Originally Posted by meatlover
(Post 8001715)
$500 in the wallet definitely increases her chances. But many factors come into play: -
- Command of english
- Cewek mlm look/dressing
- Customs officer's personal opionion
- etc etc etc
My personal thought: -
- Dun sponsor the $500 in her wallet
- Dun let her get her hands on your personal details (ie: real name, address, etc)
- Dun give empty promise(s). Give diplomatic replies like "I try, but no promises". In a way, you dun hurt others' feelings, and you also dun bohong.
- As you mentioned, you're not loaded. Thus not worth the risk and trouble.
- When you go Batam, you enjoy. When she comes over SG, she enjoys. So you're paying for her to enjoy?:eek: 你还钱，她爽快！
- Let her get herself to Singapore. Btw, she should know better than most of us here the best route/option to come into SG since she has been in this line at least close to 3yrs. Meaning, the number of ceweks she knows that had came to SG is definitely more than the number of ceweks you know in Batam.
And remember our roles. We're PLAYERS, not charity. We treat others with respect, and pay for the "services" rendered.
Last but not least. Forget about the "bao" thing (i'm assuming you're house-keeping her in batam). After almost 10yrs of cheonging Riau, I've only seen one success case. Majority end up becoming another man, screwing up their work and life. Stress and guessing everynight wtf the cewek is doing in batam while the guy is in SG. Your imagination can run really wild, I tell ya. We man are all alike, in the mouth say trust, but inside the heart feels the other way round. Why buy an OPC, and let others drive using day coupon!:eek:
I've personally encounter a lot of cewek who have been "bao", freelancing. While waking up in my bed in the morning, they tell me to shhh while picking up a call. They even put it on speaker mode let me hear: -
Guy: km lg apain
Gal: gua masih tidur ... (she is telling the truth)
And they tell me, "got people give you money + no need work you dun want meh! I work in joint, go booking. This fella give me money I treat it as booking also. I also wanna go out have fun, trip, find a handsome guy give me a good time. When he come over every week, I just wayang rindu banyak blah blah blah, and tell him no money already cos all remit balek kumpong then he'll think I very good hearted and family-orientated".
And when you call her at night and cant get thru or no answer. Their usual excuse: -
- henpon hilang / kanna curi
- Tak ada pulsa
- udah tidur
And if she answers wif nightspot musik in the background, "kawan aku hepi birthday"
Final word. Dun dig a hole yourself and jump into it. You can get her outta ayam joint, but you're unable to get the ayam mentally outta her. Majority are in this line not becos of family. Most are cheated into this line by agent/bf. Once they're in, they become plain lazy.
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