in malaysia, if have sex with a decent malay woman, means need to marry her??

[bolehk]

what is the general culture in malaysia like? if have sex with a decent malay woman, does that means fate is sealed and need to marry her?? :confused:

also, is it ok to go example shopping with her? Will I kenna 'hantam' by other malay guys?

coz i'm recently fren-ing a malay gal, must prepare the know how before things gets out of control. I'm a chinese btw. :D

[phantomboyz]

not until that extend brother.its all depends on what and how both of u gonna work out.like for my case,i ever dated and bonked few malay gals b4,but there is no any forcement.meaning,i suka u suka,both party did it willingly.but,if kena caught by the authorites,she definitely kena punish either prison or fine,and u only kena advised thats all.but i believe they wont simply let u go like that.if u r chinese,fair,good status,be careful,they dun hesitate to convince u to convert to muslim.but,rumours still rumours,even though possiblity is there.states like terengganu and kelantan where they emphasizing on muslim rules,its not something u can joke with.

[jerrystockton]

what is the general culture in malaysia like? if have sex with a decent malay woman, does that means fate is sealed and need to marry her?? :confused:

also, is it ok to go example shopping with her? Will I kenna 'hantam' by other malay guys?

coz i'm recently fren-ing a malay gal, must prepare the know how before things gets out of control. I'm a chinese btw. :D

ur question very sensitive ler....better edit ...

[bolehk]

{Bro phantomboyz}
thanks for the advice. I not in any of the two states.

{Bro jerrystockton}
Which part is sensitive that needs editing? :confused: u also quoted already, I edit also no use. :rolleyes:

[hornyinjb]

what is the general culture in malaysia like? if have sex with a decent malay woman, does that means fate is sealed and need to marry her?? :confused:

also, is it ok to go example shopping with her? Will I kenna 'hantam' by other malay guys?

coz i'm recently fren-ing a malay gal, must prepare the know how before things gets out of control. I'm a chinese btw. :D

Worry not bruder... you won't be harmed at all. Quite a number of mixed dating here or even mixed marriage. This is Malaysia... not Redneck city

[garung]

Relax la don't racis this asian bro... not western... dun be tommy hilgier

[up me]

If like that all the gals marry the first man who bonk them ... I don think so leh ...

[pumperjack]

what is the general culture in malaysia like? if have sex with a decent malay woman, does that means fate is sealed and need to marry her?? :confused:

also, is it ok to go example shopping with her? Will I kenna 'hantam' by other malay guys?

coz i'm recently fren-ing a malay gal, must prepare the know how before things gets out of control. I'm a chinese btw. :D

Legally speaking, there's nothing wrong with dating a Malay girl. When you get a little bit more intimate, be warned that sexual intercourse outside marriage is forbidden.. So, take precautions. Do it discreetly because religious department officials do carry out 'ambush' to flush out wrong doers and its also very likely for you to get charged in Syariah Court for 'khalwat' or 'close proximity'.

Moral of the story is : if you want to bonk a minah, marriage is not compulsory, just don't get caught. But if you think that the minah is 'A' list material which is fit to be your life-long partner, you might want to consider converting into Islam and marry her... Hope this helps..

Jack

[shaggerific]

what is the general culture in malaysia like? if have sex with a decent malay woman, does that means fate is sealed and need to marry her??
WTF??!! School holidays here again ah?? :rolleyes:

Going by what you've said, then if you like a girl and she doesn't like you, all you have to do is rape her then she'll have to marry you?!! If like this, very easy to marry a princess hor?!! Can think first before posting such things or starting this kind of thread ah?? :mad:

If you're having in mind what bro Pumperjack said, i.e. khalwat (close proximity between a man and woman who are not married to each other, one of whom is a Muslim) then as a chinese, no action will be taken against you. However, close proximity does not mean sexual intercourse - even if you're caught in a room with all your clothes on or in a car in a secluded spot, the Muslim partner will be in trouble.

The only time your "fate is sealed" is when you make someone pregnant - that's why it's called "SHOTGUN" marriage. And that probably applies to all races...

[shiok1968]

Kekeke....dun so hot lah bro.

Was just thinking when you coming into this thread.?

Anyway I guess the thread starter just asking about the general culture cos he just befriend a malay fren. Guess he also heard about khalwat and is nt too sure what are the rules in MY.

Hot weather must drink more chinese tea.:p :rolleyes:

[shaggerific]

Kekeke....dun so hot lah bro.

Was just thinking when you coming into this thread.?

Anyway I guess the thread starter just asking about the general culture cos he just befriend a malay fren. Guess he also heard about khalwat and is nt too sure what are the rules in MY.

Hot weather must drink more chinese tea
Not hot lar, never release only!! :p

I'm sure he's a Malaysian Chinese and not Mainland Chinese lor, so these kind of questions where got need to ask one??

Anyway, IMHO your advice should have been: "if you want to know more about Malay culture, go pm the 'small hor lan potato' !!" ;)

[DRYDUST]

Anyway, IMHO your advice should have been: "if you want to know more about Malay culture, go pm the 'small hor lan potato' !!" ;)

he told me nowadays he got so many lobangs till no time to go...please stop bothering him & let him finish stuffing the lobangs 1st:(

[ProfessorOokami]

[QUOTE=shaggerific;2037550

...khalwat (close proximity between a man and woman who are not married to each other, one of whom is a Muslim) then as a chinese, no action will be taken against you. However, close proximity does not mean sexual intercourse - even if you're caught in a room with all your clothes on or in a car in a secluded spot, the Muslim partner will be in trouble.

The only time your "fate is sealed" is when you make someone pregnant - that's why it's called "SHOTGUN" marriage. And that probably applies to all races...[/QUOTE]

When a couple is found in "compromising positions" [not necesarily at a secluded place] it is classified as "bersumbang" :D

If they are caught in a copulating position [Bersetubuh - two bodies joined as one - whether naked or not or half naked] it is classified as "tangkap basah" [kena tangkap bila basah]

Well, if that minah has the honour to be "pregnated", the options will be either you nikah [different from kahwin] her or abandon her and let her bear the child with no father's name attached [or can be named "XXXX bin sianu"]

A child born out this wedlock will face a lot challenges in life. this son-of-a- gun will not be welcomed in Malaysian society.

Don't do this...AMITABA

[hungrysexguy]

Haha... In this country, u think the law is fair de? They are trying to get all the chinese to convert to muslim so nobody will fight wif them in this country. I heard a case, a chinese guy was collecting debt from a malay customer but the parents is not at home so the daughter of the parents just invite him to her house and have a tea while waiting for her dad to be back, then come those stupid fella(those use songkok 1 lah) They straight caugh him and say they are having an affair. WTF wif this? And the worst is, the ppl who catch the guy ask the gal love her or not and the gal say yes... so, i advise if u want to friend or couple a malay gal, u better be clever clever oh... or the chinese population will drop further and the worst is u "BETRAYE" ur family, race and u make the malay more clever. Haha... and also u might loss ur "tail" :p

[bolehk]

thank you brothers for clearing the doubts. I'm not local in Msia, that's why dunno abt the rules.

this malay gal very strange, in private, she seems like want to do that thing. but when i ask her want to come my place, she say no lah, wanna go home. Mix signals. :( :(

[Flyjacket]

i think this is the funniest thread ever... but a valid question if you are living in malaysia.

i for one, have bonked many many malay girls and still did not marry one... why, because must be clever lorr...

malay girls are special because if they like you - they WILL bonk you instead... and believe me when i say this - bonking a malay girl is like going to heaven... its the GFE that they have, really know how to please.

the fact is, their religion is somewhat restrictive - so given half a chance, they will rebel and prove that they are human after all... with the horniest pussy in town. but fortunately for malaysia and malay girls - the religion kinda keeps the girls under control - otherwise, my guess is - thailand and the phillipines would be no where compared to the malay girls... my 2 sens

[sta1100]

what is the general culture in malaysia like? if have sex with a decent malay woman, does that means fate is sealed and need to marry her?? :confused:

also, is it ok to go example shopping with her? Will I kenna 'hantam' by other malay guys?

coz i'm recently fren-ing a malay gal, must prepare the know how before things gets out of control. I'm a chinese btw. :D


Can try your luck, if kana caught perpare to convert to those PIG head, and become no brain

[FerrariF1]

this malay gal very strange, in private, she seems like want to do that thing. but when i ask her want to come my place, she say no lah, wanna go home. Mix signals.

Maybe u need to learn a new term = COCK TEASER :rolleyes:

[esleeadipak]

i think this is the funniest thread ever... but a valid question if you are living in malaysia.

i for one, have bonked many many malay girls and still did not marry one... why, because must be clever lorr...

malay girls are special because if they like you - they WILL bonk you instead... and believe me when i say this - bonking a malay girl is like going to heaven... its the GFE that they have, really know how to please.

the fact is, their religion is somewhat restrictive - so given half a chance, they will rebel and prove that they are human after all... with the horniest pussy in town. but fortunately for malaysia and malay girls - the religion kinda keeps the girls under control - otherwise, my guess is - thailand and the phillipines would be no where compared to the malay girls... my 2 sens

Right on the money!! Malay girls give the best GFE. Outside they looked reserved, but after you get them into the bedroom...... KABOOM

[Brainy]

sta1100
Can try your luck, if kana caught perpare to convert to those PIG head, and become no brain

Brainy's back!!! Be very afraid...

Sta1100 you have no right to speak in such a manner. So you think you are better?? Monkey! You better shut your mouth and do not speak of something of which you know nothing. Idiot!

Now look what you have done! Changed the whole theme of this thread. Just give your two cents worth relevant to the question and don't insult people. Jerk!

[killaruna]

a lot of problem la. i would say think twice before doing it.

i met this girl last time when i was in UK. when we're both back in malaysia we still went out together. we're not boyfriends or girlfriends, merely normal friends with a bit extra thrown in. cut the story short when i was busted they told me that they could charge me with close proximity and whole lots of other bullshit. eventually her dad found out and her dad settled it with them. i don't know how but i'm guessing that some money or authority was involved cause her dad is some bigshot. after the ordeal i was left with a verbal warning from her dad and that's it i wash my hands clean after that.

[bolehk]

a lot of problem la. i would say think twice before doing it.

i met this girl last time when i was in UK. when we're both back in malaysia we still went out together. we're not boyfriends or girlfriends, merely normal friends with a bit extra thrown in. cut the story short when i was busted they told me that they could charge me with close proximity and whole lots of other bullshit. eventually her dad found out and her dad settled it with them. i don't know how but i'm guessing that some money or authority was involved cause her dad is some bigshot. after the ordeal i was left with a verbal warning from her dad and that's it i wash my hands clean after that.

yo bro Killaruna, can elaborate more. Coz I don't wish to end up like u too man. If u feel more comfortable with PM, pls enlighten your bro here?

I am getting intimate with this malay gal. Everywhere we go, I can feel that eyes are constantly on us, just being a Chinese guy going out with a Malay gal. In public we're not holding hands or behaving intimate, just walk normally. But already can feel, pple keep looking when we are eating... etc. I really scared one day trouble may comes to me.

that day I finally get to kiss her, quite hot one, with my hands exploring the "head lights". she also like it, but then it's quite dangerous. Have to go to a quiet place WITH PEOPLE, coz she say some places too quiet is dangerous.. (DUH!!).. going to my place is a No-No to her, as she quoted religion as an excuse.

During kissing we have to constantly keep a lookout for pple coming too near the car, often have to pause when pple are like 5 metres away from the car. this kissing session really is the most difficult one that in my life, passionate but yet cannot really concentrate. :(

[happybum]

thank you brothers for clearing the doubts. I'm not local in Msia, that's why dunno abt the rules.

this malay gal very strange, in private, she seems like want to do that thing. but when i ask her want to come my place, she say no lah, wanna go home. Mix signals. :( :(

It is simple, believe in your intuition. As long as you feel comfortable with her, then go ahead, otherwise,...

Make sure you have think it properly.

[dathinman]

A charge of khalwat would only be in the Syariah court. But non-Muslims are not subject to the Syariah court....

I think I said enough.

[Green Goblin]

The authorities are bloody moral police who make intent to make your life uncomfortable. Depending on where you are, they can make the experience rather uncomfortable. Things are not so bad in places like KL, but if you get caught in places like Kedah, Terengganu, Kelantan, you can be sure of getting high handed treatment from them.

[Flyjacket]

I am getting intimate with this malay gal. Everywhere we go, I can feel that eyes are constantly on us, just being a Chinese guy going out with a Malay gal. In public we're not holding hands or behaving intimate, just walk normally. But already can feel, pple keep looking when we are eating... etc. I really scared one day trouble may comes to me....(

Dude... the Malays (muslims) in Malaysia have this perception that if they were to get a non muslim to convert, they are guaranteed a place in heaven... so if you think of getting intimate with a NL, you go to heaven first before them... :D
On a serious note, if you give the girl the FULL THROTTLE - then you are a goner.... 'cos she will reel you in, hook, line and sinker... The trick with a NL is that let her do all the work - you get the GFE and she is left hanging... for more... *LOL!*

Just remember this " NO FORESKIN... NO FORE SIGHT!!! "... once its gone - its gone.... :D

[Green Goblin]

On a serious note, if you give the girl the FULL THROTTLE - then you are a goner.... 'cos she will reel you in, hook, line and sinker... The trick with a NL is that let her do all the work - you get the GFE and she is left hanging... for more... *LOL!*

Just remember this " NO FORESKIN... NO FORE SIGHT!!! "... once its gone - its gone.... :D

Haha.. good advice. Want to drink the Milk no need to buy the Cow le :D

[dathinman]

MelbSJ,

I am guessing your friend was caught in a raid at a health center.

Those caught in a raid at places of vice might have to go to the police station to have their statements taken down. Later on, they might even be called to give testimony against the operators in court.

But I think the customers are usually not charged (mental note to self - got to ask a lawyer one of these days). Whether one needs to go to the police station would depend on various factors, such as whether one is caught in the act, the gal was caught naked, condoms were found or not, etc.

So if caught in a raid, just be humble, don't LCLY, don't show attitude. Maybe the MIB would kasi chance. :D

[dathinman]

Flyjacket,

I don't really see that. Else there would be more missionaries around.

[Nan Hong Gui]

Ya i agree with u bro :) ha ha