Re: Wife behave like a 'dead fish' on bed
 

Agree with bros here that TS should seek counselling as soon as possible and have a heart to heart talk wif OC ..

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Most probably your wife feels like making love to you nowadays is just her "duty" or it is just a routine. Bro my suggestion is spend more time with your wife, bring her to places that you all used to visit when you "pak tor" with her and try to rekindle the kind of love and passion both of you used to have. Surprise her by buying small gifts for her once a while. I personally face this kind of problem about 2 years ago. We were married for 8 years then and our kid is about 5 years old, went for counseling and took up some advise from friends who face marriage problem but managed to salvage the marriage after both parties put in effort to make the relationship works out again. Just my humble opinion :)

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i think you should have a heart to heart with your wife to find out the problem or go for a marriage counselling. hope eventually everything goes well for you.

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If you already felt this way, what are the chances your wife feels likewise about you?

What do you expect her to do or respond?
Act like a pornstar, scream "fcuk me deeper", "ram hard into my ass", "cum in my mouth"?

In a previous thread, a samster suspected her gf to be FL-ing as she was too professional in bed and more skillful than him.

XXX movies are meant primarily for pleasure, enjoyment and entertainment.
Sex education was never the main intended purpose.

I suggest you n wife go for sex counseling to find out the real problem.

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Sorry if I sound harsh, but why didn't you test-drive before signing the contract?

If you don't test-drive, and the driving experience is important to you, then it's quite a poor case of judgement.

On the other hand, maybe she's watching too much Jap pr0n. Japanese sex is about the girl lying there and moaning away, that's why they call girls Maguro, literally Tuna. The man must initiate always, in fact the man is the one who will manipulate the Maguro into position as well.

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Not all gers let you test drive .... maybe he din have chance to test drive ...
And even if you test drive, it doesnt mean after marriage it will perform the same ... on hind sight we can say alot of things, but what should be done now is solve the problem first and later can see what went wrong

Re: Wife behave like a 'dead fish' on bed
 

alamak bro dun worry lah same old story...many married men face this issue...that why fl are there for us to relieve our fustration..

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Dear Bros,

Thanks for your replies. Sometimes, I really don't like making love to her at all, I don;t enjoy at all although I did cum at the end of the day. I alway made sure she cummed first by giving her oral sex, masterbate etc. All the things that I knew, I have already tried. She dont like girl on top, don't like doggie, basically everything except me on top her.

I am seriourly thinking of going to fl in future to sextify myself. I will stop making love to her for maybe half a year and see what happen..

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bro . . .dun start if you can . . .delay it . . cos hard to turn back

COMMUNICATE with her . . .seriously go for counselling to get neutral 3rd party to intervene without each others ego & guilt . . duns start FL

DUN NEED THESE MIND GAMES of TESTING HER

Cos u got it better than me and still have chance . . .mine only do if want to have kids . . .even only then dun like frenching, touch nips, touch breast, only recently allow licking her, missionary only NO FOREPLAY from her at all, i gotta all the work, definetly NO BJ, no cathbath . . .rub her clit like 1-2 mins "Come in quick before it gets to big", but she's still half wet only . . ."Dun take too long i can't breathe" . . "cumming yet?" . . .sigh :(

Tho she's a good partner in every other aspect . . .this is not a FULL life for me . . . i regret not addressing this 12 years ago . . .now am not sure if i want to do it now, cos i started to look elsewhere . . found by accident i fell for someone . . .tho she not sure about me . . it does not really matter now . . cos if not her, it will be somebody else. . . . i now realised that i had an emotional void all these years & living a HALF life, WHAT A WASTE . . . coincidently, look at Bro Dirtyhairy . . . now that's a LIFE . . .

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[QUOTE=Yellowbird;2672659]Dear bros,

My wife and I are married for 5 yrs already, ever since the first time we have sex, she has been behaving like a dead fish. I am alway the one who 'service' her, all she did was moaning and do nothing
/QUOTE]

Sorry, what are you sharing here?:rolleyes:

Re: Wife behave like a 'dead fish' on bed
 

Wow so many 'dead fish' around, so this might be one of main reason guys are turning to WLs. Straits Times should have an article on this so maybe gers can wake up and not just keeping pointing at men and perform their duties too.

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Lucky my girl friend is a "lively" fish and always initiates sex. :D

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Like that do you still 'cheong' ... :D

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This is shocking. For me no matter how good a wife she is in other aspect, if she behaves like that, I dont think I want such a wife.

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how to cheong when everytime she meets me also wanna have sex with me? even when she got period she also cheong me....blow job/ handjob... I got no chance to cheong at all.....no more energy :p