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Firefly94
14-03-2021, 11:06 AM
cant be ED right?

i also tried 2 weeks no fap, but it got worse, the lesser i fap, the hard it takes for me to erect.

i also quite selective on porn, has to be those really chio type. is this normal?
fallen11
14-03-2021, 02:27 PM
cant be ED right?

i also tried 2 weeks no fap, but it got worse, the lesser i fap, the hard it takes for me to erect.

i also quite selective on porn, has to be those really chio type. is this normal?

very normal
probably the problem lies in your mind
like porn addiction etc
try and go MP and let the girl tease you / hj
if it stands within a short time, then no problem. need to test it out with a real girl to see how deep your problem lies.
larue
15-03-2021, 12:05 PM
Completely stop watching porn and fapping. Find an ugly girl to fuck.

If 2 weeks doesn't work, try 3 weeks. Then 4 weeks.
watersky
15-03-2021, 01:06 PM
You can check out this site.

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/
kalchansy
27-03-2021, 11:04 AM
You can check out this site.

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/

Nice share bro. Learned a few things there. :)
watersky
27-03-2021, 07:55 PM
Nice share bro. Learned a few things there. :)

You are welcome :)

You can also check out this Youtube Channel.
https://www.youtube.com/user/bvrningqvestions/videos

A lot of great information about porn addiction.
Legionnaire
29-03-2021, 10:33 PM
cant be ED right?

i also tried 2 weeks no fap, but it got worse, the lesser i fap, the hard it takes for me to erect.

i also quite selective on porn, has to be those really chio type. is this normal?


need to stop watching porn
BlackClover
30-03-2021, 07:00 AM
Possible is also anxiety and lack of real life experience. If you are nervous your body tensed up and hard to achieve erection. You must learn to be relax in real life. Unless you are hardcore porn addicts, I don't think that matter. I watch porn too and have no problem with erection in real life.
Tornadoflame
04-04-2021, 09:14 PM
Same prob here, girl has to be pretty if not hard to maintain erection. Sometimes I need to look at their face irl while fking.

Worse as I seldom come via penetrative sex. only oral and HJ does the trick

Maybe fap too much lol
Registar
14-04-2021, 11:10 AM
it's the mind thingy. sometimes i just watched porn on my phone when having sex with less desirable ladies. it helps.
DoctorTan
16-04-2021, 08:23 AM
Internet Porn causing sexual dysfunction is a real thing.
Read this article by Dr Bryan Park:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5039517/

It talks about porn giving supernormal stimulus and the neuroplasticity of the brain adapting to this

I have seen patients who literally have to watch porn on their phones while having sex with their partners

In medical circles this is treated very much like an addiction. Stop watching porn is certainly the first step. Temporary use of medicines like Viagra to allow you to perform while your brain adapts away from porn may also help.
Xgenre
16-04-2021, 08:58 AM
Masterbation is just hand moving over cock. Actual sex requires you to move the entire body. How is your fitness level? Any health issues like hypertension? You may not have the fitness to have sex till you cum.
StealthBomber
16-04-2021, 09:12 AM
Internet Porn causing sexual dysfunction is a real thing.
Read this article by Dr Bryan Park:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5039517/

It talks about porn giving supernormal stimulus and the neuroplasticity of the brain adapting to this

I have seen patients who literally have to watch porn on their phones while having sex with their partners

In medical circles this is treated very much like an addiction. Stop watching porn is certainly the first step. Temporary use of medicines like Viagra to allow you to perform while your brain adapts away from porn may also help.

Doctor, certainly brain / mental state has a big role to play. Like how stress totally kills performance :) Concern about using meds is that, again, mental state might shift to psychological dependence on it. Is this a possibility and creating a new problem?
DoctorTan
17-04-2021, 10:08 AM
Doctor, certainly brain / mental state has a big role to play. Like how stress totally kills performance :) Concern about using meds is that, again, mental state might shift to psychological dependence on it. Is this a possibility and creating a new problem?

You are absolutely right. We are concerned about creating a psychological dependence on meds. What some Doctors do to overcome this is to give these meds on a scheduled dose rather than a on-demand dose. In my personal experience, most of my patients actually are able to stop using the meds and do not develop a dependence.

Of course if the patient can recover without meds that will be ideal. I have tried referring some patients to a therapist/counsellor but many times the counsellor advises the patient to come back to see me for meds.

It is a challenging issue and I certainly admit western medicine does not have ideal solutions.