Originally Posted by dyelook (Post 13300892)

hmmm... yup..

true love... just hope you do find it someday...;)

Originally Posted by TheSeeker (Post 13300758)

Hi Sis,

Infatuation in my opinion is like the bud of love..
Nurture it with sunlight, water and the right kind of nutrition and it just might blossom..

While biological love is usually deem as unconditional, it derives from biological blood ties. There are some instances when parental love stops after having found out the kid isn't his/her as well. It's just 2 sides of the coin I suppose.

Yes, true love is rare not because it does not exists but because it requires meeting the right person under the right circumstances and both has to have/believe in the same objective.

And yes, if a relationship is based solely on good looks, wealth etc, it is conditional.

Of which good looks in my opinion is the most superficial because beauty fades in time. How many ah peks/ah mahs still looks good past 60s..?
Of course I don't mean to go for someone you can't stand looking at, just as long as he/she is presentable and 顺眼
At the end of the day, it is who stays on by your side and not who doesn't but looks good in him/her 20s, 30s etc..

As for wealth, 生不带来，死不带去.
For bros or sis who believes in flaunting wealth as a lure, I used to do that and think likewise too. It might feel good getting the attention of a drop dead gorgeous babe but if you decide to settle down, would you marry him/her.. Ask yourself if you are willing to lead your life with someone who puts on a mask and is only there for the money..
At the end of the day, what self worth is there if the only reason why I have someone by my side at my deathbed is because of the money which I am about to leave behind..

Just my 2 cents worth but sis I hope someday you'll meet your Mr Right too.. ^^

Originally Posted by orangeproud (Post 13300699)

I believe true love does exist, but mostly in less developed countries or rural side, where poverty kick in, the couples will take care of each other even he/she is handicapped or terminal ill, even donate their own organ to save their loved ones.

Originally Posted by orangeproud (Post 13300699)

In developed & modernized country like Spore, everything evolve with money, even pursue studies, we r taught to study hard to earn more money not how to be a good moral better man. We spend our lifetime pursuing higher status, more money. People become more self centre, believing money can buy everything including relationship. Love is conditional between couples in this society, even friendship is conditional, most will want to make friend with those same family background or superior family background rather with those less-privilege.

Originally Posted by TheSeeker (Post 13300896)

Hi Sis,
Yay I got it right this time.. lol

Originally Posted by Edyta (Post 13300929)

everytime i ask a single guy friend what kinda wife he want? he would say all the above n most impt gd character, compatible, presentable. then i say hey why don't u consider A, B n C? he would say no la A too fat, B too tall, C so flat chest n face so ugly. to a guy looks isv impt.

ask a gal friend the same she would say. then i say why dont she consider X, Y n Z? she would say no la X is too poor, Y is boring n no career prospect n Z is stingy n would never buy her an LV bag. to a gal financials is v impt

infatuation can start only aft these conditions are met 1st.

Originally Posted by Edyta (Post 13300929)

everytime i ask a single guy friend what kinda wife he want? he would say all the above n most impt gd character, compatible, presentable. then i say hey why don't u consider A, B n C? he would say no la A too fat, B too tall, C so flat chest n face so ugly. to a guy looks isv impt.

Originally Posted by Edyta (Post 13300929)

ask a gal friend the same she would say. then i say why dont she consider X, Y n Z? she would say no la X is too poor, Y is boring n no career prospect n Z is stingy n would never buy her an LV bag. to a gal financials is v impt

infatuation can start only aft these conditions are met 1st.

Originally Posted by orangeproud (Post 13301092)

Totally agree, raise my both hands & legs to agree. To a guy, they prefer gals with pretty face, good figures & at the same time has good characters. Is rare & difficult to find such a gem, so they compromise themselves choosing look over character then end up divorce, then they repeated the vicious cycle again & again.

For gals, they look for someone who is financial stronger background, athletic or fit, humorous, romantic, caring & loyal type.....but normally those family-oriented, loyal, faithful good husband type is those boring, serious, frugal type. Soon, they tired of this boring life, looking for more exciting world outside. So, is hard to have best of both world, but humans are greedy creatures, nvr content with what they have.

Anyway, nobody is perfect. If u are a perfectionist in marriage life, u will get disappointed.

Originally Posted by dyelook (Post 13300986)

comfirm 100% right?:p
if you survey orangeproud past post then maybe youll not think youre right this time..;)

Originally Posted by TheSeeker (Post 13301112)

Lol Bro, :eek:

I thought orange says she is a girl on the other thread? :confused:

Originally Posted by TheSeeker (Post 13300984)

I agree with the settings Sis..

That's why I think flaunting beauty/wealth only serves to lure unwanted attention.. It is only true when the other has nothing to gain yet chooses to stand true.



Trust me.. Even with money, it brings a lot of headaches.

Some examples..
"should i tell her the truth or pretend I am just another white-collar working class..?"
"but what if she knows and is there only for my money..?"
"would she leave if I pretended that all my businesses failed and I owe large amount of debts..?"
"should I sell my car and test her..?"
"but what if she is true and gets angry over what I did..?"

Originally Posted by TheSeeker (Post 13301112)

Lol Bro, :eek:

I thought orange says she is a girl on the other thread? :confused:

Originally Posted by orangeproud (Post 13301092)

Totally agree, raise my both hands & legs to agree. To a guy, they prefer gals with pretty face, good figures & at the same time has good characters. Is rare & difficult to find such a gem, so they compromise themselves choosing look over character then end up divorce, then they repeated the vicious cycle again & again.

Originally Posted by orangeproud (Post 13301092)

For gals, they look for someone who is financial stronger background, athletic or fit, humorous, romantic, caring & loyal type.....but normally those family-oriented, loyal, faithful good husband type is those boring, serious, frugal type. Soon, they tired of this boring life, looking for more exciting world outside. So, is hard to have best of both world, but humans are greedy creatures, nvr content with what they have.

Anyway, nobody is perfect. If u are a perfectionist in marriage life, u will get disappointed.

Originally Posted by dyelook (Post 13301117)

if theres a normination.for the most blur samster of the year award then i'll surely norminate you...:p;)

Originally Posted by orangeproud (Post 13301163)

If I say I'm not a gal, would u get disappointed?;)

Hee........just kidding, dun mind pls.:p

Originally Posted by korean (Post 13301217)

My definition of true love not necessary to be eternity. If you truly love a person, you would want him or her to be happy, so it not necessary for him or her to be with you forever. To me true love should not be selfish. I guess it maybe debatable whether true love should be selfish or not.