Seeking a more mature women to start a discreet relationship

[stiffener]

I'm 22yo Chinese male looking for a older women or married also can who is willing to start a discreet relationship with me. I looking for someone who has an friendly character, who is willing to share what she knows and good if we can tkss also. I am able to understand if she can't get away or if she is not free to meet up.

Any willing parties???

[babyrex16]

Hi there my friend.. Base on your age, you should have a lot of friends n oppuntunity where U can invest a strong n healthy relationship in. So think U shouldn't have thoughts that could ruin another female's family n disgrace yourself ahould the affair comes to light.. Imagine many years later when U found your spouse doin this to you. How would U feel? Jus my thoughts k? No offense to all. :)

[stiffener]

Thanks bro for your insight. It's exactly because I was cheated on by my gf and then I kinda have a scar and a fear if starting and investing in a relationship. Or maybe it's becaus I have yet to find the special one.

Either way, any sister interested?

[hcg_explorer]

this is ur excuse... u r fear to start in a relationship and NO FEAR to have a discreet relationship... wat u talking... so immature

Thanks bro for your insight. It's exactly because I was cheated on by my gf and then I kinda have a scar and a fear if starting and investing in a relationship. Or maybe it's becaus I have yet to find the special one.

Either way, any sister interested?

[Bebeque]

Thanks bro for your insight. It's exactly because I was cheated on by my gf and then I kinda have a scar and a fear if starting and investing in a relationship. Or maybe it's becaus I have yet to find the special one.

Either way, any sister interested?

Go find your special one as you are still young. There are plenty of lonely and single girls out there!!!

Don't start a relationship with an older female because you were cheated.

If this is the way you want to take your revenge...it will only bring more problems for yourself.

[notti4u]

I'm 22yo Chinese male looking for a older women or married also can who is willing to start a discreet relationship with me. I looking for someone who has an friendly character, who is willing to share what she knows and good if we can tkss also. I am able to understand if she can't get away or if she is not free to meet up.

Any willing parties???

you are 22yrs old and yet looking for a married woman? My thoughts, what type of advice you can give them if they share abt their family woes to you? I think they will be in return taking care of you. Move ahead and dun let the past affect you. Uncle advise you not to dwell in the past, you will never be able to stand up and get involved in another relationship with girls around ur same age.

[Coolman69]

U think eaily to get a woman here for free ?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

I'm 22yo Chinese male looking for a older women or married also can who is willing to start a discreet relationship with me. I looking for someone who has an friendly character, who is willing to share what she knows and good if we can tkss also. I am able to understand if she can't get away or if she is not free to meet up.

Any willing parties???

Thanks bro for your insight. It's exactly because I was cheated on by my gf and then I kinda have a scar and a fear if starting and investing in a relationship. Or maybe it's becaus I have yet to find the special one.
Either way, any sister interested?

You cai cheated on you with a married man? :rolleyes:

Think you must make up your mind what you want to do: Seek revenge or Seek New Love.

There is no either way apart from a sob story to gain sympathy-fuck! :D (Don't waste your youth on revenge, get even or with an unhealthy affair with a lao cai or married woman, you still young, go enjoy life, don't give up a forest for an unworthy tree leaf. Seriously there are plently of SYT meimeis in town and HDB hubs, there's no such thing as who cannot live without who in a 20something relationship):p

Anyway, nowadays lao cai also not free, you know ;)

[sta1100]

Hi Boy

You are 22, still have a long long to go, look for a younger one, unless you are 30+ still unwanted they you may consider looking for a mature lady.

[stiffener]

Ya Lou my ex cai go bed some other random guy that she first time knew in a club (shall not mention which) then I got to know of it cause she comfided in a common friend. I asked her if that really happened and she of course say no la. Then I LAN LAN also cause I hear say only no evidence. But on that night, she break with me. After a few months then l got to know actually is got alot of witness on scene to prove it also.

Anyways I have moved on from her and wish her the best but I seriously don't really have confidence in love so find some1 for discreet relationship loh...I find more mature women cause they at least more understanding bahs. Able to understand what it's like to go through what I went through?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Ya Lou my ex cai go bed some other random guy that she first time knew in a club (shall not mention which) then I got to know of it cause she comfided in a common friend. I asked her if that really happened and she of course say no la. Then I LAN LAN also cause I hear say only no evidence. But on that night, she break with me. After a few months then l got to know actually is got alot of witness on scene to prove it also. - but all tried to hide the facts from you?

Seems like you need not only a new SYT cai but a whole new group of cheong kakis :D;)

[stiffener]

Seems like you need not only a new SYT cai but a whole new group of cheong kakis :D;)

Ya I need to rejoin the world with different eyes with all the bros here. Need go out tkss with you guys soon

[Bebeque]

Ya Lou my ex cai go bed some other random guy that she first time knew in a club (shall not mention which) then I got to know of it cause she comfided in a common friend. I asked her if that really happened and she of course say no la. Then I LAN LAN also cause I hear say only no evidence. But on that night, she break with me. After a few months then l got to know actually is got alot of witness on scene to prove it also.

Anyways I have moved on from her and wish her the best but I seriously don't really have confidence in love so find some1 for discreet relationship loh...I find more mature women cause they at least more understanding bahs. Able to understand what it's like to go through what I went through?

Bro, statistically speaking, a younger chai will have less life experience, but also less time to encounter life problems as well.

Older chai may be more mature, maybe more understanding, more caring, etc, etc. But then, she will likely to have more life problems as well.

What makes you think that once you have a discreet relationship with an older chai, her problems will not become your problems? For example, $$$$, children, sickness, etc, etc. You can say that these are not your problems and ignore them? and then older chai will in turn off her charms and if your emotions are involved then, see how you are going to avoid a trauma thereafter. You end up being hurt all over again and more seriously, believe it or not.

Purpose of comments above is not to discourage you from seeking young chai or old chai, but just remind you that don't just because of one bad episode and you turn your attention in another direction, which you may not have the life experiences to handle appropriately.

Nothing comes free, there is always a price to pay for whatever you choose...the higher the grade or supposedly better chai will come with a higher price for you.

[babyrex16]

You are stil young.. Your world may not be the same as someone who's much elder than you.. Even if U were to come across such a person. Relationship like this usually dun last and worst still, it might hurt you n the lady further in the future when feelings are involved.. So if U are not sure whether can U handle it. Dun start in the first place. Our small little Singapore is stil filled with really nice n caring gals. You just need to find them.. :)

[stiffener]

Seems like you need not only a new SYT cai but a whole new group of cheong kakis :D;)

You are stil young.. Your world may not be the same as someone who's much elder than you.. Even if U were to come across such a person. Relationship like this usually dun last and worst still, it might hurt you n the lady further in the future when feelings are involved.. So if U are not sure whether can U handle it. Dun start in the first place. Our small little Singapore is stil filled with really nice n caring gals. You just need to find them.. :)


That's y it's important that she and me are both able to handle this secret and must be able to draw the line. As for the future problems, no 1 can really promise that in another attempt at a relationship will not have it problems. I'm not trying to avoid problems and I want to be there to overcome the problems with her. But what I'm saying is that at least for now, I'm not ready to start a new relationship

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

You are really young as we are saying above ;)

I want to be there to overcome the problems with her.

You don't know what's a FB atall :eek:

But what I'm saying is that at least for now, I'm not ready to start a new relationship

You got all mixed up :rolleyes:

Anyway good luck with her husband ;)

[stiffener]

You are really young as we are saying above ;)



You don't know what's a FB atall :eek:



You got all mixed up :rolleyes:

Anyway good luck with her husband ;)

When I said I want to overcomE problems with her I meant in a proper relationship

[Bebeque]

When I said I want to overcomE problems with her I meant in a proper relationship

Me also think you are mixed up.

You want a discreet relationship with a mature girl? If you mean more mature in thoughts and actions, maybe ok. If more mature in age? Then you may also know that age does not guarantee a person, male or female, to be more mature in relationship matters.

It can cut both ways - a supposedly more mature person will mean more life/relationship experiences. Such experiences may make the person better in handling future relationships. Or such relationship experiences, especially if they end in failures, may result in them developing negative/bitter emotions and indeed turn them into worse relationship potentials. Or such bitter experiences will turn them into cynical and manipulative individuals. Are you ready to handle these issues at the age of 22?

Discreet relationship? As in fuck and go or longer term fb? In both cases, they can be discreet but it is not a long term proper relationship.

If you want a proper relationship, why made it be discreet? What are you afraid of?

In any case, just because you want the opposite to be mature, does not mean that the mature will want you too. Developing a proper relationship between two persons is based a large part on opportunity, luck and right circumstances.

"overcomE problems with her" sounds good, but in any relationship there will be problems. What makes or breaks the relationship is also whether the circumstances are right that the problems are resolved appropriately. Or else the relationship will break. Think of how you and your ex-gf end up in breaking your relationship. Right circumstances will mean that two persons know what to do in facing various issues and problems, how strong is their love is for each other, do they share the same values, see things same/differently but yet able to resolve their differences and find solutions to problems, etc, etc. It is not just simply a wish to face problems together.

Take the advice of bros in this forum - think through what you really want before making a beeline for a particular section of the trees. Don't miss the forest for the particular trees.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

I'm 22yo Chinese male looking for a married also can who is willing to start a discreet relationship with me.

When I said I want to overcomE problems with her I meant in a proper relationship

TS,

Discreet Relationship with a married woman = Extramarital Affair

Relationship with a similar in age girl = Proper and Healthy Relationship

Hope it helps ;)

[stiffener]

I kinda looking for like sugar mommy that don't have to support me financially la.

Maybe what I wrote hot everyone mixed up. Sorry for that.

Sugar mommy that wants to hang out pm me!!!

[jasdude]

I kinda looking for like sugar mommy that don't have to support me financially la.

Maybe what I wrote hot everyone mixed up. Sorry for that.

Sugar mommy that wants to hang out pm me!!!

You are really fickle minded in what u want. How to instill security in someone else even if its a no strings attached one?

[westendgirl]

what discreet r/s? those cannot see light one? sometime meet in paris, sometime in london type issit? :D

[jasdude]

what discreet r/s? those cannot see light one? sometime meet in paris, sometime in london type issit? :D

The air ticket will kill TS already.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

I kinda looking for like sugar mommy that don't have to support me financially la.

Maybe what I wrote hot everyone mixed up. Sorry for that.

Sugar mommy that wants to hang out pm me!!!

Why you always mixed up all the terms??? :mad:

Sugar mummy that dont support you financially is not sugar mummy la, it is called Provision Shop Aunty :rolleyes:

Do you know what you want to seek or not? :o

It's like going to a wanton noodle stall to order prawn noodle and add sea-hum :(

[redhun]

Sugar mummy that dont support you financially is not sugar mummy la, it is called Provision Shop Aunty :rolleyes:

It's like going to a wanton noodle stall to order prawn noodle and add sea-hum :(

Lmao, u r so funny!

[cupid]

Why you always mixed up all the terms??? :mad:

Sugar mummy that dont support you financially is not sugar mummy la, it is called Provision Shop Aunty :rolleyes:

Do you know what you want to seek or not?

It's like going to a wanton noodle stall to order prawn noodle and add sea-hum :(

Bro its school holiday and he is still a kid hehe, maybe a virgin, save your time save your energy :D

[BiGBadw00f]

If you're not ready to start a relationship, then DON'T!

You are young, but not that young either. another 2 more years you'll be 24-25.. what will you plan to do?

Rather than to look for ladies.. Work hard, earn your dough, i bet women will come to you automatically.

And definitely much more better quality than those u seek.

Let urself attract them. not the other way round. (:

That's y it's important that she and me are both able to handle this secret and must be able to draw the line. As for the future problems, no 1 can really promise that in another attempt at a relationship will not have it problems. I'm not trying to avoid problems and I want to be there to overcome the problems with her. But what I'm saying is that at least for now, I'm not ready to start a new relationship

[Apocalypse]

I'm 22yo Chinese male looking for a older women or married also can who is willing to start a discreet relationship with me. I looking for someone who has an friendly character, who is willing to share what she knows and good if we can tkss also. I am able to understand if she can't get away or if she is not free to meet up. Any willing parties???

You can start a r/s with the photo of lin chi ling. she is always not free to meet u up, but u will understand because it is a very discreet relationship. every week you download a new photograph and she is always smiling at you. :D

Thanks bro for your insight. It's exactly because I was cheated on by my gf and then I kinda have a scar and a fear if starting and investing in a relationship. Or maybe it's becaus I have yet to find the special one.

Either way, any sister interested?

Don't worry, scar v manly one. especially if u have scratches all over your back the next day u go to the gym. Yea. long term investment alway see very low liquidity in the short term, thats why its ok to be afraid, and go and trade by margin, and get yourself all burnt but at least u get the adrenaline rush. we are all only young once mah. Either way you'll still do what u like anyway.

Ya Lou my ex cai go bed some other random guy that she first time knew in a club (shall not mention which) then I got to know of it cause she comfided in a common friend. I asked her if that really happened and she of course say no la. Then I LAN LAN also cause I hear say only no evidence. But on that night, she break with me. After a few months then l got to know actually is got alot of witness on scene to prove it also.

Anyways I have moved on from her and wish her the best but I seriously don't really have confidence in love so find some1 for discreet relationship loh...I find more mature women cause they at least more understanding bahs. Able to understand what it's like to go through what I went through?

your gf went to a swing / orgy party witness by many witness and they took photograph n video to prove it. and the common friend she confided in is the random guy that she went to bed with.

you have no confidence in yourself so now you want the more mature woman to give u the confidence. well. except for the wrinkles, mature woman wan little confident man that challenge them and make them feel like little woman. which is why they fell in love with their powerful hubby afew years ago to many years ago but that magic is gone already.

That is why the relationship with the photograph of lin chi ling is still better.

That's y it's important that she and me are both able to handle this secret and must be able to draw the line. As for the future problems, no 1 can really promise that in another attempt at a relationship will not have it problems. I'm not trying to avoid problems and I want to be there to overcome the problems with her. But what I'm saying is that at least for now, I'm not ready to start a new relationship

its ok.... u'll never be ready because there be always a problem. :D

I kinda looking for like sugar mommy that don't have to support me financially la.

Maybe what I wrote hot everyone mixed up. Sorry for that.

Sugar mommy that wants to hang out pm me!!!

so you want chicken rice without chicken and less rice. :D I think u mean sugar mummy that dun need to support u physically. :p why will sugar mummy want to hang out with u?

[Sen5eS]

Sugar mummy that dont support you financially is not sugar mummy la, it is called Provision Shop Aunty :rolleyes:


I think asking for $$$ support from Sugar Mummy should go ask Coffee Shop 老板娘 :D:p Coffee Tea + dua liap neeeeee !

[Sen5eS]

Anyways I have moved on from her and wish her the best but I seriously don't really have confidence in love so find some1 for discreet relationship loh...I find more mature women cause they at least more understanding bahs. Able to understand what it's like to go through what I went through?

Think you need counseling rather than a lao cai :p Wake up your idea bro ...

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

You can start a r/s with the photo of lin chi ling. she is always not free to meet u up, but u will understand because it is a very discreet relationship. every week you download a new photograph and she is always smiling at you. :D

Miss Lin Chi Ling with her high IQ and EQ, gentle demeanor and physical beauty is one of world’s rarest "Perfect 10" beauty in recent history. :p :D

[cupid]

You can start a r/s with the photo of lin chi ling. she is always not free to meet u up, but u will understand because it is a very discreet relationship. every week you download a new photograph and she is always smiling at you. :D

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bro your post dam funny and humorous hehe :D well said :p

[unsung80]

I suggest TS better get your spelling and grammar correctly in order to impress a girl here with few of your simple expression.