Having affair with subordinate

[Jimyeo]

I have an affair with my subordinate for more then one year. She is a PRC in her early 30s and im 50. We even stay together in a rented room.
2 weeks ago , i went JB for gathering with a grp of my subordinate together with another PRC lady while my regular is back to China for one month.
While it is too late to go back sg, we (the prc and myself) check into a room to spent the night.
I squeezed with her in one bed though it has 2 single bed. ;-) I think i need to to eleboate much the rest of the story.
Now my regular coming back soon.....
Anyone here have the same experience ?

[sky_liner2]

Having affair with a subordinate is already an issue, and needless to say if you are 2 timing with another subordinate. If both knew, this matter will blow and may cause you to lose your job as there will be big fight in the company. Good luck bro.

[Jimyeo]

Actually B knew im having affair with A. And she never reject me when we are in the room.

[GrieGzEters]

On the other hand, you could have a potential 3some with the 2 of them. Good luck to you!

[sexcision]

U are obviously of some seniority and someone who can think and decide. I also dun think you came here to seek advise too from the way you write.
Why not share more of what you intend to do?

[Jtjan]

I have an affair with my subordinate for more then one year. She is a PRC in her early 30s and im 50. We even stay together in a rented room.
2 weeks ago , i went JB for gathering with a grp of my subordinate together with another PRC lady while my regular is back to China for one month.
While it is too late to go back sg, we (the prc and myself) check into a room to spent the night.
I squeezed with her in one bed though it has 2 single bed. ;-) I think i need to to eleboate much the rest of the story.
Now my regular coming back soon.....
Anyone here have the same experience ?

Depends who you like more.
You should tell the one you like less that you are involved with the other.
And tell her u are honest with her and hope she wont be angry.
Depending on her reaction, she will do one of 3 things:
1) choose to break off with you
2) choose to stay with you, knowing you will still fuck the other gal
3) choose to make you leave the other gal

In all 3 scenarios, you get to keep at least 1 gal.
As you are letting the gal choose, it will not get ugly.

All the best!


Jtjan

[bluewater]

Wah bro u very lucky leh. But be careful ah. Later they stir it big

[wolflust]

If they stir it up, that's it for you I guess

[ibanezjem555]

I dont think it will be that straight-forward.

Stir up in company, at your own house.

You got 2 cars or 2 guitars is ok wan, they never complain if you ignore one for the other.. but with women...

Actually B knew im having affair with A. And she never reject me when we are in the room.

[diputs1269]

Actually B knew im having affair with A. And she never reject me when we are in the room.


Since B knew and never reject, maybe she waiting for you to create an opportunity for threesome.

[Jimyeo]

U are obviously of some seniority and someone who can think and decide. I also dun think you came here to seek advise too from the way you write.
Why not share more of what you intend to do?
Not seeking any advise , just wanna know anyone here have similar experience

[Jimyeo]

[QUOTE=bluewater;16338758]Wah bro u very lucky leh. But be careful ah. Later they stir it big[/QUOTE
Dont think so they will stir it big.. is their rice bowl also wat

[outonbail]

this sounds like edmw csb

[butthenhorr]

Don't eat & shit in the same place mate. You are threading on a very thin line here:rolleyes:

[JustANewbie]

Subordinates are strictly a big NO NO for me, might make things complicated at work.

[blacksky]

Don't eat & shit in the same place mate. You are threading on a very thin line here:rolleyes:

That is indeed well said .

[rawboy83]

Don't eat & shit in the same place mate. You are threading on a very thin line here:rolleyes:

100% agree, very true.

[acidicavex]

Both PRC?? B knew and A don't? B accept? have it ever cross your mind about this PRC women? They might seem to accept it at 1st but once u are hook the showdown starts. Unless she is really those super open minded waiting for u convince A to share and have 3some which i highly doubt. :D

Anyway good luck if it turn ugly i hope it doesn't drag your current family into it. Also subordinate pray hard this scandal doesn't cause you the job too at that age it will be harder to find one.

[LittleGiant]

never trust prc

[Greendevil]

both probably having an affair with you hoping to get up the corporate ladder than anything else. choose one and tell the latter you will like to open her to a 3some or sex orgy with other people. if the latter agreed, then just find another guy to bang her brain out. if no, then this led to an argument and eventually u will get rid of her.

[Jimyeo]

Not 3some la. One leg 2 boat la.

[Hardaway1818]

I also hold a very senior position in my company, and I must say it's very tempting to fall to temptations with the young pretty subordinates. It is not just the lust, but that forbidden excitement and the power over them that made it such a fantasy.

That remains a fantasy for me, because the stakes and risk is simply too high. But I can understand that excitement.

[xrage]

wah... TS 1-leg balancing act berry goot hor?? I assume you are married, so that's 3 women.

I dont have that experience to share since I want to keep my place 'clean', but cant help but have a few thoughts:

1) Both are PRC, common for them to sleep with higher management to gain favour to climb corporate ladder.
2) B knows but A dunno? we can assume A will expect you to stray when she is away for 1 month, since you stray from wife?
3) They may not blow it big, as you correctly pointed out it's their rice bowl, but they may try to swindle or blackmail you to keep it quiet. ie. CPF, lumpsum payment, or SD maintenance.
4) Are they also sleeping around with others in the company? Get some dirt on them to protect yourself.

[Jimyeo]

Once started cannot stop liao leh..:):)
A not back yet , still flirting with B

Anyone here have their story to share

[vkoolboi]

I know of a boss who sleep with all his female subordinates. It is a norm there. If the girls don't want it, they will just leave the company after a while. He owns the company and the company is doing well. Hence, he can do whatever he likes as long as there is mutual consent. Not sure if he did threesome or foursome or manysome.

So far so good for him. He changed from Mercedes Benz E250 to S400. He bought a few properties. Only thing bad is he is aging and not getting more handsome by the day, though the number of girls around him has not decreased a bit.

[cavemanng]

Likely both gang up against TS

[bishopshop]

I know of a boss who sleep with all his female subordinates. It is a norm there. If the girls don't want it, they will just leave the company after a while. He owns the company and the company is doing well. Hence, he can do whatever he likes as long as there is mutual consent. Not sure if he did threesome or foursome or manysome.

So far so good for him. He changed from Mercedes Benz E250 to S400. He bought a few properties. Only thing bad is he is aging and not getting more handsome by the day, though the number of girls around him has not decreased a bit.

Age is not an issue with the girls :D

[Flyingcrane]

Age is not an issue with the girls :D

Agree with you as well. :)

[Jimyeo]

Subordinates are strictly a big NO NO for me, might make things complicated at work.

I agreed. No deny about this

[Ihowlian]

Getting old is secondary. Got money got honey.

[LaolanGaros]

Getting old is secondary. Got money got honey.

Very true :D

[Rupp]

I also hold a very senior position in my company, and I must say it's very tempting to fall to temptations with the young pretty subordinates. It is not just the lust, but that forbidden excitement and the power over them that made it such a fantasy.

That remains a fantasy for me, because the stakes and risk is simply too high. But I can understand that excitement.

Good thing you did not proceed.

[ochads]

Good thing you did not proceed.

Was thinking the same too.