Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

My question is how did the gals know the GF?

Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

my guess is..the congirl must have copied the contacts in TS's mobile phone.

Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

Seow liao!

Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

Ok TS, you r in shitsville...but perhaps u can still do damage control.Here are the following steps:

Step 1:
since your biggest worry is to have your GF know about this, quickly go get a new handfone for her with a new number/line.

Step 2:
before you give yr GF the new fone, borrow hers and pretend that you needed it for an hour to download certain software so that both can view each other while on the fone....

Step 3:
after more than 1 hour, call GF and claim you have lost/dropped her fone while on the way to return her fone. Also tell her you will now go buy a new fone for her etc. Meanwhile, you will download all her critical contacts to that new fone for her

Step 4: Another hour later, give her the new fone that you have just bought...including all her vital contacts, making sure to erase those suspicious ones left behind by the blackmailers since u claimed thay have contacted her etc.

Step 5: with no more worries about them being able to contact yr GF, go and make that police report BUT only after making sure that you have more evidence to nail the bitches!

Let them call you and also your gal via that old fone of GF which you now have. With the details on both fones to show the cops....it's show time for the blackmailers.;)

Step 6: Write a FR here and tell us the result!:D

Good luck!

Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

Yo bro, if she did to you she will also do to others. Go 999 only way.

Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

Although I totally agree with all the bros here about not paying, going to police, calling her bluff, but I think bro TS has the greatest pressure about not hurting his gf.

It is not easy, in fact very diificult to go thru all the emotional "hell" with the gf. It is really very very unfair to the gf even if a breakup happens. I will be struggling with doing the right thing (like going to police, not paying) and how not to hurt my gf if I were in his shoes.

Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

Quite simple. These are the possible ways.

1. Look through the name list. Normally we will not list our gfs by their full names. So maybe TS put 'baby' 'dear' etc. Can also check through recent calls for anyone with a nickname.

2. Look through sms. Gfs normally sms things like 'Home yet?' 'Dear, where are you?' 'Sweet dreams.'

3. Now with iphone even worse. 1 touch of an app and I know who you are. Tab on facebook app etc...

I think these are possible ways to find out who's important to you lar. If we see a man unconscious on the floor, we will also use the same methods to look through his phone to call to look for his loved ones right?

Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

My guess is... TS had recorded his gf's contact as "My GF" in his phone's contact list... ;)
& that gal had ran thru his phone while he was under the influence of the sleeping pills...
or... may b it's an insider's job??
Bro Xgenre, u sound pro... like mata leh... :D

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Steady! Never scare of blackmail, is not that we pay we get back the original copies, the person will return and haunt you another day. So be firm and threaten him her back.

Side track abit, was wondering over the rape case, of that rich mini mart son. Papers said, that night, the girl had manage to phone her mom, her mom was in shocked. I do not blame her, all over but i learn from that episode.

Strange thing, the young punk could also speak to her mom. Do thing do all, right? Why not invite her mom down for a quickie too. All crime were funny in certain sense.

She should have threaten him b4 he do it, "You better make sure my daughter return home safetly. I know your facebook shits! This country law is got canning. Unless you fry like a bird, i will get lawyers to make sure your parents pay until no $."

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999 is there for a purpose, TS should make full use of it...

Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

TS , i think you should tell your gf that you having some kind of trouble.Then maybe tell her you go drink and ppl dope your drink and take photos of you and asking you for money and they get her hp nos from your phone threatening you. Ask your gf believe in you and say you going to make a police report to hunt them down.Tell her a nice story before they call her up and you go make report , dont pay them cos they will demand for more the next time round and it will be ongoing.Never give in or you will go bankupt in no time.....;)

Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

blackmail is criminal crime.
give her last warning.
if she still wanna test water, report mata.
let the men in blue settle for you.
may be embarassing and you might even lose ur current gf, but better than giving $ to that bitch ($500 only like opening account for her nia, got 1st time sure got more to come...)

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Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

1. Turn the tables around first. Tell your Gf your went clubbing and was drugged. So even if they call your Gf there's no damage they can do because you already told her.

2. Go to the police with all the evidence in your phone OR Like one of the bros here said, trick her that you went to the police Already.

3. If your Gf do not believe you or decide to break up with you, worst come to worst , win back her heart.

NEVER EVER TRSF THE 500$!!!

All the best to you TS...

Re: I've been blackmailed.
 

"
Last night after drinking and partying. Reached home. Felt damn horny. Decided to log onto irc to find girls. Met 1 girls who said she charged $250 for Spanish Fly. Eat liao will high. Eat already can have sex. Met her.
"

Before report police, think your statement very carefully...

BTW, what is spanish fly? drugs? :confused:
Where you meet her? hotel?
any thing to show the police that u paid her $250?
Police not stupid, they know you paid $250 not only for drugs, but sex too.. You will get urself into trouble with the police