How to keep my bf interested in me?

[Rissaarissa]

How to keep my bf interested in me for as long as possible?

I have been trying to fulfill his fetishes and giving in to his preferences, he usually cum quickly the first shot but he was unable to cum later at night or even the next morning. We ended up with some blowjob and it just ended there. Not sure if there is anything wrong with me.

[mavericklovesex]

How to keep my bf interested in me for as long as possible?

I have been trying to fulfill his fetishes and giving in to his preferences, he usually cum quickly the first shot but he was unable to cum later at night or even the next morning. We ended up with some blowjob and it just ended there. Not sure if there is anything wrong with me.

How long have u 2 been together? Looks like it is a one sided affair, Is he taking u for a ride? Just my frank opinion

[Bestwife]

I think u r great tat giving in to ur bf.and he needs to sextisfy ur needs s well.have a good talk with him.telling him u like to enjoy e process s well

[Kickinloud]

hi there. I do not think there is anything wrong with you. if he cums early, maybe he have premature ejaculation. good that you really care for your bf. just do not pressure him or stress him out more. just try to ask him to communicate more about anything. both parties need to open up more with each other. this is good for relationships. and you need to see the reality of things no matter how much you want him and love him. if you see the signs or feel that he is not really into you, then you need to be prepare for what might come. you yourself need to talk to someone you feel really comfortable with.

[Rissaarissa]

How long have u 2 been together? Looks like it is a one sided affair, Is he taking u for a ride? Just my frank opinion

We've been together for a couple of months.

[Rissaarissa]

I understand it also depends on the guy's health condition, age and etc. but i know the girl he's having sex with plays a huge part too.

I'm definitely not stressing him out but i'm indeed very stressed out by this. Haha my past relationships do not have issues like that so it is really stressful for me.

Will try to have a good talk with him. I tried bringing this up before but he said that i'm doing well and that i'm good enough

[casey4341]

Mayne you can try to dish out his fav food? Sometimes its not just sexual.

[news799]

how long have you been in this relationship? This will be a good indicator for better advise.

[manly29876]

if i come fast on another gal, means i just want to get it over and done with. Hope that is not the case with you TS.

[malik321]

Why are you the one satisfying his needs? Did he do the same to you? When you keep giving in...its not good also.

[hi2u]

Hi Risa,
A healthy relationship revolves around more than just sex or fulfilling fetishes.
Those are perks of being in a relationship, which would no doubt improve the relationship.
Getting to like his hobbies, doing his hobbies together with him, doing things together, e.g. cooking, housework, etc, these are things that bonds a couple.
Hope that helps.
I am not in a better shape myself either as I just broke up some 2 months ago :/

[abovetheline]

i think theres many good points above

just want to add my thoughts

first if u r super attractive....u dont need to worry:D

2nd, him coming fast....could be him dont know how to fuck.
so maybe u should be in charge during the session.

bottom line dont spoil ur bf...
guys like bitchy girls.....not nice girls.....jmo.

[ibanezjem555]

I assume TS is just talking about 'interested' is just pertaining to sex after first shot. This is quite common (esp among younger men) and do communicate your preferences which bros here have advised.

Question is: Is he still interested in you after sex ?

If he is still going out with you, holding hands and finding more about you, should be no problem.. then just a sexual performance & preference issue which is relatively easy to resolve.

Rock On :cool:

How to keep my bf interested in me for as long as possible?

I have been trying to fulfill his fetishes and giving in to his preferences, he usually cum quickly the first shot but he was unable to cum later at night or even the next morning. We ended up with some blowjob and it just ended there. Not sure if there is anything wrong with me.

[qazxcvbnmlp1029]

how is he to you outside of sex? I dont think it's all that worrying that he cums once and takes very long to recover. Everyone's different after all.

It's more impt that overall the relationship is fine. Your wish that he cums more might be pressuring him also. For eg, during your second rounds he might be like "shit she is expecting me to cum again, sian, have to try harder." This will unfortunately make it harder for him to cum. :o

I think it's fantastic that you are trying to keep him though. Not that common a trait. Keep yourself in good shape and love him both and bed and outside of bed and it should be fine. ;)

[MsNaNaLim]

Your bf is probably like my ex, just wanna cum & fulfill his needs without servicing his lady.

[ddog]

How to keep my bf interested in me for as long as possible?

I have been trying to fulfill his fetishes and giving in to his preferences, he usually cum quickly the first shot but he was unable to cum later at night or even the next morning. We ended up with some blowjob and it just ended there. Not sure if there is anything wrong with me.

Try on Ddog, and will let sis know if anything wrong also sis will perhaps know what is missing in life

[danny888]

How to keep my bf interested in me for as long as possible?

I have been trying to fulfill his fetishes and giving in to his preferences, he usually cum quickly the first shot but he was unable to cum later at night or even the next morning. We ended up with some blowjob and it just ended there. Not sure if there is anything wrong with me.

Sis, I believe that you have done reasonably for your BF. You went to the extend of pleasure him when he cannot cum after the first shot.
Perhaps, you can talk to him that you would like to have the process and the deed as a couple. Another possible reason is if he is tired and tensed out in the day, from his work? I think that it is important to communicate your needs to him.

Hope to hear some good news from you with your BF soon.
:):D

[ibanezjem555]

Sad to treat a lady like that when both should be enjoying ! :cool:

Your bf is probably like my ex, just wanna cum & fulfill his needs without servicing his lady.

[ExBro]

How to keep my bf interested in me for as long as possible?

I have been trying to fulfill his fetishes and giving in to his preferences, he usually cum quickly the first shot but he was unable to cum later at night or even the next morning. We ended up with some blowjob and it just ended there. Not sure if there is anything wrong with me.

Hi TS,

Don't think there's anything wrong with you. Guys unlike gals can't have multiple Os continuously...

My ex doesn't try as hard by still allows me to go a few more rounds after I'm rested and want more. We avg 2-3 rounds per session but sometimes can't cum after 1st/2nd... think it's normal. Many factors can contribute to not even having a single shot too (happens to me as well)

Having said that when the moons are aligned, I've had 8x in 6 hours but by the 4th round, I was literally shooting blanks (almost clear liquid with no white sperms, my the 5th/6th round literally no liquid at all - I've had a 2nd time with 6 shots so I confirm, by 6th round, REALLY blanks) boy! Balls ache for a day after sailing to heaven 6-8x the day before....

Of course, it can't be just me having al the fun, after my estacy, I make sure I Yoni massage her till she has a couple as well before hugging to zzzz or rest for a few minutes to recharge and continue...

But me no superman, many a time, same gal can't get me up... not even with assrim or jugen (taught her some juagen aka tantric skills for obvious reasons of having multiple prolonged fun lor).. but sometimes just so tired or stressed out that it's impossible, yet she doesn't comment or give a disappointed look to snub me or anything... as it's no fault of hers (or yours.)

Hope this helps!

P.S. How old is Bf and u btw? Could be age as well...

[ibanezjem555]

6-8 is solid. Lucky, never like chinese say: metal pestle grind to needle (磨杵成针) :eek:

Yes, men is one shot wonder or left in wonderment :rolleyes:

Knowing this, men will hold and play long time before release. Can easily sextify girl 4-6 times (combi of big and small Os).
But men gotta work at it...:cool:

[blackface]

I understand it also depends on the guy's health condition, age and etc. but i know the girl he's having sex with plays a huge part too.

I'm definitely not stressing him out but i'm indeed very stressed out by this. Haha my past relationships do not have issues like that so it is really stressful for me.

Will try to have a good talk with him. I tried bringing this up before but he said that i'm doing well and that i'm good enough

Spend more time with him . Do more things together . Give him a surprise now and then . :)

[CharlizeTheron]

Your bf is probably like my ex, just wanna cum & fulfill his needs without servicing his lady.

So time to change bf.

[RayKennedy]

So time to change bf.

You think everyone same as you, change bf machiam change underwear.

[Rissaarissa]

Thank you everyone for your help! 😊

[spectreray]

Think it's chemistry u have been yourself.... Initially when i was with my fb.... i though i can only 1 round per day....our 1st trip in bkk.... Stayed for 3 nights.... Almost like 12 rounds in total....n I'm not young anymore

Slowly build up the chemistry... Shouldn't be a problem

[Fat Fatt]

You should have a session with me and I teach you what to demand from your bf to satisfy you. Then when both parties enjoy both will be attracted to the sex. If he doesnot want to help u enjoy, ditch the selfish bastard .. he is not worth it

[wondergal]

How to keep my bf interested in me for as long as possible?

I have been trying to fulfill his fetishes and giving in to his preferences, he usually cum quickly the first shot but he was unable to cum later at night or even the next morning. We ended up with some blowjob and it just ended there. Not sure if there is anything wrong with me.

How long is your relationship? It seems many relationships, even FWB or FB can lose chemistry and excitement.

My current FB seemed to lost a bit after about half a year.

The man's age, health and stress can affect his performance too. Men don't often say if something is bothering them.

[wondergal]

Hi TS,

Don't think there's anything wrong with you. Guys unlike gals can't have multiple Os continuously...

My ex doesn't try as hard by still allows me to go a few more rounds after I'm rested and want more. We avg 2-3 rounds per session but sometimes can't cum after 1st/2nd... think it's normal. Many factors can contribute to not even having a single shot too (happens to me as well)

Having said that when the moons are aligned, I've had 8x in 6 hours but by the 4th round, I was literally shooting blanks (almost clear liquid with no white sperms, my the 5th/6th round literally no liquid at all - I've had a 2nd time with 6 shots so I confirm, by 6th round, REALLY blanks) boy! Balls ache for a day after sailing to heaven 6-8x the day before....

Of course, it can't be just me having al the fun, after my estacy, I make sure I Yoni massage her till she has a couple as well before hugging to zzzz or rest for a few minutes to recharge and continue...

But me no superman, many a time, same gal can't get me up... not even with assrim or jugen (taught her some juagen aka tantric skills for obvious reasons of having multiple prolonged fun lor).. but sometimes just so tired or stressed out that it's impossible, yet she doesn't comment or give a disappointed look to snub me or anything... as it's no fault of hers (or yours.)

Hope this helps!

When we first met, my current FB (called CA) could cum several times in a day. Whenever I sucked him, he could get erect very quickly and if that was first time of the day even cum in my mouth. I felt good being able to do that for him. His best was cumming 6 times in like 4 hours and I encouraged him to go again but couldn't do the 7th time. I wrote about him in another thread somewhere... too long ago... can't remember where. I felt him jerk inside me but I guess not much sperm released on the last 2-3 times. As time went, from about half a year later, he could still get erect quickly but took longer to cum when I did oral on him, sometimes gave up and begin sex. He could cum lesser times but maybe about 3-4 times in the day. I was still turned on by him, and easily got wet with him so I felt disappointed. I still get wet with him and I like his size and his willingness to lick me but these days he could maybe do only 2 times... shorter sex duration for me. I guess his excitement with me has fallen... so quickly.

[Lorres]

Hence I dun believe humans are meant to be monogamous. Sex is not controlled by seasons.
The male, no matter how virile, will get desensitized and not as horny with the same woman. Can easily seen from the erection (or lack of).
The female, easier to fake their boredom with the same male.
A little lust from a stranger is sometimes exciting and makes one feel young.

[Reined]

Hence I dun believe humans are meant to be monogamous. Sex is not controlled by seasons.
The male, no matter how virile, will get desensitized and not as horny with the same woman. Can easily seen from the erection (or lack of).
The female, easier to fake their boredom with the same male.
A little lust from a stranger is sometimes exciting and makes one feel young.

Very well said

[NudeMan]

Very well said

I think so too

[subcon82]

When we first met, my current FB (called CA) could cum several times in a day. Whenever I sucked him, he could get erect very quickly and if that was first time of the day even cum in my mouth. I felt good being able to do that for him. His best was cumming 6 times in like 4 hours and I encouraged him to go again but couldn't do the 7th time. I wrote about him in another thread somewhere... too long ago... can't remember where. I felt him jerk inside me but I guess not much sperm released on the last 2-3 times. As time went, from about half a year later, he could still get erect quickly but took longer to cum when I did oral on him, sometimes gave up and begin sex. He could cum lesser times but maybe about 3-4 times in the day. I was still turned on by him, and easily got wet with him so I felt disappointed. I still get wet with him and I like his size and his willingness to lick me but these days he could maybe do only 2 times... shorter sex duration for me. I guess his excitement with me has fallen... so quickly.

Hahaha! sis common for guys! personally i only managed to go for 3 round! nv try 4th round.

Oh ya TS, please note that it should goes 2 way and not you alone keeping him interested