How to make my Husband more horny

[Chocolatemilk]

My Husband not very interested into sex. How can I make him more horny/ want sex ?

[jagz11]

Tease him more!

[BaronMunchausen]

Tease him and initiate? :p

[Apple69]

maybe you can tell us what you always do when you want sex with him?

[VBalakisscunt]

TS it is good you asked ...... there are many experienced ladies here to teach you :)

[FatSpider]

go east coast park and do outdoor

[Chocolatemilk]

When I try to tease him he will say he tired or he doesn't Wan to continue ... I'm the one who always initiate but got rejected

[FreebiezWanker]

TS, ask him lie down close his eyes n relax. Then bj him till he says he nids to be inside u....

[Chocolatemilk]

I always start by touching him then sometime strip his pants so I can bj him .. Mostly touch half way or wanted to strip his pants he stop me already

[spluder101]

Wear a wet t-shirt and then wait for him to come home... Then hug him immediately....

Or

When he is talking to his mother, unzip his pants and start sucking on his dick...

[Weixiaoba0]

When he about to wake up... give hime a morning breakfast

[Big Sexy]

give us a clue how you look like :)

My Husband not very interested into sex. How can I make him more horny/ want sex ?

When I try to tease him he will say he tired or he doesn't Wan to continue ... I'm the one who always initiate but got rejected

[sky_liner2]

When he about to wake up... give hime a morning breakfast

and lots of CHOCOLATEMILK too.....sure no horse run.......

[VielSpass]

give us a clue how you look like :)
Could he be a closet gay?

[lasupkia]

Book a FL and give him a threesome. If he like that also not interested then either he is gay or impotent

[andy888]

Step 1, ask him to go shower.give him nothing but towel, tell him to wash his dick clean.

Step 2, he come out with his towel on, push him down on bed, do ur best bj.
By then he should be arouse. He will do the monster act.


Else, like what other bro here mention, do something exciting / out of the norm sex. Outdoor, toilet and car. Look at public sex thread for idea.


But i think sbf sis got more pattern to teach u ;)

[Johnbass]

Tiagong just jio your hubby to surf sbf...
(if he is not already lurking here)
:D

[MakeYouBark]

Tiagong just jio your hubby to surf sbf...
(if he is not already lurking here)
:D

TS could be your wife...
Now u know why she goes to SL...
1 more green hat for you...
:D


(awaiting this obedient dog to bark)

[Ahboy111]

You can always make up a story tell him that you have a male colleague at work always like to flirt with you...or maybe dress more sexily. See if he notices

[iPussy69]

Tiagong just jio your hubby to surf sbf...
(if he is not already lurking here)
:D

No wonder your wife is feeling lonely...
All your time you spend surfing sbf while your wife jiak outside...
:D

[JohnWuSeh]

TS i have no idea about your husband but Johnbass is horny. IT is so horny IT is posting in every thread.

[BrandonP]

Touch yourself. Sit in the couch and run your hand through your trousers or skirt :) he will get crazy

Txt him some sexy pictures. If you need more tips pm

[JohnWuSeh]

No wonder your wife is feeling lonely...
All your time you spend surfing sbf while your wife jiak outside...
:D

I suspect IT is having a long distant relationship with IT's wife.

[JamieCarragher]

Interesting topic and thread.

[ah rat]

Ts,with so many ppls ideas to make yr husband more horny.If still can't make him more horny.I think time to change a new husband :D

[Chocolatemilk]

Thanks for all the tips ! My hubby just ended work let me try. Some method mention I can't try as we stay tgt with his parent.

[BaronMunchausen]

Or find others to fill the void.. :p

[AgentSmith]

My Husband not very interested into sex. How can I make him more horny/ want sex ?

Make him more horny about you or .......?

Maybe he is already very horny but not on you ?

Ponder Ponder.

[trying8244]

softswing might help. get another guy or lady to join in.

[Geordie]

TS why do u want to make your hubby more Horny. Don't u think it is the other way around?

[Picard]

Geordie, I agree. Why does TS wants him to be Hornier. Leave that guy if he is a dead fish. There are more fishes in the ocean.

[VigoCarpathian]

Geordie, I agree. Why does TS wants him to be Hornier. Leave that guy if he is a dead fish. There are more fishes in the ocean.

Very well said

[Rickey]

Geordie, I agree. Why does TS wants him to be Hornier. Leave that guy if he is a dead fish. There are more fishes in the ocean.
cos he is her husband mah, cannot just discard yr husband or wife just lidat...must try & make an attempt to arouse him or her 1st mah ;)..if after all else fails, your conscience is clear, then...

[maxman]

My Husband not very interested into sex. How can I make him more horny/ want sex ?

When I try to tease him he will say he tired or he doesn't Wan to continue ... I'm the one who always initiate but got rejected

Lets assume that he is still physically attracted to you?

Has he been coming home later? Perhaps he is really tired at work? Is he given more tasks or projects at work? Ask him. Hopefully he is not tired by doing something else? Many people don't realise that after signing that marriage "contract", responsibilities in life gradually pile up especially with social norms still persisting that men should earn more than women, provide for the family and kids, and provide a secure future in an increasingly uncertain world.

I always start by touching him then sometime strip his pants so I can bj him .. Mostly touch half way or wanted to strip his pants he stop me already

Most men would not reject a blowjob or sex. Even in a comfortable position, say, lying down, if he stops you before you can strip him or put his penis into your mouth/vagina, I think there may be some other reasons. I suggest you try to take a bath/shower with him. Try having a look at his penis.

I'm not trying to scare you, look for signs of STDs.

[weihc]

1. either he is having sex elsewhere with someone else

2. closet gay

3. having ed

[porscheclub]

Dear TS, sounds like your hubby could be having an affair outside.

If you can please share more info. How long is the relationship, if there's kids & when did he become cold? Is there any suspicious behaviour on his hp?

A sexual relationship usually stales after 3-5yrs from the beginning so it takes more than just our suggestions to solve it.

[diputs1269]

Sis have a MMF, let yr husband watch first. Sure can make him horny when he watch live show. l don't mind to sacrifice for the sake for yourhhappiness.

[otacon]

TS, sometimes is not abt how good r u in bed, sometimes is how good u treat him on daily basis. If u dun respect him in front of family n friend, at nite go hm how to stand?

But i also know someone who does not touch his wife since she pregnant. Now more than 10 years never had sex liao. So in the end, the wife found someone who treats her nicer n gave her fantastic sex

[maxman]

Dear TS, sounds like your hubby could be having an affair outside.

If you can please share more info. How long is the relationship, if there's kids & when did he become cold? Is there any suspicious behaviour on his hp?

A sexual relationship usually stales after 3-5yrs from the beginning so it takes more than just our suggestions to solve it.

Your point is valid. In my previous post, I was hinting an affair or worse (STDs).

Actually, the "chemistry" felt in a relationship is proven by science. Early in a relationship, our bodies are flooded with a true measurable chemical high that makes us feel excited and even lustful. Unfortunately, this measurable high also means science is also able to prove it subsides as quickly as 12 months although many say it subsides by 24 months.

In other words, after the chemical high that brought all the airy-fairy romance, you could wake up one day and question yourself why are you sleeping beside this man or woman, whether you want to continue living life with him or her, and if he or she is the right person.

[wet10wet]

bring a girlfriend

[Edls0nChen]

Hey TS,

both of you been thru the HIGHs..now the real test of a relationship is the LOWs...

certainly hope your hubby will return home after snacking outside.. :o
dun do anything rash to push your hubby away from you ( if he's really eating out )

I can only say treasure and cherish!
dont regret when it's TOO late :)

peace out!

[Toyoma]

When I try to tease him he will say he tired or he doesn't Wan to continue ... I'm the one who always initiate but got rejected

Your husband should feel fortunate to have you initate for sex. I am hoping my wife will do that to me but she alway wanted me to initiate it. Feel the fun is not there.

I feel some of the brothers is right, Better check his private area as he may have contracted some virus and dare not let you know.

[Chocolatemilk]

Dear all! Yesterday night I tried to touch him again and talk dirty and bj him and we had a Long talk ! Finally discover that he is having a hard time in office now.

How should I make him more relax at home ?

[DeannaTroi]

Dear TS

Your Husband is loathsome!

[otacon]

I think at some point of marriage, everyone sure to hit a low period when SO refuses sex?

[DeannaTroi]

TS it is good you asked ...... there are many experienced ladies here to teach you :)

Are u one of them ?

[WertyQ]

Make yourself more sexually attractive - if he likes a wild thing, dress wild and sexily, if he likes a demure chick, get a school uniform. ; P

Get yourself in shape. Don't mean to sound mean, but if you are out of shape or don't bother to maintain yourself, it can be quite a turn-off.

If you have already done both and he's still disinterested, It could be your "attitude" towards him outside of the bedroom (read disrespect him). Or maybe he's feeding himself outside.

If all else fail, PM me. ; P

[TashaYar]

My six sense says go on a holiday to spice up your life.

[maxman]

Dear all! Yesterday night I tried to touch him again and talk dirty and bj him and we had a Long talk ! Finally discover that he is having a hard time in office now.

How should I make him more relax at home ?

As I have written earlier, it could be work related stress, and thankfully it is, and not cheating that resulted in STDs. However, the work is probably very bad that he even refuses sex. Is he overworked, doing something beyond his qualifications or knowledge, or about to be fired?

Take some of the weight off his shoulders. You can't do his work but you could help him by taking care of personal or household matters (bills, mail, laundry, etc) that he usually does himself for the family.

Then hope the situation eventually improves for him.

[xiaoqiang274]

BJ him when he is asleep.

[goddamm]

Work related stress is simple, just give him a good massage when he comes home, don't shout at him, let him pour out his problems, tell him it will all work out , and tell him you want it.

Also, because you initiated it, be sure to work with him for your orgasm and don't just expect him to give you one, he came back from work, so expect that he will be tired.

[VBalakisscunt]

Are u one of them ?

No, I'm just a useless Minister who suck the citizens dry by drawing millions of dollars every year, and I haven't include the bonus :D

[TashaYar]

suck who dry ? are u not the waterboy?

[JChoo]

Dear all! Yesterday night I tried to touch him again and talk dirty and bj him and we had a Long talk ! Finally discover that he is having a hard time in office now.

How should I make him more relax at home ?

ask him to change job and help him search for a new job. There is no need for him to feel terrible about himself because of his work. If he is prepared to work hard, take initiative and be willing to go the extra mile in his work, there will be opportunities for him to shine in the work place.

You are a good wife who tries to make him happy. At least, half a battle is won.

You can share with us what line is your husband working in and what level is his work eg. Executive, Manager, Director, President, etc..

[elvenskin]

how old is your hubby...you should spice up the sex drive...wearing sexy or engage dirty conversations with him...send him a sexy photo of u when he is at work..

[outtowatch]

Ask him to take oyster supplement it will help him relax but will also make him hard

[xiaocheng]

Sister, you can try to record a teasing and sexy movement video and store in the mobile and send to him secretly when he is in the office or in the toilet if he bring his phone.

[clinton]

Thanks for all the tips ! My hubby just ended work let me try. Some method mention I can't try as we stay tgt with his parent.

ts dont give him too much financial burden, and support him during the hard period, you will be reward later...

try to arrange a holiday with him

or try to ask him to change the damp job ...

[Chocolatemilk]

ok i arranging a short trip next weekend for him.. a surprise ! hopefully all goes well :o

[kunap]

Easy way out, get a replacement. Make steamy love with the replacement. Ignore you husband, reject him when he wants you. Then he will know what it's like to be ignored. He will later on want you like mad

[newswing]

I agree with some of the comments. Not happy with work, not enough money, not attractive enough. Sometimes men could be a lil dumb like me. So same with women, exercise,
( start with swimming or if u could afford, dancing ) eat right with royal jelly. Last resort, tie him up and watch hardcore porn , make him wear ur underwear and give him oral sex whenever u feel like!

[roomer11]

let him watch you do it with someone else ?

[Cottoncandy93]

I have the same problem as you. We haven't had sex for almost a month plus cause he is busy working Singapore/overseas. Working hours isn't fixed as well and super busy month for events. He told me he was tired and doesn't have the mood. Bj him till he fell asleep. My god. We are not married yet... Next time if we happen to be married... Jialat sia

[freezetheDB]

just tell him to relax and dont stress...
give him a bbbj and tell him he can cum in your mouth if he likes...

it will be very relaxing and enticing for him

[Wooded]

just tell him to relax and dont stress...
give him a bbbj and tell him he can cum in your mouth if he likes...

it will be very relaxing and enticing for him

This seems like a good idea

[fisherst]

Get n wear some sexy lingerie, like see through dress w stockings.
Then start tease/seduce him w a slutty pose n then bj.

[Chocolatemilk]

Read through some of the post, been advice to workout doll up etc, but I'm not fat. Will try the staycation method and observe again.

[sammyboyfor]

just tell him to relax and dont stress...
give him a bbbj and tell him he can cum in your mouth if he likes...


That sounds like a pretty awful thing to do to a woman especially when the person is supposed to be a loved one. :eek:

Porn stars have to be paid big bucks to put up with that sort of shit.

[heartlock]

Dun tease him,just wear Sexy wallk pass him n attract.u must know wat he like to see,Cosplay,mini...
Sometimes can be due to low urges n tried.
Ask him go some good Thai massage if he like, not panky type.
Poor circulation cause slow respones,so u just need him to br excited.

[DemonicSS]

Hi TS,

I think the only thing you need to do is to re-establish the mental closeness that you have with him again. Trying to go for trips and dressing sexy is in my opinion trying to bet on unfounded speculation about your hubby. If he can actually fall asleep while you blowing him, do you really think that giving him a seductive show like stripping or sexy lingerie will do the trick?

You talked to your man and he said that he was having a tough time at work, that is a step in the right direction.

Now ask him what his current sexual priority is, and how far back it is on his "to do" list. Tell him of your needs but reassuring him that you are not demanding him of anything - Everyone's fuses are very short when under high stress. Give him several options to think about and choose. In this case he says its due to work stress, then perhaps consider giving him the option that you are willing to support him should he loses his job or that he can chose to leave his work if he is unhappy and you will support him. Good luck

[maxman]

Hi TS,

I think the only thing you need to do is to re-establish the mental closeness that you have with him again. Trying to go for trips and dressing sexy is in my opinion trying to bet on unfounded speculation about your hubby. If he can actually fall asleep while you blowing him, do you really think that giving him a seductive show like stripping or sexy lingerie will do the trick?

You talked to your man and he said that he was having a tough time at work, that is a step in the right direction.

Now ask him what his current sexual priority is, and how far back it is on his "to do" list. Tell him of your needs but reassuring him that you are not demanding him of anything.... In this case he says its due to work stress, then perhaps consider giving him the option that you are willing to support him should he loses his job or that he can chose to leave his work if he is unhappy and you will support him. Good luck

When a person is sick, he/she really needs to have a correct diagnosis and receive the correct medication.

This is so far the most appropriate "medication" to the problem (work stress) as revealed by the husband. Kudos to you!!!

I also agree that the wife should maintain communication with him, ask him if sex is currently high on his priority list. If not high on his priority, the problem at work is probably very worrying to him. I agree she should support him if his job is on the line (possibility of being demoted or fired), and avoid wasting his (or their) money in case it happens.

Suggestions that the wife do sexy dressing, dancing, or a couple's getaway (even if he can apply for leave) is surely not going to solve his work-related problems, and not going to improve his mood for sex. Next morning, he wakes up and still has the crap at work to mop up and his boss to face.