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Re: 得不到的真的是最怀念的吗?????

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Originally Posted by LordAvernus (Post 6165014)

This is the most frightening thing that rattles me. That a person you once so loved wholeheartedly can just suddenly change. Sometimes, I sit up in the middle of the night and think to myself, whether I can ever give 100 percent again to another person and I just can't bring myself to come to terms with this brutal fact. How can somebody just wipe another person off from your life just like this confounds me. It is like denying the existence of a close family member in your life. Can human beings really be this cruel?

Sometimes being kind is a form of cruelty.
If u know eventually this relationship will break off...
marrying or being tgt just because it's the right thing to do or next step...
Or treating the person with tender loving care after the break...
Is cruel cus the love isn't there n she/he cannot move on too.

Since teenage, i've learnt no matter how much of test, testing, tests for the potential soulmate is futile, Ppl change, and u can't stop changes. U can adapt to their changes. ;)

Re: 得不到的真的是最怀念的吗?????

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Originally Posted by Chanelfingers (Post 6171417)

Question is: What if you cannot be cruel?

Re: 得不到的真的是最怀念的吗?????

Learn, Accept and Adapt ?

It's after all - Your feet, your shoes, your own journey path.

Re: 得不到的真的是最怀念的吗?????

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Originally Posted by callnal (Post 6166901)

if you cannot get, what are you going to miss? nothing, so you will not 怀念!

Clap Clap..Totally agree ;)

In this world, is not that anyone u love will love u bak! Why waste time 怀念?
might as well start hunting new love instead..or being loved by someone then to love someone..bei ai shi xing fu :cool:

Re: 得不到的真的是最怀念的吗?????

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Originally Posted by LordAvernus (Post 6172011)

Question is: What if you cannot be cruel?

Then u will be cruel
To yourself

Re: 得不到的真的是最怀念的吗?????

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Originally Posted by LordAvernus (Post 6165014)

why are you afraid? You loved, that does not mean the other person loved you the same way you loved her. True love, does not expect return, delights in giving. There is also a phase that you need to go through. The ugly phase, where you will wake up to a monster, where you will discover imperfections, where the person will have character flaws, and you will fight, you will hate the person, and then after that you will decide if you can live with the person inspite of these flaws, because its these flaws that make the person unique.

True be told, you will never be able to give 100%, it will be good if you can give at least 20% of yourself to the other person. There is only One that can give 100% and live to say He can, and you are not that person. What you cannot come to terms with, is rejection. That she left you anyway.

Don't waste time dwelling in bitterness of rejection, but relish in the happy moments that the person bring to you while you are together. Live your life, as if it is your last, have no regrets because whether its your fb, your gf, you wife , irregardless of the status, there is a chance, she will not wake up tomorrow, and today will be the last day you see her. and if she is gone, if you love her, wish her well, pray that someone else is taking care of her, and if ever she needs help, you know you will help her and have no bitterness for her.

just my 2cents