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SexAnalyst
04-05-2020, 04:01 AM
Had a drink too much, small head took over and visited prc fl. Super worried and anxious...
What was essentially involved
Mouth - licked ears and nipples
Penis - bbbj and cim
Finger - fingered her cb a few strokes
What I did afterwards
Feeling instant regret, I immediately went to shower and applied body soap on the penis. After reaching home, I used alcohol swab on the whole penis and balls. Also gargled with listerine. 1 hour later, I decided to apply liberal amounts of povidone iodine for 20mins before rinsing it off.
Diseases
HIV - some risk due to cim
Warts - can be frozen off immunity clears in avg. 2 years
Gonorrhoea - risk, treatable
Hep B - vaccinated when young, but maybe no antibody left
Syphilis - can be tested and treated
Chlamydia - can be tested and treated
Molluscum Contagiosm - Can be frozen off
NGU - can be treated
Herpes - risk, no cure, hopefully no symptoms 3-12 days after exposure
Trichomoniasis - no test for this?
Lymphogranuloma Venereum - related to chlamydia?
Scabies & Lice - treatable, itchy symptoms
Next time should just capped bj, or don't even go liao... sigh
Any samsters also did bbbj but never tio any thing?
Update: 7/05/20 ---------------------------
Hi all, a red rash with yellow pus has developed on the scrotum, it is not itchy, but it burns whenever touched by fabric or hand. 4 days since exposure.
Is it herpes? Should I go for a herpes PCR swab? :( Thanks.
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Big Sexy
04-05-2020, 03:29 PM
dont worry yourself sick...
just go for a test after the window period. :)
short answers to some of your doubts
the window period can be anything 4-6 weeks
https://sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=15812261&postcount=19
Herpes - risk, no cure, hopefully no symptoms 3-12 days after exposure
the vaccine dont last forever, i have a few post on it..u might wanna go search for it.. everyone should go a test and a boaster like every 10 years
Hep B - vaccinated when young, but maybe no antibody left
there is test for it..
Trichomoniasis - no test for this?
sort of...caused by the same bacterium chlamydia trachomatis, which also causes NGU, PID and afew other problem.. google Chlamydia trachomatis
Lymphogranuloma Venereum - related to chlamydia?
SexAnalyst
05-05-2020, 01:30 AM
dont worry yourself sick...
just go for a test after the window period. :)
there is test for it..
Trichomoniasis - no test for this?
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Browsing through the forums I also realize the bbbj is dangerous. Some of the posts state that the annual rate of transmission for herpes, from female-male is 4 - 10% without outbreak and no condom. Other posts state it's 75%.
Cannot sleep, very depressed and suicidal now. Waiting for herpes to appear in the next 2 weeks. Also don't dare to touch my eye and face areas due to self-infection. Should just masturbated at home instead! What a waste of my life.
This is my first bbbj I really hope I don't get herpes. :(
I checked the DSC clinic, they only have Tricho test for females. I've also been thinking of a method to obtain metronidazole from the doc, to clear any protozoan infection that I might have.
I don't know why I am posting here, I guess it's to find persons with similar situation for comfort - just as they have terminal cancer support groups.
cupid xpress
05-05-2020, 08:09 AM
Just too bad.....
SexAnalyst
05-05-2020, 08:24 AM
Just too bad.....
Bro you bbbj last time got kenna anything?
Big Sexy
05-05-2020, 08:47 AM
see if this makes you feel more comfortable.
1. HSV isnt just your issue, it is a global issue....accordingly to WHO, about 70%-90% of the world population has HSV1 and about 13% of people aged 15 to 49 years worldwide are living with the HSV2 infection in 2016
https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/herpes-simplex-virus
2. HSV isnt gonna to kill you.
3. there are treatment (antiviral medications)available.
4. almost everyone with HSV lives a normal live.
5. it is so common that alot of counties does not bother to include it in the annual health screening or STD checks. from what i know, the WLs in geylang aint even required to test for herpes.. so my advise is only to go for the test if u have the symptoms or if u have a good reason for it..
6. it becomes somewhat subdue the longer u have it.. (shorter and lesser outbreak for most people)
other points to take note of...
a. condom does not fully protect one from getting it.
b. it is advisible for pregnant woman to inform their gynea about their condition.
This is my first bbbj I really hope I don't get herpes. :(
I don't know why I am posting here, I guess it's to find persons with similar situation for comfort - just as they have terminal cancer support groups.
cupid xpress
05-05-2020, 11:18 AM
Bro you bbbj last time got kenna anything?
Kena big time.... I so regret, I think you also GG liao
SexAnalyst
05-05-2020, 12:11 PM
Kena big time.... I so regret, I think you also GG liao
holy fuck... :eek: bro pls share you experience such as exposure time-to symptoms duration, outbreak duration of herpes, whether getting warts frozen off is painful, or if you were cleared, but still experience some sort of idiopathic STD symptoms. so I can know what to expect. :(
Not easy finding gf, harder to raw gf, so I caved. The fl experience was crappy also, dick was limp (alcohol probably), couldn't enter her cb and resorted to cim instead.
fml.
SexAnalyst
05-05-2020, 12:34 PM
see if this makes you feel more comfortable.
a. condom does not fully protect one from getting it.
That's kind true, if the prostitute does ball sucking/licking, which I assume is the SOP, herpes is still transmitted.
This old thread from 2008 says he had 8 encounters, 7 of which were capped bjs, but he still caught herpes. :o
https://sbfsg.net/showthread.php?t=81629
1. HSV isnt just your issue, it is a global issue....accordingly to WHO, about 70%-90% of the world population has HSV1 and about 13% of people aged 15 to 49 years worldwide are living with the HSV2 infection in 2016
True but the stigma is still there, especially when one gets a girlfriend. Do you tell her or hide? It's an ethical question but it's better to assume everyone already has it.
3. there are treatment (antiviral medications)available.
Problem is if I take the meds home, family will recognize it and know what shit I kenna.
5. it is so common that alot of counties does not bother to include it in the annual health screening or STD checks. from what i know, the WLs in geylang aint even required to test for herpes..
I guess the comfort I take is FL less customer compared GL, so the odds of the fl having it is less? But that's stupid to assume as once herpes is there, it's there, especially for sex workers.
The annual transmission rate for sero-discordant couples is 4-10%, so I guess an one off sexual occasion is lower than that??
5 STAR GENERAL
05-05-2020, 01:01 PM
Welcome to the STD club, many people has it but majority of them wont tell you they kenna lottery, so seriously bro, dun over worry, paranoia will kill you before anything.
so many people has it, mayb your future gf might be the one who spread to it if you didnt get it this time. :D
Chill and Cheer up!
True but the stigma is still there, especially when one gets a girlfriend. Do you tell her or hide? It's an ethical question but it's better to assume everyone already has it.
SexAnalyst
05-05-2020, 02:46 PM
I'm beginning to feel a stinging pain in my pee hole, as well as the occasional 2 second itch on the foreskin which comes and goes. FUCK!
Next thing to do is to squeeze my penis whenever I pee to check for any form of non-urine discharge.
Really Hong Kan liao; pleasure is illusory, pain is fucking real.
TheSGBoy
05-05-2020, 04:15 PM
HAHAHHAHA really funny! Been here before, the feeling of anxiety
SexAnalyst
05-05-2020, 06:57 PM
Been here before, the feeling of anxiety
Have u got received bbbj from GL before? Or was it all capped.
Thedeathknight
05-05-2020, 11:50 PM
Get a test done, bro, thats the only way to find out. I don't know how long one must wait to get tests, maybe the senior bros can chime in on that.
These could be some other symptoms, or maybe just you being paranoid. There's only one way to find out I'm beginning to feel a stinging pain in my pee hole, as well as the occasional 2 second itch on the foreskin which comes and goes. FUCK!
Next thing to do is to squeeze my penis whenever I pee to check for any form of non-urine discharge.
Really Hong Kan liao; pleasure is illusory, pain is fucking real.
SexAnalyst
06-05-2020, 02:27 PM
The risk for transmission from women to men was 1.7 transmissions per 1,000 unprotected sex acts (95% CI, 0.6-4.4) and 0.6 per 1,000 protected sex acts (95% CI, 0.2-1.7), or a 65% reduction in HSV-2 transmission with male condom use (95% CI, –5% to 88%).
https://www.healio.com/infectious-disease/stds/news/online/%7B31ed8b2f-7ebc-493d-861f-94056e5a294f%7D/risk-for-hsv-2-transmission-using-condoms-associated-with-gender
1.7 transmissions per 1000 unprotected sex acts for HSV-2 ... means what?
0.17% chance per unprotected act?
....
The average incubation period for an initial herpes infection is 4 days (range, 2 to 12) after exposure,
so i guess if by 15th may no symptoms should be ok.
Magnataur
07-05-2020, 01:27 PM
The risk for transmission from women to men was 1.7 transmissions per 1,000 unprotected sex acts (95% CI, 0.6-4.4) and 0.6 per 1,000 protected sex acts (95% CI, 0.2-1.7), or a 65% reduction in HSV-2 transmission with male condom use (95% CI, –5% to 88%).
https://www.healio.com/infectious-disease/stds/news/online/%7B31ed8b2f-7ebc-493d-861f-94056e5a294f%7D/risk-for-hsv-2-transmission-using-condoms-associated-with-gender
1.7 transmissions per 1000 unprotected sex acts for HSV-2 ... means what?
0.17% chance per unprotected act?
....
The average incubation period for an initial herpes infection is 4 days (range, 2 to 12) after exposure,
so i guess if by 15th may no symptoms should be ok.
TS, you are over worried.
Most likely, you will kena STD at some point of your life.
8-9 out of 10 people around you, are already infected with STD. Some are asymptomatic and they don't even know it unless they do a check.
Cmon, why bother it when you know the fact that most of us already have it.
Just practise safe sex and always wear helmet to prevent yourself from hiv.
SexAnalyst
07-05-2020, 01:42 PM
Hi all, a red rash with yellow pus has developed on the scrotum, it is not itchy, but it burns whenever touched by fabric or hand. 4 days since exposure.
Is it herpes? Should I go for a herpes PCR swab? :( Thanks.
https://i.ibb.co/mzvSnZh/IMG-6832.jpg
https://i.ibb.co/BfxWtZz/IMG-6835.jpg
https://i.ibb.co/tmsJLhY/IMG-6833.jpg
Magnataur
07-05-2020, 03:38 PM
Hi all, a red rash with yellow pus has developed on the scrotum, it is not itchy, but it burns whenever touched by fabric or hand. 4 days since exposure.
Is it herpes? Should I go for a herpes PCR swab? :( Thanks.
https://i.ibb.co/mzvSnZh/IMG-6832.jpg
https://i.ibb.co/BfxWtZz/IMG-6835.jpg
https://i.ibb.co/tmsJLhY/IMG-6833.jpg
It doesn't look like herpes. More into bacterial infection. Go check with DCS
SexAnalyst
07-05-2020, 06:13 PM
It doesn't look like herpes. More into bacterial infection. Go check with DCS
I did soak my package inside bleach for 30 mins... Not sure if it's due to chemical burn or herpes omfg. The whole package is quite red and raw leathery feeling, but only this part of the scrotum has pus...
Generally herpes outbreak should last 2-4 weeks, so if recover before 2 weeks, it might not be herpes.
Best to get it checked by dsc, but if I tell them I had sexual relations during CB period, then how? Will they call cops on me? Or do I lie?
Thedeathknight
07-05-2020, 07:06 PM
The risk for transmission from women to men was 1.7 transmissions per 1,000 unprotected sex acts (95% CI, 0.6-4.4) and 0.6 per 1,000 protected sex acts (95% CI, 0.2-1.7), or a 65% reduction in HSV-2 transmission with male condom use (95% CI, –5% to 88%).
https://www.healio.com/infectious-disease/stds/news/online/%7B31ed8b2f-7ebc-493d-861f-94056e5a294f%7D/risk-for-hsv-2-transmission-using-condoms-associated-with-gender
1.7 transmissions per 1000 unprotected sex acts for HSV-2 ... means what?
0.17% chance per unprotected act?
....
The average incubation period for an initial herpes infection is 4 days (range, 2 to 12) after exposure,
so i guess if by 15th may no symptoms should be ok.
Any idea how long one must wait since exposure/incident to get tested for all STDs at once?
There's no much information online, but couldn't find a timeline for when to get tested.
The odds of getting anything from a one off incident is really low, is what I read. But then again, testing is the best way.
puteh111
07-05-2020, 09:49 PM
I did soak my package inside bleach for 30 mins... Not sure if it's due to chemical burn or herpes omfg. The whole package is quite red and raw leathery feeling, but only this part of the scrotum has pus...
Generally herpes outbreak should last 2-4 weeks, so if recover before 2 weeks, it might not be herpes.
Best to get it checked by dsc, but if I tell them I had sexual relations during CB period, then how? Will they call cops on me? Or do I lie?
huh.. you put in bleach for 30 mins? even you dont get std wont you get some other problems bro
SexAnalyst
07-05-2020, 10:32 PM
Any idea how long one must wait since exposure/incident to get tested for all STDs at once?
There's no much information online, but couldn't find a timeline for when to get tested.
The odds of getting anything from a one off incident is really low, is what I read. But then again, testing is the best way.
Chlamydia 2 – 6 weeks
Gonorrhea 1 week
Hepatitis A 4 weeks
Hepatitis B 4 – 12 weeks
Hepatitis C 5 – 10 weeks
HIV 3 – 12 weeks
Lymphogranuloma Venereum 2 – 6 weeks
Syphilis 3 months
Trichomoniasis Unknown
SexAnalyst
07-05-2020, 10:34 PM
huh.. you put in bleach for 30 mins? even you dont get std wont you get some other problems bro
I did dilute it though... but not doing it again.
Now just wash it daily with iodine and pray to god. It has demonstrated action against herpes.
Ten patients with vulvovaginal cervical herpesvirus infections were treated with a regimen of external and intravaginal povidone-iodine preparations. In all but 1 case, the expected duration of symptoms and healing time were shortened. The response of cervical lesions was especially remarkable.
https://journals.lww.com/greenjournal/Abstract/1975/03000/EFFECT_OF_POVIDONE_IODINE_ON_HERPES_GENITALIS_.22. aspx
Twenty-two patients with Herpes Simplex were treated with Betadine (povidone iodine) Antiseptic paint and seven with 5% idoxuridine in dimethyl sulphoxide, also one patient with bilateral lesions was treated with the two solutions, one on each side. The povidone iodine alcohol solution appeared to be at least as effective as the idoxuridine with minimal side-effects (some stinging in two patients). Good results were also obtained with this solution in twelve patients with Herpes Zoster.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/913866
A preliminary evaluation was carried out in 23 patients with herpes genitalis to assess the effectiveness of a 10% alcoholic povidone-iodine solution applied twice daily for up to 14 days. Clinical diagnosis was supported by positive herpes simplex virus culture in 14 patients. The lesions cleared after an average of 8.9 days' treatment in 8 males presenting with herpes genitalis for the first time, and in 6.1 days in 9 males with recurrent infection, 6 of whom had shown no apparent improvement on other therapies. The 4 female patients presenting with herpes genitalis for the first time all showed substantial improvement or complete remission within 7 days, and the lesions in the 2 women with recurrent infection cleared within the same period.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/520023
Magnataur
09-05-2020, 11:11 PM
I did soak my package inside bleach for 30 mins... Not sure if it's due to chemical burn or herpes omfg. The whole package is quite red and raw leathery feeling, but only this part of the scrotum has pus...
Generally herpes outbreak should last 2-4 weeks, so if recover before 2 weeks, it might not be herpes.
Best to get it checked by dsc, but if I tell them I had sexual relations during CB period, then how? Will they call cops on me? Or do I lie?
Bro bleach is not something that you should wash your Didi like that.
Yes, most likely it is due to some chemical reactions. Next time, relax and don't self diagnosis. You may do more harm than the actual cause does.
Monitor for some few days and it still persists, go and see dcs.
You tell them that you have a sex with your gf lah bro. Nobody point gun at you to tell the truth. Must teach all those stuff meh.
Haha, anyway, don't be overwhelmed by it. Best is relax your mind...
henry_ang10
11-05-2020, 12:14 AM
It doesn't look like herpes. More into bacterial infection. Go check with DCS
yap.. it looks like burnt from the bleach.. paranoid la TS.. even if we soak our fingers or body in soap water for a long time, our skin will get irritated and skin will be inflammed and started having peeling skins..
I dun think is anything la ...
sammyboyfor
11-05-2020, 06:27 AM
Hi all, a red rash with yellow pus has developed on the scrotum, it is not itchy, but it burns whenever touched by fabric or hand. 4 days since exposure.
Is it herpes? Should I go for a herpes PCR swab? :( Thanks.
That does not look like herpes at all it looks far more like dermatitis caused by whatever stuff you have applied.
Just leave things alone and all should be well.
The only part of you that is actually unwell at the moment is your mind. It's screwing you.
Chances of you catching something is very low.
Take up a new hobby or something to distract yourself from overthinking this whole episode.
Before you know it this episode of anxiety will be over and you can then then start enjoying commercial sex rather than spending time worrying about the consequences.
daijiro
11-05-2020, 04:34 PM
出来玩的人,10个字送你:
要玩不怕死,怕死不要玩。
From the day you wanted to enjoy yourself, you have already taken a route which if you r “fortunate” to contact with the virus, there is no turning back. You signed a “contract” that you r willing to put everything (family, friends and your LIFE) on the line.
sammyboyfor
11-05-2020, 04:56 PM
出来玩的人,10个字送你:
要玩不怕死,怕死不要玩。
From the day you wanted to enjoy yourself, you have already taken a route which if you r “fortunate” to contact with the virus, there is no turning back. You signed a “contract” that you r willing to put everything (family, friends and your LIFE) on the line.
Like I said I doubt very much that he has caught anything. BBBJ is low risk.
daijiro
11-05-2020, 06:13 PM
Low risk doesn’t mean no risk.
ddki81
11-05-2020, 09:01 PM
just a side topic...is getting acyclovir over the counter need provide any doctor letter?
Just share with bro here, to minimize your cost, you should check:
after 1 month:
STD & HIV
after 3 months:
HIV
DSC is the most affordable however u need to book appointment in 1.5 weeks in advance.
samdiy
22-05-2020, 04:43 PM
I did soak my package inside bleach for 30 mins... Not sure if it's due to chemical burn or herpes omfg. The whole package is quite red and raw leathery feeling, but only this part of the scrotum has pus...
Generally herpes outbreak should last 2-4 weeks, so if recover before 2 weeks, it might not be herpes.
Best to get it checked by dsc, but if I tell them I had sexual relations during CB period, then how? Will they call cops on me? Or do I lie?
Bro,Don't anyhow self medicate unless you have heard of testicular implants.I know of some one who usee the wrong type of antiseptic cream on his crotch infection,his skin became partly liquefied like over a small area.Hevcould hardly walk.Had to change dressing twice a day,washing thoroughly and reapplying sticky cream.The special dressing for burn wounds cost him $25 each change or $50 per day.30 days is $1500 pm.Yes it took a long time to heal.He shuffled instead of walk because it was so painful.Plus going to specialist dermatologist,andcoral medication,cost him thousands in treatment just because he applied wrong cream.Please see a skin doctor ASAP.
WorriedSick
24-05-2020, 02:23 PM
I went thru this whole procedure b4, but mine was bbbj in the past, went for several checks and no herpes thank god.
2nd time had protected fj and bj and went for pep, cost a bomb and couldnt sleep for 6 months cause of the incubation period.
Testing, 1month after pep 4th gen, 3 months and 6 months respectively.
Thereafter i told myself pcc better. Stay safe.
For bbbj, hiv is negligible risk, i think u should worry more about chlamydia and gonorrhoea.
Btw for hep b, if ur last vaccine was when u were a kid, it would be almost 0 by now. I did the testing 2 yrs ago in mid 20s, almost 0, thereafter did twinrix jab at DTAP.
If u want to save $, do it at clinic for hep b, medisave claimable
pearlnjewel
27-05-2020, 01:58 AM
at Threadstarter
All guys worry and went through also. People who fuck the girls raw will die worrying. Then have to go through what you went through, always worry. Its like a rite of passage for all guys. Just go check up come out again one hero. Then you go fuck again. Never ending.
Think your kkj soft because you too tired, or alcohol, or not use to fls because the mental guilt cause your kkj to soft. If you fuck the FLs regularly kkj will be damn hard and shiok, after you got over the guilt part to sex overdrive mode. The PRC a lot different from the photos one. Proceed with caution. Just siam them if they look like KNS. Maybe your kkj soft because the PRC she keep hurrying you?
Enjoy the sex with the Fls, protect yourself also unless you want hero shoot inside all the girls. Can raw the girls but one day will meet with mishap.
peeboy75
28-05-2020, 01:25 PM
Just my thoughts...out of all the stds and what not, im mostly afraid of only hiv and syphilis.
Why? Hiv: incurable and stays for life..but pretty difficult to catch if just stick to covered fj all the time
Syphilis: symptoms and what it does to you in long term if untreated is really horrifying..
Other stds are pretty small fry if u ask me...may be painful but all treatable some what..
kurtis
28-05-2020, 01:46 PM
I hope the next person who is in a similar dilemma would not chance upon TS thread.
TS, you need to calm yourself. your life isn't gonna be fucked due to any of the disease or virus that you had listed. furthermore, there are wealth of information in the forum and fellow samsters sharing advices and what not with you.
calm yourself and be rational.
WorriedSick
29-05-2020, 11:59 AM
Just my thoughts...out of all the stds and what not, im mostly afraid of only hiv and syphilis.
Why? Hiv: incurable and stays for life..but pretty difficult to catch if just stick to covered fj all the time
Syphilis: symptoms and what it does to you in long term if untreated is really horrifying..
Other stds are pretty small fry if u ask me...may be painful but all treatable some what..
U should be more worried of chlamdyia than syphillis. Syphillis has symptoms that are noticeable like full body rash in secondary stage.
Lately the strains for chlamydia and gonorrhoea are getting stronger..
CumExplorer
29-05-2020, 12:52 PM
I hope the next person who is in a similar dilemma would not chance upon TS thread.
TS, you need to calm yourself. your life isn't gonna be fucked due to any of the disease or virus that you had listed. furthermore, there are wealth of information in the forum and fellow samsters sharing advices and what not with you.
calm yourself and be rational.
good advice bro, up you :D
henry_ang10
30-05-2020, 05:40 PM
TS, any updates?
I think handjob safer.. as long as u cum, that is the ultimate aim right? some of u enjoy the process aka sex.. some of u just want to cum .. for those who just want to cum, handjob best.. no worries and u get ur ultimate goal and cheaper too haha
WorriedSick
30-05-2020, 08:11 PM
TS, any updates?
I think handjob safer.. as long as u cum, that is the ultimate aim right? some of u enjoy the process aka sex.. some of u just want to cum .. for those who just want to cum, handjob best.. no worries and u get ur ultimate goal and cheaper too haha
That's true, but instead of paying i use my hand to do the job haha. That way after i cum alr i don't have the after guilt feeling.
henry_ang10
31-05-2020, 12:54 AM
That's true, but instead of paying i use my hand to do the job haha. That way after i cum alr i don't have the after guilt feeling.
haha bro, there is difference between DIY and asking FL to do it for u :) at least u can dig her cb :)
BUT handjob is the safest way if u go for commercial service liao... next maybe bj... but handjob shd be 99.99% safe if after digging her cb, u dun touch ur own dick, then ask her wipe her hand with antibacterial tissue or sanitizer..
I think some of us just need to cum then we will be satisfied (like getting our stomach full can already, cheap cai png will do, even instant noodle...no need go posh restaurant).. so handjob is the best.
But i also know some of us need the fucking process plus the cum (like going to posh restaurant for good food to fill the stomach)... hahaha... then handjob will not be enough..
My own worry is sometimes eat too much cai png want to eat something good :) like sometimes too many handjobs then want FJ... but always tell myself CANNOT wait kana STDs... I read story here some bros go bbbj once only then suay suay kana STDs liao..scary
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