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was she a virgin when u f* her?

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If really like her,,, just let her know.

Thru what u say, she act like nothing happen,, it could be she totally not interest in u and just want physical contact. Or she is too shy to say it out.

Actually since u already bonk her twice,, just to check, after bonking did u light a cigarette and walk to toilet yourself or u hug her tightly??
I believe that will be the prefect timing to express to her if u really like her.

Good Luck !!!!! Hope to hear your Hat-trick soon.... :D

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Relak, wait for the girl to give u more signals before u make anymore. Anyway u got nothing to lose if she wanna continue the fuck-buddy relationship with u. 敌不动, 我不动 :D

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I always tht it was the other way round that you should use your brain and not your heart.

Heart doesn't give solutions, the brain does.

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What happen if he none smoker?

Sakali maybe after fuck, SHE lit up cigarette and walk to toilet while he rest on bed, kekekeke

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I think you are right.

there's no necessity to tell her what you feel nor for her to tell you, since as you say... you are buddies. Both of you probably understands each other and would probably feel if there is any hint of affection for each other.

Seriously, I've never SAY or ASKED my ex GF to be my GF then. We were friends first and then it just turn into a relationship naturally. Let nature takes it course, and just continue your relationship in which ever way it is now, or will be later.

If it is meant to be, it will be. And as for the feeling of insecurity with her behaviour, dressing, etc... to me, it shows you subconciously have a sense of responsibity towards her which is good. Keep an eye out for your buddy.. I'm sure she is aware of it and silently appreciates it.

My 2 cents worth.

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OMG, you DID her twice and yet you still not sure why you did it??? Very simple. Either LUST or LOVE. Only you know the answer. :eek:

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What signals? Maybe wait until her period never come, is it? :D

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jus enjoy the friendship with her..at least u get to bonk her and also have the chance to sian oda gers..imagine if u were to be a couple..cannot do this and that..and if the both of u breaks up,end of relationship and no more fuck buddy..like some of the bro said..let nature take it course

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Bro Soblur, just enjoy the fucking part and dun think too much..... since u already felt insecure even u two get together dun even think about chasing her....

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GO watch kinsey and you will know that sometimes human behaviour towards sex can be or be without any connection to feelings. Maybe she just wants to have some emotional release thru sex (she knows you and wants safe sex)
(BTW, any french kissing involved) or she may really likes you but still undecided abt commitments, because 50% of friendship may be on a countdown to explosion after sex, 50% may end up letting nature takes it course and both parties will still remain friends for life. Human behaviour is the representations of our inner feelings, our inner feelings is non measurable, only believe 40% what a shrink can tell you because that's the best science can tell you. It's best to be frank with her on how the both of you feel towards each other. DOn't be like Julia Roberts in My Best Friend's wedding.
My 0.0001cent worth of comment. :)

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Now come to think of it... this is really a good idea.

Why don't go out with her and try to sian other girls for ONS and see how she really reacts? This will give an indication of her feelings for you.

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Unless she was damn high on alochol or something else on both ocassions, one thing for sure, she do not dislike you.
The next question is whether you like her and can live with her personalities?
Yes, she might always attract attention from guys like honey does to bees but what matters is her response to them? End of day, if she choose to go into a relationship, need to find out how much is she really to commit. All these can be probed from normal conversation with her. Just have to be tactical.

If you have the courage to do her, why not ask her?
Cheers!!! ;) :)

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I dont think it will work out, her dress sense and her behavior are all part of her, you cannot accept it means you cant accept her for what she is, If i'm in your shoes, I'll just let nature take it's course, meanwhile I'll still carry on bonking her brains out :D.

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Hi Bro soblur
Do u feel attracted to her after u have sex with her? Or is it from the start u already like her liao? Think abt this ques carefully! There a diff btw Sex and Love! But if u do really like her,why not go for it? after all u only lived once and should make the best out of it man!

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If that really happen, bro soblur either drop the 1st tear, or check the side table to see whether she got put some money on table, kekeke,,,, then wear his clothes and run..... :D

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Heh soblur, maybe you should just keep the relationship this way, as a buddy. I have a friend, who have a so call female buddy as a regular sex partner, just because they both have no plan of settling down. They stopped after the guy found his true love. The funny thing is that the wife and the female buddy become good friend, and the wife have no idea of the relationship her husband had with the female buddy.

So maybe you should keep your relationship until something else developed (love blossom) or until you or her found your true love. Whether to stop is up to you, but at least you are getting free sex from now to then.

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Firstly, u not being able to stand the fact that guys approach her, her way she dress, and she behaves. Well all I can say mate is that dont expect her to change after you guys become a couple that is if you do. That is her and it will always be. So unless you can accept it, dont go into it.

Secondly have you haven't thought of how you are able to go to bed with her not once but twice and yet you are just "buddies" Well dont mean to be devil's advocate... but how many other such "buddies" are there? You may not be the only guy sharing her bed.....

I have experienced something like this before too myself, did it not once but thrice and we were close like a couple, I would say very very intimate in public even... but at the end of the day, she went with a guy she knew for barely 3 weeks.... haha and the irony of it all is even though we have gone to bed... she regards us as just friends, nothing more........

So take carefully my man.... sometimes nowadays to Women, they are more open than us men..... Sex is no longer a big deal..... So dont get urself emotionally attached for nothing.....

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yea i wld agree...i uzed to be like dat...nowadayz mani women r like dat. as i said earlier....wait n drop hintz n c how it developz. yuppie....

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Gnn, dun make that brother panic leh. :D

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Ha Ha. Only time will tell whether the aunty will come. I think he did her raw and must have cum inside her cos too shiok to remember to pull out.

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Ya...this type of kumcheng fucking normally no condom ....haha..nevermind lah...this brother damn confused liao. :D

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Ha! In fact we had just watched Kinsey on the day that we had sex the 2nd time.

French kissing? Uh ya, but what's that gotta do with the whole thing? Ain't french kissing part of the whole foreplay thingy?

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Uh... I don't really have the habit of sianing girls. Never ever sianed any girl for ONS, and well, even just approaching them in clubs is already something I hardly ever do. Last friday was at a club and some girl asked if we could kiss and I was like damn awkward lor. In the end kissed her a litte cos was just thinking not nice to reject a girl.

Anyway, back to the issue of my buddy. Don't think she'd have any reaction la. She's always saying that I should go get to know more girls and stuff like that.

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blur... very yan dao ler.. u must look very cute... i wan, i wan!

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Well, both times she was high. But definitely not high till the extent that she doesn't know what's going on. In fact for the 2nd case, that happened after she came back to my place with me (after clubbing) cos she was hungry (I had mentioned I'd cook instant noodles for her).

As for whether I like her, well, think I kinda mentioned it earlier. I do have feelings for her, but am 1) afraid to reveal it cos I don't want to risk our friendship 2) not really wanting to do anything about it also cos I somehow just feel she ain't the type of girl that would make her bf feel secure. And her response to the guys that approach her is precisely the problem. She'll always talk to them, even give them her namecard (she says no handphone number on it so ok), and this is considering the fact that she was attached back then (well, she was attached until recently). Well, I definitely wouldn't like my gf being friendly to other men who approach her. Not sure if that's being possessive, but that's how I feel la.

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The feelings was way before I had sex with her. In fact I never expected to end up having sex with her.

Gotta give you guys some additional background info though. This buddy of mine was attached when I knew her, and has been attached till recently. However her relationship has been very rocky, with the guy being possessive and controlling and treating her like dirt (he can be willing to drive a female friend of his from place to place but when it comes to her, he says its a waste of petrol). All this while we have been going out though (movies, clubbing etc), sometimes as a group, but mostly just the two of us. But it's all along been just a plain friendship, though I do treat her very well. In fact, she has lots of close guy friends (and not much of close girl friends), which actually has led me to wonder a number of times... 'Am I the only buddy she's had sex with?'

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I don't go pub to look for girlfriend and screw around. In the first place like I mentioned, I hardly approach girls in pubs, and secondly, I don't screw around. All girls that I had sex with I've always wanted as my gf. Well, unfortunately there were 2 whom in the end decided no. This might sound stupid, but back then I was feeling kinda 'cheated' in a sense (as in I've had sex with them but yet they were not and did not become my gf).

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I don't go pub to look for girlfriend and screw around. In the first place like I mentioned, I hardly approach girls in pubs, and secondly, I don't screw around. All girls that I had sex with I've always wanted as my gf. Well, unfortunately there were 2 whom in the end decided no. This might sound stupid, but back then I was feeling kinda 'cheated' in a sense (as in I've had sex with them but yet they were not and did not become my gf).

Can never seem to just treat sex as sex and not have any sense of responsibility or feelings after that. Think I definitely can't go visit prostitutes.

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Good for you. I enjoy the movie but I really do not know how my blind date felt when we have to go thru that ordeal of watching men kissed.



It may not necessarily means part of foreplay. It can only occur to me that both of you have feelings for each other and sub-conciously you treat each other like gf bf. I don't know, now when I bonk a FL or WL, if they don't french kiss I will never raise flag. The emotions connection is not there when
there's no french kissing, it's like buying a product which leaves you an alienated feeling at the end of the day. Even that Spanish WL also told me, kissing is meant for BF. That's what the thai girl did when I visit her everytime for my CAT 40 bonk. We frenched, and it felt great, warm feeling.