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trying to handle PRC is not as simple as u think. a PRC girl at the age of 18 is already capable of conning a sugardad 3 times her age, young naive chap like u don't stand a chance against her one lah. better cut off all contact and run while u still can. :D

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Hey guys, so here's an update on my situation right now..

So I met her for dinner and said I'm not ready for children any time soon, and i guess she took it rather well, said we are just normal friends lor.

But later on she started sending me photos of my neighbourhood and house... so i was really worried that she would hound me outside my house.

So long story short i just stopped contacting her already.

Really scary shit over here man. haha. I'm worried if she had stolen my used condoms and show up with a random baby in the future :rolleyes:

P.S: Aiya Sg girls very expensive one, need to eat high class restaurant, constantly looking at my text messages. PRC still easier for fling, just that this one is crazy...

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Ts,got pixs of her neh neh & pussy to share :p

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TS, whether true or not true not really a great problem. Just remember, no money no talk, just make sure you got financial power then go havoc. If not better be good boy stay at home, tie rubber band will do.

Take Care.

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You said FB. What is FB?

It means Fuck Buddy unless you didn't made it clear to her then it is your fault.

If it was out in the open then tell her the status of the relationship has not change.

FB is contacted only when you want sex, after sex, no chatting, no meet up, no feeling.

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ROFLMAO. What is wrong with being a 40yo with 3 kids and a demanding fierce wife. Actually, the only thing wrong with the picture is a fierce wife. I would tell her to for GFY. :D

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TS, it is good that you experience all these at young age. It is much better to learn these relationship issues when you are young and poor. So that when you reach age 30 and wealthy, you will be experienced enough to know exactly what you look for in a wife or whether marriage should even be for you. Some uncles messed up their life after 30s by marrying wrong girl, mismanage their mistresses, got cheated money, etc because they had too little GFEs when young. Therefore they are easily KC-ed and manipulated.

Your situation proves you have natural charm. Be steady and manage the current lady's expectation with your expectation. If die die cannot tally anymore, then part ways. With your charm, more women will come & go in your life, each impressing you in different aspects, not just only sex. Then finally, you will be clear-minded in your direction of life in terms of marriage and family.

Just a side note about free sex, I had many from money-craving FLs. And I am totally unscathed. No money cheated. No feelings cheated... It is all about being steady and controlling your own mind. :cool:

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i think because she is pregnant and she wants u to be the daddy when her bf is gone.

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pass her to fellow sbf bros here... that will rid you of this problem... :D

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My advise is unlike others,

You should continue to fuck her but don't fall emotional with her.
Until she one day ask you sticky question, then you tell her your goal isn't to marry her, it was just casual rs and you like the fuck.

You come and play, don't be gong to stuck in your trap bro!

What make a winner and loser is the ability to play and win!

So many pussy out there... Don't kumlan settle for China bitch. They come easy, in my life got many wanna flirt with me until they realize I'm married. Some even throw themselves at me. Don't you stupid stupid go into emotional attachment...

But if you do, congrat la, you not a strong minded male. Your marriage will also fail in future when you meet new attention.

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Yea.. just fuck and forget man.. You youself said its more of a physical than emotional fuck already.

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China girl really knows how to handle men. That's how they hook SG men and squeeze their pockets dry. Fill men's heart with love which later on become very pain pain. No money no honey.

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What I believed is that most of these cheated SG men, they were very gentleman, never ask for what they never had before. So when a female, pretty or not, young or not, nice body or not, married or not, divorced or not, widowed or not, with kids tagging along or not, as long as the female gives them the feeling of comfort, happiness - even if just for that moment only, these SG men are ever willing to part with whatever they have, love, money, life.

Naiveness or you can call childishness, not everyone has been through puberty with having sex freely. Family background and religious beliefs plays a part too.

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I agreed fully, sharing is caring. Many samster can manage your situation.

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You are a poor school boy. You enjoyed great sex with this PRC. Now she wants baby with you.
She definitely wants something from you. Maybe you are only child with rich parents. Maybe she wants citizenship by marrying you.
Drop her and get out while you still in 1 piece.
You are a sitting duck. Not experienced in handling PRC bitches.

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TS got no income; hardly she can do anything to you.

And if you are rich; there are 101 things you can do to get rid of her. You can disappear.... like magic.:D

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Tell her you do not intend to work.

She need to work and feed you.

You see she run at away world record speed.:cool:

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Great idea. Tell her your dream in arts. The road might be long and suffering with no guaranteed success. Want invest bo?

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Bail asap bro

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maybe you wanna try a change of number so that she cant contact you? just that your contact list all need a change.

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Keep all your message indicating that you want to break off as this can use as a proof that you are serious of this issue. If still harass you seek advise from the law or police.

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This is so true, but we all went thru that phase somehow ... TS will learn haha:D

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First question, does she consider you a FB when the both of you first started also or was simply double-timing... seeing two guys at once, just that her ex-bf was the official one... This is very common in PRC, and also Singaporeans.

If your answer is that you do not know, you are screwed. Change your number and disappear if you do not have feelings for her.

If your answer is yes, continue to screw.

If your answer is no or you do not know and you have feelings for her.... start a relationship.

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Just start to ignore her whenever she calls you or text you.The first few days and week may seemed difficult for you to avoid any contacts with her. Believe me after ignoring her for sometime and non-communication with her in any form,she will get the message that you do not wanrt to continue the relationship with her. I went through the same process myself when one prc ml became too close and too demanding.