Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75 (Post 1778042)

Chao Cac Anh Cac Chi, Chuc Cac Anh Cac Chi Mung Giang Sinh Va Chuc Mung Nam Moi :o

Originally Posted by lament (Post 1784911)

Twist to Vietnamisation

My latest beau happen to un-do all the Vietnamisation experiments that was conducted in the past and brings me into a new dimension in this topic.

I got to know her on 3 Dec cos I went to see one of ger whom is leaving the next day. She came over and ask if I wan her friend and I said no cos I wanna know her. We talk a bit and I gave her my number. lets call her P.

The next day she called me and we met up and that night we slept next to each other and became inseparable since.

A curious oddity to vn ger profile. She dun really want to work, for the last 20-odd days, she spend less than 5 days working and spend most of the time out with me. She left on the 27 still owing her friend her air-ticket money and @170 in her wallet.

Whenever I ask her to work, she would pop down and bring her less than good-looking friends to work and would call me to pick her up and then she end her night. She never ask me for any money. She had no phone and so I pass her an old 8210 which I had and she is contented with it.

She accept the fact that I am married and encourage to be on good terms with my wife. I hence started a new experiment to bring the 2 half together. With my wife still largely in the dark till this morning, she ask me if i am seeing someone. The best part is that P is 3 days my wife junior and they are very much alike in temperament.

I said yes and I want the 2 to be like sisters and good friends. My wife ask for a divorce unless I leave P. So now my marriage on the rocks and I still want both of them to be by my side. my wife on my left and P on the right.

Is this a failed experiment???????????

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 1785385)

Once bitten, twice not shy... here it goes again. That's why the vietnamese gals think that singapore man are stupid :D

Originally Posted by milfmilf (Post 1787380)

?? can elaborate?

Originally Posted by lament (Post 1790203)

seems she cannot accept this fact that i split my heart between the 2.

Originally Posted by lament (Post 1790203)

Failed Experiment Episode 1

Guess my assimilation experiment has failed. been thru a lengthy war with my wife. seems she cannot accept this fact that i split my heart between the 2.

my relationship with P will go underground from now on cos too many spies spread out in jc area.

Originally Posted by lament (Post 1790203)

Failed Experiment Episode 1

Guess my assimilation experiment has failed. been thru a lengthy war with my wife. seems she cannot accept this fact that i split my heart between the 2.

my relationship with P will go underground from now on cos too many spies spread out in jc area.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 1777823)

After being married to a vietnamese lady for the past few years, i will have these little observations to share and share:

(1) Vietnamese man are useless
Very much often, the vietnamese man are useless fellows. (i mean those in the village) They are brought up with the idea that either the elder or younger sister will be feeding the family and all they need to do is to stay home to wait for money. They gamble, drink and womanise with the income brought back home by their female siblings

(2) Useless parents
Actually vietnamese parents in the village are pretty much useless too. They don't work and depend solely on their daughters. They so call `retire' at age 45 or even younger. often they will fake illness. They love to have daughters as these daughters prove to be `Income' to them. Basically, they make use of their daughters to bring in income to the family.

(3) Filial Daughter
The vietnamese daughter is often pitiful. They are not given education , or just little education, when they are young. When they reach the age of 11 or 12, they are sent to saigon to work as domestic maids. Their parents will continue to pressure them to bring every cent they earn home to feed the rest. When these ladies reach 16 and above, they will be so pressured by the family's financial woes that they will choose to work in bars in saigon. To have sex with different man every night is nothing new. Even with this, most of their income goes back to their family in the village.

If any of these ladies are lucky enough, they will be able to meet a nice foreigner man that loves them. They will get married. Things doesn't change even when they get married. Their family continue to pressure them for money as they think that we foreigners are rich and can feed their whole family easily. Don't be surprised that your vietnamese wife ask you to give S$500 to their family monthly. This is not the end. They will come up with different reasons to ask for more money. If you cannot support them, the vietnamese wife will resort to divorce and go back to her old trade.


These are just some observations i had with the few years in Vietnam and coming in contact with the numerous singapore man who have vietnamese wife.

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok (Post 1791750)

Actually I plan to have a vietnamese wife from the marriage agency! After hearing ur story, i have to think twice! scare sia!

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 1792168)

Bro,

Should i try to comfort you? i am not too sure. Not all vietnamese gals are working gals so you need not worry too much. But the part about giving to the family is quite certain, so you got to strike an understanding with your wife on this. For the normal non-working vietnamese gal, they are nice and make good wives. :D

Let me relate my experience. I used to know a working gal in HCMC. She is around 26 years old and nice looking. From the time i got to know her, i also got to know that she was divorced and have a 3 year old daughter. Not so long ago, i heard from her that she is going to get married to singapore. A match maker have match made her with a singapore man. She told the man that she is SINGLE and still a VIRGIN. She even has a doctor certification to prove that she is VIRGIN. For singaporeans that don't know vietnam well, you can get anything done with $$$$. How will the agency care? These agencies also go thru middle man in Vietnam. If the middle man lie to the agency, the singapore agency will not know too.

On the other hand, i also got to know a beautiful and nice province gal who married a singaporean. This province gal is those quiet and good gal type.

So it depends on your luck :D

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok (Post 1792506)

Bro,
thanks for your advice. How about those from marriage agency such as Mr. cupid international, they claimed that they are case certified company!

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 1792519)

Bro,

All these certification are really quite useless. CaseTrust is just another certification system that companies pay to CASE to adopt. When u really face problem, CASE also cannot be TRUSTED...

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok (Post 1793956)

I think more and more singaporean men are marrying vietnamese gals,as compared to few years ago. I think mainly is due to many singaporean gals have set unrealistic requirements on selecting lifetime partners. because of this many men are looking for foreign gals. :)

Originally Posted by oldcar (Post 1794043)

Very informative! But I think if I have read all that a few month back before I come to Vietnam, I will still be doing all the stupid thing I don't in last few month. Some how knowing it does not immune you from not falling for them!!!! And money is sure a problem, there no limit to it. Once you with them, they want their whole family to be living like your standard of living. So it not few hundred, few thousand, the more you earn the more they need!!! Even my boss here have problem, his wife is vietnamese, and the company cash book he holding now is never balance. One day the HK boss know of it he will be out.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 1794275)

Money is surely the biggest problem. Besides the normal monthly `pocket money' for the parents, there will be extra demand. This month will be the mother is sick and need money for medication, next month will be grandma's birthday and the month after next, the brother will want a new motorbike etc. The list is never ending. Vietnamese gals are sweet, their breast are warm, their suck will leave you dry.... but think of their other demands before you fall for them. :D It took me more than 2 years to convince my wife that her family is truely a burden to us and we should save more money for our children's education

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 1790724)

Aiyoh, why always get tied up here and there in JC? Go to the source of gals la.. go to Vietnam and have fun. :D Maybe u don't know vietnamese gals well enuff... want to be with another vietnamese lady while u are married? Watch out for your dickie when u sleep. These gals are capable of anything

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 1795714)

there are some better province like Can Tho, An giang and Vung Tau.

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 1794275)

This month will be the mother is sick and need money for medication, next month will be grandma's birthday and the month after next, the brother will want a new motorbike etc.

Originally Posted by SexFreak (Post 1796100)

Well, like what some bros have pointed out, it all depends on luck !!!

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok (Post 1797263)

Today just walk past a few marriage agency at golden mile tower, some viet gals not bad looking, but after hearing all these stories, i now a bit scare of marrying foreign gals. :cool:

Originally Posted by SingViet (Post 1797321)

You can try la. Maybe you will be one of the lucky ones :D