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Btw can I take photos of my suspected herpes or yeast infection area and post in this forum to confirm what it is? The thing is before visiting prostitue I was already having such rashes/sores.

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Btw when I said etc. I was referring to dating expenses, car, marriage, etc. Not just purely NS(which is already bad enough).

I also don't believe in the saying that you will eventually get a gf, I think such phrases are just for consoling purposes. Since age 14 or 15 I have always looked forward to a gf until now age 34 still nothing.

May I ask you, do you view sex as a basic human need like sleeping and eating? Because this will affect my view on whether should I accept and go to a protitute on a regular basis if I am single. My view is that it is a basic human need but not to be shared with strangers like prostitutes. It is only to be done with gf or wife, people who are close/intimate with us.

There was some other important thing that I wanted to ask you but I cannot remember already.

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Btw, go and read this forum:
https://www.reddit.com/r/singapore/c...ans/?rdt=64479

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I know that some men find friends with benefits when they are not ready for a committed relationship hence by this logic finding a prostitute is not wrong, but because of what I said earlier(that sex is something intimate that should not be casuaully done with strangers), I maintain that it is wrong. Btw going by what I said FWB is not wrong because friend is not stranger...though I have also kept rejecting the idea during growing up years as my conservative upbringing rejected casual sex.

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Also, I am sure you have heard of stories like women going on to become prostitutes due to bad family circumstances(financial etc.) Or people going to on to try drugs or smoking(albeit once or twice only) or commit crimes due to hanging out with wrong group. That's why I say I was forced.

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Point is I am different from other bros who went prostitutes because some already went at age 18/19 during NSF, for me I am already 33/34 with no options of women. For them they have options with women or at least had time and potential on their side.

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Btw I have a side question, when you have a gf and bring your gf to your house, do your parents allow you to bring her to your room? Cause you all might do hanky panky inside, and how do you all circumvent it? Thanks.

Your dick and her mouth must have a gushing wound and she needs to be infected before it can happen. In this case, you wouldn’t even be proceeding with the sex. Saliva contains many enzymes that destroy the reactors of the virus rendering it unable to infect. That’s why bbbj has virtually zero risk of contacting the virus in real life.

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oh ya I forgot her mouth needs wound also, what is gushing wound? Means big wound? Why do you say we wouldn't even be proceeding with the sex?

the wound needs to be a very deep cut with blood gushing out from your dick and her mouth for sufficient blood and surface area for the virus to transmit. that is considering that the virus reactors are not damaged by enzymes in the saliva. if there’s such a big wound you would be visiting a hospital and not a whore.

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yeast infection is not from STD but rather your own hygiene la come on. even a woman without std can give you yeast infection by sex/ bbbj if you/her hygiene not good.

BBBJ generally introduce many kinds of bacteria as mouth itself got their own set of bacteria ecosystem. That's why after bbbj must wash your kkj with warm clean water and mild shower gel to clear out the germs.

this kind of thread only mislead those first time have sex then come here read all the scary nonsense.

Or stick to HJ / CBJ la.

i know what's your problem. you spend your time watching useless dating tutorial instead of finding out how to improve your career. :o

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Proper advice for those first time readers:

If you have HJ (no bodily fluids) and she suck your nipple / neck - Don't bother test. No risk of STDs at all.

If you have covered (condom) BJ - If you have more than 1 such sessions, I would suggest an annual test as a standard. But only done it once, aiya then don't bother because the risk of getting STD with purely covered BJ is damm damm low.

If you have BBBJ and/or Covered FJ and/or AR (lick kar chng) - Wait 3 months and take STD test at DSC clinic. Make appointment at least 2 weeks before the actual date so that won't cluster f*** the clinic. If you want, can also do at private clinic. Regardless which clinic you go, no doctor will scold you. Doctors are not your parents. They are just medical professionals trying to help you and by profession should not judge you on your sexual actions. How I know? Because doctors at DSC/private GPs tell me themselves.

If you have RAW non protected FJ / AJ - Come on what you thinking? Go and test.

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the more I read, the more I think you either troll or seriously got some issue to resolve.

Yeast infection is rarely transmitted. It's caused by hygiene issues / imbalance in the body's ecosystem which cause fungal overgrowth. Means I can imagine you are some bui bui / otaku that never shower and wash your bird that's why cause your yeast infection then you think is a STD and keep harping you got STD.

You remind me of this NSmen I met a year ago. He first day introduce himself keep saying everyone dislike him, how he always loner even though he want make friend and keep harping how he no gf. By day 3, I know why he got that problem. if you keep wallop in self-pity and keep feeling the world owe you instead of doing something about it, then you can only blame yourself for it.

E.g. if you want a gf, then go groom, go keep fit and get a good lean body. Most girls don't need 6 packs, just lean and fit with nice clothes will attract them liao. Instead of working blindly from 9 to 6 and OT, think how to progress in career, earn money because with money and a fine body, you get women. It's as simple as that.

If you don't know how to approach/talk to woman, go get a massage. Start at newbie level by talking to ML. You pay for them to massage you / talk to you but if you can't even hold conversation with them, then you really got a social issue.

After ML level, next level is go pub and learn how to chat with stranger. Can start with random cha bor no need to be chio bu. Learn how to be friends with people. Then people will start socialising with you. If you keep telling people how a failure you are, you think people will still want to be your friend meh? :o

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I quote this because for those newcomers / younger ones, if you take out rubber without the consent of the woman even if she is your gf, it's a form of sexual assault. So don't play play hor.

As someone who fucked with FLs/MLs/ONS/ ex-gf, I don't take out my condom unless I asked her for consent. But usually I never have to take out condom because I know it's to protect myself.

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This is not true, because even if I chiong career I will still watch dating tutorials.