Re: Vietnamisation Program
 

then y break-up ..... keep it that way but drop down the no. of times u c each other .....even if once a week she will be ok ...... just say u busy mah ....

Re: Vietnamisation Program
 

Actually yesterday quite jialat...i go uturn so many time, i think yesterday was one of the worst nights! But the 25 yr old gal sit with my friend, the girl u know one....her friend not bad ma...wear top with some sort of slowery prints and matching short skirt one. wa...not bad! But when i leaving i see her counting and counting her money...machiam $$$ face a bit turnoff.

Re: Vietnamisation Program
 

Ya...but my excuses will run out one day. As it is, she already asking me why every sat and sun i not working but don't spend time with her....sigh. See how la....Just go with the flow.

Nowadays i think we also a bit strained...she is not so prompt in replying me...avoids certain questions i ask her. And last night, she seems a lil upset but she refuses to tell me whats troubling her. I don like this feeling cos last time, everything she will tell me.

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haha dun worry lah, the flow will never stop one.....haha...just make sure you are ready when the next high tide arrives lor...ahahha

Re: Vietnamisation Program
 

Why give excuse ...remember what i said ...never lied to a viet...just tell her the truth that u have another gf b4 u know her.....

let me weave a story 4 u .....

when u 1st came here 2 drink, u just not keen on anything but then as u get to know her, u start 2 love her but it will not be fair if becos of her u dump ur gf mah.......

tell her u r done lying 2 her and wanna be truthful once & 4 all .... tell her 2 decide if she wanna carry on with u .....

try this lah ....i always advocate telling the truth policy ....

Re: Vietnamisation Program
 

dun worry my size can withstand the overflowing tides

Re: Vietnamisation Program
 

dun worry my size can withstand the overflowing tides

Re: Vietnamisation Program
 

i will say... leave it to fate... :)

Re: Vietnamisation Program
 

this i agree... works for me so far... but when the main one finds out then... :o

Re: Vietnamisation Program
 

well this is another skill of your gab .... just tell her that this ger likes u very much despite u telling her that u already have a gal ....

nothing happen between u n her ...purely just friendship .... then promise her on wat u will do ...

Re: Vietnamisation Program
 

for those about to rock vietnam .......

Tiger Airways have started a Rep office in HCMC so its a matter of time that they will start flkying in ...

So next time .....party destination Saigon

Going a Full Circle
 

Sometimes it takes a bit of loneliness to give one time to ponder about life and where it leads you.

This past week I have been feeling rather sentimental of things past. Two friends on different ocassion spoke to me of the same thing "Stop going around in circle, when u find a good one, grab and stop."

Thinking back, been in this area since 2002. Started from U-turn around April 2002. I move to 51 in late Nov 2002 and this place is where the vietnamisation program was started and perfected. I have dated and slept with countless of viets here but never gave my heart.

Until she came along and in december 2003, I decided to stop and prepared to marry her. I declared a short-lived retirement and move to the blue region cos she never like me there when she is around. Courtesy of to an itchy backside, i retracted my retirement.

We broke up in march 2004 but somehow a part of her still sticks in me and
Each time she back in town and in 51, I behave myself very much for fear of hurting her feelings if she see me hug or talk to other gals too much. This is 1 gal I have never make love to before due to some personal reasons , why do i bother so much about her feelings. The only thing being we are together for close to a year.

A couple of months ago when she came back, she told me she have a bf liao. So when she came back on a subsequent trip and as some things happen. I seek her help to explain some stuff to 1 of my gal. A casual conversation then became a heated argument. Remembered that my new gal said "I angry cos she say that if I want U, I can have U"

Remember on New Year Eve at 51, I was over at Bro Shagua table for a chit chat, she drop by and just plunge her head on my shoulders. That feeling was so comforting and warmth, without thinking I put my arms around her and hug her for a few minutes till I came to my senses that she belongs to someone else.

Saw her the past few days, she siting with a buddy of mine but then my buddy told me quite a few things that set my mind thinking ...... I would still pretty much love to have her back by my side but just afraid to make that move. All the hugs & bonks I got just cannot be compared to the feelings with her, crazy huh ....

Let think long & hard this weekend ......

P.S.:

Cassanova - what say u? U know her well too .... how ????

Re: Vietnamisation Program
 

Have no regrets :)

Re: Going a Full Circle
 

hmmmm....i never see that....if it is the fighting nite....then i am high on that nite.... :D

Re: Going a Full Circle
 

Bro...all i can say is if u try, there is at least 50% chance of success...if u don't, 0%. Live life with no regrets man!