Originally Posted by maleescort7 (Post 18716628)

I would suggest to go and do regular checkups after every 2 months if you are a fuck buddy. Its better to be safe and control the illness in early stages if something happens.
Can you please let others know the charges for medial checkup for HIV/AIDS? And how to make an appointment and other information required for checkup?
Thanks.

Originally Posted by boingster (Post 18723020)

HIV blood tests are pretty specific for the virus itself. Alot of the clinics offer quick result testing which look for the HIV specific protein. However, these quick tests may not be too accurate if you get the test done too early. For example, if you had unprotected sex, or had acquired HIV infection by other means today and went for the blood test tomorrow, the test will be negative. It takes time for the virus to essentially multiply and have a 'presence' in your blood. That is why the advice is normally at least 6-8weeks after the encounter is recommended. Depending on the protocol, sometimes when these rapid tests are positive, your blood samples will be sent to the labs for another test which have higher accuracy (sensitivity) to diagnosing HIV. That is called the Western Blot.

This is the reason why these HIV tests can mislead individuals. Thus a good history taking at the clinic should be carried out by medical personnel.

And to reply about the job applications. Your HIV status is private and confidential and will not be made known to companies that request it. If another party or a company is seeking knowledge on your HIV status, they will not be able to get such information unless you personally give them the permission. The only one that will know your HIV status is the government, this is not because they put a mark against you, but it is an international law to declare your HIV status. GP's who perform blood tests for you are required to provide the ministry of health your details - this is for medical scientists or infectious diseases specialists, or whoever who are involved in the registry to observe the HIV population numbers and be able to launch campaigns or promote safe sex etc.. etc..

Originally Posted by Whysoserioushuh (Post 18893825)

just wondering, i engaged a FL and while we are doing it, the condom broke.

Should i be worried?

It is the 3rd week now and im having fever.

Should i get tested?

Originally Posted by Big Sexy (Post 18893941)

you should go for regularly checkup if you activity participate in commercial sex activities.....esp more in this case if the rubber broke..

Originally Posted by Whysoserioushuh (Post 18893949)

Thank you. Will it be accurate? cause its the 3rd week.
I seldom engage in commercial activities to be honest.

And this is the first time while doing the condom broke. Never had such an experience.

Originally Posted by hanker6666 (Post 18807627)

herpes consider as HIV?

Originally Posted by Whysoserioushuh (Post 18908360)

Oh btw, it was a local FL.

Originally Posted by ourworld (Post 18716821)

I had shared an experience once On my thread and I will share it here again,,
One of My close friend is diagnosed with HIV,,,
She is a fine, kind hearted lady,,, married for her husband for several years,,
She had always been very faithful to her hubby,,,
But her husband had been trying to convince her to do something more rather than usual bedroom sex,,,
He wanted SRS of swapping,,,

Finally, after years of persuading she finally agreed and his hubby arranged for a SRS session with another couple,,, subsequently they escalate to swapping,,
They have 1 rule, the rule is never to contact each other, other than having such sessioncccx
But woman bring woman,,, my friend got emotionally attached to that guy after a few sessions,,,
Soon they start meeting up and they had affairs,,,,

We were super shock becoz she is the less likely among us to explore such sexual acts,,,
Last year,,, her husband changed a new job,, and that job required him to go for medical check up,,,
Result came back,,, he was HIV positive,,, the company decline his employment,,
The other major problem was,,, he only has unprotected sex with his wife,, my friend,,

He forced her to go for a medical check,, initially she refused,,,
But eventually went,, and tested positive,,
That guy also went for a check and was also tested positive,,,

Her husband sued her and filed for divorce,,, he also went up to her office and make a scene,,,
She was asked to resign,,,
I’m not too sure about what happens to that guy,,,
Havnt catch up with her for a while le,,,

So ya,,, pls becareful,,,
In today’s world,,,
Internet made sex easily available,,, casual sex is so common now,,
you may be faithful,,, but how sure are you that your partner is equally faithful?

My advise,,, go get yourself tested if you are exposed to unprotected sex or you have any reason to believe that your partner is unfaithful,,,

Last check, my friend is still very normal,,, she didn’t have any physically symptoms,,
Just that she requires medication daily to maintain her CD4 at a healthy range,,
She is earning a living now by giving tuition and selling some stuffs online,,,
After she resigned she applied for a few jobs,,, but was eventually rejected,,,
We supposed the cross reference failed came back quite unpleasant,,,,

Originally Posted by alicialow09ww (Post 18969613)

When women have sex with another man, the physical and emotional attachment are both there. That is why never do swapping of wife. You may lose your spouse forever