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WA u so got ink one bro. Learn something tonight.
Moral of story is why buy the cow and also built the farm when you only want milk?

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Never pity them , once this trigger on you , the next thing u will know is you will spend money without control .. after this .. u will realise why are u so dumb

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great advise from great samsters!

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this kind of trap is happening everywhere and yet everyday there is guys falling into this KC issue.

why just we fuck and go? dun even bother to take down any numbers, not knowing where she stays, ask how many siblings she has, the more you ask the more you get connected. Once connected, then your brain will not think Until your money got wipe out and you come to SBF and declare I'm and fuck up!

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Wl, fl, ktv gals are all here to make money, not look for bf or husband.

When you meet them and they sense that you are someone who can spend, the kc starts. Lovey dovey chats or sms, going out on dates and give you the gf feel. Very soon, you forget what see does for a living and treat her like a normal gf.

These are professionals here which see all kinds of men day in and out. Surely with enough expertise to make you fall in if one is not cautious. :p

As a bro wisely puts it, it's a cycle. ;)

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boss, you forgot to add CPF to the list :D :D

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To All Dear Samsters, had been in the forum for many years,seldom post but always enjoy reading the posts and learning from the precious experience from the fellow bros.This is my unfortunate encounter with pro FL

Im in my late thirties now, single and enjoying my bachelorhood... Till i met this FL, Mid twenties PRC on social visit. Married with 1 kid in china.
Well, She never ask for $$ from me, in fact. She reduced her bookings after she began staying with me at my place even though she had a hostel room packed with other in a apartment.Life is good and blissed...She told me she love me and i told her to quit the FL scene.She mentioned she needs the money to repaid the debts owing by her husband in china.She started in this flesh trade for 10 years and its her 1st time in SG.I Choose to believe her even though i had read thru the posts by fellow samster about the cons setup by this women.
After she went back to china in June, We still keep in touch and she keeps telling me not to forsake her as she really loves me and wanted to filed a divorce with her husband cos she had no more love for him.i had just visited her in 2 weeks after she left and we had great companionship with her and her true life friends.

To make the long story short. Im stucked in a situation, i had feelings for her but she is married, if she really chooses to divorce her husband and come over to sg to marry me,what should i do? Money spend on her is for her livelihood and she only ask for enough and never ask for more.

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Feelings for her vs Being able to accept her n her past? U need to be practical in ur thinking bro. Dun let a moment of weakness turn into a lifetime of nightmare.

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mate.. do u seriously want marry a whore?
her husband must have owe alot of money or she must have love being a whore if she is still into it after 10 years..

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That's y I'm worried... Being in deep waters need to be wake up by reality.im just concerned what will she do if I avoided her from now.i even told her that If we do not end up together after she is divorced, she should quit the trade.

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Are S'porean men allowed to own farm land with a house on it in Thailand? Or jointly owned with their Thai wives? Or through a business company registered in Thailand? I know we must never buy a property in any country n transfer it to a FL girl's name.

Remember dat poor late little schoolgirl, Huang Na? Murdered in S'pore. Her mother who was originally deported for immigration offences (read prostitution), collected the donations for her daughter's funeral, went back to PRC n extended her house into a ghastly 3 storey mansion. She claimed dat she donated a portion of the money. I don't believe her.

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Be straightforward n tell her direct both of u are better off staying as friends. Don't beat around the brush and give her false hope.

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You are MAD.

She's now mid 20s & a 10yrs old whore which means she started to fuck for money in her teens? How does her vagina feel now? Sex trade makes a woman age very fast & she has slept with more men than you have women.

Wake up dude. Sorry to hurt you but bitter medicine works.

Act 2. She turns out to be good & you marry her. Are you capable to furnish her a decent lifestyle? She'll soon import her child over, can you deal with this & if both of you have children? You need to deal with her past, her child's livelihood & education. Their well being etc. If she doesn't need your money then where does her money comes from, savings? Or fucking other men behind your back while you work? What makes you think that her husband won't come & wreck your sweet nest later on?

Too much emotional & money baggage bro. Go find a decent woman to marry or better still, stay bachelor till death. Adopt some kids if you like & do some volunteer work to stash that empty mind of yours.

FYI, I had a PRC mistress & some ex from around the region and we do the usual family meeting, makan sessions. They even give me cars to drive & a put me up @ their homes. Heck, we even went for holidays together with her family! If you guys want to invest in any properties, make sure it's under your name only & she's a "tenant" or set up a company to invest in the country. Unless, she has given you enough "lovely sex" to worth a property then by all means gift her one. My PRC gal turned out to be good & earns more than an average Singaporean now selling medicine.

Remember. No money = No honey. Men give love to have sex & women give sex to have love.

Boss used to say, "An empty mind puts a Devil to work" so I always keep myself busy :D

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欢场无真爱

;)

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After so many years....still the same..."entertaining"...:D