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Hwei6969
25-02-2012, 08:59 PM
Well.. most bro may say you should not be worrying since you made this decision in the first place, but some like me just can't help it

Anyway i done my first FR since i joined this forum, and i decided it to be the last as i am not up to the test. I can't seems to get over the guilt and fear of getting STD or HIV. I dun wan to pass anything harmful to those i love. I admit it's my part of curiosity and a decision i took. Thou It's not end of the world, as nothing is tested yet and i took full protection, but the bad feelings just kicked in since i finished the session this afternoon.

Anyway it's the 1st and last of my cheongster act, i feel risk is not equal to benefit. N I can't even say sorry to my love one.
I will still roam the pictures & story section thou

Happy Bonking to the rest, just don't make a stupid decision you may live to regret

Ignore this if it annoyed you. Sorry

thaivisitor
26-02-2012, 12:47 AM
Most people keep some of the promises they made.

And you're no different so you'll probably keep your part of your words.

I'm sure you can keep your promises of posting your last FR.

And I'm sure down the road you're going to fuck another prostitute, callgirl, FL or ONS.

That's just life.

sexrookie
26-02-2012, 07:41 AM
Well.. most bro may say you should not be worrying since you made this decision in the first place, but some like me just can't help it

Anyway i done my first FR since i joined this forum, and i decided it to be the last as i am not up to the test. I can't seems to get over the guilt and fear of getting STD or HIV. I dun wan to pass anything harmful to those i love. I admit it's my part of curiosity and a decision i took. Thou It's not end of the world, as nothing is tested yet and i took full protection, but the bad feelings just kicked in since i finished the session this afternoon.

Anyway it's the 1st and last of my cheongster act, i feel risk is not equal to benefit. N I can't even say sorry to my love one.
I will still roam the pictures & story section thou

Happy Bonking to the rest, just don't make a stupid decision you may live to regret

Ignore this if it annoyed you. Sorry

Good for you and make sure you do not come in to this forum again

all the best

loneyheart
02-03-2012, 06:08 PM
Dum log in if not there never b t last :D

nosealedfate
02-03-2012, 06:23 PM
Well.. most bro may say you should not be worrying since you made this decision in the first place, but some like me just can't help it

Anyway i done my first FR since i joined this forum, and i decided it to be the last as i am not up to the test. I can't seems to get over the guilt and fear of getting STD or HIV. I dun wan to pass anything harmful to those i love. I admit it's my part of curiosity and a decision i took. Thou It's not end of the world, as nothing is tested yet and i took full protection, but the bad feelings just kicked in since i finished the session this afternoon.

Anyway it's the 1st and last of my cheongster act, i feel risk is not equal to benefit. N I can't even say sorry to my love one.
I will still roam the pictures & story section thou

Happy Bonking to the rest, just don't make a stupid decision you may live to regret

Ignore this if it annoyed you. Sorry


We try to believe you:D so prove it.

ah_yip
02-03-2012, 06:25 PM
hope u will be able to keep to ur own promise.

look4sex
03-03-2012, 05:02 PM
Most people keep some of the promises they made.

And you're no different so you'll probably keep your part of your words.

I'm sure you can keep your promises of posting your last FR.

And I'm sure down the road you're going to fuck another prostitute, callgirl, FL or ONS.

That's just life.

Actually, I quite agree with you. I used to feel the same as TS and wanted to quit cheonging. In the end, I still keep on fucking around. TS, I suggest if you really want to quit, don't even come in to the forum and view. It will tempt you along the way some how. Trust me.:D

RealEstateGuy
04-03-2012, 02:46 PM
Braddahs, you are headed in the right direction. More power to you Braddahs for choosing to be a better man. Braddah, good things happen to you when you take the right road. Braddah maybe its not as fun as before but ultimately you will value shedding bad habits much more than you think. SG society sees you as heros when you decide to take that step Braddah.

joncheong
17-03-2012, 02:01 PM
Dear TS, no offence or whatever intended, as a new cheongster similar to you.. Here is my POV...

Life is short why worry... As long as you take proper precaution, don't think so much... Do you want to die a virgin? Do you want to leave this world only tried one lady you loved... The pros and cons are for you to weigh it yourself.. There's risk in everything, even if cross the road...

MP5F
17-03-2012, 04:19 PM
Life is short, play hard but safe. :)

use cd for bonking. :D

ComplainKing
17-03-2012, 09:29 PM
TS I am happy for you . Hope that you do keep your word.

sequence79
18-03-2012, 04:00 AM
I have been in your shoes a few times already but keep falling back into the hole. Hope you keep your words then I will respect you.

owl888
18-03-2012, 04:14 AM
What does quiting forum and FL related?

I think quite a lot of seniors here still active in forum, active in FL and also having a happy family!

newly
18-03-2012, 01:54 PM
Well.. most bro may say you should not be worrying since you made this decision in the first place, but some like me just can't help it

Anyway i done my first FR since i joined this forum, and i decided it to be the last as i am not up to the test. I can't seems to get over the guilt and fear of getting STD or HIV. I dun wan to pass anything harmful to those i love. I admit it's my part of curiosity and a decision i took. Thou It's not end of the world, as nothing is tested yet and i took full protection, but the bad feelings just kicked in since i finished the session this afternoon.

Anyway it's the 1st and last of my cheongster act, i feel risk is not equal to benefit. N I can't even say sorry to my love one.
I will still roam the pictures & story section thou

Happy Bonking to the rest, just don't make a stupid decision you may live to regret

Ignore this if it annoyed you. Sorry

Hmmm, this sound familiar. After my first fling, I said this. After the 2nd time, I told myself this is really the last time, from the 3rd time onward, I told myself f... it. Anyway hope your will power is better.

The forbidden fruit taste the best

joew2005
18-03-2012, 02:16 PM
it's your life, only u cannot decide 4 yrself ... be it good or bad .....
if u r realli sincere in quitting,make sure u take all appropriate & necessary steps 2 fullfil tis.

it's yr life, u decide yr life.

Hwei6969
20-03-2012, 12:30 PM
Every decision, there are surely pros and cons.

I don't think I will go back for any FL, as my curiosity was done for. Not as special as i thought it will be. So when i go back to the weighing scales, it's not so worthwhile after all

I am not saying i am 2000% immune to all temptation, say a celebrity comes to you for free. But who the hell will do that to me?

Happy bonking to the rest, remember the rubber and don't go raw

look4sex
27-03-2012, 11:55 PM
Every decision, there are surely pros and cons.

I don't think I will go back for any FL, as my curiosity was done for. Not as special as i thought it will be. So when i go back to the weighing scales, it's not so worthwhile after all

I am not saying i am 2000% immune to all temptation, say a celebrity comes to you for free. But who the hell will do that to me?

Happy bonking to the rest, remember the rubber and don't go raw

Well said, Bro. I just went for my anonymous HIV testing just now. It's the 4th time I am doing HIV testing over 18 years of cheonging. I did stop cheonging for a period of 3 years after one test and then went back to cheong again.

Initially I started with safe sex, just massage and HJ but over the years forgotten about the fear and start doing FJ again.

I am quite sure this is my final time to quit cheonging...

Wish you all the best...

look4sex
27-03-2012, 11:59 PM
When I was at AFA, 1 volunteer came into the room to show the other volunteer attending to me about a result. It's like someone got positive result and need to do another test to confirm. I was so depressed to hear that and was telling myself hopefully my results (HIV and Syphillis) are turn out to be negative.

Hope that was a false alarm for whoever that person was.

cohen
28-03-2012, 12:15 AM
good luck bro stay safe!

timetra
28-03-2012, 11:59 PM
always good to know when to stop.

rugalsc
29-03-2012, 12:59 AM
It's your life. But one day all of us will die. So make sure u die without regrets.

Sex with condom + legal sex workers who go for monthly health checks. If u still worry about the 0.001%, then dun go out, because car may also bang onto u or flowerpot land on your head.

look4sex
29-03-2012, 03:41 PM
It's your life. But one day all of us will die. So make sure u die without regrets.

Sex with condom + legal sex workers who go for monthly health checks. If u still worry about the 0.001%, then dun go out, because car may also bang onto u or flowerpot land on your head.

Yes, I agree die without regrets. Keeping yourself away from nasty STDs and doing something more worthwhile in life is also not a bad thing compare to cheong. Anyway, I have cheong enough and getting sick about it already. Honestly, I did regret cheonging and at the same time putting my wife at risk. My relationship with my wife is getting better and I don't want to put her at risk again.

For those who have loved ones at home, think before you cheong.

look4sex
29-03-2012, 05:36 PM
Somebody zapped me without leaving his nick and say "Bullshit". You've got no right to say it. Time will prove my points.

hairyhairy
29-03-2012, 08:33 PM
Yes, I agree die without regrets. Keeping yourself away from nasty STDs and doing something more worthwhile in life is also not a bad thing compare to cheong. Anyway, I have cheong enough and getting sick about it already. Honestly, I did regret cheonging and at the same time putting my wife at risk. My relationship with my wife is getting better and I don't want to put her at risk again.

For those who have loved ones at home, think before you cheong.

Well said.

look4sex
29-03-2012, 10:58 PM
Thanks, Bro hairyhairy for up my points.

Will this guy who zapped me comments on "Sorry... but people have a right to zap you. That's life. And the rules of this forum. Since you "quit" why are you still logging in?" please separate to 2 matters, still logging in doesn't mean still cheonging. I have stop viewing the FL section for new arrivals, I only surf "The Sammyboy link/Picture exchange Plaza", "Adult Discussions about Sex" and "Sexual Health Issues". Don't be so sure that you understand people. Anyway, thank you for zapping, CAG ! :D

rugalsc
31-03-2012, 09:45 AM
Yes, I agree die without regrets. Keeping yourself away from nasty STDs and doing something more worthwhile in life is also not a bad thing compare to cheong. Anyway, I have cheong enough and getting sick about it already. Honestly, I did regret cheonging and at the same time putting my wife at risk. My relationship with my wife is getting better and I don't want to put her at risk again.

For those who have loved ones at home, think before you cheong.
Agree. Some of my friends moved on to golf and car collection. But still, back to the original statement that it is your life after all. Don't die with regrets. One day I will want to bungee jump, go diving, fuck a Japanese model, etc as these are my goals in life.