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hello bro, r u the girl or really yr lady friend from msn??? yr friend asked u to use dark orchid colour ah??? very difficult to read leh...
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No lar bro, use differing colours mah. Use dark orchid cos is ger, wanted to use pink but the pink lagi lighter.
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Originally Posted by _AXL_
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agreed, if the guy cannot go down on his own girl, he dont deserve a bj. in fact, i would feel that he is selfish, taboo or not. i know of friends who dont go down on their partners during weekends starting from friday nite cos they will be gambling all weekend. sometimes midweek too!!! but do u want me to introduce u to women who liked me to go down on them and tell me that they dont do bjs??? i might very possibly give u a list, starting from my ex-gf...
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If like that you could either request from or train them. If they still refuse then you 'gehsiao' ask for permission to go for 'professional help' cos you really miss the feeling very much. You see whether they will still refuse bo. If they still refuse then you have a legitimate excuse for cheonging liao lor.
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Originally Posted by _AXL_
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yup, let's talk abuot what to eat if u want me to have a stroke and claim my insurance. tell me bros out here, m i facing this alone or r u having this problem as well??? ask the girl what she wants to eat, answer:- anything. ok, let's have jap food. ooh, i just had that yesterday for lunch. ok, what about thai? cannot, think i m coming up with an ulcer... ok, how about going for steaks? no lah! so fattening!!! u want me to get fat isit? ok, we go eat dim sum... okie!!! go restaurant see long queue, then turn to me:- see lah, all yr fault, make me feel like eating dim sum, now queue so long!!!
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I think for this generally got to find out what are her preferences like first.
As for the fattening part, you could soften it by saying ' Aiyah, dont you know that I love women who have abit of bak' or something like 'I want to fatten you up so that you won't ganna snatched away' or something along the lines lor. Like what Bro Derelict pointed out, say something they like to hear. Isn't it true for men too? I guess everybody likes to have their egos stroked right?
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Originally Posted by _AXL_
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Haha. True true...
my questions r:
1) if she wanted to eat dim sum, why didnt she tell me earlier that she wanted to eat dim sum? (fyi, i m a rubbish bin... so long i m full, i m quite fine, but i do go out of my way to get good food with appreciative company)
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Bro, you're either kind of contradicting yourself '
yup, let's talk abuot what to eat if u want me to have a stroke and claim my insurance', or I have missed the point completely. I do know of lots of gers who appreciate good food/ won't mind going out of the way/ dun mind poor hygiene/ etc. As long as the food and the company is pleasant.
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Originally Posted by _AXL_
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2) do i look like i know that the chinese restaurant was going to be crowded???
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Ah... That cannot be blamed but it certainly could have been pre-empted. Common sense to know that anywhere in town or even those neighbourhood shopping malls would be packed during lunch and dinner time mah. It's only a matter of common sense right? Simply point out the possibility and maybe let her come up with a contingency plan,' What if the place too crowded? Would you like to have something else?'
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Originally Posted by _AXL_
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how i felt, damn stupid!!! to have rushed with my work, drove through peak hour traffic to pick her up at home, drove back to town (still peak hour traffic), get berated for taking the congested way and making her grumpy, reached town, let her off first to go shopping while i struggled feebly to rob a parking lot, racked my brains out to think of what to eat and finally get blamed for the chinese restaurant's good business. my friend, u think i still have an appetite???:rolleyes:
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If she's really into you, she'd probably want to wait with you for the parking lot and go to the diner's with you, instead of going shopping by herself 1st.
If not, well, maybe she's just not good enough. And for the picking up part, if she's really into you, she'll be considerate and offer to meet you at the makan place instead of demanding that you go and pick her up. Worst come to worst can meet somewhere in the middle, compromise abit.
If cannot even compromise during courtship/ dating period, then no need to look forward to a 'future' liao lor.
