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This is a topic that many dun like to touch on but let me weigh in on this...bao a vn gal is something not easy to arrange...you are right that you need to know the gal first and be sextified mutually before you can even think and propose...:)

No point you propose but you cannot meet her even a few days per month...she will be bored to death thus finding other bfs or casual sex...her friends may be the factor too...not many bao gal wants friends to know she being kept as bao gal including family...:)

If gal is previously or currently a WL then she may agree easier to bao because the extra income is welcome...gal can continue to work as WL or sleep around to earn extra income when u are not in town...only problem is when you flew in she may hv too many phone calls and busy chatting on phone even while u bonking her or sleeping...such gal usually sleeps late around 2-5am and wakes up late around 1pm...so u eat breakfast alone while waiting for her to eat lunch...and cycle repeat...ask yourself how many months you can live with such gal...the same mundane thing repeats when you in town...:)

Story brief...
A friend of mine has a gf aged 19 yrs old who dun work...he pays her around 10mil per month...so each month he flew in gal will go hotel to wait for him...no phone call no msg except from some gf and her mom...only thing she sleep her life away...refused to wake up for breakfast and wakes up only lunch time...only eat sleep and fuck...eventually after 9 months both split because gal felt that she dun love him but only love the easy money...life becomes mundane...gal gets complacent and start to tell stories around neighborhood...stories get to my friends ears...so inevitable split hv to happen...:)

Note...pls dun pm me to intro gals...not keen to do so...pls skip if dun like to read....@@

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My Condolences to your friend.

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Hi good morning all experience HCM cheongers

Am going to HCM tomorrow 1st time to find some funs after reading all the field reports on HCM. Will be staying Grand Saigon Hotel for few nights. Can any kind bros share contacts and prices on
- Nice aroma massage, happy ending will be perfect
- How and where to find working girls for single shot or overnight
- Any better class drinking joints with nice fl girls only earning tips

Many thanks for any kind of helps on info

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Bro Marlboro, u hv 2 families ( wives ) there? :p

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Nothing surprising...my friends hv more than 2...hehe...he is reading here...but he may not post...:)

Actually once you hv certain prerequisite can bao gal easily...prerequisite are speak tieng viet, show up at least once per month, willing to spend, jovial personality, not too old, not fat,dun look ugly...then many gals working in f&b, sales, retail, etc will be keen to quit work and work as your gf with monthly allowances...monthly around 5-15mil dongs...depends on your gal and nego....:)

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not difficult to find but i doubt the hotel is girl friendly:D

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In the past, I used to have 3 vb but not now only my BX :cool:

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Haizzz so sad!!!!:(... lbs more devoted..:p

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Some food for thought for you, Willgo. Have you ever wondered if you are actually asking for advice from people who may just be the one having casual sex with the future girl you might bao, during your absence in VN. Sorry, I am not referring to H88, but to the silent majority here.

There are many silent lurking eyes in the forum who are charming, experienced. speak the local language and more than happy to entertain a bored bao girl.

Dont be mad at me, I am just putting a voice to these silent eyes and stating facts. You gotta think others point of view beyond your own angle of views

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Vien Dong and all those 2- to 3-star hotels with MPs should satisfy your needs.
Better to copyright all the words u write... or else some boot lickers will steal your lines. :p

Hi everyone. Thanks to this new pages with minimum squabbles, I managed to get some info on hcm. And thanks to h88 website, I've booked a hotel for my virgin and solo trip this sat. It's Sophia Hotel btw, anyone any review on that hotel?

Anyway, let me explain briefly about my trip first. Got no knowledge on tieng viet and I totally have no idea abt anything in hcm, heck I even thought the cafes in h88 website are really cafejoints like Starbucks and Coffeebean! My purpose of this trip is to meet 1 of the ktv girls here. But I'm going solo on my first day though. I don't think I will go to those fl joints therefore won't be spending much I guess. But will go to some place for drinking.

So after reading quite a few pages, I've got a qns that still left unanswered. Should i change more USD or more vnd? And also I'm hoping you guys can advise me on my budget. I'm thinking of maybe 400sgd. Do you guys think it's too much or too less.

Hope you guys can help me on this first, while I continue reading up. most of the topics are actually more useful for future trips when I'm not meeting any girl there. But I'm reading up on those massages and Spa joints, maybe for my first solo day.

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Sophia Hotel is definitely gal friendly...owner is sinkee...a friend of mine always like to stay there formerly...:)

just bring SGD...change in Vietnam around CBT or from 10am to 6pm inside Cho Ben Thanh (CBT) stall no. 624...they have expanded and will sure can find...best rate inside CBT...:)

S$ 400 too little??...no idea how many days and if you have to give your gal how much per day...:p

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quite interesting point...but you highlighted something that my group of friends will avoid this topic...ie. we will never touch another friends gals...but not saying it cannot happen...but we avoid it and so far so good...if ever a friend in our group does the inevitable then we will shun the friend and no longer he will be able to join us...mainly gentlemen...but then again why do we need to do such things...we are spoiled for choice in Vietnam with so many choices...:)

story brief...
do you know why I hardly organise group outings such as the Xmas Dinner 2009 (think around 26 person include VBs) and Good Friday disco @ 030 in 2010 (around 30+ include VBs)...response is always good with friends meeting first time and all making merries...problem is many of these friends exploit the gfs issue...and believe me the headaches in organsing such events with countless questions and funny requests....simply not worth it since I dun even earn any dong or worst may have to pay if I forgot to add this extra and that...now only organise small friendly outings with gentlemen friends...after a while you will know who is good and who to avoid...:)

a friend of mine told me so and so hit on my gal or some friends gals when we are not in town...anyway cannot verify the truth then also break-off long ago too...after that I will just walk away and do my own things...also no longer contact the friend who told me such news...:)

some of the bros here reading may recall the 2 events...^^

NOTE - the above is for sharing purpose...can be fiction story...pls skip if you dun like to read....&&

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These are often known as "thankless jobs". Everyone will have fun, pat their asses and leave after that. No one will thank you or remember u (well maybe just a few). I stopped doing all these things after learning my lessons long time ago. Intro VBs for jobs here, matchmaking for friends who have no gfs, bringing guy friends for fun in VN etc.

Gratitude is a virtue that is lost among most ppl now. In VN, even worse, that virtue is non existent.

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oops last year...6 of us have a birthday celebration at local bia om for one of the bro here...well it is really fun and happy event...many happy memories...plenty of funny faces and nice boobs shots...:)

think the bro had many kisses from the gals and many lip stick marks on the cheeks too...hehe...:)

NOTE - pls do not pm to ask for intro of gals...just post for sharing purposes...pls skip if dun like to read...:)

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Oh yes, how can I forgot the event last year. We should have another one this year, let see whose birthday to celebrate?

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Hope you don't mind me saying that your method is primitive. Many of our friends had used it. The response is poor.

We had moved on to better ways to find VBs that is face to face before getting contacts and then using social apps to communicate.

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Think there is a repeat this year for the same birthday boy. Just not sure how many will be attending?

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Thks bro. This weekend going over hcm, will try caravelle. Anyway i dont drink much.

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Just my opinion. It would be far easier/faster for us to learn tieng viet than for VBs to learn Eng/Chi. I have seen many cases where guys here send VBs money for English classes etc most of them give up after awhile.

There are perhaps 3 exceptions:
1) When VB is all geared up to become WL, earn money in SG/MY then no choice, they have to learn for survival.
2) When the gal is a Uni grad.
3) When the gal works in hotel/tourism/hospitality

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That not the point, m/c was left empty but with a small stopper plus name on it,esp around evening time. Sometime when u felt is time to chg m/c but unable to locate one u fancy. Anyway thks bro.

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then you better dun go caravelle...the evening are pack and no machine unless you fast...full of SWM...New World Hotel casino is full of VK...:)

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yup...a gal rated 8/10, I knew found a bf in sinkee who wants marriage...but the VB asked bf to pay for classes...then after graduate split with bf who lan lan pay for all her 2 years English and make-up class...now working as a make up artist for events...:)

morale of story...better guy learn TV...then pay gal learn english which I had discouraged many friends to do so...now friennds speak basic TV and thanked me for stopping them previously...:)

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Thanks for your feedback and sharing the story.
The biggest i problem with VBs is even if they are the type who willing to be "bao", somehow they will screw up that good opportunity for easy money, eg. getting a good sum of money by just become a few days gf with a man every month.

I met 1 VBs last year told me she used to have 1 jap bf, paid her US1500 per mth. She only need company him about 1 week per mth. But somehow she cannot stick to scedule, some days fly aeroplane, some days get bored so only stay with him for 2 or 3 hr. The jap bf eventually call off the relationship after 4 mth. After that she start looking for another similar bf...but seem like the same problem will come back again.

Hi, it always nothing personal in forum, so why getting mad? :confused:
But then i also do not quite understand your meaning and also....

1) Just by seeking opinion here, how would i know if ppl lurking in this forum maybe having a casual sex with the future girl i bao? i dont even know them in real world, so does it matter? :confused:

2) Like i mention i am looking for a paid gf or sugarbaby whichever term ppl like to call it, that is not a real relationship, why bother if she sleep around during my absence? More important is my aim must be met, ie. when i meet up with her, she need to be able to commit her time and make me happy. :)

Right. Forgot to mention im only going for 4 days 3 nights. Meeting the girl from 2nd day onwards. Not sure how much to give her, I'm still quite noob on viet ktv girls as well.
Btw, I'm actually considering on changing at the airport itself. Will it be a huge difference? Cos I'm worried I might not be able to locate the exchange in town. And is it a must to have USD on hand? I won't have any dong on hand when I reach hcm.

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read this lah...noob but refused to click and read...research a bit lah...many of newbies told me they printed the whole blog and used as manual for their first trip...:)

http://vietnamservices.weebly.com/faq.html

if 4D3N and still need to pay gals besides meals, taxi transport, not sure if you be going disco, lounge, family ktv...then S$ 400 or 6.5mil dong is not enough to spend for 2 person...:)

no market to give gal but if gal stay with you 24 hrs per day then 2mil per day which is 6-8 mil if stay 3days or 4days...:)

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Father works in Vietnam and gf, soon to be wifey

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I dont mind your criticism. Good for you to point out that the method is primitive and response is poor. This is just an old trick for someone who can not speak tieng viet and the girl English is super low.

For those have moved on to better ways, i.e. find VBs face to face directly, tieng viet is probably required. So, for someone who is still learning tieng viet, how is he going to move to better ways when language is still a barrier. While he is improving his tieng viet, the primitive paper and pencil helps.

Besides, how is it possible for someone who is living and working outside Vn to target decent VBs in VN by goin face to face directly. The person can only do so for maybe 3 days 3 nights short period of time when he visit VN. He will have no chance of doing face to face for the bulk of his time back home, unlike those who are in VN longer time plus already can use tieng viet to utilise the better ways beyond the primitive ways suggested.

Anyway, the main key to succeed in scoring VBs goals is not about how a person approach the girl, approaching is only one aspect of wooing, but the main key is CONNECTIVITY. How to connect with a girl such that she will be willing and think that she is making love and not being a slut. Different type of girls require different ways to connect.

More about connectivity in later posts. Peace and thank you for reading

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For all bystanders who had up my points, please post something somewhere in the forum, so that I can up your points back (humble 1 point). Older posts can not be used to up your points leh. Thanks

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wow...congrats...soon will see you post in ICA and Vietnam Life Partner Thread...:)