provide tips for a first timer

[spotlight7]

Hi I am in my early 20s and recently I have been wanting to try this. Anybody care to provide some tips for a first timer like me? Any tips is appreciated :)

[tealover88888]

Tip #1: don’t overpay.. there’s a recent thread on pricing

I’m still learning too :D

[morrissey1209]

Depends on what service you are engaging. I say work around the $50 mark (at least must grab boobs) but other bros may suggest less.

[K99125]

Hi I am in my early 20s and recently I have been wanting to try this. Anybody care to provide some tips for a first timer like me? Any tips is appreciated :)

try what?
standard rate
normal massage 10-30
hj 50
fj 100 - 150

if u kena KC than anything goes.

[1ly4sam]

I would say wait.... not a good time to start :(
wait for business back to life

[Kongyong]

Only if you like the gal and intend to make her your regular. Otherwise no point.

[ladyassasinato]

Depends what you want. If you just want to try for once n don't want to come back just pay the minimum.

For me, when I tried a ML who is good, when tipping her I will take out a stack of blue notes. Pick out one piece, hand over to her and say - if you perform better, I will give you two.

Next time when you are back, she will give her best to you. Remember, when you pay peanut, you get monkey. :D

[spotlight7]

mostly just wanna grab boobs and maybe a hj/boob job since their assets are alot better than local �� been eyeing a few on sgl

[hannibald]

Don't do it. Once your turn to the darkside, there is no going back.

[SweatingBullets]

Depends what you want. If you just want to try for once n don't want to come back just pay the minimum.

For me, when I tried a ML who is good, when tipping her I will take out a stack of blue notes. Pick out one piece, hand over to her and say - if you perform better, I will give you two.

Next time when you are back, she will give her best to you. Remember, when you pay peanut, you get monkey. :D

Power tip bro, I like!

[ladyassasinato]

Power tip bro, I like!

Only do that to those chio bu with good service who I want to return often. Lousy one I don't even entertain a HJ. 😄

[Lubber]

Hi I am in my early 20s and recently I have been wanting to try this. Anybody care to provide some tips for a first timer like me? Any tips is appreciated :)

姐姐， 我第一次
温柔点好吗 :o:o

[kombust]

Don't do it. Once your turn to the darkside, there is no going back.

i agree bro. don't do it. go have normal relationships with normal girls. be a playboy all you want. this habit is not worth starting.

[K99125]

Don't do it. Once your turn to the darkside, there is no going back.

wahahha those who logged in here already in the darkside. juz tat those kena KC or havent kena.

[K99125]

Depends what you want. If you just want to try for once n don't want to come back just pay the minimum.

For me, when I tried a ML who is good, when tipping her I will take out a stack of blue notes. Pick out one piece, hand over to her and say - if you perform better, I will give you two.

Next time when you are back, she will give her best to you. Remember, when you pay peanut, you get monkey. :D

you sound like bro DC, got money to burn. true enough, more $$$ speed up and unlock more service from the gals.

[Kongyong]

One more tip is don’t get too emotionally involved. Play safe and cheers.

[Awabi]

A rather unpopular opinion but. Dont start.

Kinda like smoking, kinda like drugs.
The first time you go you'll experience a never before pleasure, unless u kena some poor quality chicks. Then you'll keep come back for more. 1 month once, 1 week once, to a point of wanna chiong everyday. Then pockets get burnt. Then fears of STI sinks in. Then if you have GF, you expect more or less the same wild shit the MLs/FLs provide, cuz usually vanilla fucks ain't satisfy you no more, potentially ruining relationships. If you're gullible enough you may get KC-ed by the ladies, then it becomes mental damage too.

Well at least thats what happened to me during my first year of chionging about a decade ago. Luckily I was able to wisen up and chiong abit more responsibly, by not getting too involved, seeing through their crap talk, and keeping my urges in check (the hardest by far)

YMMV la. Can't really say I regretted the chionging nor will I stop chionging for the foreseeable future. But if I had the choice I'd rather not have jumped down this rabbit hole entirely.

[Powerman881]

Once u start, there is no turning back.

I still remember i started during the YHC at Bugis era.

[Charlie130X]

Hi I am in my early 20s and recently I have been wanting to try this. Anybody care to provide some tips for a first timer like me? Any tips is appreciated :)

As you can see, you want tips, come to SBF forum more often. Plenty to pick up from bros here:D:D

But hor, best is to heed those advice lah - Don't ever start it and if you can't, then Don't ever get KC by ML else you are sure to run into financial and emotional trauma.

Good luck bro!

[MaxTea]

last time can spend money on HC as there are quality viet woman, nowsaday all cannot make it

[Kigsmen]

Agree with all the bros here. Once you start, it doesn't stop.
It's like an addiction. Only tips is self-control and don't do anything you will regret.

[Easyhero]

Hi I am in my early 20s and recently I have been wanting to try this. Anybody care to provide some tips for a first timer like me? Any tips is appreciated :)

I heard some ML give tips to first timer (aka virgin), so after you try, let us know if you got any tips :D

[qazxcvbnm]

Like what the rest said, don’t start if you haven’t. If unfortunately you had, don’t fall into KC traps. There are better use for your hard earned money. For cheonging, know what you want and what is being offered upfront, don’t pay first until after the deed, unless you absolutely have to.

Cheers.

[phelps]

Depends what you want. If you just want to try for once n don't want to come back just pay the minimum.

For me, when I tried a ML who is good, when tipping her I will take out a stack of blue notes. Pick out one piece, hand over to her and say - if you perform better, I will give you two.

Next time when you are back, she will give her best to you. Remember, when you pay peanut, you get monkey. :D

That is nice one.;)

[spotlight7]

thanks to all the bros here for the advices and I'll consider it seriously hahaha cause you know its the "everything must try once in life" mindset... glad to see people sharing tips and learning :)

[spotlight7]

thanks bros for all the tips hahaha will consider it again but you know la the "everything must try once in life" kind of mindset somemore their assets... local cant compare must try try at least once in life mah :D glad to see all the tips being shared here

[sinjiao]

thanks bros for all the tips hahaha will consider it again but you know la the "everything must try once in life" kind of mindset somemore their assets... local cant compare must try try at least once in life mah :D glad to see all the tips being shared here

what assets? they are all the same. Just artificially increased or not.
I agree with some bros here. Don't start if you could. There is no turning back.

[Greybunny]

thanks bros for all the tips hahaha will consider it again but you know la the "everything must try once in life" kind of mindset somemore their assets... local cant compare must try try at least once in life mah :D glad to see all the tips being shared here

In the same situation as you actually. Looking to try for the first time but and also in 20s. I usually just scroll through the ML stuff and feel shiok shiok for the people that posted. Way more worth to find a local and just invest time and money on her. Safer and cheaper in the long run.

P.s. currently been with my gf for 5 years already still 0 sexual stuff going on so I can kinda understand what you mean by wanting to explore the assets 😈

[Greybunny]

thanks bros for all the tips hahaha will consider it again but you know la the "everything must try once in life" kind of mindset somemore their assets... local cant compare must try try at least once in life mah :D glad to see all the tips being shared here

Cheaper and safer to get a gf with the kind of assets you want to mess around with tbh. I'm actually in the same situation as you right now, 20s, thinking about trying for the first time. Confirm will tio hook if you experience your first time as the ones described in a bunch of posts going around. Better to just read their posts and feel shiok shiok and find a gf that will let you explore tgt. Investing in local gf cheaper in the long run for sure and they have a lower chance of messing you up. :D

[Zzun]

Started when I was early 20s too. It is indeed pleasurable. Gets more addictive once started work, used it to destress. Just pace it out and set aside some budget so you don't overspend or give in to temptation. There are so many greatly skilled ML out there.

If you are the save money type then don't try.

[spotlight7]

been wanting some massage thats why thought of this hahaha since going massage might as well happy abit

[mime999]

What in the world.

[Greybunny]

Still havent done the whole massage thing before, so I can only chat from what I've read on this forum. It depends on which MP you go to some that have attached showers will make you shower first. Some just give you a quick wipe. Some dont care at all. Most of the time they do give you disposable underwear to change into or you can go naked on the massage table or bed depending.

Then will be followed by your massage and other stuff after that. ;)

[SweatingBullets]

Ahaa, I'm in the same boat as you, dude. Tbh, I'm probably more of a loser, 30 and still a V, quite keen to try, but don't even know how this works.

Do I just shower and wait naked for the ML?? Do I put on clothes??


You're not a loser bro. I wish I was in your shoes. Stick to your principles.

Do I regret going to the dark side? No and yes.
No - had fun.
Yes - At what cost? All the bros here stated already.

"The dark side of the Force is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural" - Darth Sidious

[sshelterz]

Don't do it. Once your turn to the darkside, there is no going back.

Yes bro... same for me. Now i am a tourist in the dark side

[sshelterz]

Started when I was early 20s too. It is indeed pleasurable. Gets more addictive once started work, used it to destress. Just pace it out and set aside some budget so you don't overspend or give I in to temptation. There are so many greatly skilled ML out there.

If you are the save money type then don't try.

I started in my 40s. Before that clean quiet church boy. No matter when you start it is the same. NO TURNING BACK.

[mime999]

You're not a loser bro. I wish I was in your shoes. Stick to your principles.

Do I regret going to the dark side? No and yes.
No - had fun.
Yes - At what cost? All the bros here stated already.

"The dark side of the Force is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural" - Darth Sidious

Yeah, I get what you mean. I can already feel the sin.

But it's like, I don't want to turn into an ah pek without having felt initimacy, ykwim? Even if it's paid for, even if it's not real, even if it's for an hour, at least it's something?

I've gone through thirty years like this, it's terrifying to think the rest of my life will be like that too.

[heyumf]

Do it at ur risk can be addictive

[tealover88888]

Ok real talk bros, anyone successfully quit before? (Or know anyone who quit?)

The sample will be skewed since those who quit won’t be browsing this forum for that matter lol

[hannibald]

Yeah, I get what you mean. I can already feel the sin.

But it's like, I don't want to turn into an ah pek without having felt initimacy, ykwim? Even if it's paid for, even if it's not real, even if it's for an hour, at least it's something?

I've gone through thirty years like this, it's terrifying to think the rest of my life will be like that too.

All the more you shouldn't start.

Why?

Having regular paid sex or sexual gratification via means of paid HJ or BJ will inevitably reduce the motivation for you to seek a fulfilling relationship with a normal girl.

If at the age of 30, you have not had a relationship, perhaps its more worthwhile for you to seek relationship consultation rather than to spend money on commercial sex. Even going for paid dating agencies or paid dating app is more worthwhile. At least you will be meeting real people rather than meeting women whose main purpose is to pleasure you for a sum of money.

Once you start going down this road, it will be very hard to turn back.

[afterburn]

Hi I am in my early 20s and recently I have been wanting to try this. Anybody care to provide some tips for a first timer like me? Any tips is appreciated :)

Early 20s better stick to normal relationships first :D Paid services will totally screw up your whole perspective as other posters have stated. Not to mention, burn a hole in your finances at a young age when you most need to build your savings.

It's great that nowadays there are dating apps and is widely accepted. In my time only have SDS or SDU, and viewed as only for hopeless people, lol. Some might remember what SDU stood for

[SweatingBullets]

Yeah, I get what you mean. I can already feel the sin.

But it's like, I don't want to turn into an ah pek without having felt initimacy, ykwim? Even if it's paid for, even if it's not real, even if it's for an hour, at least it's something?

I've gone through thirty years like this, it's terrifying to think the rest of my life will be like that too.

If you really curious, then up to you.. at the end of the day, it's your decision and your life.. you do you. As long as you don't harm anyone, can already.

Should you wish to proceed, do so with caution. The path of the darkside is generally the same but individual experiences will differ.. that's where you will learn how to navigate..

[sgsingaboy]

Ahaa, I'm in the same boat as you, dude. Tbh, I'm probably more of a loser, 30 and still a V, quite keen to try, but don't even know how this works.

Do I just shower and wait naked for the ML?? Do I put on clothes??

Rule number 1: Use a cap if the opportunity/risk presents itself. You are V so don't be so adventurous if you decided to plunge into this world of sin.

Shower:
Yes. Some bathrooms are inside your room. Some are common bathrooms.

Clothing:
See where you go. Different shop different rules. See if they provide disposable undies. If have just change into it. If they provide the washable kind, ask for disposable, citing allergy or cleanliness concerns. If don't provide, just be naked and cover yourself with blanket.

Opportunity:
See what they are wearing. Listen to what they say.

[sgsingaboy]

been wanting some massage thats why thought of this hahaha since going massage might as well happy abit

For curiosity sake can try la. I visited my first HC when i was 19yo. Got a hj and touch touch squeeze squeeze a young 20plus Msian babe. Nice and exciting for a first timer. But i was not addicted at all.

After that i didnt visit any of these venues at all until i became an uncle lor.

I can go without it but i enjoy my weekly routine nowadays. :)

If you really want to try better to try those confirm will offer to you ones. Don't go for those need to unlock level then can challenge boss kind. Don't waste time. Save those when you are familiar with the scene.

[paymaster]

go to my threads and read


Hi I am in my early 20s and recently I have been wanting to try this. Anybody care to provide some tips for a first timer like me? Any tips is appreciated :)

[Topshag33]

Anyone here get any good ml or wl from Michat.. very skeptical on the prices ..

[cutecuteboy]

Hi I am in my early 20s and recently I have been wanting to try this. Anybody care to provide some tips for a first timer like me? Any tips is appreciated :)

I have no idea knowing whether you are a real account of a early 20s guy or not, but I will advise you on a perspective of what I would do if I am at your age again.

We men hunger for one desire, sex. This can be seen from either Darwin human evolution viewpoint, or Freudian Theory of Sexuality.
Sounds very cheem and cheesy right?

In summary, sex desire and us, men will never leave each other.

So rather than spending TOO MUCH money on chionging, do go upgrade yourself.
Do go get yourself educated, climb the corporate ladder, open your firm, go gym build up yourself, build up an investment portfolio, get a nice house and car.

Once your self confidence level build up, you will find yourself able to attract gals, both ML/FL, and non-WL/FL.

There's always pride and cheekiness in my eyes whenever I stepped into a SQ biz class cabin with the young stewardesses dropping numbers.

There is a long path ahead for a young 20s, but among all the chatters of which MLs/FLs provide best service, you can be assured my advice is most promising and rewarding in a decade time.

Time is one thing that I will never be able to get back, and so do everyone here. So make use of your age wisely. :cool:

[mime999]

I have no idea knowing whether you are a real account of a early 20s guy or not, but I will advise you on a perspective of what I would do if I am at your age again.

We men hunger for one desire, sex. This can be seen from either Darwin human evolution viewpoint, or Freudian Theory of Sexuality.
Sounds very cheem and cheesy right?

In summary, sex desire and us, men will never leave each other.

So rather than spending TOO MUCH money on chionging, do go upgrade yourself.
Do go get yourself educated, climb the corporate ladder, open your firm, go gym build up yourself, build up an investment portfolio, get a nice house and car.

Once your self confidence level build up, you will find yourself able to attract gals, both ML/FL, and non-WL/FL.

There's always pride and cheekiness in my eyes whenever I stepped into a SQ biz class cabin with the young stewardesses dropping numbers.

There is a long path ahead for a young 20s, but among all the chatters of which MLs/FLs provide best service, you can be assured my advice is most promising and rewarding in a decade time.

Time is one thing that I will never be able to get back, and so do everyone here. So make use of your age wisely. :cool:
Wow, pro, boss!

What brings you here if you have our SQ gals dropping their numbers for you? Large appetite?

[Nicktamer99]

Wow, pro, boss!

What brings you here if you have our SQ gals dropping their numbers for you? Large appetite?
Bro cute cute boy,
Ignore the question. Only folks who don’t have it and haven’t seen it ask such questions…..

[sgsingaboy]

There's always pride and cheekiness in my eyes whenever I stepped into a SQ biz class cabin with the young stewardesses dropping numbers.


I'm so not going to bring my wife and children into the biz class the next time i fly :D

[Axel88]

As what many bros have pointed out there is no turning back. Only way is to train your self control and keep strictly to your budget. The hardest part is when you are having a shitty time at work and you need an outlet to destress. At my craziest i went 3 times in a week at one point. Now trying to keep it to once every week or once every 1.5 weeks.

If you do start my only advise is draw a clear line between yourself and the ML. This is especially important when it comes to those MLs you are closer to. Those that you visit so often that they become like friends. These are the most dangerous ones because you stop seeing them as just a service provider and its easy to get very emotional when it comes to them. Make sure you never cross that line.

[lanjiaoz11]

Ahaa, I'm in the same boat as you, dude. Tbh, I'm probably more of a loser, 30 and still a V, quite keen to try, but don't even know how this works.

Do I just shower and wait naked for the ML?? Do I put on clothes??

Your life, your call. I don't really visit massage parlor due to cost or service limitations.

I was a virgin till my early 20s and decided to try Geylang cat 50. If you asked me if I have regretted my decision - the answer is no. I will probably be a virgin till my 30s if I have not tried it. The only thing painful about this is thinking back on the money spent.

My only advice to you is to do your research in this forum. There's a lot of landmines in the current climate due to the shortages of new WL landing on our shores. And always wear cap for BJ.

[cutecuteboy]

Wow, pro, boss!

What brings you here if you have our SQ gals dropping their numbers for you? Large appetite?

I don’t expect a troll like you to understand with questions asking whether to shower or be clothed while waiting for ML.

Bro cute cute boy,
Ignore the question. Only folks who don’t have it and haven’t seen it ask such questions…..

Totally appreciate it bro. I have no intention to boast my achievements but just to encourage a young man to spend reasonably within his budget and use his youth and money wisely for his future.

I'm so not going to bring my wife and children into the biz class the next time i fly :D

Eh? Boss, I hope I didn’t give you a wrong impression I’m Andy Lau or Aaron Kwok looking. Far from it, I’m just a peasant who worked hard and had some luck along my life journey. Rest assured we can have a drink and chat while onboard.

Perhaps I could be even of service to you. ;)

[mime999]

I don’t expect a troll like you to understand with questions asking whether to shower or be clothed while waiting for ML.



Totally appreciate it bro. I have no intention to boast my achievements but just to encourage a young man to spend reasonably within his budget and use his youth and money wisely for his future.



Eh? Boss, I hope I didn’t give you a wrong impression I’m Andy Lau or Aaron Kwok looking. Far from it, I’m just a peasant who worked hard and had some luck along my life journey. Rest assured we can have a drink and chat while onboard.

Perhaps I could be even of service to you. ;)
Not sure what I said to make people think I'm being a troll, to be honest.

I'm being serious and envious of your achievements.

Just that personally if SQ girls gave me their numbers, I wouldn't be here, that's all.

But okay, forget it. If my appreciative comments are being taken as sarcastic, then I'll bow out. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

[Kongyong]

Not sure what I said to make people think I'm being a troll, to be honest.

I'm being serious and envious of your achievements.

Just that personally if SQ girls gave me their numbers, I wouldn't be here, that's all.

But okay, forget it. If my appreciative comments are being taken as sarcastic, then I'll bow out. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

Whatever is said here just take it as a pinch of salt. You will never know it is real or not. Cheers.

[Kongyong]

As what many bros have pointed out there is no turning back. Only way is to train your self control and keep strictly to your budget. The hardest part is when you are having a shitty time at work and you need an outlet to destress. At my craziest i went 3 times in a week at one point. Now trying to keep it to once every week or once every 1.5 weeks.

If you do start my only advise is draw a clear line between yourself and the ML. This is especially important when it comes to those MLs you are closer to. Those that you visit so often that they become like friends. These are the most dangerous ones because you stop seeing them as just a service provider and its easy to get very emotional when it comes to them. Make sure you never cross that line.

That is true. Don’t cross the emotional threshold. Currently I am trying to overcome one by spreading my visit to others. If the gal has feeling for you will be even worst. I had one heart pain in the past. Have since learnt my lesson. Although still in touch and looked for her a few times there. But such relationship hard to sustain. But the time with her here still give a sweet memory especially the time together during her off day. Cheong safe.

[pete_the_fish]

Early 20s better stick to normal relationships first :D Paid services will totally screw up your whole perspective as other posters have stated. Not to mention, burn a hole in your finances at a young age when you most need to build your savings.

It's great that nowadays there are dating apps and is widely accepted. In my time only have SDS or SDU, and viewed as only for hopeless people, lol. Some might remember what SDU stood for I tried those dating services. Even In early 2000s when there are messenger apps. Those dating services fail cos cannot choose and see photos it's like blind dates most CMI. But my hit rate for messenger apps much higher lol mostly international, batam, but, pinoy , and a d cup Malaysian who I only have phone set with, damn wasted.

[footloverboi]

These are by far the wisest words i am reading from you guys.

[Humchipeng]

Don't do it. Once your turn to the darkside, there is no going back.

Super true 😜😜😜

[Prince Devitt]

Like what the rest said, don’t start if you haven’t. If unfortunately you had, don’t fall into KC traps. There are better use for your hard earned money. For cheonging, know what you want and what is being offered upfront, don’t pay first until after the deed, unless you absolutely have to.

Cheers.

Please make post so can up you back.

[qazxcvbnm]

Please make post so can up you back.

Thank you bro Prince. 😊

[Errornotfound]

Hahaa no la dont start. Save the money for your future gf.

Every session I will tell myself that its gonna be my last one and guess what, I just made appointment for massage later 🤣🤣

[lonelyman007k]

"Once you pop, you can't stop!"~Pringles

[Errornotfound]

"Once you pop, you can't stop!"~Pringles

Haha this is funny 😂