Unprotected Sex With Prostitute

[BoringLife88]

Hey I know you guys going to flame me for being stupid. I was really in a bad mood and I went to my usual massage parlor to have a happy ending. Usually I will wear protection and I will always get the same girl. I always tease her saying I can I don't wear condom and she will always say no. But just yesterday, I offered her the same deal and she said yes to me. So yeah we did it.

She kept asking me questions like if I do health check up and stuff then she also keep checking on me to see if I have any disease on me like you know looking at my little bro to see if there's any shit on it. She also went on to clean it really well before we have an intercourse.

Frankly speaking I was hesitating at that moment on whether if I should do it but I was thinking she could be clean as well so yeah on a moment of folly I did it.

And now I fucking regret and I don't know what to do.

Can you guys help me out here?

I know I will be flame but being stupid and I god dam admit it I was dam dumb. If I come out of this safely I swear I will never go to this kind of place again.

[sammyboyfor]

All you can do now is keep your fingers crossed and get tested. Refer to the stickies for information regarding window periods for various STDs.

If any symptoms develop, see a doctor immediately.

If you are paranoid about HIV which is always a possibility, you can start PEP (https://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=7852601&postcount=6) but you have to move fast! PEP treatment has to commence within 72 hours of exposure max. The sooner the better.

[newyorker88]

And now I fucking regret and I don't know what to do.

Can you guys help me out here?

I know I will be flame but being stupid and I god dam admit it I was dam dumb. If I come out of this safely I swear I will never go to this kind of place again.


Just hope for the best n don't go around fucking until u get a clean bill of health for others sake

[BoringLife88]

Yeah guys I am dam depressed and I freaking regret my actions.

I did a lot of research and they said that the chances of me getting it is rather low but what you guys think? Sigh.

[BoringLife88]

I don't know is it me but I keep thinking I have the symptoms.. Sigh this is so fucked up totally regret my actions so badly. Anywhere I can find someone to console me or something

[sammyboyfor]

Yeah guys I am dam depressed and I freaking regret my actions.

I did a lot of research and they said that the chances of me getting it is rather low but what you guys think? Sigh.

What difference does it make what "we guys" think. We aren't experts and a doctor won't be able to give you a definitive answer either.

Just get on with your life and do the necessary tests to determine your status.

[sammyboyfor]

I don't know is it me but I keep thinking I have the symptoms.. Sigh this is so fucked up totally regret my actions so badly. Anywhere I can find someone to console me or something

You don't need consolation you need to get tested.

[Big Sexy]

rather low on getting what?

in my opinion, i wouldn't say you are in the low risk catergory... you are talking about doing raw with a working lady who is probably being screwed like (10 times a day by 10 different men) multiply by number of days she has been in the trade..

anyway you should get out of that self-pity, depression mode.. it is destructive and doesnt help at all..
do something ... go for PEP and stay clear of all sexual contact until u are clear..
you can start going for the 4th gen HIV test 28 days after exposure.

consult a doctor for more info on PEP and the 4th gen HIV test


Yeah guys I am dam depressed and I freaking regret my actions.

I did a lot of research and they said that the chances of me getting it is rather low but what you guys think? Sigh.

[maxsee]

There is a chance that she might be harbouring HIV or STD...that's why she keep asking you if you are clean.....You know reverse psychology...

Go get urself tested at DSC immediately...And pls don't touch anyone else until u have a clean bill for your health......:D:D:D

[Big Sexy]

it is abit too early to get himself tested



Go get urself tested at DSC immediately...And pls don't touch anyone else until u have a clean bill for your health......:D:D:D

[maxsee]

Yeah indeed a bit too early now .. probably after 1 month window period eh....:D:D:D

[BoringLife88]

I totally agree with what you all say. I won't be touching anyone till I am tested clean. I am on the way to a HIV clinic ask as we speak and I will be taking PReP also. Hopefully I turn out fine in 1month. God bless me.

[Nato17]

Hey I know you guys going to flame me for being stupid. I was really in a bad mood and I went to my usual massage parlor to have a happy ending. Usually I will wear protection and I will always get the same girl. I always tease her saying I can I don't wear condom and she will always say no. But just yesterday, I offered her the same deal and she said yes to me. So yeah we did it.

She kept asking me questions like if I do health check up and stuff then she also keep checking on me to see if I have any disease on me like you know looking at my little bro to see if there's any shit on it. She also went on to clean it really well before we have an intercourse.

Frankly speaking I was hesitating at that moment on whether if I should do it but I was thinking she could be clean as well so yeah on a moment of folly I did it.

And now I fucking regret and I don't know what to do.

Can you guys help me out here?

I know I will be flame but being stupid and I god dam admit it I was dam dumb. If I come out of this safely I swear I will never go to this kind of place again.

Want to cheong you want to worry. If you worry, then stay at home and do a happy ending, don't cheong.

[CumExplorer]

There is a chance that she might be harbouring HIV or STD...that's why she keep asking you if you are clean.....You know reverse psychology...

Go get urself tested at DSC immediately...And pls don't touch anyone else until u have a clean bill for your health......:D:D:D

well said bro, always protection is the best policy :D

[BoringLife88]

Want to cheong you want to worry. If you worry, then stay at home and do a happy ending, don't cheong.

Too late already that's why I regret now. Already paid for Prep and stuff.

[IAmAwesome]

always protection is the best policy :D

Agreed here as well

[juststray]

Can you guys help me out here?



Go to a Doctor, (Dr. Tan is the best option, if you ask me), ask for PEP within 72 hours, (48 hours will be better). This is the best the modern medicine can offer against HIV.

[BoringLife88]

Well I just begin taking PEP. Anyone out there taken it before? Can give your result? It's only 90% effective and it cost me a bomb

[Aladeen]

bro, stop thinking too much, find an activity to do.
stress will destroy ur body u know... may we know which massage place u visit? what nationality?

[BoringLife88]

bro, stop thinking too much, find an activity to do.
stress will destroy ur body u know... may we know which massage place u visit? what nationality?

Its the one at Parklane. Its a PRC. Somehow I just felt I was into some mind games with her and the questions she ask like if I constant do health check up and if I am clean, if I am attached and stuff makes me feel like shes clean too... First occasion I asked for RAW she said no. But second occasion she said yes... What you guys think on this? Honestly its me being fucked up so I admit its my fault.

Honestly I really try to stop thinking about it but whenever I think my future is destroyed it really puts me down. I can only hope what my doctor say is true and which is after my first month of exposure, I can take a highly accurate HIV test of up to 90%. Just pray.

[Big Sexy]

this is why sammyboyforum.com is so useful, without it i wonder how many people would have heard of PEP ...

as for you case, you have done the PEP and there isnt any much more u can do.. so stop being paranoid, it will probably kill u before anything else..... continue with the treatment and go for the test after a month...you could even do the 4th gen HIV test in 3 weeks or even 2 as stated in afa.gov.sg.... however it is more accurate to do it after 28 days..

u need to know that having HIV isnt the end of the world. ;)


Its the one at Parklane. Its a PRC. Somehow I just felt I was into some mind games with her and the questions she ask like if I constant do health check up and if I am clean, if I am attached and stuff makes me feel like shes clean too... First occasion I asked for RAW she said no. But second occasion she said yes... What you guys think on this? Honestly its me being fucked up so I admit its my fault.

Honestly I really try to stop thinking about it but whenever I think my future is destroyed it really puts me down. I can only hope what my doctor say is true and which is after my first month of exposure, I can take a highly accurate HIV test of up to 90%. Just pray.

[sammyboyfor]

First occasion I asked for RAW she said no. But second occasion she said yes... What you guys think on this?

That means she's she doesn't need much convincing so she's probably done it raw with many other guys too. :p

You've done what you can. Now it's just a waiting game.

[DoctorTan]

I would like to point out a small technical detail. You are on PEP not PrEP.

PEP = POST Exposure Prophylaxis (medicines you take AFTER the risk)
PrEP = PRE Exposure Prophylaxis (medicines you take BEFORE the risk)

You are getting very good advice here. From this point on, it is only a waiting game. Stressing yourself any further will not only not help you, it may cause you to have anxiety symptoms which you will interpret as HIV ARS symptoms and cause you even more anxiety. So you need to chill.

You can calm yourself but looking objectively at the risk:

Chance of her having HIV x chance you you catching it x protection from PEP = < 1 in a million

[bigtube99]

Chance of her having HIV x chance you you catching it x protection from PEP = < 1 in a million
Dr Tan, interesting about the probability, which as a layman I thought would be higher.

Side track a bit: if a woman is infected with HIV, and if I have unprotected sex with her, what is the chance of catching it? Is there any statistics on this?

[DoctorTan]

Dr Tan, interesting about the probability, which as a layman I thought would be higher.

Side track a bit: if a woman is infected with HIV, and if I have unprotected sex with her, what is the chance of catching it? Is there any statistics on this?

Read from page 5 onwards:

http://www.drtanandpartners.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/Dr-Tan-MMM-2.pdf

[lightweaver]

hey Ts, it will be good for u to stay positive rest well which will help your immune system.

Did u cum raw in her too?

[BoringLife88]

hey Ts, it will be good for u to stay positive rest well which will help your immune system.

Did u cum raw in her too?

Hi,

I did not. I pulled out half way. I finished outside her.

[BoringLife88]

this is why sammyboyforum.com is so useful, without it i wonder how many people would have heard of PEP ...

as for you case, you have done the PEP and there isnt any much more u can do.. so stop being paranoid, it will probably kill u before anything else..... continue with the treatment and go for the test after a month...you could even do the 4th gen HIV test in 3 weeks or even 2 as stated in afa.gov.sg.... however it is more accurate to do it after 28 days..

u need to know that having HIV isnt the end of the world. ;)

Hey thanks for telling me this.

Most likely I will take a 4th Gen test on Day 14.

Unbearable process to wait for 3months seriously.

[BoringLife88]

I would like to point out a small technical detail. You are on PEP not PrEP.

PEP = POST Exposure Prophylaxis (medicines you take AFTER the risk)
PrEP = PRE Exposure Prophylaxis (medicines you take BEFORE the risk)

You are getting very good advice here. From this point on, it is only a waiting game. Stressing yourself any further will not only not help you, it may cause you to have anxiety symptoms which you will interpret as HIV ARS symptoms and cause you even more anxiety. So you need to chill.

You can calm yourself but looking objectively at the risk:

Chance of her having HIV x chance you you catching it x protection from PEP = < 1 in a million

Hi,

I hope what you say is true. I just felt that life is really precious and what I did was stupid. I don't mind paying any amount of money as long as I can get my answers but unfortunately there isn't... All I can do is wait till Day 14 to take the 4th Gen Test and I have already begin taking PEP.

[BoringLife88]

That means she's she doesn't need much convincing so she's probably done it raw with many other guys too. :p

You've done what you can. Now it's just a waiting game.

Life sucks. I just hope people out there ain't foolish like me. For a moment of folly, you lost your entire life.

This forum really helps me a lot. So many people I can tell my problems to. I have not tell anyone about this IRL yet.

[BoringLife88]

I would like to point out a small technical detail. You are on PEP not PrEP.

PEP = POST Exposure Prophylaxis (medicines you take AFTER the risk)
PrEP = PRE Exposure Prophylaxis (medicines you take BEFORE the risk)

You are getting very good advice here. From this point on, it is only a waiting game. Stressing yourself any further will not only not help you, it may cause you to have anxiety symptoms which you will interpret as HIV ARS symptoms and cause you even more anxiety. So you need to chill.

You can calm yourself but looking objectively at the risk:

Chance of her having HIV x chance you you catching it x protection from PEP = < 1 in a million

Hi,

First of all can I know if the 4th Gen test is considered as a Combo Duo Test?

If yes, why is AFA offering only $40 for the test while other clinic is offering $150.

[Big Sexy]

note that result at day 14 isn't conclusive, not even accurate..
but if it makes u feel better then go for it.. and do another test later :)

Hey thanks for telling me this.

Most likely I will take a 4th Gen test on Day 14.

Unbearable process to wait for 3months seriously.

[Big Sexy]

look at it this way.

Dr Tan is a well respected professional and expert in his field of work while AFA are made up of mostly volunteers workers, many whom wont be able to provide you the kind of professional advice that Dr Tan can offer. ;)

Hi,

First of all can I know if the 4th Gen test is considered as a Combo Duo Test?

If yes, why is AFA offering only $40 for the test while other clinic is offering $150.

[BoringLife88]

note that result at day 14 isn't conclusive, not even accurate..
but if it makes u feel better then go for it.. and do another test later :)

Yeah I agree with what you say, the best results are still on the third and sixth month.

But apparently I it seems like the 4th Gen have high accuracy too.

[DoctorTan]

Yeah I agree with what you say, the best results are still on the third and sixth month.

But apparently I it seems like the 4th Gen have high accuracy too.

According to the US CDC Updated Recommendation on the Lab Diagnosis of HIV infections, P24 antigens become detectable in the blood from 14 to 20 days post infection.

That is why some people say the Combo test is very accurate at D14.

What we do not know is the effect of PEP on the accuracy of said tests. There are theories that PEP can prolong the window period but this is yet to be proven.

[blacksocks]

protected or unprotected, its always best to go for a check. especially those with gf/wife. gonna be nasty passing it to them unknowingly.

[BoringLife88]

According to the US CDC Updated Recommendation on the Lab Diagnosis of HIV infections, P24 antigens become detectable in the blood from 14 to 20 days post infection.

That is why some people say the Combo test is very accurate at D14.

What we do not know is the effect of PEP on the accuracy of said tests. There are theories that PEP can prolong the window period but this is yet to be proven.

I am just hoping that truvada and isentress will be effective on me as well. There's nothing I can do now but hope for the best on 20th Aug which is day 29 of my PEP and I will be taking a test.

[BoringLife88]

protected or unprotected, its always best to go for a check. especially those with gf/wife. gonna be nasty passing it to them unknowingly.

I couldn't agree to you any further. Hopefully I can make it through this. This entire experience will make me a better person.

[blacksocks]

I couldn't agree to you any further. Hopefully I can make it through this. This entire experience will make me a better person.

life is a gamble. you make certain decisions, you live with the consequences.

but think of the possible aftermath. even with drugs available to extend your life, the stigma associated with it isn't gonna be any good. moreoever, companies prior to hiring you would need you to clear the body check up first; of which I heard tests for hiv amongst the usual battery of tests.

[jill88]

hey i know you guys going to flame me for being stupid. I was really in a bad mood and i went to my usual massage parlor to have a happy ending. Usually i will wear protection and i will always get the same girl. I always tease her saying i can i don't wear condom and she will always say no. But just yesterday, i offered her the same deal and she said yes to me. So yeah we did it.

She kept asking me questions like if i do health check up and stuff then she also keep checking on me to see if i have any disease on me like you know looking at my little bro to see if there's any shit on it. She also went on to clean it really well before we have an intercourse.

Frankly speaking i was hesitating at that moment on whether if i should do it but i was thinking she could be clean as well so yeah on a moment of folly i did it.

And now i fucking regret and i don't know what to do.

Can you guys help me out here?

I know i will be flame but being stupid and i god dam admit it i was dam dumb. If i come out of this safely i swear i will never go to this kind of place again.

you deserve it !!!
Use an axe to chop away your big head since it can't think properly.

[DoctorTan]

look at it this way.

Dr Tan is a well respected professional and expert in his field of work while AFA are made up of mostly volunteers workers, many whom wont be able to provide you the kind of professional advice that Dr Tan can offer. ;)

Thank you for that. There is also the reason that AFA gets funding and donations so they can subsidize their testing.

What is more important is finding someone who is trained and familiar with HIV testing to do the test for you.

Tell you a scary story. In my clinics, we have seen MANY cases of patients who got tested at other Anonymous HIV testing clinics (NOT AFA. I will not mention which clinics for ethical reasons). Because the doctor doing the test for them was inexperienced (likely a locum doctor), the doctor added too much blood and/or chase buffer causing the test to turn out FALSE POSITIVE. To make matters worse, they recommended the patients take ANOTHER COMBO TEST instead of sending blood for Western Blot like they should have. This costs the patients ANOTHER $150 when the Western Blot is FREE!! Of course the doctor then screwed up the second Combo test making appear false positive again!

These patients then come to see me literally shitting bricks and when we did the test for them, it was CLEARLY NEGATIVE.

So they wasted money and more importantly went through a period of extreme stress all because the doctor who did the HIV test for them did not know what he/she was doing.

In the past few weeks alone we already saw 3 of such cases from 2 different clinics. In the past years we have seen many many much more.

So please be cautious. When you go to an Anonymous HIV testing clinic, perhaps you want to ask the counter staff if the doctor in attendance is the regular doctor or a part-time locum doctor. Or you can ask them if the doctor in attendance is experienced in doing HIV tests. Or if you see the doctor fumbling around and not knowing what is where, you may want to query the results. Honestly, I don't know what is the best way to ensure the doctor is doing the test right.

As you can see this irks me quite a bit. It already takes a lot of courage for a patient to see a doctor for HIV testing. Doctors should be professional and responsible enough to do it right.

[francesco]

I couldn't agree to you any further. Hopefully I can make it through this. This entire experience will make me a better person.

all the best.

hopefully u dont feel invisible if u get thru this n
come here post another same regret after few months...

[sammyboyfor]

I couldn't agree to you any further. Hopefully I can make it through this. This entire experience will make me a better person.

No it won't. If all turns out well, all it will do is embolden you and very soon you'll be humping whores regularly without a care in the world. :p

[Aladeen]

chill bro, if im not wrong, those massage places require the masseuse to do regular checkup like geylang, so hiv risk might be lower, unless she also did raw regularly.

risks will always present even though u only have sex with ur gf, u wont know for sure if ur gf sleep ard or not.

[cucumber967]

Wish you all the best TS

[BoringLife88]

you deserve it !!!
Use an axe to chop away your big head since it can't think properly.

That's very nice of you. I hope you stay healthy throughout your entire life with no mistakes.

[BoringLife88]

No it won't. If all turns out well, all it will do is embolden you and very soon you'll be humping whores regularly without a care in the world. :p

Nah man I am really scared and I really feel I should be responsible to the people around me and I will really stop this nonsense haha.

[BoringLife88]

chill bro, if im not wrong, those massage places require the masseuse to do regular checkup like geylang, so hiv risk might be lower, unless she also did raw regularly.

risks will always present even though u only have sex with ur gf, u wont know for sure if ur gf sleep ard or not.

Hmm those masseuse looks more like illegal shop leh. You think they got go do health check up?

[BoringLife88]

Thank you for that. There is also the reason that AFA gets funding and donations so they can subsidize their testing.

What is more important is finding someone who is trained and familiar with HIV testing to do the test for you.

Tell you a scary story. In my clinics, we have seen MANY cases of patients who got tested at other Anonymous HIV testing clinics (NOT AFA. I will not mention which clinics for ethical reasons). Because the doctor doing the test for them was inexperienced (likely a locum doctor), the doctor added too much blood and/or chase buffer causing the test to turn out FALSE POSITIVE. To make matters worse, they recommended the patients take ANOTHER COMBO TEST instead of sending blood for Western Blot like they should have. This costs the patients ANOTHER $150 when the Western Blot is FREE!! Of course the doctor then screwed up the second Combo test making appear false positive again!

These patients then come to see me literally shitting bricks and when we did the test for them, it was CLEARLY NEGATIVE.

So they wasted money and more importantly went through a period of extreme stress all because the doctor who did the HIV test for them did not know what he/she was doing.

In the past few weeks alone we already saw 3 of such cases from 2 different clinics. In the past years we have seen many many much more.

So please be cautious. When you go to an Anonymous HIV testing clinic, perhaps you want to ask the counter staff if the doctor in attendance is the regular doctor or a part-time locum doctor. Or you can ask them if the doctor in attendance is experienced in doing HIV tests. Or if you see the doctor fumbling around and not knowing what is where, you may want to query the results. Honestly, I don't know what is the best way to ensure the doctor is doing the test right.

As you can see this irks me quite a bit. It already takes a lot of courage for a patient to see a doctor for HIV testing. Doctors should be professional and responsible enough to do it right.

Hi DoctorTan,

I totally understand what you are saying. Now I understand.

Anyway base on what is stated on this site: http://www.drtanandpartners.com/commercial-sex-in-singapore-hiv-stds-and-other-pitfalls/

It is said that these massage parlor girls have to go for health check up is that correct? Just like the one at Parklane in Doby Ghaut?

[peanut123]

Dang, that was exactly what happened to me, except for the "without a care in the world" part.


No it won't. If all turns out well, all it will do is embolden you and very soon you'll be humping whores regularly without a care in the world. :p

[blacksocks]

Hi DoctorTan,

I totally understand what you are saying. Now I understand.

Anyway base on what is stated on this site: http://www.drtanandpartners.com/commercial-sex-in-singapore-hiv-stds-and-other-pitfalls/

It is said that these massage parlor girls have to go for health check up is that correct? Just like the one at Parklane in Doby Ghaut?

logically speaking, i dont think they need to cos their business are registered as massage parlours. perhaps for the usual preemployment health checks. if they clear it, they can work. not sure if these checks include std and hiv? if they don't then...

for std hiv checks, i seriously doubt so unless they go for test themselves on a regular basis. would you as the employer offer to pay for the check for the staff knowing the business is registered as offering massage services only?

[BoringLife88]

logically speaking, i dont think they need to cos their business are registered as massage parlours. perhaps for the usual preemployment health checks. if they clear it, they can work. not sure if these checks include std and hiv? if they don't then...

for std hiv checks, i seriously doubt so unless they go for test themselves on a regular basis. would you as the employer offer to pay for the check for the staff knowing the business is registered as offering massage services only?

True. Geez

[BoringLife88]

I guess fear is catching up on me. I hope all will be good.

[Big Sexy]

mate, how do we know what's going on?
are there any other symptoms like lumps, redness, smelly??

anyway, go see a GP, there are many causes for itch to happen around the groin area
could be due to fungal infection, molluscum contagiosum, dry skin etc....

look like your month long wait is going to be a very long one for you..

I am experiencing very bad itch at my groin, testicles and anal area. Any idea what's going on?

As a matter of fact, I have jock itch issues and apparently it turned bad recently but I am not sure if they are link to any STD? I only have itch and nothing else. I am at Day 7 after exposure.

[sammyboyfor]

look like your month long wait is going to be a very long one for you..

At this rate he's not going to last till the month is out.

[DoctorTan]

Hi DoctorTan,

I totally understand what you are saying. Now I understand.

Anyway base on what is stated on this site: http://www.drtanandpartners.com/commercial-sex-in-singapore-hiv-stds-and-other-pitfalls/

It is said that these massage parlor girls have to go for health check up is that correct? Just like the one at Parklane in Doby Ghaut?

I do not know of the exact shop you are talking about. But if it is a licensed massage parlor then it has to conform to the following by law:

Fact: Massage parlours in Singapore have to apply for their license from the Singapore Police Force.

Fact 2: Masseuse undergo a check for HIV, Syphilis, Gonorrhea and Chlamydia when they renew their license which is usually every 6 months.

Honestly man, there is no point doing these mental athletics in your head trying to figure out your risks. Time and testing will answer all.

[BoringLife88]

I do not know of the exact shop you are talking about. But if it is a licensed massage parlor then it has to conform to the following by law:

Fact: Massage parlours in Singapore have to apply for their license from the Singapore Police Force.

Fact 2: Masseuse undergo a check for HIV, Syphilis, Gonorrhea and Chlamydia when they renew their license which is usually every 6 months.

Honestly man, there is no point doing these mental athletics in your head trying to figure out your risks. Time and testing will answer all.

I am currently on PEP will 4th Gen test work on 2nd week for me? Or do I have to take it after the course of PEP. And are the results conclusive.

[DoctorTan]

I am currently on PEP will 4th Gen test work on 2nd week for me? Or do I have to take it after the course of PEP. And are the results conclusive.

Read this:
http://drtanandpartners.com/when-to-test-for-hiv-during-and-after-completion-of-pep/

[Aladeen]

stress can cause rashes bro, stop thinking abt it and it shall cure.
GP usually just give u antihistamine or steroid which help u to sleep, but it wont cure the rash, ur body will cure it slowly

[comm]

Hey I know you guys going to flame me for being stupid. I was really in a bad mood and I went to my usual massage parlor to have a happy ending. Usually I will wear protection and I will always get the same girl. I always tease her saying I can I don't wear condom and she will always say no. But just yesterday, I offered her the same deal and she said yes to me. So yeah we did it.

She kept asking me questions like if I do health check up and stuff then she also keep checking on me to see if I have any disease on me like you know looking at my little bro to see if there's any shit on it. She also went on to clean it really well before we have an intercourse.

Frankly speaking I was hesitating at that moment on whether if I should do it but I was thinking she could be clean as well so yeah on a moment of folly I did it.

And now I fucking regret and I don't know what to do.

Can you guys help me out here?

I know I will be flame but being stupid and I god dam admit it I was dam dumb. If I come out of this safely I swear I will never go to this kind of place again.

pls let me know the location and name of the girl

i will perform a smell and lick to check if she has any hiv or std :D

unfortunately i cant offer the same test to you, so pls go DSC and check urself

[Dyson]

Hi Bro,

Don't stress yourself too much!!! Stress will cause your skin to flare up thus you feel itchy every part of your body, if u scratches it then
1)rashes pop up
2)pimple or acne (depend on type of skin)
3) ringworm(as you mention u have jocky itch issue that will spread due to hygiene).

So just relax, after all you on PEP medication high percentages of killing the virus and you won't know whether the girl is HIV positive.

If you really cant wait any further for the answer you may bring the girl to DR Tan clinic to be tested. As she not on any pep medication for her 28d result will be conclusive.

All the best

[jill88]

Hey I know you guys going to flame me for being stupid. I was really in a bad mood and I went to my usual massage parlor to have a happy ending. Usually I will wear protection and I will always get the same girl. I always tease her saying I can I don't wear condom and she will always say no. But just yesterday, I offered her the same deal and she said yes to me. So yeah we did it.

She kept asking me questions like if I do health check up and stuff then she also keep checking on me to see if I have any disease on me like you know looking at my little bro to see if there's any shit on it. She also went on to clean it really well before we have an intercourse.

Frankly speaking I was hesitating at that moment on whether if I should do it but I was thinking she could be clean as well so yeah on a moment of folly I did it.

And now I fucking regret and I don't know what to do.

Can you guys help me out here?

I know I will be flame but being stupid and I god dam admit it I was dam dumb. If I come out of this safely I swear I will never go to this kind of place again.

Any things else to patch up your story ??? Like watching Taiwan drama. Make it more exciting please !!!!

[doomday123]

Brother, had faith and no worries.

I had unprotected sex for so many times and nothing happen.

Count yourself lucky if you really get it.

[BoringLife88]

Brother, had faith and no worries.

I had unprotected sex for so many times and nothing happen.

Count yourself lucky if you really get it.

Yeah but mine is with a commercial worker man.... This pretty much is fucked up.

[sammyboyfor]

Yeah but mine is with a commercial worker man.... This pretty much is fucked up.

Why do you think the risk is higher? It could be lower.

[doomday123]

Yeah but mine is with a commercial worker man.... This pretty much is fucked up.

Me2.............................:D

I can tell you that I got a few cases of very likely STD cases reading the information from the net but it ended out with a negative result............................;)

Anyway, I had been currently very inactive in all this kind of activities liao.............................:)

[BoringLife88]

Lets hope for the best I guess!

[torrentman123]

Don't over-worry.
I had a major scare also.

Take care bro, I know the feeling of anxiety.

[BoringLife88]

Don't over-worry.
I had a major scare also.

Take care bro, I know the feeling of anxiety.

Hey how did you manage thee anxiety?

[jill88]

Hey how did you manage thee anxiety?

Buy 1 liter of Concentrated Sulphuric Acid, Soak your dip into the sulphuric acid for 1 hour. Balance you can drink it and you will be stress free !

[nightfold]

Me2.............................:D

I can tell you that I got a few cases of very likely STD cases reading the information from the net but it ended out with a negative result............................;)

Anyway, I had been currently very inactive in all this kind of activities liao.............................:)
Hi,

What are they very likely STD cases? Can u give some examples of them?

Thank u.

[nightfold]

Nah man I am really scared and I really feel I should be responsible to the people around me and I will really stop this nonsense haha.
Always be safe!

[doomday123]

Hi,

What are they very likely STD cases? Can u give some examples of them?

Thank u.

Can checked the forum here but I told you not really to worry too much as getting it is like striking Toto.

My friend who had unprotected sex got gonorrhea but also recovered liao. Now married with kids.

[nightfold]

Can checked the forum here but I told you not really to worry too much as getting it is like striking Toto.

My friend who had unprotected sex got gonorrhea but also recovered liao. Now married with kids.
There are still certain risks involved.

I read abt gonorrhea can be cured with antibiotics or injections. Wonder how long will it take to completely recover?

[km69]

Hi guys. About 2 weeks ago, I had unprotected sex.. (I know Im going to get flame and zap but small head take over control of my big head).. And recently, Im experiencing pain when peeing. Sharp pain and kind of burning near the penis tip. Im thinking of going for check up. Do polyclinics or govt hospital provide check up service? Or do I need to go to those sex clinics? Thanks.

[demonhunter]

Hi guys. About 2 weeks ago, I had unprotected sex.. (I know Im going to get flame and zap but small head take over control of my big head).. And recently, Im experiencing pain when peeing. Sharp pain and kind of burning near the penis tip. Im thinking of going for check up. Do polyclinics or govt hospital provide check up service? Or do I need to go to those sex clinics? Thanks.

Just apply Tiger Balm onto tip of dick ...

hope it helps .

:D

[sammyboyfor]

Hi guys. About 2 weeks ago, I had unprotected sex.. (I know Im going to get flame and zap but small head take over control of my big head).. And recently, Im experiencing pain when peeing. Sharp pain and kind of burning near the penis tip. Im thinking of going for check up. Do polyclinics or govt hospital provide check up service? Or do I need to go to those sex clinics? Thanks.

Call up a polyclinic or a government hospital and ask.

[jill88]

Just apply Tiger Balm onto tip of dick ...

hope it helps .

:D

Mopiko (无比膏) also can consider !

[jill88]

Hey I know you guys going to flame me for being stupid. I was really in a bad mood and I went to my usual massage parlor to have a happy ending. Usually I will wear protection and I will always get the same girl. I always tease her saying I can I don't wear condom and she will always say no. But just yesterday, I offered her the same deal and she said yes to me. So yeah we did it.

She kept asking me questions like if I do health check up and stuff then she also keep checking on me to see if I have any disease on me like you know looking at my little bro to see if there's any shit on it. She also went on to clean it really well before we have an intercourse.

Frankly speaking I was hesitating at that moment on whether if I should do it but I was thinking she could be clean as well so yeah on a moment of folly I did it.

And now I fucking regret and I don't know what to do.

Can you guys help me out here?

I know I will be flame but being stupid and I god dam admit it I was dam dumb. If I come out of this safely I swear I will never go to this kind of place again.

Hey fucker you still alive ?
Since when is your last time visit IMH.

[DoctorVChia]

Hi guys. About 2 weeks ago, I had unprotected sex.. (I know Im going to get flame and zap but small head take over control of my big head).. And recently, Im experiencing pain when peeing. Sharp pain and kind of burning near the penis tip. Im thinking of going for check up. Do polyclinics or govt hospital provide check up service? Or do I need to go to those sex clinics? Thanks.

Polyclinics generally do not offer "urethritis screening" for your symptoms. They will usually refer you to DSC. Polyclinics do have HIV, Hepatitis B and Syphilis testing.

Government hospital specialists (e.g. urologist or infectious disease specialist) can manage your case as well. Just get a referral to the doctor of your choice. Subsidized referral from polyclinic can be a long wait. Private referral is fast but expensive.;)

[baotohk]

Polyclinics generally do not offer "urethritis screening" for your symptoms. They will usually refer you to DSC. Polyclinics do have HIV, Hepatitis B and Syphilis testing.

Government hospital specialists (e.g. urologist or infectious disease specialist) can manage your case as well. Just get a referral to the doctor of your choice. Subsidized referral from polyclinic can be a long wait. Private referral is fast but expensive.;)

i wouldn't recommend subsidized referral from polyclinic. issue like this is better to get it sorted quickly.

[cumblaster]

TS, if your still reading this thread. Don't worry too much. It's like buying the lottery. Obviously if you keep buying, one day you can strike la, so best not to have unprotected sex with anyone unless both of you are tested and in a monogamous relationship.

Just to share, I had a condom break on me before while doing a thai FL from one of the stables here years ago. I didn't even realise until I came inside her and when I pulled out, I saw just the round ring of the condom around my penis.
Man I freaked out! (Similar like you). However, after 3 months, I took a blood test and came out negative.

Always remember, she needs to be infected with HIV first for you to get it. And unless she does anal raw, the odds of her having it is relatively low too.
Also, even if she was infected, it doesn't mean you will catch HIV too. The odds of that is also low.

So while yes, it was dumb to do her raw, rest easy, as you have about the same chance of striking TOTO the first time buying as you are catching HIV from this one time doing RAW.

I'm 99% sure your test would have come back negative even if you didn't take the PEP in the first place.

[Big Sexy]

same chance? i am not sure..

some statistics..
there are over 35mil people with HIV around the world today (on record) dont know how many not recorded...... and about 2.1 - 2.5 million new cases per year so that work out to about 6800 cases per day.

the point is one goes into raw sex with a FL, he is at risk.
and if he feel at risk.. then he should go for PEP..



as you have about the same chance of striking TOTO the first time buying as you are catching HIV from this one time doing RAW.

I'm 99% sure your test would have come back negative even if you didn't take the PEP in the first place.

[BoringLife88]

TS, if your still reading this thread. Don't worry too much. It's like buying the lottery. Obviously if you keep buying, one day you can strike la, so best not to have unprotected sex with anyone unless both of you are tested and in a monogamous relationship.

Just to share, I had a condom break on me before while doing a thai FL from one of the stables here years ago. I didn't even realise until I came inside her and when I pulled out, I saw just the round ring of the condom around my penis.
Man I freaked out! (Similar like you). However, after 3 months, I took a blood test and came out negative.

Always remember, she needs to be infected with HIV first for you to get it. And unless she does anal raw, the odds of her having it is relatively low too.
Also, even if she was infected, it doesn't mean you will catch HIV too. The odds of that is also low.

So while yes, it was dumb to do her raw, rest easy, as you have about the same chance of striking TOTO the first time buying as you are catching HIV from this one time doing RAW.

I'm 99% sure your test would have come back negative even if you didn't take the PEP in the first place.

Hi man,

I am still reading this thread. I am more worried about Herpes than HIV right now :( The odds seems rather high doesn't it?

[sammyboyfor]

Hi man,

I am still reading this thread. I am more worried about Herpes than HIV right now :( The odds seems rather high doesn't it?

I have no idea why you are worrying about a virus that is present in 85% of the the world's population.

Herpes does not kill you and in the vast majority of those who are infected, it causes no symptoms whatsoever and for the small number that do have symptoms, there is ready and effective treatment available.

What exactly are you worried about? Surely there is a far greater danger of being run over by a bus. Perhaps you should start worrying about that instead.

[Big Sexy]

u obviously do not know enough about the virus then.

Hi man,
I am more worried about Herpes than HIV right now :( The odds seems rather high doesn't it?

[TurtleSoup]

you are very daring. SALUTE.

ALWAYS have protected sex with FL!

[Big Sexy]

dare to be ignorant :D

you are very daring. SALUTE.

ALWAYS have protected sex with FL!

[BoringLife88]

dare to be ignorant :D

Yeah thats why I regretted and I felt stupid. I totally agree with all the flames.

[Big Sexy]

mate.. mine was done in good faith.... never intended to offend
but you were really paranoid. ;)

Yeah thats why I regretted and I felt stupid. I totally agree with all the flames.

[DoctorTan]

HIV Stats to add to Big Sexy's.

There are close to 40 million people in the world living with HIV right now.
About 25 million are in sub-saharan Africa.

Rate of new infections have dropped to about 1.6 million per year.

UNAIDS estimates that 50% of people infected with HIV in the world are undiagnosed.

Herpes.

Dude, seriously man, HSV is one of hundreds of different viruses and bacteria that live in us.

You don't think about the rest of them. Why are you so hung up on HSV?

[mrclen]

Do not know if the right place for this question but:

Since many of the WG's have Genital Herpes and if the male has it also, but neither has any outward signs. Does increased infection occur between these two people when they have regular sex? Unprotected of course. And assuming that they are both clean otherwise with no other STD's.

Strange question?

[email2jackie]

Bro.. I feel you. I had a bad encounter on 2nd sep with fl thai name alice frm pataya1baby. My condom broke and I ejaculated into her without knowing. I went to take pep the next day at dsc but stopped 5 days after the side effects really got worst.

Now I'm depressed and really regret my actions. Okt helped me by giving some info like she is relatively new angel in the stable, she came on 22nd aug and flew back on 5th sep. The fls usually don't do raw.

I have been losing sleep since that day and can't wait for the window period to do a proper test just to clear myself. I hope someone who has visited alice can help share if they face the same thing and are they cleared?

[sammyboyfor]

Do not know if the right place for this question but:

Since many of the WG's have Genital Herpes and if the male has it also, but neither has any outward signs. Does increased infection occur between these two people when they have regular sex? Unprotected of course. And assuming that they are both clean otherwise with no other STD's.

Strange question?

If both parties have Genital Herpes, I guess it won't make any difference if they have unprotected sex. You cannot catch something that you already have.

However, with HPV, there are many different strains... some are implicated in cancer while many are considered nothing more than an inconvenience. It is possible to catch new strains of HPV even if you already have the genital wart virus.

[IAmAwesome]

You cannot catch something that you already have

HPV seems quite common, its like a huge proportion of people have it

[Chiros]

UNAIDS estimates that 50% of people infected with HIV in the world are undiagnosed.


How come such a big proportion remain undiagnosed?

[blacksocks]

How come such a big proportion remain undiagnosed?

my guess is some have no access to the test. and some do not even know they have acquired it as symptoms shows up as regular cold and goes off after sometime.