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gyaradoz
17-04-2005, 05:03 PM
Hi, I have a problem, which I always think is not serious all these while..

But apparently, I really wish to overcome this problem…

That is, my INABILITY to MASTURBATE or PCC!!!! I am already 21 years of age, ORD-ing in June and always lied to my friends that I am active in masturbating as I feel very embarrassed being unable to masturbate as all guys my age shud already been pro in it liaoz…

No matter how hard and long I tried( once even up to 30 minutes continuously), I still cannot ‘release’ lehz…haiz…

The main reason why I want to ‘learn’ masturbating is to curb my need and want to have sex. I am seriously unable to quit cheong-ing(having sex with prostitutes) and my longest attempt to curb it only lasted ONE MONTH and after that is back to cheong again. I have visited Thailand and am a regular customer in Geylang, both legal and illegal of FLs(Chinese, Indonesian, Thai etc etc). I think I already bonked 100+ gals in the short space of less than 2 years since I started cheong-ing

Pls help! I am not embarrassed at all admitting I cheong prostitutes but seriously would like to learn PCC in the hope of it curbing my need to go visit prostitutes again liaoz.

As my friend always say…. the feeling and ‘release’ is the same in pcc and penetrating…

HelloDaniel
18-04-2005, 12:07 AM
Yo bro, you can try to buy sex toys to help you masterbate especially those sillicon made masturbators. Feels like real pussy and you may get a cheap one at less than $40.00. I have been using one regularly and go cheonging once in a while. So i save $$$$ and less risk.

These shops can be found in geylang's Fantasy World (xXX geylang road) cant remember or penisula plaza 3rd flr (UR4XX).

You can try to maximise the pleasure by watching porn and then masturbate using these toys...........

MitMit
20-04-2005, 01:33 AM
Hello. Yes, either you get a GF or use sex toys+pron to help u release. Ever got a rubber CB and the feeling is almost the same ...and u get to fuck it RAW! At the end of the day, u are free from getting STDs and save alot of $$ too. i advise u to take my advise. hope it helps. good luck.

Bangkok Master
20-04-2005, 02:07 AM
I think you are not used to the feeling of the stretching of your dick. I guess you lost your patience while being too excited. I got a friend who cannot cum while PCC because he told me that he doesn't like the feeling. I asked him how he release himself, he told me he uses either his bloster or a blow doll cos he's too obesess with the fact of climbing up to a woman. I dun know whether you are into this category.

madix
20-04-2005, 09:45 AM
oh boy...i always thought ppl advanced from pccing then to having sex with gf then to paying for sex...guess you skipped step one...
maybe you need to get into the mood first...get yourself high b4 even trying to wank off...dun be too eager la....pcc definitely not as gd as the real thing wat...maybe u need some watching or reading of porn etc?

Frankiestine
20-04-2005, 10:59 AM
Hi, I have a problem, which I always think is not serious all these while..But apparently, I really wish to overcome this problem…that is, my INABILITY to MASTURBATE or PCC!!!!
Watch porno, think about your past bonks...this thing can really help you to concentrate on cumming...alamak really need to be taught one meh????

teraterm55
20-04-2005, 12:34 PM
Hi, I have a problem, which I always think is not serious all these while..
As my friend always say…. the feeling and ‘release’ is the same in pcc and penetrating…

to release you have to be both physically and mentally excited.
so i guess you might have the physical excitement. but if
mental excitement is not there you wont release.
like what some bros have suggested, try watching porn,
some are stimulated by sound, some by sight, some by action.
you have to find what stimulates you. everyone can only suggest
but everyone have their own way.

i know friend that can cum by just seeing beutifull gals.
i know some that must hear the moaning and see the action of porn.
i know some that must use sex toy and maturbators.

to each his own.

gyaradoz
20-04-2005, 08:57 PM
Thanks guys for your help!

Really appreciate them! :)

opticum
21-04-2005, 03:36 PM
It's in the mind. Psych yourself and affirm u can cum out loud... Just do it. ;)

dathinman
21-04-2005, 04:33 PM
Go to places like Health Centres where they offer HJ. Cheaper a bit than bonking. Safer too.

While getting HJs, start refraining from molesting the 'service provider'. Slowly and steadily you cut down on the sensory/excitement/whatever to make you come.

Once you get the hang of it, maybe you can then duplicate the experience at home by yourself.

PS
Just went for a massage and a good wank last night. SHIOK. :D

asdfghjkl
21-04-2005, 04:41 PM
i used to have this problem also.. went to psychiatrist friend, he told me i suffer from too much exposure in porn.. told me to cut down if i wish to save my bro.. n i immediately recovered when i stop thinking about it..

nakamara
21-04-2005, 05:42 PM
Fantasise, Fantasise n Fantasise...maybe not porn but the girls from your previous bonks and paste their faces on the face of the girl in the porn

Frankiestine
22-04-2005, 03:55 AM
Fantasise, Fantasise n Fantasise...maybe not porn but the girls from your previous bonks and paste their faces on the face of the girl in the porn
hehehe very good method some more can save alot of money too.... :D

Amigo
22-04-2005, 03:57 AM
better buy a rubber girl hehehehe

MMM88
22-04-2005, 12:18 PM
U have a gf ? ask yr gf to bj and PCC for u lor..... If not, ask prostitutes to bj and pcc for you lor..... v expensive... But once u get into the rhythm - yr problem may be resolved... :p