. Using a real dental dam is preferable, as real dental dams are larger, and the makeshift version may be accidentally damaged during the cutting procedure. Plastic wrap may also be used, but this is less preferable

184524

I received a cbj from a WL but is was covered by a very thin plastic sheet ( that look like a small plastic bag)


I google and found out that this might be called a dental dam but dental dam is more like a square sheet of paper but what the WL used is more like a plastic bag shape.

Any bro know what is this plastic?

Assuming that it is a dam, is it an effective protection? Or same risk as a bbbj??

Thanks for any advice

[iljimae]

plastic wrap ?
extract from https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=4243907&postcount=233

A makeshift dental dam can be made out of a condom. Using a real dental dam is preferable, as real dental dams are larger, and the makeshift version may be accidentally damaged during the cutting procedure. Plastic wrap may also be used, but this is less preferable

184524


Dear Big Sexy Bro,

I had the facial plastic wrap and when cumming it broke as it was real thin.

It was a session with a massage lady and she commented at the end she tasted my cum as my semen ejected from a small hole as seen leaking out my semen. That said this plastic type of wrap was torn and looks something like we use to wrap the bowl for overnight storage in the fridge.

I am little worried so when should I get my test done? The rightful period. What’s the risk involved through the tiny hole at the top and her salvia did dripped a bit down to my groin skin area.

Thanks to advise.

[iljimae]

Dear Big Sexy Bro,

I had the facial plastic wrap and when cumming it broke as it was real thin.

It was a session with a massage lady and she commented at the end she tasted my cum as my semen ejected from a small hole as seen.

I am little worried so when should I get my test done? The rightful period.

Thanks to advise.

She performed CBJ on me by the way

[Big Sexy]

low risk.. but forget about the odd..
do the 4th gen HIV test after 28 days to be sure..

https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=6571464&postcount=746



I am little worried so when should I get my test done? The rightful period. What’s the risk involved through the tiny hole at the top and her salvia did dripped a bit down to my groin skin area.

Thanks to advise.

[iljimae]

low risk.. but forget about the odd..
do the 4th gen HIV test after 28 days to be sure..

https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=6571464&postcount=746

Thanks Big Sexy Bro, how about STDs?

[Big Sexy]

for other std risk.. read the first post of this thread.

for std windows period. read here
https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=15812261&postcount=19


Thanks Big Sexy Bro, how about STDs?

[silveraxis]

Hi all, I engaged a freelance ML and she did some light massage and she gave me a HJ in the process, before that, she just BBBJ to help make my 2IC grow before proceeding to the HJ.

I am abit worry as i went to look at some links provided in the forums and it is not 100% safe even if i did not CIM.

But my ultimate question/worry is how high is my risk now for any STD/HIV given my limited exposure. Abit worried since I just wanted to massage and not thinking clear when she pop the question.

[christy74]

good to know

[sammyboyfor]

Hi all, I engaged a freelance ML and she did some light massage and she gave me a HJ in the process, before that, she just BBBJ to help make my 2IC grow before proceeding to the HJ.

I am abit worry as i went to look at some links provided in the forums and it is not 100% safe even if i did not CIM.

But my ultimate question/worry is how high is my risk now for any STD/HIV given my limited exposure. Abit worried since I just wanted to massage and not thinking clear when she pop the question.

Low risk for HIV. Medium risk for the other stuff.

[Hisenberg]

What can possibly be transmitted from bbbj then since most provider offers that?

[Big Sexy]

read the link below ..What STIs can you get from oral sex?
https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=17003958&postcount=121



What can possibly be transmitted from bbbj then since most provider offers that?

[sammyboyfor]

What can possibly be transmitted from bbbj then since most provider offers that?

Yes most providers offer that and that's how STDs are transmitted.

[Burton90]

Hi,

I gotten a bbbj from a ML recently and at night i used diluted dettol to wash my penis.

Today i found white spots on my penis head where there the foreskin are at.

Should i be worried of STI?

[Burton90]

199893

Hi all it looks like this now

[jotan]

That is PPP. Nothing to worry.. go read up more.. if really want to be sure.. go and see your doc and get yourself screen and tested..

[Achieve]

That is PPP. Nothing to worry.. go read up more.. if really want to be sure.. go and see your doc and get yourself screen and tested..

What is PPP?

[sammyboyfor]

What is PPP?

Enter "PPP" in the search box of this forum.

[chatlovers]

What is PPP?

upz u back bro

[jotan]

Enter "PPP" in the search box of this forum.

Thanks boss to help reply..

[DocHealth]

Any form of sexual intercourse - be in anal, vaginal, or oral - when performed without a protection (dam or condoms) is unsafe and can be the harbinger of a host of sexually transmitted diseases.

What most people think is that protection is only to avoid conception - but physical barrier methods such as male/female condoms, also deter the transmission of disease-causing pathogens.

Be it cold sores or genital warts - or even vaginitis - once a broken skin comes in contact with bodily fluids these diseases are bound to spread.

https://factdr.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/Sexually-Transmitted-Diseases.png

Women, owing to their shorter urethra, are at a higher risk of acquiring these infections.

Thus, one should always use protection (https://factdr.com/health-conditions/sexually-transmitted-diseases/) - irrespective of the type of intercourse being performed.

[nazrula]

i gt small bumb at my penis head after bj with protection

i notice it after 1hr of the incident

idk what it is la...

see how next few days

if start to pain i go DSC

in the meantime any bros here can advise me?

[Big Sexy]

protected bj is pretty safe and std symptoms dont appear so soon after an exposure... so it probably isnt std or something nasty from a previous exposure..


i gt small bumb at my penis head after bj with protection

i notice it after 1hr of the incident

idk what it is la...

see how next few days

if start to pain i go DSC

in the meantime any bros here can advise me?

[soulblader]

BJ also will kenna STD???:confused:

[sammyboyfor]

BJ also will kenna STD???:confused:

Yes you most certainly can get STDs from a blow job.

The most common is Gonorrhea as this bug infects the throat of many whores who perform unprotected oral sex on their clients.

[Big Sexy]

yes of course it is possible...read the whole thread

BJ also will kenna STD???:confused:

[callgirls]

good information which you have post

[luckyboiboi]

If a couple has been doing unprotected sex (assuming both are virgins from the start), are both of them safe?

[sammyboyfor]

If a couple has been doing unprotected sex (assuming both are virgins from the start), are both of them safe?

You could get HSV1 because you don't need to have sex to catch that virus.

[Franco_Barsei]

What're the risk of catching something when she spits on my lil bro to lubricate it when giving a HJ?

No entering her mouth whatsoever?

[Big Sexy]

nothing to worry about

What're the risk of catching something when she spits on my lil bro to lubricate it when giving a HJ?

No entering her mouth whatsoever?

[Franco_Barsei]

nothing to worry about

I know nothing to worry for HIV, how about other ailments?

[Ember]

I know nothing to worry for HIV, how about other ailments?

Risk quite low, but she could theoretically give you herpes from HJ if she had a small cut on her fingers caused by an infection

[macmillan]

What are the risks with a protected BJ?

Is it likely to get STDs from saliva dripping down to base of penis which is not covered by condom?

I guess the question is really about the risk of STD transmission by saliva

[sammyboyfor]

What are the risks with a protected BJ?

Is it likely to get STDs from saliva dripping down to base of penis which is not covered by condom?

I guess the question is really about the risk of STD transmission by saliva

Whenever body fluids are deposited from one person to another there is always a possibility that some sort of infection may be transferred.

The odds range from minuscule to highly probable depending on the type of body fluid and a conflation of circumstances which makes transmission more likely.

EG blood is far more dangerous than saliva and an open wound increases the transmission probability.

If skin is intact and saliva contains no blood then transmission is highly unlikely.

[macmillan]

Thank you boss. This is very good practical advice :D

Whenever body fluids are deposited from one person to another there is always a possibility that some sort of infection may be transferred.

The odds range from minuscule to highly probable depending on the type of body fluid and a conflation of circumstances which makes transmission more likely.

EG blood is far more dangerous than saliva and an open wound increases the transmission probability.

If skin is intact and saliva contains no blood then transmission is highly unlikely.

[Rareboy3]

Hi all. Had an unprotected Bj a day ago. Im very worried if i contracted any STI/STD/HIV. Currently taking the HIV PEP. Any advice?

[Big Sexy]

imo..it is not necessary for PEP after a protected/unprotected BJ

Hi all. Had an unprotected Bj a day ago. Im very worried if i contracted any STI/STD/HIV. Currently taking the HIV PEP. Any advice?

[sammyboyfor]

Hi all. Had an unprotected Bj a day ago. Im very worried if i contracted any STI/STD/HIV. Currently taking the HIV PEP. Any advice?

Your chances of catching HIV are remote. I think you're wasting your money with PEP but if it brings you peace of mind then it's your choice.

However you should test for the rest of the STDs that can be screened for after the window period.

[Rareboy3]

Its more of like calming my anxiety. What are my chances of getting other STDs?

[freedie87]

Mouthwash before perform oral sex can reduce STD's, can some 1 confirmed that ?

SOS (https://www.verywellhealth.com/does-mouthwash-reduce-risk-of-oral-stds-4124069)

[testoste]

Unfortunately, I got Herpes HPV-1 from oral job. My MP lover have had a severe sore throat and was supposed to have recovered from it. A week after the oral job, I had 2 ulcers on my shaft. Went for test and confirmed I contracted Herpes HPV-1.

There is always a risk of contraction. I always thought the risk is very low. When one person is really suay, who knows - chances of contraction increased.

[sammyboyfor]

Its more of like calming my anxiety. What are my chances of getting other STDs?

It's impossible to quantify without knowing all the parameters involved in your particular case.

I would estimate it at "medium" risk.

Of course that assumes that she has an STD. If she is clean the chances are ZERO.

At the end of the day just get tested after the appropriate window period and then move on from there.

[Big Sexy]

there have been some report that suggest that, but nothing solid enough to support it.. and even if it does, it is probably only useful against gonorrhea...


Mouthwash before perform oral sex can reduce STD's, can some 1 confirmed that ?

SOS (https://www.verywellhealth.com/does-mouthwash-reduce-risk-of-oral-stds-4124069)

[Big Sexy]

herpes is HSV not HPV and it is one of the most common STD and the risk of getting it is pretty high.... alot of people has it but isnt aware that they have it.

https://justherpes.com/facts/genital-herpes-statistics-us-hsv2/


Unfortunately, I got Herpes HPV-1 from oral job. I always thought the risk is very low.

[Magnataur]

Hi all. Had an unprotected Bj a day ago. Im very worried if i contracted any STI/STD/HIV. Currently taking the HIV PEP. Any advice?

OMFG. are you serious that you are on Pep? Did the doctor prescribe you to be on Pep.?
What I can tell you from here is... Pep does more harm than good to your body based on the exposure that you described.

[Lee0719]

Hi all. Had an unprotected Bj a day ago. Im very worried if i contracted any STI/STD/HIV. Currently taking the HIV PEP. Any advice?

WTH! Seriously, I agree with Magnataur. Take the Boss' (sammyboyfor) advice get yourself tested before wasting money on PEP. You are harming your health instead.

[Big Sexy]

not saying he should take PEP because of the BJ.. but i dont see your logic..

PEP - have to be taken within 3 days(72 hours) after exposure to be effective against HIV

HIV - earliest window period will be about 15 days ...

work that out and you will understand what i mean..


WTH! Seriously, I agree with Magnataur. Take the Boss' (sammyboyfor) advice get yourself tested before wasting money on PEP. You are harming your health instead.

[durian999]

Hey Bros, had bbbj from a ML. Just wondering what are the systems of any type of STDs that might be caught by getting bbbj. I did scan thru this thread, saw this
https://sbf.net.nz/showpost.php?p=13850811&postcount=10

But did not find anything that mention about symptoms and what to look out for?

[Big Sexy]

read here

https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=17003958&postcount=121
https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=18856541&postcount=8

please use the search feature :p

Hey Bros, had bbbj from a ML. Just wondering what are the systems of any type of STDs that might be caught by getting bbbj. I did scan thru this thread, saw this
https://sbf.net.nz/showpost.php?p=13850811&postcount=10

But did not find anything that mention about symptoms and what to look out for?

[Triplexxx222]

Always play safe bros. The road is still long. Haha

[newbi3]

19 days since I recieved bbbj from a massage lady. Today when brushing teeth I notice a white bump on my lips. Started to get quite worried. Is it symptoms of HSV?

Initially wanted to wait till after 30days to go for a HIV test. Now abit gancheong and the 2weeks wait is too long. What test normally do you guys do after recieving a bbbj?

[Achieve]

Question
If you picked up a sexual disease from BBBj with a ML.
And thereafter you either
1) engage in oral sex with your gf
2) engage in unprotected vaginal intercourse with your Gf

Does it mean she will 100% get the sexual disease?

[sammyboyfor]

Question
If you picked up a sexual disease from BBBj with a ML.
And thereafter you either
1) engage in oral sex with your gf
2) engage in unprotected vaginal intercourse with your Gf

Does it mean she will 100% get the sexual disease?

It depends upon what sexual disease you picked up. Different STDs have different probabilities of transmission.

Here are the stats I found on the net :

https://www.nairaland.com/2360375/probability-contracting-6-most-common

Before I start, I'll have to state that my figures are majorly for heterosexuals. The probabilities are significantly higher for homosexuals. In addition these figures can be significantly higher depending on a number of factors I can't go into now.

1. Gonorrhea- It is estimated that a man has a 20% chance of contracting Gonorrhea after just one sexual encounter while a woman has between 60-80% chance of contracting it

2. Hepatitis: The risk of contracting it in one single sexual encounter is on the low side. It's about 0.3%

3. Syphilis: It is estimated that the risk of contracting syphilis is about 3%.

4. Human papilomavirus (HPV): HPV is one of the most common sexually transmitted diseases.The probability of contracting it in one sexual encounter is 20%

5. Herpes: This is another common sexually transmitted disease with a very high probability of contracting in one sexual encounter. The estimate is 75% for men and can be as high as 98% for women.

6. HIV: I know many of you would have been expecting this. Surprisingly, it has the least probability of transmission. Were it not for the low probability of transmission, majority of us would have been HIV positive. cheesy The estimated probability of transmission from male to female is 0.08% while that of female to male transmission is 0.04%.

NB: Please note that just one encounter can lead to having a particular STD irrespective of how low the probability of contracting it may be. It's therefore imperative one protects his/her self at all times.

[Achieve]

========= Please DO NOT quote the whole post unnecessarily or you will be zapped - System Moderator =========

It depends upon what sexual disease you picked up. Different STDs have different probabilities of transmission.

Here are the stats I found on the net :

https://www.nairaland.com/2360375/probability-contracting-6-most-common


Thank you for the information bro!
Really helpful!

[daniel2019]

Hi all, I have bbbj from massage lady last 3 weeks ago. Last weekend during shower, I feel pain while urinating. After that no other symptom until today. Want to know if it is STD, will the pain during urinating comes only 1 time or multiple times? Do I need to monitor for next few days or go check up at STD clinic?

[sammyboyfor]

Hi all, I have bbbj from massage lady last 3 weeks ago. Last weekend during shower, I feel pain while urinating. After that no other symptom until today. Want to know if it is STD, will the pain during urinating comes only 1 time or multiple times? Do I need to monitor for next few days or go check up at STD clinic?

You should go for a check to make sure you have not caught a UTI or gonorrhea.

[Roulette5]

Hi all, I have bbbj from massage lady last 3 weeks ago. Last weekend during shower, I feel pain while urinating. .... Do I need to monitor for next few days or go check up at STD clinic?

Bbbj has its risks. Go for the whole range of std checks. Better safe ... cos some stds symtoms may not be too obvious. At least find out early, take medications and root them out if necessary. Else dormant in body can have implications longer down the road, both to u and partners.

[Sexsg123]

Any reasons why most people not bothered of having herpes furing sex or bbbj even though its iver 70 percent? Also any cheap doctor to recommend just to test for any diseases ?

Thanks

[sammyboyfor]

Any reasons why most people not bothered of having herpes furing sex or bbbj even though its iver 70 percent? Also any cheap doctor to recommend just to test for any diseases ?

Thanks

Because so many people have it there is no point in worrying about it.

[Hst630]

Long time lurker. Learned a lot from all the forums here.

Sexually active male. Last sex was two weeks ago with a FL. always protected for vaginal sex. No condom for oral sex.

4-5 days after that, started to have clear, painless discharge. Sometimes during the entire day. Sometimes none at all for a day or two. No discomfort but just weird. No pain when pee too.

Got myself tested and waiting for the results.

I freaking out liao. Losing sleep. Can’t focus at my job.

Should I tell my OC?
Can still have kids in future?

[ALBOMB26]

bro since already tested just relax and wait for the result and go for treatment if necessary

chance of u getting HIV from BBJ is super low, for the other STDs, no worries, even if it is herpes, you can still have offspring. Better don tell OC imo.


Long time lurker. Learned a lot from all the forums here.

Sexually active male. Last sex was two weeks ago with a FL. always protected for vaginal sex. No condom for oral sex.

4-5 days after that, started to have clear, painless discharge. Sometimes during the entire day. Sometimes none at all for a day or two. No discomfort but just weird. No pain when pee too.

Got myself tested and waiting for the results.

I freaking out liao. Losing sleep. Can’t focus at my job.

Should I tell my OC?
Can still have kids in future?

[sammyboyfor]

Should I tell my OC?
Can still have kids in future?

You should definitely NOT tell OC. It would be a really stupid thing to do.

If you have caught anything it will be a very minor infection and chances are a shot of antibiotics will get rid of it for good and everything is back to normal.

[Joy555]

Definately not tell your OC just wait for your tesult and hopeLong time lurker. Learned a lot from all the forums here.

Sexually active male. Last sex was two weeks ago with a FL. always protected for vaginal sex. No condom for oral sex.

4-5 days after that, started to have clear, painless discharge. Sometimes during the entire day. Sometimes none at all for a day or two. No discomfort but just weird. No pain when pee too.

Got myself tested and waiting for the results.

I freaking out liao. Losing sleep. Can’t focus at my job.

Should I tell my OC?
Can still have kids in future?

[Xhunter2507]

Hi guys. I’m new to this and recently get BBBJ. After reading this forum I was so freaked and scare that I don’t even dare to read finish all the comments. May I know how Long must I wait to go for check up after my BBBJ? I swear I’ll stop BBBJ.

[sammyboyfor]

Hi guys. I’m new to this and recently get BBBJ. After reading this forum I was so freaked and scare that I don’t even dare to read finish all the comments. May I know how Long must I wait to go for check up after my BBBJ? I swear I’ll stop BBBJ.

The incubation periods for various STDs are documented in this post :

https://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=15812261&postcount=19

[Xhunter2507]

Thanks bro!

[Jackcarver]

Read this thread i think i will also stop BBBJ from now on. Thanks for the warning and info

[Zionzz]

Thanks for info

[tahtahone]

Read this thread i think i will also stop BBBJ from now on. Thanks for the warning and info

Yes.
I went for ML and bbbj, after that paranoid for 1 month.
While the 60 mins experience is shiok, the 1 month after that is not good :( not worth it.

So those who come and read this before going ML, you are lucky. Think before you make any decision.

Let your friend know. There's a risk. and read that some bros got infected with something shows that its really not safe sex.
Nothing is 100% safe.

:o

[Gridline]

Damn scary!

[surv000]

Thanks for sharing

[AAA2000]

Scary!!! Anyway, thanks for the info!

[HiFive]

I always opt for CBJ instead of BBJ. But recently experience was that the ML used a plastic wrap instead of condom.

Does it help? What must I watch out for? What test should I take? I'm feeling okay, no itch and no pain for the past 3 days. No discharge too.

[Zeith]

I always opt for CBJ instead of BBJ. But recently experience was that the ML used a plastic wrap instead of condom.

Does it help? What must I watch out for? What test should I take? I'm feeling okay, no itch and no pain for the past 3 days. No discharge too.


Wonder how will it be for plastic wrap instead of condom. Seem a funny for me.

[nickjordy]

yes you are right unprotected bj is not safe its very hard for covid i recommended use condom and stay safe thank you so much

[Lazyass69]

Great.. Now I can never enjoy Oral Again

[Olafars]

It's everyone's business, but you should look after your health first and only then think about having fun. Thank you, author.

[CoconutShake]

Thanks for the info

[scavengers]

I always opt for CBJ instead of BBJ. But recently experience was that the ML used a plastic wrap instead of condom.

Does it help? What must I watch out for? What test should I take? I'm feeling okay, no itch and no pain for the past 3 days. No discharge too.

I want to ask too - does the plastic wrap help.. tho I prefer to bring my own cd

[420x69]

Hi Bros, just want to share my experience.

Long time lurker here and this is not my main account.

Visited an freelance ML on Monday, I'll admit I got carried away with the experience and did not use protection while doing BBBJ. I even painted her in the heat of the moment. There was no FJ involved whatsoever. Only BBBJ, paint, AR (her on me) and CIM. It is my first time doing such things too. Usually just go MP for massage and GQ that's it.

I did not know much about the risks involved about what I just did. Stumbled across this thread and realised that I just made a stupid move. Went to a doc 48 hours after the session, and am currently on PEP. Yes I know the risks are very low...around 1/10000 for HIV. However, I just can't seem to shake it off that it is a very real threat. Went to a docs to do the tests, some say even maybe too early to detect anything but my mind that day was just filled with paranoia. So I just had to get it done. Total I spend around 2.5k at the clinic that day.

Like I said, some of yall can laugh at me say I crazy to get all the tests but honestly, to me, it's like your life eh. I can't live with the embarrassment and that stupidity for my entire life just because of 1 hour of pleasure. Weighing the pros and cons really not worth. Probably my first and last time doing this and at the most stick back to the usual MP + HJ.

Would appreciate if anyone share similar sentiment, or personal account in regards to this matter. Now for the past 2 nights cannot sleep and keep thinking about the whole issue.

[Shadow_warrior]

Hi Bros, just want to share my experience.

Long time lurker here and this is not my main account.

Visited an freelance ML on Monday, I'll admit I got carried away with the experience and did not use protection while doing BBBJ. I even painted her in the heat of the moment. There was no FJ involved whatsoever. Only BBBJ, paint, AR (her on me) and CIM. It is my first time doing such things too. Usually just go MP for massage and GQ that's it.

I did not know much about the risks involved about what I just did. Stumbled across this thread and realised that I just made a stupid move. Went to a doc 48 hours after the session, and am currently on PEP. Yes I know the risks are very low...around 1/10000 for HIV. However, I just can't seem to shake it off that it is a very real threat. Went to a docs to do the tests, some say even maybe too early to detect anything but my mind that day was just filled with paranoia. So I just had to get it done. Total I spend around 2.5k at the clinic that day.

Like I said, some of yall can laugh at me say I crazy to get all the tests but honestly, to me, it's like your life eh. I can't live with the embarrassment and that stupidity for my entire life just because of 1 hour of pleasure. Weighing the pros and cons really not worth. Probably my first and last time doing this and at the most stick back to the usual MP + HJ.

Would appreciate if anyone share similar sentiment, or personal account in regards to this matter. Now for the past 2 nights cannot sleep and keep thinking about the whole issue.

thats not crazy, if you search around, you join the ranks of many bros who after visiting a ML/FL and engaged in unsafe sex(there is no 100% safe sex with pros) .
of course, there is a clear advice on raw is war. However, there is also the hope that it will not be you.

Its the right thing to do to get tested, and take the precautions that you have. It is costly and nerve racking.

However, it can also apply to ONS and FBs, or even new GFs or cheating wives.
STDs, HIV, STIs, HPVs and the list goes on. These are all risk that come with the lifestyle.

I guess technically the lowest risk will be HJs and BJs, if you do not kiss the lady, your risk could be quite low.

[今晚打老虎.]

Hi Bros, just want to share my experience.

Long time lurker here and this is not my main account.

Visited an freelance ML on Monday, I'll admit I got carried away with the experience and did not use protection while doing BBBJ. I even painted her in the heat of the moment. There was no FJ involved whatsoever. Only BBBJ, paint, AR (her on me) and CIM. It is my first time doing such things too. Usually just go MP for massage and GQ that's it.

I did not know much about the risks involved about what I just did. Stumbled across this thread and realised that I just made a stupid move. Went to a doc 48 hours after the session, and am currently on PEP. Yes I know the risks are very low...around 1/10000 for HIV. However, I just can't seem to shake it off that it is a very real threat. Went to a docs to do the tests, some say even maybe too early to detect anything but my mind that day was just filled with paranoia. So I just had to get it done. Total I spend around 2.5k at the clinic that day.

Like I said, some of yall can laugh at me say I crazy to get all the tests but honestly, to me, it's like your life eh. I can't live with the embarrassment and that stupidity for my entire life just because of 1 hour of pleasure. Weighing the pros and cons really not worth. Probably my first and last time doing this and at the most stick back to the usual MP + HJ.

Would appreciate if anyone share similar sentiment, or personal account in regards to this matter. Now for the past 2 nights cannot sleep and keep thinking about the whole issue.

my advise to you, is to find a wife... though even that is unsafe given how many bros here boast to raw other ppl's wifes/gfs.

The best you can do under any circumstances is to be as safe as possible, wearing a CD, look out for signs of STD/infections.

If u suay u might even kenna STD sitting on public toilets..

[thelightone]

Hi Bros, just want to share my experience.

Long time lurker here and this is not my main account.

Visited an freelance ML on Monday, I'll admit I got carried away with the experience and did not use protection while doing BBBJ. I even painted her in the heat of the moment. There was no FJ involved whatsoever. Only BBBJ, paint, AR (her on me) and CIM. It is my first time doing such things too. Usually just go MP for massage and GQ that's it.

I did not know much about the risks involved about what I just did. Stumbled across this thread and realised that I just made a stupid move. Went to a doc 48 hours after the session, and am currently on PEP. Yes I know the risks are very low...around 1/10000 for HIV. However, I just can't seem to shake it off that it is a very real threat. Went to a docs to do the tests, some say even maybe too early to detect anything but my mind that day was just filled with paranoia. So I just had to get it done. Total I spend around 2.5k at the clinic that day.

Like I said, some of yall can laugh at me say I crazy to get all the tests but honestly, to me, it's like your life eh. I can't live with the embarrassment and that stupidity for my entire life just because of 1 hour of pleasure. Weighing the pros and cons really not worth. Probably my first and last time doing this and at the most stick back to the usual MP + HJ.

Would appreciate if anyone share similar sentiment, or personal account in regards to this matter. Now for the past 2 nights cannot sleep and keep thinking about the whole issue.

havent been to here a long time but a recent incident made me go read up a lot...Totally understand how this bro feels, the psychological fear is real.. Visited an freelance ML on Tuesday, I got carried away with the experience and got a CBJ and nothing else.. but then the thought of me getting STD & HIV just flooded my mind, even though i know innately that the risk for HIV is even lower... in the end i went to see doc on Friday and got onto a course of PEP and then went for urine test... I know to most bros i sound humji and etremely stupid, but like poster above, my mind just felt that its a real thing and i couldnt properly sleep or my thoughts got flooded sometimes with it randomly that its a real threat.. dont think i will ever do this again.

[Protozoalgae]

havent been to here a long time but a recent incident made me go read up a lot...Totally understand how this bro feels, the psychological fear is real.. Visited an freelance ML on Tuesday, I got carried away with the experience and got a CBJ and nothing else.. but then the thought of me getting STD & HIV just flooded my mind, even though i know innately that the risk for HIV is even lower... in the end i went to see doc on Friday and got onto a course of PEP and then went for urine test... I know to most bros i sound humji and etremely stupid, but like poster above, my mind just felt that its a real thing and i couldnt properly sleep or my thoughts got flooded sometimes with it randomly that its a real threat.. dont think i will ever do this again.


Going for my test tmr due to some stupid decision I’ve made..

[EmmanuelCunt]

Totally agree. Stupidly thought that I would be safe strictly playing around on the well-reviewed freelancers in a very popular thread "fav massage girls" and engaged in BBBJ services on few occasions.

Just at the start of a harrowing journey now and exploring treatment for STD diagnosis. Have contacted all the MLs I have encountered in the past 8 months and hope they'll do the responsible.

Sobering awakening for me esp being faced with this in my twenties.

[ArnieArnie]

Totally agree. Stupidly thought that I would be safe strictly playing around on the well-reviewed freelancers in a very popular thread "fav massage girls" and engaged in BBBJ services on few occasions.

Just at the start of a harrowing journey now and exploring treatment for STD diagnosis. Have contacted all the MLs I have encountered in the past 8 months and hope they'll do the responsible.

Sobering awakening for me esp being faced with this in my twenties.

Pmed u. Mind sharing diagnosis and which MLs? For us to keep safe also. Hope u recover soon

[EmmanuelCunt]

narrowed down to a young Viet girl listed on sgbeautycastle operating out of a 2-rm flat. She went ahead with BBBJ before I cld ask her to cap. After i posted an FR there the listing disappeared.

Starting with itching and then developed into classic rashes on hands and feet. Diagnosis was syphillis. Treatment and all put a dent in wallet as well as the awkwardness of dealing with fam members.

[jackjackoff]

narrowed down to a young Viet girl listed on sgbeautycastle operating out of a 2-rm flat. She went ahead with BBBJ before I cld ask her to cap. After i posted an FR there the listing disappeared.

Starting with itching and then developed into classic rashes on hands and feet. Diagnosis was syphillis. Treatment and all put a dent in wallet as well as the awkwardness of dealing with fam members.

woah bro hope everything is ok. Usually for BBBJ service if u really want to risk better check that there's good review(though ironic as there are more contacts).

[Greybunny]

I kinda caved and got my bbbj where the ML only took in the head of my stick and i didnt cim. What are the symptoms I should look out for from now and also, would there be anything I have to do within the time frame? Kinda worried now and regret caving :(

[seoulstudent]

narrowed down to a young Viet girl listed on sgbeautycastle operating out of a 2-rm flat. She went ahead with BBBJ before I cld ask her to cap. After i posted an FR there the listing disappeared.

Starting with itching and then developed into classic rashes on hands and feet. Diagnosis was syphillis. Treatment and all put a dent in wallet as well as the awkwardness of dealing with fam members.

You can get syphilis from protected sex, too, if an unprotect area comes into contact with a syphilis sore contraction risk is high (e.g. balls touch a sore on vagina lips).

[Hunkydunky]

I'm thinking... what if bbbj was performed while foreskin still covering the penis head?

Will diseases unlikely to pass over?

[Torrent77]

Very informative thread. Thanks.

[weaver12345]

Thanks for share

[godeye]

hi bros

recently up an FL which is the dumbest ducking mistake
did painting and bbj, but fj was with condom

what should i be looking out for and when should i get tested, i’m fucking scared now and i don’t know what to do

[treaty997]

hi bros

recently up an FL which is the dumbest ducking mistake
did painting and bbj, but fj was with condom

what should i be looking out for and when should i get tested, i’m fucking scared now and i don’t know what to do

hello bro, call DSC clinic to book STI screening, it's the most cost efficient around. dont use their online form, call faster. their booking quite packed so probably can only book a screening for you 2-3 weeks after the date of your call. at first, i thought 2-3 weeks very long but STD incubation period is around there for most STDs. see this article https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/how-long-does-it-take-an-std-to-show-up#how-soon

Other articles of interest:

https://www.nsc.com.sg/dsc/our-services-for-patients-and-visitors/dsc-services/Pages/HIV-Self-Testing-Pilot-Programme.aspx

https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/livingwithhiv/treatment.html

[AdamLee12]

Yeah, I read an article about this too. It's dangerous to do the oral sex without condom.

[stephenclz]

havent been to here a long time but a recent incident made me go read up a lot...Totally understand how this bro feels, the psychological fear is real.. Visited an freelance ML on Tuesday, I got carried away with the experience and got a CBJ and nothing else.. but then the thought of me getting STD & HIV just flooded my mind, even though i know innately that the risk for HIV is even lower... in the end i went to see doc on Friday and got onto a course of PEP and then went for urine test... I know to most bros i sound humji and etremely stupid, but like poster above, my mind just felt that its a real thing and i couldnt properly sleep or my thoughts got flooded sometimes with it randomly that its a real threat.. dont think i will ever do this again.

Bro I think part of easing your mind in all these is being properly informed. Like getting HIV from CBJ is scientifically impossible, unless the condom had a whole on the tip or something, which even then the odds are astronomical.

[mlbb400sgd]

just sharing my exp here...

didnt have sex for almost 3 years...from end 2019 covid wuhan to like say end 2022 covid omicron version lol...dont ask me why, just no mood and i think it also wasnt easy to find prostitutes during that period?

so come end 2022, had BBBJ with 1 of the FLs from thai dome 1. 2 weeks later after the encounter, tip of my penis had like slight burning sensation and copper-brownish discharge in my underwear. wasnt really that pain and i could endure...drank lots of water everyday and everything was back to normal after another 2 weeks.

after the above encounter, i scared liao. waited for another 100 days of no sex, visited dr tan & partners @ robertson walk. tested negative for HIV via 3rd gen test.

till now, idk if i kana C or G or S or UTI. but i think can rule out S cos my body has no rashes.

TLDR, moral of story: BBBJ is really NOT SAFE. dont just think with your small head. see my 3 years only 1 encounter with BBBJ still can kana STD :(

[ipadpro]

just sharing my exp here...

didnt have sex for almost 3 years...from end 2019 covid wuhan to like say end 2022 covid omicron version lol...dont ask me why, just no mood and i think it also wasnt easy to find prostitutes during that period?

so come end 2022, had BBBJ with 1 of the FLs from thai dome 1. 2 weeks later after the encounter, tip of my penis had like slight burning sensation and copper-brownish discharge in my underwear. wasnt really that pain and i could endure...drank lots of water everyday and everything was back to normal after another 2 weeks.

after the above encounter, i scared liao. waited for another 100 days of no sex, visited dr tan & partners @ robertson walk. tested negative for HIV via 3rd gen test.

till now, idk if i kana C or G or S or UTI. but i think can rule out S cos my body has no rashes.

TLDR, moral of story: BBBJ is really NOT SAFE. dont just think with your small head. see my 3 years only 1 encounter with BBBJ still can kana STD :(

You already answer ur own question
“ tip of my penis had like slight burning sensation and copper-brownish discharge in my underwear. wasnt really that pain, I could endure”

Doesn’t matter u can endure or not.

Facts:

-discharge that stains
-burning sensation

Go do urine test bro

[lonelyfish]

My statistics after pandemic. Tried over 100 different girls from Mar 2022 till today: WLs and MLs in Singapore and overseas chiong MLs, FLs and bargirls (in BKK, JKT, PH, JP).

90% BBBJ, 10% raw sex.
Throat infection: uncountable times (from DFK), so far none from painting cuz I only paint selectively (currently only my PRC ML)
Hurt from teeth during BBBJ: Quite a lot of times
UTI: 3x (all from BBBJ at GL VN houses)
MH+: 1x (from BKK raw)
HIV and others: 0x

Now I reduce the number of partners, currently keeping to 2 regular MLs in SG. Overseas, it depends.

[Gmail]

UTI: 3x (all from BBBJ at GL VN houses)
MH+: 1x (from BKK raw)
HIV and others: 0x



You have went for checkups ?
How about for herpes and hep c ?

[lonelyfish]

You have went for checkups ?
How about for herpes and hep c ?

Yes, I go for check-up regularly. There's free HIV + Syphilis test in BKK which everyone can do every 6 mths. Sometimes there's also offer package. I'll also test a month later if I did raw overseas with FL.

I did raw during my BKK trip in Aug, both are neg since my recent test last mth.

[Gmail]

You raw quite often ?
Why take the risk ?

But at least you do regular check ups.
Hold back a bit bro, the consequence can be devastating.

[Oldbox]

My statistics after pandemic. Tried over 100 different girls from Mar 2022 till today: WLs and MLs in Singapore and overseas chiong MLs, FLs and bargirls (in BKK, JKT, PH, JP).

90% BBBJ, 10% raw sex.
Throat infection: uncountable times (from DFK), so far none from painting cuz I only paint selectively (currently only my PRC ML)
Hurt from teeth during BBBJ: Quite a lot of times
UTI: 3x (all from BBBJ at GL VN houses)
MH+: 1x (from BKK raw)
HIV and others: 0x

Now I reduce the number of partners, currently keeping to 2 regular MLs in SG. Overseas, it depends.

What is MH+?

Any other bros willing to give their stats for bbbj?

[lonelyfish]

You raw quite often ?
Why take the risk ?

But at least you do regular check ups.
Hold back a bit bro, the consequence can be devastating.

It's very difficult for me to cum in a condom so I was doing that to selected girls while searching for a regular girl when I haven't got my 2 regular ML. Currently I only raw them.

[lonelyfish]

What is MH+?

Any other bros willing to give their stats for bbbj?

MH = Mycoplasma Hominis. My routine test result show it positive and the doctor gave doxy antibiotics. It went away after awhile. Tbh, I don't know what it is. But when I googled it, it says it causes UTI, but I didn't get UTI during that time.

STD from BBBJ is 1 thing, it also hurts when the girl's teeth hits your dick during the BBBJ. In SG it's still ok with PRC WLs, but I always had to remind some girls especially those in BKK not to let her teeth get in contact with my dick, else I just avoid the BJ anyway :D. Just DFK and raw grind to get aroused faster. But raw grind is also a risk of STDs :eek:.

[whackithard]

BBBBJ 20 year also nothing till now. really heng or suay only

[Oldbox]

BBBBJ 20 year also nothing till now. really heng or suay only

Is your bbbj mostly from Geylang Prc, thais, viets or MLs? Or overseas?

I’m just wondering whether who you receive from makes a difference?

[whackithard]

Is your bbbj mostly from Geylang Prc, thais, viets or MLs? Or overseas?

I’m just wondering whether who you receive from makes a difference?

all around, ONS , flings , FLs , PEtain , Geylang and even desker road . overseas johor ocean hotel and spas

[Gmail]

Currently I only raw them.

Don't mean they only let you raw.

Take care.

[lonelyfish]

Don't mean they only let you raw.

Take care.

Yes, it's a risk. But they are my only options at this time. If I go find another ML, its just another risk. Many bros also won't go raw with a ML, so that also reduce some risk.

[Naka_Timo]

Don't mean they only let you raw.

Take care.

Upped you back, thanks

[milfbeater]

yes see whether heng sway one
just do your regular checks to have peace of mind

[vidkita3]

My experience is always CBJ. Cant ever think of doing anything BB these days. Even with my regulars. You’ll be quite surprised also with what you can contract with DFK. Test regularly. Avoid thinking with our little dd head. I only had 1 raw and that is from a FL I sweet talked into FJ.

[automatika2]

Guys, I'm another silent reader of this forum... This time I'm in HCM alone and I walked into an MP and gotten a BBBJ (mostly HJ, BBBJ max 20 secs). Initially just wanted HJ but my Didi head took over.

I've read through this post and I'm now very worried about STD especially when I'm trying to get baby with my OC. I have seen fellow guys here advising strongly against telling OC, just pray and get tested. Should I continue doing it with OC as usual?

Also, what would be the suggested timing to test? I saw the link https://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=13850811&postcount=10 and it sounded like I should get a urine test 2w after my encounter and a blood test 4w after my encounter (and possibly blood test 3m after)?

Regretting bro here

[ghostcow]

Guys, I'm another silent reader of this forum... This time I'm in HCM alone and I walked into an MP and gotten a BBBJ (mostly HJ, BBBJ max 20 secs). Initially just wanted HJ but my Didi head took over.

I've read through this post and I'm now very worried about STD especially when I'm trying to get baby with my OC. I have seen fellow guys here advising strongly against telling OC, just pray and get tested. Should I continue doing it with OC as usual?

Also, what would be the suggested timing to test? I saw the link https://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=13850811&postcount=10 and it sounded like I should get a urine test 2w after my encounter and a blood test 4w after my encounter (and possibly blood test 3m after)?

Regretting bro here

Hi bro, can tell OC u stressed from work and avoid sexy time for 1m then go test

[rubyisyou]

Even if like to have sex with someone other than partner, should still be careful and use safety precautions. Think about what will bring home if not careful men

[gamingtz]

Hi bros anyone encountered passing STDs without having symptoms before?

Had a BBBJ from an FL 1+ month ago and been feeling okay since then. Afterwards received oral from my GF. Then this week she started having pain in her jaw from saliva gland plus lower abdominal pain. Going to go for testing this week but anyone had a similar encounter before?

[sammyboyfor]

Hi bros anyone encountered passing STDs without having symptoms before?

Had a BBBJ from an FL 1+ month ago and been feeling okay since then. Afterwards received oral from my GF. Then this week she started having pain in her jaw from saliva gland plus lower abdominal pain. Going to go for testing this week but anyone had a similar encounter before?

Numerous STDs can by asymptomatic eg Herpes, Warts, Chlamydia etc.

5 STDs You Can Have Without Knowing It
These infections don't always cause symptoms.

By Amy Marturana Winderl, C.P.T.
December 28, 2018
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Here’s the problem with all those scary stories and photos you might remember from Sex Ed class: They’re misleading. It’s very possible to have STDs with no symptoms, so telling teens that they’ll be able to tell when they’re exposed to something is both unrealistic and irresponsible.

The idea that sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are these gross, life-altering conditions is also deeply stigmatizing, not to mention largely inaccurate. In reality, many STDs can be cured with a round of antibiotics, while others can be managed with medication. And you may never even know you have an STD, either because the symptoms are so subtle or because there are no symptoms at all.

Because of all this, many organizations actually prefer to use the term sexually transmitted infections (STIs) rather than STDs, since a disease is defined as a condition that impairs normal functioning and typically comes with symptoms or signs—which isn’t often the case with these infections. While the terms STD and STI are still typically used interchangeably, it’s worth noting that many of these ailments are, in fact, infections that come with no symptoms at all and can be cured with antibiotics. However, for consistency’s sake, we’ll continue to use the term STD throughout this article.

If you're sexually active, getting an STD is a real possibility. The CDC estimates that 20 million new STD infections occur each year in the U.S. That's why it's so important to get tested regularly, and to be honest with any new partners (and your gyno) about your sexual activity. It's even more important when you consider that condoms can't protect against all STDs and that STDs with no symptoms exist—some of which can do serious damage if they go untreated.

While some STDs, like HIV and syphilis, can hang around in your body for a bit before symptoms pop up, they're typically known for being symptomatic. In most cases, an infected person will show the telltale signs of the infection. But there are a few STDs that are actually known for being asymptomatic, which means you could never know you have them until they've spread or led to other side effects.

Here are the STDs that don't have obvious symptoms. Take this as your official reminder to not only practice safe sex, but get tested regularly especially if you have new partners or are thinking of becoming pregnant at any point later in life.
1. Human papillomavirus (HPV)

What it is: HPV is the most common sexually transmitted infection, and one of the ones that condoms can't always protect against. Chances are you'll have HPV at some point in your life whether or not you realize it. "You could be carrying it and passing it and not have any physical signs," Michael Cackovic, M.D., an ob/gyn at the Ohio State Wexner Medical Center, tells SELF. That's because some strains cause genital warts, but many others don't.

What you can do: If you're under 30, HPV won't be a part of your routine STD screening, because it's so common and often goes away after some time (there's no treatment for it anyway). If you're over 30, routine screening is recommended along with your Pap smear. While it's very likely you'll have the virus at some point and nothing bad will ever come from it, some strains of HPV can cause cervical cancer, which is why getting a regular Pap smear is so important. An abnormal Pap smear indicates changes in the cervical cells usually caused by HPV, and depending upon what type of abnormal cells your doctor finds, you may be tested to confirm HPV was the cause.
2. Chlamydia

What it is: Chlamydia is one of the most common STIs in women under 25. It's also known as a "silent" infection, because most people will never experience symptoms. "Abnormal vaginal discharge or a burning sensation during urination may occur several weeks after sex with an infected partner," says Meike L. Uhler, M.D., a reproductive endocrinology and infertility specialist at the Fertility Centers of Illinois. But at that point, the infection has probably been going on for a while and is moving up the urinary tract and into the body. It's easy to confuse these symptoms for a less-serious infection, like a yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis, so it's important to see your ob/gyn if you notice changes in discharge, pain, or burning. Bleeding between periods, lower back and abdominal pain, and pain during sex are also potential symptoms. But, again, it could come with no symptoms at all.


"If left untreated, chlamydia can spread to the uterus and fallopian tubes, resulting in pelvic inflammatory disease (PID)," Uhler adds. In fact, untreated chlamydia is a common cause of PID, according to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Pelvic inflammatory disease can cause scarring in the fallopian tubes, which can lead to blockage and permanent damage that causes infertility. The CDC notes that each year, 24,000 women become infertile because of an undiagnosed STD.

Scarring can also cause an ectopic pregnancy, which can be life-threatening for both mom and baby. "Chlamydia can also cause premature birth and can be passed to a baby during delivery, causing eye infection or pneumonia," Uhler explains. Chlamydia also increases a woman's risk of contracting HIV from an infected partner.

What you can do: The CDC recommends annual chlamydia screening for women under 25, pregnant women, or anyone at risk for chlamydia (which really just means you’ve had a new partner or you’re not 100 percent sure of your partner’s STD status). This might sound like overkill, but remember: Chlamydia can be an STD with no symptoms, meaning your partner could have it and have no idea. The good news is that chlamydia is easy to treat with antibiotics, so if you catch it early (before it causes any damage) you'll be completely cured.
3. Gonorrhea

What it is: Similar to chlamydia, gonorrhea is most common in sexually active women under 25, and the majority will never experience symptoms. "While they are two different diseases, chlamydia and gonorrhea are commonly diagnosed together," Uhler notes, and the mild symptoms (if they ever show up) are similar: breakthrough bleeding, vaginal discharge, and burning and pain that can easily be mistaken for a bladder or vaginal infection. Typically, these are symptoms of the bacterial infection spreading further from where it originated.

If gonorrhea goes unnoticed and untreated for too long, it can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease, scarring, and damage to the reproductive organs. It can also increase your risk of getting HIV, and in extreme cases, cause life-threatening infections in other parts of the body such as the blood, brain, heart, and joints. Gonorrhea during pregnancy raises the risk of premature birth, low birth weight, miscarriage, and serious health complications (like blindness and blood infection) for the newborn.

What you can do: The CDC recommends annual gonorrhea screening for women under 25, pregnant women, and anyone at risk for gonorrhea (which really just means you’ve had a new partner or you’re not 100 percent sure of your partner’s STD status). Again, this might seem unnecessary, but it’s completely possible to have gonorrhea without knowing it. The good news: Gonorrhea is also curable with antibiotics, you just need to know you have it first.
4. Herpes

What it is: Herpes is a viral infection that can present on your mouth or your genitals. It’s caused by two types of viruses: herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1) and herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2). HSV-1 typically causes oral infections while HSV-2 typically causes genital infections, but it’s possible to have oral herpes caused by HSV-2 or genital herpes caused by HSV-1.

According to the CDC, about one out of every six people between 14 and 49 years old in the U.S. has genital herpes. While most people think of herpes and automatically picture painful, red blisters, not everyone gets those. In fact, it's estimated that up to 90 percent of people with HSV-2 are never diagnosed. While herpes is most infectious during an active breakout, it can still be spread when there are no sores present. Plus, condoms won't necessarily protect you from the virus if it's present on skin that falls outside of the condom.

What you can do: The best way to reduce your risk of herpes is to use barrier methods like condoms and dental dams correctly every time you have sex. That said, these methods don’t cover everything, so it’s possible to still get herpes even if you practice safe sex.

Oddly enough, routine herpes screening is actually not recommended by the CDC. This is because there is no cure for herpes, though there is treatment to manage the symptoms. So there’s really not much you can do until you have symptoms. If you don’t have symptoms, keep practicing safe sex (whatever that means for your situation) and talking to your partners about their STD status and screening history. If you’re with someone who has herpes, make sure to take precautions (like using a condom or dental dam and possibly avoiding sexual contact when they’re having an outbreak).

If you believe you may have been exposed to herpes, talk to your doctor about that. If you have any sores or symptoms they can take a swab test of that, or they can do a blood test that looks for herpes antibodies. If you have herpes, your doctor will prescribe a medication to manage symptoms and talk to you about reducing the risk of transmission to your partners.
5. Trichomoniasis

What it is: This little-known STD is actually pretty common and it’s caused by a parasite. According to the CDC, only about 30 percent of people with the STD show any symptoms, so it’s very likely that you could have this STD with no symptoms. When it does cause symptoms, those can include: itching, burning, redness, soreness, uncomfortable urination, and vaginal discharge that’s different and comes with a fishy odor. For men, the symptoms could include: itching and irritation, a burning sensation after peeing or ejaculating, and a discharge from the penis.

If left untreated, trichomoniasis can increase the risk of acquiring other STDs, including HIV. It can also pose risks if you’re pregnant, as babies born to people with trichomoniasis are more likely to be born preterm or with a low birth weight.

What you can do: You can lower your risk of getting trichomoniasis by using condoms every time you have sex, but it’s possible to be infected even if you practice safe sex. While routine trichomoniasis screening is not recommended for everyone, the CDC does recommend screening in certain high-risk areas of the country and in people with a high risk of infection (like if you have multiple sex partners, have had STDs in the past, or are a sex worker). The good news is that if you have trichomoniasis, it can be cured with a round of antibiotics. However, it’s possible to get infected again, so you’ll want to make sure your partners get treated, too.

[Downnwatch]

not everyone has symptoms. and does not cause pain at first. because it can be bacteria so it takes time to develop

[Art66888]

As mentioned above, oral sex carries the risk of causing various kinds of infections, especially sexually transmitted infections. So apart from using condoms, it's better to get vaccinated too

[4rchdevil]

However, if done orall ,it still has big risks. although only women do oral to men, because the virus can be transferred through their saliva. If I just choose the safe thing if I buy snacks outside

[Shadow_warrior]

I try to get BJ from all the WL, more I don't dare.

[qwert]

I try to get BJ from all the WL, more I don't dare.

really adventurous

[Shadow_warrior]

really adventurous

wow a 2003 account with 10 post, from these couple of days.

that's interesting

[Sailfish]

wow a 2003 account with 10 post, from these couple of days.

that's interesting

Seniorrr brow

[Shadow_warrior]

Seniorrr brow

you also very senior.

all amazing accounts, 20 years.

[lokosko]

However, if done orall ,it still has big risks. although only women do oral to men, because the virus can be transferred through their saliva. If I just choose the safe thing if I buy snacks outside

But oral or not, there's still a chance it won't be safe, bro, even if we use a condom. So you just have to be prepared to accept the risk or not do anything naughty wkwkwk

[Tokai8]

To my knowledge, it's very safe

[hp2k]

To my knowledge, it's very safe

Bro what is safe?

[chyechenghuat]

I think better to err on the side of caution lah...

[chuannoshare]

Hi bros, is 1 month from exposure BBBJ + capped FJ result (blood/urine) conclusive if i do not show any symptoms for any STDs at all?

[ATCong]

Hi bros, is 1 month from exposure BBBJ + capped FJ result (blood/urine) conclusive if i do not show any symptoms for any STDs at all?

There is a chart somewhere here in this forum that shows the window period. You can check that to confirm.

But I remember 1 month is enough to be conclusive of any STD.

[Shadow_warrior]

so protected oral sex should be the safest for commercial sex I guess?

[hp2k]

so protected oral sex should be the safest for commercial sex I guess?

So can say protected oral = HJ provided no failure of condom?

[ATCong]

so protected oral sex should be the safest for commercial sex I guess?

There is no 100% safety, even with a condom. With condom you are just reducing the risk.

Most important is you need to be mentally prepared will get STD.

[Shadow_warrior]

So can say protected oral = HJ provided no failure of condom?

the 100 percent rate will be you HJ yourself or screw a sex toy.

[ghostcow]

Guys, I'm another silent reader of this forum... This time I'm in HCM alone and I walked into an MP and gotten a BBBJ (mostly HJ, BBBJ max 20 secs). Initially just wanted HJ but my Didi head took over.

I've read through this post and I'm now very worried about STD especially when I'm trying to get baby with my OC. I have seen fellow guys here advising strongly against telling OC, just pray and get tested. Should I continue doing it with OC as usual?

Also, what would be the suggested timing to test? I saw the link https://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=13850811&postcount=10 and it sounded like I should get a urine test 2w after my encounter and a blood test 4w after my encounter (and possibly blood test 3m after)?

Regretting bro here

Hi bros anyone encountered passing STDs without having symptoms before?

Had a BBBJ from an FL 1+ month ago and been feeling okay since then. Afterwards received oral from my GF. Then this week she started having pain in her jaw from saliva gland plus lower abdominal pain. Going to go for testing this week but anyone had a similar encounter before?

Hi bros or any bros with OC, do you tell your OC when risk involved or symptoms appear? Thx bros

[ATCong]

Hi bros or any bros with OC, do you tell your OC when risk involved or symptoms appear? Thx bros

Never ever tell.
Quietly go get it treated n avoid sex with OC until fully recovered.

[yahoo~]

Was wondering for BBBJ, what is the risk ? Is it very high of transmission? Or actually chances of getting std is not that high? Unlike HIV got show risk % but BBBJ hard to find

[user69096]

Posting to gain pm.

[CockBent]

Was wondering for BBBJ, what is the risk ? Is it very high of transmission? Or actually chances of getting std is not that high? Unlike HIV got show risk % but BBBJ hard to find

The chance that you will get HIV from receiving oral sex (when a partner's mouth is on your genitals) is very low compared to unprotected vaginal or anal sex

[yahoo~]

The chance that you will get HIV from receiving oral sex (when a partner's mouth is on your genitals) is very low compared to unprotected vaginal or anal sex

What about other std? Risk is it very high if just get bbbj.