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Well, I tend to be more of an emotional person lor.

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Just go and ask her. How do you feel about me? Would you like to be my gf?

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SO Blur.... Its not wrong to be emotional but please take it from me. Use ur head more than ur heart..... all that talk abt follow ur heart and all. Yes it applies if u are talking abt the traditional old fashion boy love girl, girl love boy thing..... now we are talking abt a purely physical and sexual thing..... Ask urself this, will she make u happy as in emotionally?? Minus the sex and all..... Will u two be happy together and are you two compatable???? In terms of character and habits? Frankly I really dont think so...... And frankly being harsh and frank as I always am. Ur buddy is a player.... yup just looking for a good time and ur sexual experience with her is but "Two consenting adults wanting to have sex" no big deal..... SO PLEASE WAKE UP.......

Why Im so concerned is because I have been there walking the road u walk..... and despite people around me telling me not to..... the worse part I later found out that while we were "togther" she was already "seeing" her present new bf but yet all I got was lies. Trust me mate, it will hurt worse if u dont pull urself out now. Now u may feel alittle hurt and all... but please u are not emotionally attached yet, so dont tell urself u are..... If u really need someone to talk to, PM me

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Bro, I think the quickest and simple way is to have both of you talk it out. There is no point in us telling you two what to do. The important thing, is both of you, how you both feel about each other. Or at the end of the day, it is just pure lust that both of you need.

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Latest updates.
Haven't been meeting her much lately. She seems to be really busy lately. Used to meet up at least 3, 4 times a week, but past few weeks only about once a week. On Monday when we met, she did tell me a story about her friend though:

Her friend (who's attached) has this close guy friend who's supposedly like a brother to her, and the 2 of them had been sleeping together ever since an occasion when she got drunk. At first she didn't have any feelings for the guy but slowly feelings developed, causing her relationship with her bf to be affected. But all that guy has to do is say the word and she'll drop her bf to be with him. Problem is she doesn't know what the guy is thinking.

Somehow the story reminded me of my own situation, but well, I don't think my that friend is smart enough to come up with a story to try to test my reaction la. Anyway there are quite a number of parts different, like her friend having sex with that guy quite often, her staying alone etc. It probably is just a coincidence, but it did make me think about my own situation. Makes me wonder even more what to do.

Anyway, we were supposed to go clubbing last week with some other friends but she said she was sick and so didn't go. However one of my friends said she could have gone out with another guy cos that guy turned out to be sick too. Hmmm...

Maybe I really should just forget her. But sigh... no other girls to occupy my time and mind and heart leh... :(

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Hey bro, no time for wish washy stuff. So what exactly do you want? If you yourself cant decide what you want, then what's the point pondering all these. She is there for you to grab. Yes, no guarantee but you’ll never know till you give it a shot. Come on, Singapore Pool encourage us to bet but also never guarantee sure strike, only guarantee, the more you bet, the higher the returns if strike.

So please, since you still continue to consider this and that, more or less you are interested in her, so why not give it a shot? Never under estimate a gal’s IQ, we are smart but they are brilliant as well. Sometimes they say things to see our reactions and are pretty sensitive to it as well. I’ll support you to go for her, not for the sex though but simply the feelings you have for her. :)

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Unless you do something constructive, you will only be crying over spilled milk or sperm for that matter. Anyway, you didn't lugi. You got to screw her for FREE twice.

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Bro Soblur,

Are U really so blur? :D Can see that she just want attention from ppl only.
There are still many gels out there still looking for BFs...

My advice to U : SAF!! ("Serve" And Fu*k off!!)

So ghost!!
HauntedSex

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Just go some disco or pubs and approach new targets to occupy your heart.

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Well, thing is I don't quite have the habit of doing that. Maybe scared la.

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Typical case of “ Boat front scare got ghost, boat end scare got robber, boat middle scare got leak.” In the end, stay home and DIY. :cool:

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well fren..all i can say she is misleading you man .. recently i hav faced with such a problem too .. but not so jialat as yrs .. mine was only close hugging and touching here n there ..but she makes me feel that i got chance with her..moreover during then she is my mei and i was like a kor .. ok few days later i confess to her and guess wat? she rejected the idea and say its impossible between us .. and the following week ..we end up quarrelling and she insulting me this n that..

So i say dont bother to confess or wat.. or else u might end up disappointed and u might lose a buddy or wat .. not worth my 2 cents.. just like wat im going thru nw.. terrible.. u shld find yrself some new targets and forget abt her..

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hey pals, I think this topic is coming to an end pretty soon, unless Mr SOBLUR you could quickly find yourself another "buddy or buddies" to ram (we'll help you with the rest of the buddies) . Cant really give any more advise

Cheers , and good luck!! :D

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good luck too!

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Don't quite think anything's gonna be happening for now.

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so.b, whats ur esteemed advise?

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I think, most bro will say let nature takes its course. well, looking at your reply. This is the strategy you should follow.
But if you're the "Gan Chiong Spider" type.. Go! Bonk her again and see how!!

You know yourself but not the enemy is half battle won.
You know enemy but dont know yourself is half battle won.
You dont know yourself and the enemy is losing the battle.
You know the enemy and know yourself is a winning battle.

Relationships cannot be measured using Art of War tactics lah, but you know yourself best.. :D

All The Best To You Bro!!!

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Think its end of story liao. My buddy really acts as though nothing has happened and in fact, we've been seeing less of each other lately. Think I also should stay away from her so that I won't end up having too much feelings about this.

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soblur,
your buddy could be just trying to have some session with you. I know of some friends that bonk their buddy and even colleagues as well...without any string attached.

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Don't leh. Cannot have love but at least still can have sex, right? Very sayang. Wasted. :)

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i suggest telling her straight...but give her time if she hesitates...

if she rejects but treasure ur friendship, then she'll remain as ur buddy...

valentine day coming soon...ask her out and see her reaction...
good luck!!!

btw, don't miss the forest becoz of a tree blocking infront of u...
:)

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I have only got one last thing to say to you Soblur....

Its BLATANTLY OBVIOUS that she just took it as a physical thing with no emotions and no strings attached. If she really wanted to start anything with you, it would have happened long ago. And dont ever ever go back to her and dont ever screw her again... cos you will find yourself falling deeper into it.... and trust me its either, 1)U become shattered when she gets herself a new bf 2) Bitter like hell 3)Do something really really silly.

You are not a player.... and you cant afford to play with a player like her.... In the long run, you will get burned very badly... and if Im not wrong.... she should be dating someone pretty soon..... Just a gut feeling.... Someone she met pretty recently...

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Yeah, even girls sometime seeks a booty call and nothing more. :) you are probably convenient and she is probably comfortable with you.

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Brother to what I see hor.... since she treat it as nothing.... treat her like a part time lover lah..... when think of bonk can always look for her at the same time go and look for a gf :D

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me looking for pt lover so long liao still in vain,most need money one,his somemore free!
where to find.
haiz

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Bro, in my opinion, the problem lies with you but not her. Why dun you just continue the friendship and enjoy the relationship you have. Do not EXPECT anything, and when u have zero expectations, whatever that comes is a bonus.

If you are do that, you will at least have a friend. And if you are lucky, a FB. And who knows, you guys may even end up being an item.

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By the way guys, she patched back with her ex-bf, so definitely I can't be asking her out on Valentine's day. And well, 2 of us were out drinking yesterday after a movie and we weren't even close. Confirm end of story la.

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dun think too much dude.... got nice memories can liao...

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On hind sight, it could be she tried to hint to you during that meeting by using a 3rd party as the subject of the story. Since she did not get any +ve signal from you, she might think there is no chance. Hence she moved on and gave her ex-bf another chance. (This is from an outsider's perspective)

All is not lost. Remain as buddies and enjoy the friendship. Who knows what the future may be?

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Im sad to hear that ur babe patched back with her ex.... but alas.. guess I was rite? I did say that I had a feeling that she will be dating someone very soon.... Well relax and learn from it and dont fall into the same mistake again... U should be a really nice fellow... but unfortuntely girls dont like nice guys.... U are what they call.... "He is nice but..... he is too nice for me" Dont you notice how girls always complain abt their bfs but in the end of the day its their bfs that they have so much complains about that they fall for deeply? So learn and dont fall into the same trap of being "nice" and please dont buddy buddy..... u have already cross the line.... Its no way of turning back..... Meaning move on and dont go try getting close to her..... it will only hurt u more... and trust me.... dont be surprised she will look u up when she and her bf got quarrels and all... and maybe end up with u in bed again... but frankly ask urself this.... if she can do it to her bf.... will she do it to u one day IF you do win her heart???