Yup!

But of course I did said something nasty!
Let's just be colleague nothing personal so maybe he don't want to reply due to that?

This is madness, why am dwelling over a married man 😞

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Since you already say sorry... just wait for his reply.

But must rmb 他可以选择不接受你的道歉。所以不一定要给你回复。

So if no reply or bad reply don't too sad.

So leave it, till he reply me? Oh dear! That won't happen cause he is petty!

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I don't think saying you should remain colleagues is nasty, unless you insulted him or something hahahah.

Perhaps he wants to mull over it for a while more before giving a suitable response, which is fair enough. But if he's not replying because his ego is bruised, then he's just being a kid. In both cases, there's nothing much you can do except wait for him to come around.

And yup don't think too much!!! Go out there and live life and know more people who deserve a teeneeeee bit more of your time and emotions. :p

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We are all human and will have emotions and feels as time goes. Especially when we are close to another opposite party. We might think that we fall in love with the person, or have some liking towards him/her.

If both are single, it's fine about it. But if either party is attach, it's better to keep a distance from the person. Even how much you tell yourself that you will not fall for the person, as time goes, you won't know that you already fall for the person.

Worst situation is that others have eyes to see. If something happen to him during his marriage life, like a quarrelling with his partner, people will think that you are the 3rd party that resulted in their quarrelling. Or worst, if his wife found out about it, may think you are the one, even you are not.

So well...

No... Text nor message from him as of till now -.-

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Agree!!!
And worse, it may ONLY burn u... My feel is, the guy is just trying his luck.... Don't fall for it... Romance at work is bad, if underground is very very bad !!!

As for the FB part, there are so many fishes in the ocean, no need to go for a married one!

Good luck TS

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Sis. july3rd, he is petty or that is part of the dating game?

这部爱情电影的戏票很贵， 依我看， 你应该是买不起。 :(

We are not dating, communication take place only during office hours after office hours no contacts or try to minimize contact.

Of course, he replied on Reuter messenger yesterday.

The real fact is he actually left the company but now in different company but we still able to contact daily via Reuter Messenger.

We meet up only I'm on leave or half days but with his daughter around more like gathering?

Tbh, I think I somehow invested feeling into it.
I need get myself out if it soon.

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a fling for the thrills perhaps but everlasting happiness, unlikely.

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look for demonhunter if you want to get out asap :D

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I havent got time to reply you... hahaha!!! putting in feelings confirm, guarantee chop tio burnt!

that's why i steer away from men unless its a combination of "SEX and $$$" :D

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Thanks everyone! I just follow the flow as of now.. We are still in contacts but I do be more on the friend side and nothing else. I appreciate everyone input :)