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vichyelle
18-11-2016, 09:20 PM
Hi guys
I'm a Singaporean Chinese in my late 20s, and single by choice. Very busy with work. Been single for a while and not keen on anything serious. But I find myself craving for good company, intimacy and of course, sex.
I cannot enjoy sex unless it's with someone whom I really like and feel some attraction to. Physical attributes are one thing but I think chemistry is more important.
I've had some pretty lousy sex with attractive people, unfortunately. The most amazing sex I've had are with people who aren't that attractive physically, but whom I had a good connection with.
I am slim, attractive and have a thing for lacy sexy lingerie. I consider myself a decent conversationalist and a great dresser.
I'm looking for a local guy aged between 25- 35, in good physical shape, above average looking, well groomed and very hygienic. Bonus points if you use cologne and smell awesome. Prefer local Chinese. (Personal preference, no offense to other bros.)
I expect to be spoiled with nice dates, gifts and spa treats etc. I can't get into the mood without the niceties.
High maintenance? Definitely.
If you are the kind who just wants to show up for "free sex", fuck and go off, don't even bother.
If you're obviously overweight, acne ridden, sweaty/ greasy, please don't waste your time and mine.
I know what I have to offer, if you have nothing to offer except your penis, I'm not interested.
You MUST be single, or at the very least NOT MARRIED. (I don't want angry wife drama pls!)
I also prefer guys who drive. Luxury car not expected but will be appreciated. ;)
Basically, in a nutshell I'm looking for a sweet and cute boyfriend to treat me like a goddess and fuck me well, without the emotional attachment. Just the good stuff- hang out, nice dates, great meals, hot sex.
Sounds awesome to you? It certainly does to me!
This is probably a long shot but let's see what happens.
Email only please. I don't log in here much. A pic isn't compulsory but would be nice. A selfie would be great.
(Pls don't send me a dick pic, I don't wanna see your dick, thanks.)
Lazy one-liners without a decent self intro will be deleted right away, no exceptions.
Vichleong (at) gmail.com
TempLust
19-11-2016, 01:46 PM
You're a rarity here and a real breath of fresh air.
All the best to your search, you deserve what you looking for. Pity that don't qualify.
Apollo
19-11-2016, 07:31 PM
ts good luck, and have fun ... and bring all your single sisters here :D
tomatosauce
19-11-2016, 09:34 PM
maybe some photo will help
echorny
19-11-2016, 10:22 PM
Holiday? Celebrate?
wittyman
19-11-2016, 10:56 PM
Holiday? Celebrate?
more like school holiday :p
MTFanatic
20-11-2016, 07:01 PM
FWB? FWB my ass lah, wan sugar daddy say lah
vichyelle
20-11-2016, 07:12 PM
FWB? FWB my ass lah, wan sugar daddy say lah
Did I ask for any monetary compensation?
Not sure how you define "sugar daddy", but I did not mention the word "sugar daddy" or "sugar baby" anywhere. Don't anyhow jump to conclusions or accuse me for no reason.
I know this forum is full of angry bitter men like you, can't get laid so come into threads to attack people to provoke a reaction. Lol. Lame.
vichyelle
20-11-2016, 07:21 PM
You're a rarity here and a real breath of fresh air.
All the best to your search, you deserve what you looking for. Pity that don't qualify.
Thank you Bro. :)
damn, did not fit the age criteria :(
masterwanker
20-11-2016, 08:35 PM
Too bad I don't qualify . :o
69doggie
21-11-2016, 12:20 AM
FWB? FWB my ass lah, wan sugar daddy say lah
Hhaha more like sugar daddy i agree
Cuntworth
21-11-2016, 06:34 AM
Got pic to show???:D
jabwemet
21-11-2016, 09:27 AM
Good morning! Interest piqued!:)
reading
21-11-2016, 10:48 AM
Too bad I don't qualify . :o
bro you should feel lucky you r not qualified :D
altec7
21-11-2016, 01:14 PM
bro you should feel lucky you r not qualified :D
It's always a matter of perspective, isn't it? :p
acedreamer
21-11-2016, 01:24 PM
Haha, who has met up with ts thus far?
NoMoneyNoHunny
21-11-2016, 03:04 PM
lesson learned
do not share nor trade with anyone here in this forum as you will still get zap by kids here. immature dudes so not appreciate what u share/trade fwb/fb/FLs ctc.
they only knw how to make your point in negative!!
sorry ppl those eho pm me i not gonna share liao. thanks to some high pts kids here.
jabwemet
22-11-2016, 10:24 AM
lesson learned
do not share nor trade with anyone here in this forum as you will still get zap by kids here. immature dudes so not appreciate what u share/trade fwb/fb/FLs ctc.
they only knw how to make your point in negative!!
sorry ppl those eho pm me i not gonna share liao. thanks to some high pts kids here.
Share what?
Jebuschris91
22-11-2016, 01:14 PM
Irony. You mention you are expected to be treated with nice dates, spa treats etc and then you flew into a rage pretending that you are not asking for monetary compensation when nice dates and spa treats which you are asking for is equivalent.
Bro, chill, she did mention she was high maintenance, she's actually a really nice person. If she already put a disclaimer then there's no need to flame her.
Some girls view monetary compensation differently as do others as seen in your case.
To me I feel the same, if the girl and you click, the sex is great and she's bothering to give you her time and company then I guess the least a guy can do is show some appreciation.
And we all give differently, there's a love language test somewhere online it tells you what sort of lover you are. Should try, fun to do.
Jebuschris91
22-11-2016, 01:16 PM
lesson learned
do not share nor trade with anyone here in this forum as you will still get zap by kids here. immature dudes so not appreciate what u share/trade fwb/fb/FLs ctc.
they only knw how to make your point in negative!!
sorry ppl those eho pm me i not gonna share liao. thanks to some high pts kids here.
Bro, chill, there are always good and bad people on forums, I was really stupid when I first joined here years ago and got zapped till negative 40, I changed and worked my way up.
Don't lose hope, anyway I also up you free 10 points, don't sad!
vichyelle
22-11-2016, 04:16 PM
Irony. You mention you are expected to be treated with nice dates, spa treats etc and then you flew into a rage pretending that you are not asking for monetary compensation when nice dates and spa treats which you are asking for is equivalent.
You mean to say I cannot have ANY expectations at all? Lol. All I am saying is I expect to be taken out for nice dates in a NSA FWB relationship, and you equate that to asking for money???? :confused:
So, let me ask you... Can your boss pay you with nice dates and spa treats ah? Its equivalent ma, correct? LOL.
I merely defended myself against a baseless accusation, and you call that "flew into a rage". Lol. Okay lor.
besafe
22-11-2016, 05:08 PM
Spunky lady. Unfortunately I am too old for you. :)
iwc282
22-11-2016, 05:11 PM
You mean to say I cannot have ANY expectations at all? Lol. All I am saying is I expect to be taken out for nice dates in a NSA FWB relationship, and you equate that to asking for money???? :confused:
So, let me ask you... Can your boss pay you with nice dates and spa treats ah? Its equivalent ma, correct? LOL.
I merely defended myself against a baseless accusation, and you call that "flew into a rage". Lol. Okay lor.
I think u definitely have ur rights to expect and i dun see anything wrong with it.
In fact, given ur stats ( i take ur words for it, haha) plus its NSA (this is really what u called FwB), i seriously think its a rare find.
But of course i aint applying ;)
Good luck to the right guy
reading
22-11-2016, 08:01 PM
You mean to say I cannot have ANY expectations at all? Lol. All I am saying is I expect to be taken out for nice dates in a NSA FWB relationship, and you equate that to asking for money???? :confused:
So, let me ask you... Can your boss pay you with nice dates and spa treats ah? Its equivalent ma, correct? LOL.
I merely defended myself against a baseless accusation, and you call that "flew into a rage". Lol. Okay lor.
sis you have every rights to ask anything here, and others can also share their view here. it is open forum, and everyone get what they need here if can :p
have fun and play hard :D
TempLust
22-11-2016, 08:44 PM
Don't understand the hooha. Just take this as dating a materialistic high maintenance gf with the below benefits.
1. Zero emotional investment required.
2. No awkwardness of payment in cash like some transactions. Everything is payment in kind.
3. You get to enjoy and pamper yourself on these expensive dates as well.
4. Unlike a gf, you are guaranteed to get your fuck.
5. No need to go through the whole nonsense of a break up when you've had enough.
How is that a bad thing ?
Sen5eS
23-11-2016, 10:52 AM
High Emotional Maintenance ... this is something $ cannot buy ;)
Sounds interesting though :D
reading
23-11-2016, 11:01 AM
Spunky lady. Unfortunately I am too old for you. :)
bro if you are also rich, you may have higher change to hit jackpot :D
Terryboiboi
23-11-2016, 11:26 AM
All the best to lucky guy. hehe:D
4Dguru
23-11-2016, 04:15 PM
Next up - hairy_abalone.
Min 3 pts to exchange
showhair
23-11-2016, 04:36 PM
I don't care I just want free sex.
reading
23-11-2016, 05:24 PM
Next up - hairy_abalone.
Min 3 pts to exchange
thanks bro :D
iceage
23-11-2016, 10:17 PM
Too bad I don't qualify . :o
Maybe it is lucky that u don't qualify. For those who are too eager to send your photos and details, just beware.
cupid
23-11-2016, 11:34 PM
High Emotional Maintenance ... this is something $ cannot buy ;)
Sounds interesting though :D
yes, and the guy needs to have higher EQ and deeper pocket :D
randyrockhard
24-11-2016, 12:27 AM
I am a bit confused here... please enlighten me
Aren't the things that the TS looking for, is really what a girlfriend would properly expect in their real life?
....and to think that some girl would actually want all those and only name it Friends with Benefits is beyond my comprehension ... ;)
Why would any woman in their right mind, not wanting a proper status to the things she claims to have desired??
Or kids nowadays simply have changed ? hahaha
Good luck in finding those things that you (not really) wanted ~!!
xiaohanhan
24-11-2016, 02:41 AM
I am a bit confused here... please enlighten me
Aren't the things that the TS looking for, is really what a girlfriend would properly expect in their real life?
....and to think that some girl would actually want all those and only name it Friends with Benefits is beyond my comprehension ... ;)
Why would any woman in their right mind, not wanting a proper status to the things she claims to have desired??
Or kids nowadays simply have changed ? hahaha
Good luck in finding those things that you (not really) wanted ~!!
I'm confused too. Firstly she said those unattractive ones were the ones that gave her good sex, but she's looking for above average looking guy, slim etc...
Next she said she's looking for a cute BF who will fuck her well and not emotionally attached.. so FWB doesn't really applies here in my opinion... =.="
So what she wants? Good luck to the guy who successfully got hitched/selected :)
Brogary
24-11-2016, 04:13 AM
hahaha this is a pretty interesting thread. Bumpz for TS
reading
24-11-2016, 10:10 AM
So what she wants?
She want sex and $$$ :D
vichyelle
24-11-2016, 10:41 AM
I am a bit confused here... please enlighten me
Aren't the things that the TS looking for, is really what a girlfriend would properly expect in their real life?
....and to think that some girl would actually want all those and only name it Friends with Benefits is beyond my comprehension ... ;)
Why would any woman in their right mind, not wanting a proper status to the things she claims to have desired??
Or kids nowadays simply have changed ? hahaha
Good luck in finding those things that you (not really) wanted ~!!
What exactly is confusing to you? I am looking for FWB, something like a relationship but without any emotional attachment / commitment. As mentioned I am very busy and have no time for a relationship.
It's not strange when men look for FWB, but when a lady does, it's suddenly so confusing?? Lol
vichyelle
24-11-2016, 11:09 AM
I'm confused too. Firstly she said those unattractive ones were the ones that gave her good sex, but she's looking for above average looking guy, slim etc...
Next she said she's looking for a cute BF who will fuck her well and not emotionally attached.. so FWB doesn't really applies here in my opinion... =.="
So what she wants? Good luck to the guy who successfully got hitched/selected :)
Bro, I already stated my requirements very clearly and yet you are confused? How much more specific do you want me to be?
Read carefully before you comment. I never said "unattractive". I said the best sex I had were with people who were not that attractive physically but had good connection and chemistry with. Not that attractive physically, does not mean UNattractive.
I am looking for FWB, because I am super busy and have no time for a relationship. Men look for FWB all the time and somehow its never confusing, but when a lady looks for FWB, suddenly its so confusing and everyone has so many queries, can pass so much judgment and make so many speculations. LOL.
vichyelle
24-11-2016, 11:32 AM
I am super busy now and have no time to reply all the emails. Probably received about 60-70 emails so far? Some guys must think they are the only one applying! No proper intro and/ or no pic, your email will go straight into the trash. Surely you can understand that I will need to be extremely selective about this, I only have time for ONE FWB. And I cant possibly meet every guy who's interested. I will only be able to meet a handful and make my selection from there.
I also stated to email me, and yet I received so many PMs here. I intentionally placed my email address at the end of my post. If you cant even be bothered to take that 2 mins to read my post in its entirety, then I seriously doubt your sincerity.
Anyhow, I am seriously turned off by all the negativity and drama here. Will probably not be replying any more emails.
Seems like the only way a girl wont get attacked in this forum, is to happily offer everything and expect absolutely nothing. To that, I can only say DREAM ON. :)
Like I said, its a really long shot trying to meet someone here who can meet my criteria.
vichyelle
24-11-2016, 11:33 AM
Don't understand the hooha. Just take this as dating a materialistic high maintenance gf with the below benefits.
1. Zero emotional investment required.
2. No awkwardness of payment in cash like some transactions. Everything is payment in kind.
3. You get to enjoy and pamper yourself on these expensive dates as well.
4. Unlike a gf, you are guaranteed to get your fuck.
5. No need to go through the whole nonsense of a break up when you've had enough.
How is that a bad thing ?
Exactly Bro. Want to find a FWB also ani kangkor!!
yangyang77
24-11-2016, 11:37 AM
TS relax la. Don't be so worked up or angry. No point. Just chill and sakt for the right guy to inbox you. You never know who, when or where ;)
purepulp
24-11-2016, 01:03 PM
Hi guys
I'm a Singaporean Chinese in my late 20s, and single by choice. Very busy with work. Been single for a while and not keen on anything serious. But I find myself craving for good company, intimacy and of course, sex.
I cannot enjoy sex unless it's with someone whom I really like and feel some attraction to. Physical attributes are one thing but I think chemistry is more important.
I've had some pretty lousy sex with attractive people, unfortunately. The most amazing sex I've had are with people who aren't that attractive physically, but whom I had a good connection with.
I am slim, attractive and have a thing for lacy sexy lingerie. I consider myself a decent conversationalist and a great dresser.
I'm looking for a local guy aged between 25- 35, in good physical shape, above average looking, well groomed and very hygienic. Bonus points if you use cologne and smell awesome. Prefer local Chinese. (Personal preference, no offense to other bros.)
I expect to be spoiled with nice dates, gifts and spa treats etc. I can't get into the mood without the niceties.
High maintenance? Definitely.
If you are the kind who just wants to show up for "free sex", fuck and go off, don't even bother.
If you're obviously overweight, acne ridden, sweaty/ greasy, please don't waste your time and mine.
I know what I have to offer, if you have nothing to offer except your penis, I'm not interested.
You MUST be single, or at the very least NOT MARRIED. (I don't want angry wife drama pls!)
I also prefer guys who drive. Luxury car not expected but will be appreciated. ;)
Basically, in a nutshell I'm looking for a sweet and cute boyfriend to treat me like a goddess and fuck me well, without the emotional attachment. Just the good stuff- hang out, nice dates, great meals, hot sex.
Sounds awesome to you? It certainly does to me!
This is probably a long shot but let's see what happens.
Email only please. I don't log in here much. A pic isn't compulsory but would be nice. A selfie would be great.
(Pls don't send me a dick pic, I don't wanna see your dick, thanks.)
Lazy one-liners without a decent self intro will be deleted right away, no exceptions.
Vichleong (at) gmail.com
I'm actually surprised that someone in her late 20s have not seen enough of society and is still behaving like a self-entitled teenager.
If she is the goddess that she believes she is then shouldn't guys be swarming at her feet and willing to succumb to her every need, desire and wants? And if the guy is good looking, well groomed, financially stable etc then he won't have no problems finding a lay.
The other thing is this. She's carefully outlined everything she expects (demands) but forgot to say what the selected candidate can expect. For that list of requests, I certainly would expect her to do a half pike, triple somersault and two backflips with my dick in her ass.
But, I appreciate her confidence. Not many women these days have such positive self esteem. Then again not many local man can deal with confident, opinionated women too.
Good luck
Sen5eS
24-11-2016, 01:49 PM
I'm actually surprised that someone in her late 20s have not seen enough of society and is still behaving like a self-entitled teenager.
If she is the goddess that she believes she is then shouldn't guys be swarming at her feet and willing to succumb to her every need, desire and wants? And if the guy is good looking, well groomed, financially stable etc then he won't have no problems finding a lay.
The other thing is this. She's carefully outlined everything she expects (demands) but forgot to say what the selected candidate can expect. For that list of requests, I certainly would expect her to do a half pike, triple somersault and two backflips with my dick in her ass.
But, I appreciate her confidence. Not many women these days have such positive self esteem. Then again not many local man can deal with confident, opinionated women too.
Good luck
hahaha for suggesting a stunt like a 1/2 pike / 3x somersault / 2 backflips alone is amazing ... & being able to land with her ass on your dick ... Hats off to her if she can do it :D
Well ... at least she knows what she wants and confident that she has what it takes ... it's also a long shot but more probable than your suggested stunt :p
purepulp
24-11-2016, 02:54 PM
hahaha for suggesting a stunt like a 1/2 pike / 3x somersault / 2 backflips alone is amazing ... & being able to land with her ass on your dick ... Hats off to her if she can do it :D
Well ... at least she knows what she wants and confident that she has what it takes ... it's also a long shot but more probable than your suggested stunt :p
Actually I think you might have misread. I don't mean landing her ass on my dick. I meant doing all that with my dick in her ass. :D But if you're interested, try getting your hands on the original copy of Kamasutra, not those edited, simplified ones, I'm sure there will be step by step instructions in there. Otherwise just Google. You can find everything on the Internet… :p
I think that the first post serves to act as a marketing tool to attract applicants. The fundamental mistake is that nothing in there markets her to would be applicants. Instead it lists all her expectations, making her look like a demanding prima donna, thus the negativity. Well at least she is savvy enough to know that it'll be a long shot… Theres some hope yet…
vichyelle
24-11-2016, 04:15 PM
I'm actually surprised that someone in her late 20s have not seen enough of society and is still behaving like a self-entitled teenager.
If she is the goddess that she believes she is then shouldn't guys be swarming at her feet and willing to succumb to her every need, desire and wants? And if the guy is good looking, well groomed, financially stable etc then he won't have no problems finding a lay.
The other thing is this. She's carefully outlined everything she expects (demands) but forgot to say what the selected candidate can expect. For that list of requests, I certainly would expect her to do a half pike, triple somersault and two backflips with my dick in her ass.
But, I appreciate her confidence. Not many women these days have such positive self esteem. Then again not many local man can deal with confident, opinionated women too.
Good luck
You sure have a great sense of humor. All I asked for is a decent looking man who can take me out on nice dates and have a FWB type relationship with, and you expect me to do circus stunts with your dick in my ass. Do you expect that of all your partners as well?
Only misogynistic men who secretly despise women talk like that, I truly feel sorry for whoever your partner may be (assuming you even have one).
You seemed to have missed out on the part when I mentioned I am very busy with work. I dont have time to date.
If having some standards is called "behaving like an entitled teenager", needless to say, all the women you dated clearly have really low standards.
I did not request that the man must have a certain height/ weight. certain job or certain education level, nor did I insist that he must drive a certain type of car. I definitely dont think I am asking for too much. In fact I had even mentioned that ultimately chemistry is more important than outer appearance.
Whether I am worth it or not, its up to the guys who meet me to decide. I posted this thread to look for a high quality mate who can satisfy me in and out of the bedroom, NOT to get into petty arguments with people who have a problem with confident women who arent afraid to ask for what she wants.
Think I am too entitled or asking for too much? Simple solution: Dont contact me. :)
vichyelle
24-11-2016, 04:24 PM
I think I am better off buying a sex toy or two and satisfying myself instead. Lol. Clearly this was a huge mistake. I did not expect all this flaming and backlash, all because I just wanted to be clear about what I am looking for.
I changed my mind and I am not going to meet anyone from this forum. Sorry to all the guys who emailed me. I am extremely turned off. The whole purpose of looking for FWB is to avoid drama and now all I got is drama. Every damn day theres at least one guy attacking me.
This place is filled with hateful misogynistic men who are either looking for free or cheap fucks. Asking for nice dates only, like majiam asking for the sky. :rolleyes:
Admin- Please close this thread. Thanks.
besafe
24-11-2016, 04:34 PM
All the best to you girl. Take care.
You sure are an interesting girl.
purepulp
24-11-2016, 04:53 PM
I can only read on in amazement… :eek:
HeadOn
24-11-2016, 05:02 PM
I think I am better off buying a sex toy or two and satisfying myself instead. Lol. Clearly this was a huge mistake. I did not expect all this flaming and backlash, all because I just wanted to be clear about what I am looking for.
I changed my mind and I am not going to meet anyone from this forum. Sorry to all the guys who emailed me. I am extremely turned off. The whole purpose of looking for FWB is to avoid drama and now all I got is drama. Every damn day theres at least one guy attacking me.
This place is filled with hateful misogynistic men who are either looking for free or cheap fucks. Asking for nice dates only, like majiam asking for the sky. :rolleyes:
Admin- Please close this thread. Thanks.
I dun think u should b bothered about any comments. Instead I find u pretty refreshing n u should continue to find n do whatever u want. Y bother about comments from pple u dun even know ? Chill n relax
Sen5eS
24-11-2016, 05:12 PM
Actually I think you might have misread. I don't mean landing her ass on my dick. I meant doing all that with my dick in her ass. :D But if you're interested, try getting your hands on the original copy of Kamasutra, not those edited, simplified ones, I'm sure there will be step by step instructions in there. Otherwise just Google. You can find everything on the Internet… :p
I think that the first post serves to act as a marketing tool to attract applicants. The fundamental mistake is that nothing in there markets her to would be applicants. Instead it lists all her expectations, making her look like a demanding prima donna, thus the negativity. Well at least she is savvy enough to know that it'll be a long shot… Theres some hope yet…
Noted ... Karma Sutra (www edition) ... this move sounds like it might result in an appendage breaking ... think i'll go for something less acrobatic >/<
Well ... she could be worth every emotional drop required to be her "ideal" applicant ... would demanding prima donna be a side effect worth your effort ? :D
I can only read on in amazement… :eek:
see lah ... dat's the end of the game ... she's totally cheesed off kekeke
I'm sure she's savvy ... she's ready to apply 1 or 2 sex toys instead of actually interacting with those interested applicants.
Sen5eS
24-11-2016, 05:22 PM
I think I am better off buying a sex toy or two and satisfying myself instead. Lol. Clearly this was a huge mistake. I did not expect all this flaming and backlash, all because I just wanted to be clear about what I am looking for.
I changed my mind and I am not going to meet anyone from this forum. Sorry to all the guys who emailed me. I am extremely turned off. The whole purpose of looking for FWB is to avoid drama and now all I got is drama. Every damn day theres at least one guy attacking me.
This place is filled with hateful misogynistic men who are either looking for free or cheap fucks. Asking for nice dates only, like majiam asking for the sky. :rolleyes:
Admin- Please close this thread. Thanks.
Well ... that's a quick conclusion ... that's how life works ... there'll always be haters and drama is part and parcel. Perhaps taking a step back would be a better recourse?
At the moment u're sucked right into the drama with your reactions. You are entitled to state your requirements and others are just as entitled to comment on your requirements.
Willing buyer for every offer out there ...
Would be fun to watch u play with those 1 or 2 sex toys :D
Enjoy :p
xiaoqiang
24-11-2016, 05:46 PM
I think I am better off buying a sex toy or two and satisfying myself instead. Lol. Clearly this was a huge mistake. I did not expect all this flaming and backlash, all because I just wanted to be clear about what I am looking for.
I changed my mind and I am not going to meet anyone from this forum. Sorry to all the guys who emailed me. I am extremely turned off. The whole purpose of looking for FWB is to avoid drama and now all I got is drama. Every damn day theres at least one guy attacking me.
This place is filled with hateful misogynistic men who are either looking for free or cheap fucks. Asking for nice dates only, like majiam asking for the sky. :rolleyes:
Admin- Please close this thread. Thanks.
Sis, toys don't bring you out to nice dates;) or u mean u bring em out instead.
I think you should be fair in terms of your offer.
U are looking for fwb. No string attachment kinda.
U offer sex = he offer sex
U wan nice date = does he wan nice date?
You might as well freelancing to get yourself pampered and get toys to satisfy your needs. Winwin solution with no string attached
randyrockhard
25-11-2016, 06:46 AM
What exactly is confusing to you? I am looking for FWB, something like a relationship but without any emotional attachment / commitment. As mentioned I am very busy and have no time for a relationship.
It's not strange when men look for FWB, but when a lady does, it's suddenly so confusing?? Lol
The inaccurate nature of your very definition of FWB is what's confusing, not the act of looking itself.
You even wrote in your 3rd last sentence that "Basically, in a nutshell I'm looking for a sweet and cute boyfriend to treat me like a goddess and fuck me well, without the emotional attachment. Just the good stuff- hang out, nice dates, great meals, hot sex."
I am not sure if you understood what the term FWB means, but when a girl wants: a good company, connection with the guy she has sex with, spoiled with niceties, an impression of wealth. That's anything BUT Friends With Benefits.
:p
Oh well, I guess it's school holiday ...
Jebuschris91
25-11-2016, 09:16 AM
You even wrote in your 3rd last sentence that "Basically, in a nutshell I'm looking for a sweet and cute boyfriend to treat me like a goddess and fuck me well, without the emotional attachment. Just the good stuff- hang out, nice dates, great meals, hot sex."
I am not sure if you understood what the term FWB means, but when a girl wants: a good company, connection with the guy she has sex with, spoiled with niceties, an impression of wealth. That's anything BUT Friends With Benefits.
I actually get what she wants though, more than friends, less than lovers. I've had similar cases in the past with someone, it was good to be honest.
Benefits are up to the individuals to term it.
Sure it borderlines on the edge of SD/SB, but the difference is no one has to be at each other's beck and call and have arrangements like "meetup once a week min" It's more hassle free and if the guy doesn't mind, then the best term for it would be "Happy can liao".
I guess it's a different approach, but the negativity from everyone is really unbecoming of us in this forum. Live and let live I would say.
Sen5eS
25-11-2016, 09:48 AM
I guess it's a different approach, but the negativity from everyone is really unbecoming of us in this forum. Live and let live I would say.
Well ... it reflects poorly when she's now in the negative zone ...
purepulp
25-11-2016, 10:22 AM
Its unfortunate that she chose to focus only on the perceived negative aspect of my comments. I do have better things to do than pick arguments here.
She seems like a confident, go-getting modern woman who knows what she wants and how to get it. But she expects to be pampered and pandered to. She wants to play but only on her terms and no shit given to the guy. In a way she is right. The chosen guy is indeed a live sex toy that can also dispense money when the need arises.
If that is not self-entitlement I don't know what is. She's clearly offended by the replies in this thread but ironically her retorts validates the exact points that she is unhappy with.
Sen5eS
25-11-2016, 12:55 PM
Its unfortunate that she chose to focus only on the perceived negative aspect of my comments. I do have better things to do than pick arguments here.
She seems like a confident, go-getting modern woman who knows what she wants and how to get it. But she expects to be pampered and pandered to. She wants to play but only on her terms and no shit given to the guy. In a way she is right. The chosen guy is indeed a live sex toy that can also dispense money when the need arises.
If that is not self-entitlement I don't know what is. She's clearly offended by the replies in this thread but ironically her retorts validates the exact points that she is unhappy with.
Valid assumptions :cool: perhaps she's as good as she receives ? but now we'll never know yah ? :D
goody88sg
25-11-2016, 02:00 PM
Happy go lucky. Attractive girl goes down , a net create a world, it also can
clinton
25-11-2016, 02:17 PM
I think I am better off buying a sex toy or two and satisfying myself instead. Lol. Clearly this was a huge mistake. I did not expect all this flaming and backlash, all because I just wanted to be clear about what I am looking for.
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sis good lucky. this is the sex forum and sex toy is best for you as it dont have any needs ...
enjoy your toy ... and have a great weekend :D
vichyelle
25-11-2016, 10:50 PM
Its unfortunate that she chose to focus only on the perceived negative aspect of my comments. I do have better things to do than pick arguments here.
She seems like a confident, go-getting modern woman who knows what she wants and how to get it. But she expects to be pampered and pandered to. She wants to play but only on her terms and no shit given to the guy. In a way she is right. The chosen guy is indeed a live sex toy that can also dispense money when the need arises.
If that is not self-entitlement I don't know what is. She's clearly offended by the replies in this thread but ironically her retorts validates the exact points that she is unhappy with.
Spoken like the true EXPERT mind reader, know it all ass. :)
You can say whatever you want, yet I cannot respond to your rude and condescending remarks? You mean I was supposed to focus on other parts of your comments, other than performing circus acts with your dick in my ass? :)
Oh really? You have better things to do? Doesnt seem like it, since you keep coming back to this thread to comment.
I never once said I am expecting ANY sort of monetary compensation. Why are you assuming that the guy will be a live sex toy which can also dispense money?Who said anything about money? :rolleyes:
OF COURSE I EXPECT to be pampered. You mean I should look for a FWB who will treat me like shit? Lol.
This is the last time I am replying to you. Clearly you are looking for a fight here and you enjoy being rude to me for no reason whatsoever, and I have better things to do than engage with your condescending crap. I dont owe you shit.
Look, if you have such a big problem with me, PM me and I will be most happy to meet you in person so you can tell it all to my face. I bet you wont have the balls to do so. In which case, you best SHUT THE FUCK UP.
Lets see whether this BRO here is just a keyboard warrior, shall we? :)
vichyelle
25-11-2016, 11:01 PM
I sent a PM to this dear bro Purepulp here out for a drink next week, on me! :)
Cant wait to see what he has to say to my face. :rolleyes:
Or... maybe he's just another lame boliao keyboard warrior who only knows how to talk damn loud while hiding behind his computer screen? Hmmmmm.
Terryboiboi
26-11-2016, 02:15 AM
I sent a PM to this dear bro Purepulp here out for a drink next week, on me! :)
Cant wait to see what he has to say to my face. :rolleyes:
Or... maybe he's just another lame boliao keyboard warrior who only knows how to talk damn loud while hiding behind his computer screen? Hmmmmm.
No need to bother these guy. Do what you think it right. Find your happiness. Cheers.
xiaoqiang
26-11-2016, 04:23 AM
I sent a PM to this dear bro Purepulp here out for a drink next week, on me! :)
Cant wait to see what he has to say to my face. :rolleyes:
Or... maybe he's just another lame boliao keyboard warrior who only knows how to talk damn loud while hiding behind his computer screen? Hmmmmm.
Wow, sassy girl;) I liked!! Why nv jio me for a drink on me ;)
sexylanjiao
26-11-2016, 09:21 AM
I sent a PM to this dear bro Purepulp here out for a drink next week, on me! :)
Cant wait to see what he has to say to my face. :rolleyes:
Or... maybe he's just another lame boliao keyboard warrior who only knows how to talk damn loud while hiding behind his computer screen? Hmmmmm.
Can I join as watcher? :D
Sen5eS
26-11-2016, 10:07 AM
I sent a PM to this dear bro Purepulp here out for a drink next week, on me! :)
Cant wait to see what he has to say to my face. :rolleyes:
Or... maybe he's just another lame boliao keyboard warrior who only knows how to talk damn loud while hiding behind his computer screen? Hmmmmm.
hahaha very direct ... ball is in your court Bro PP :D may the sparks fly ! :p
purepulp
26-11-2016, 11:38 AM
I've replied.
As far as I'm concerned, I value differences in opinions and welcome them.
It is obvious that we have different opinions. Perhaps we can agree to disagree? The last thing I want is to have a prolonged bickering session. It is rather ironic to think that this sort of drama is what TS did not want in the first place.
So guys, shows over, remember to bring you rubbish with you and throw them in the bins provided near the entrance. :D
I sent a PM to this dear bro Purepulp here out for a drink next week, on me! :)
Cant wait to see what he has to say to my face. :rolleyes:
Or... maybe he's just another lame boliao keyboard warrior who only knows how to talk damn loud while hiding behind his computer screen? Hmmmmm.
Hi sis have fun ... if no show no fun next time jio me, on me :D
have a great weekend :p
iceage
26-11-2016, 11:31 PM
I've replied.
As far as I'm concerned, I value differences in opinions and welcome them.
It is obvious that we have different opinions. Perhaps we can agree to disagree? The last thing I want is to have a prolonged bickering session. It is rather ironic to think that this sort of drama is what TS did not want in the first place.
So guys, shows over, remember to bring you rubbish with you and throw them in the bins provided near the entrance. :D
Hope you take up TS challenge to talk face to face. Just hope TS is what she claimed to be and not a shim in disguise. :)
beanbean444
27-11-2016, 12:03 AM
Why no meet up? maybe one thing lead to another
warped82
27-11-2016, 12:08 AM
Hope you take up TS challenge to talk face to face. Just hope TS is what she claimed to be and not a shim in disguise. :)
Ya man come on. Meet her. I offer to join in sit beside both of you and pay for both your drinks.
vichyelle
27-11-2016, 01:25 AM
Ive read and responded to purepulp's PM.
I find it rather odd now he suddenly has nothing more to say with regards to my thread.
He is also suddenly much more polite and civil. Interesting! Cant believe its the same guy who told me for my list of criteria he expects me to perform circus stunts with his dick in my ass!! :rolleyes:
Anyway Ive given him my contact, so he knows how to contact me if he has more things he wants to say. I want to hear it in person lah, so exciting correct? Just like how listen to Lady Gaga, must go concert pay $480 and hear then shiok ma, hor?? Got more impact!!
:p
vichyelle
27-11-2016, 01:29 AM
Btw, yes I am 100% serious when I said I dont intend to meet anyone from this forum. (Except for purepulp bro of course, he's very special.)
Apologies again to the ones whom I was supposed to meet this week. I have other personal reasons as well.
So bros, please dont bother contacting me anymore. This vagina is now closed. Thanks. :)
Bananaslawhakim
27-11-2016, 01:50 AM
Closed already? I'm a moroccan guy who is up for rounds of good sex and i can cum at least 3x in a row. Open for a while? PM me if interested!
vichyelle
27-11-2016, 09:39 AM
Closed already? I'm a moroccan guy who is up for rounds of good sex and i can cum at least 3x in a row. Open for a while? PM me if interested!
You've got to be kidding me.
Go to Geylang, they're open.
jay.lay
27-11-2016, 01:48 PM
Hope you take up TS challenge to talk face to face. Just hope TS is what she claimed to be and not a shim in disguise. :)
up u 8 bro :)
TempLust
27-11-2016, 01:58 PM
(Except for purepulp bro of course, he's very special.)
Wow....now like 冤家.
iceage
27-11-2016, 10:22 PM
Closed already? I'm a moroccan guy who is up for rounds of good sex and i can cum at least 3x in a row. Open for a while? PM me if interested!
Which gal cares if you can cum 3x in a row? Unless you can make the gal cum 3x in a row. :rolleyes:
Sen5eS
28-11-2016, 12:31 AM
Wow....now like 冤家.
possibly high chance for sparking some real fire :D
Sen5eS
28-11-2016, 12:36 AM
I've replied.
As far as I'm concerned, I value differences in opinions and welcome them.
It is obvious that we have different opinions. Perhaps we can agree to disagree? The last thing I want is to have a prolonged bickering session. It is rather ironic to think that this sort of drama is what TS did not want in the first place.
So guys, shows over, remember to bring you rubbish with you and throw them in the bins provided near the entrance. :D
The dialogue is still open for u and TS :D
What have you got to lose when she's more than willing to meet u?
Perhaps during and after proper discourse, it could lead to something? :)
Looking forward to ya Date Review.
Sen5eS
02-12-2016, 09:34 AM
T.G.I.Friday :D
ExBro
02-12-2016, 10:43 AM
She want sex and $$$ :D
Bro, she never asked for $$$ per se, but think u do need a little bit more than what a FWB expects...
What exactly is confusing to you? I am looking for FWB, something like a relationship but without any emotional attachment / commitment. As mentioned I am very busy and have no time for a relationship.
It's not strange when men look for FWB, but when a lady does, it's suddenly so confusing?? Lol
Not strange nor confusing but you were perhaps a bit too... strong?
Exactly Bro. Want to find a FWB also ani kangkor!!
Buay kangkor, just relax and sieve the sand and stone and a diamond will eventually... persevere to avoid Napolean Hill's "Three feet from Gold" story
sis good lucky. this is the sex forum and sex toy is best for you as it dont have any needs ...
enjoy your toy ... and have a great weekend :D
Mai ani Kwan la, she did say she wants sex(quote: "craving for good company, intimacy and of course, sex") so the lucky man will at least get sex (I hope) when the mood is set.... just dun expect it to be anytime u want her to open her clam.. right TS?
only the "B" in her want for FWB may be just the luxuries meant for her and the "B" you get is the knowledge that you are generous with the Ability to provide (ego boosting) still win-win (maybe)
Hope you take up TS challenge to talk face to face. Just hope TS is what she claimed to be and not a shim in disguise. :)
Though she sounded masculine at times and holds her arguments / debate / fort well.... I think at least 60% certainty (my guess) she is not male or shemale. Too bad we can't find out now.. cos:
Btw, yes I am 100% serious when I said I dont intend to meet anyone from this forum. (Except for purepulp bro of course, he's very special.)
Apologies again to the ones whom I was supposed to meet this week. I have other personal reasons as well.
So bros, please dont bother contacting me anymore. This vagina is now closed. Thanks. :)
Such a pity, could have been a really interesting FWB relationship and another nice (true) story on Sbf in the future.
TS, if u are open to just kopi , meals, meetups or just chats, do PM. I dun have the ability like certain Bros to manipulate the situation to be the "exclusive" invite, which from correspondence, might threaten physical injury or personal loss...
But I'm certainly a neutral party that likes to meet people and, like you, have been zapped till "thy kingdom com" -ve (see my travel thread) and have bounced back. Not difficult.
Have fun everyone!
clinton
02-12-2016, 11:31 AM
Btw, yes I am 100% serious when I said I dont intend to meet anyone from this forum. (Except for purepulp bro of course, he's very special.)
Apologies again to the ones whom I was supposed to meet this week. I have other personal reasons as well.
So bros, please dont bother contacting me anymore. This vagina is now closed. Thanks. :)
sis you should know vagina needs to open and close regularly to make it working ... :D
enjoy the weekend :D
Sen5eS
02-12-2016, 11:45 AM
sis you should know vagina needs to open and close regularly to make it working ... :D
enjoy the weekend :D
LOL hilarious :D does walking count ?
clinton
02-12-2016, 12:35 PM
LOL hilarious :D does walking count ?
bro i dont think walking opens it up lai :p
DanTheCow
02-12-2016, 01:53 PM
Wahhh I have been away for just a short while came back tonfind such an interesting thread.... nice!!!! :)
Anyways like I always say... to each his/her own.... fact of the matter is.... most ppl here can't even agree to the definition of FWB.... guess we should all just do away with these terms and just state what we want.... hahahaha.... :p
Example : Dan wants good green grass.... to eat or smoke is up to him to decide.... person offering it can join him eating or smoking it... benefit to the person... Dan's company...
Hahahaha..... enjoy your weekend everyone!!! :) December is here!! Time to party!!! And welcome in the New Year!! May everyone have a better year ahead than this year and the years before!!! :)
dragonking
02-12-2016, 04:25 PM
Don close lei.. hard to find open vagina already .. endangered species already . Except those at geylang . If close too long will rot de lei.. must think twice sia .. haha
andylin
06-12-2016, 03:34 PM
you've got to be kidding me.
Go to geylang, they're open.
roflmao!!!!!
jabwemet
16-04-2017, 06:45 PM
Dammn!! She left??
jabwemet
28-12-2018, 02:23 PM
:D
Hahaha
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