Re: married men
 

Why do people, especially females, like to remain as "friend" to an ex? :confused:

IMHO, if the break off is recent, remain as "friends" usually means one party is still hopeful of a reunion. If it's been a long while, then the party who requested to be "friend" is looking for some "benefits" after such a long break. No?

Re: married men
 

Almost all true. I am probably one married man who wants to have a FB. But the difference is I don't lie. I am truly not happy with my sex life and there are men out there who are suffering because their partner are not keen in making love.

Re: married men
 

Very much agreed to what Bros says.

Re: married men
 

Then why get married?
There's no perfect sex partner in this life.

Re: married men
 

sex was perfect for the first 10 years until she got religious,went vegan and everything went stale. can you imagine every 1st and 15th no sex and worst i have to eat vegetarian with her. Then no more beef and seafood as well.

Re: married men
 

I knw how it feel, at home just follow her, you an still eat outside.

Re: married men
 

Yes, unfortunately its true.

Re: married men
 

Religious is by heart nt to be done against the will. U can make known to her, gotta buck up ur communication or izzit Pure sianz after being together for more than 10 yrs. Afterall this is human nature.

Men will always like to get "harmless"NSA flings outside to spice up the boring routine life but to return to their wives eventually.

Tts y for those who's serious, don ever get involved with married men, not even 1-1date. For those who dun wan to get hurt, get lost instead.

Re: married men
 

That sounds damn tragic man. Oh my.

Re: married men
 

Thanks for some brothers who understand my plight. Apart from sex that had gone stale with my wife else she is perfect. She works, she cooks well, she keeps the house clean but I'm a man in the forties and I'm highly sex. So what else can i do? If any wives here who are also highly sex and their husband can't satisfy you, what would you do? What's your advise?:(

Re: married men
 

Very True Bro
but you put yourself into her shoe as a full time houusewife ... (i.e cook for you, do the house chores, take care your children) all this daily routine ... do you think they still can fantasize sex ...
why dun you take a week leave and to try do these things ... ...
nevertheless, no man will be satisfied in sex ... no matter how many women they had bed ... i have been screwing around since i was 17 ... if i am lucky i will be having lots of children around the world ...;p

Re: married men
 

U r really lucky to marry a good wife, wat more can u ask for? Give her a surprise by booking a nice room in MBS, swim n relax at the pool, wine/dine her before spicing up ur sex life in the room? Never give up trying.

Re: married men
 

Thanks Brothers for all the advise. I tried to spice up by going to hoildays (two of us only) and nice dinner but all to waste. She cooks only on weekends and she is now almost vegetarian. I now cannot have sex during the 1st and 15th of the lunar month and auspicious days like Vesak day and all the gods birthday. Can no longer do oral sex with her as the mouth is used for praying so is sacred. Believe me I have tried. What to do?

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I think u need to communicate with her and make known your feelings. Choose the right time/ambience n voice out your thoughts. Bottom up do both parties no good.

Nabez, i feel you bro. Though mine not so extreme, but the mouth for praying part i can identify.