Re: A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 

so.b, whats ur esteemed advise?

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I think, most bro will say let nature takes its course. well, looking at your reply. This is the strategy you should follow.
But if you're the "Gan Chiong Spider" type.. Go! Bonk her again and see how!!

You know yourself but not the enemy is half battle won.
You know enemy but dont know yourself is half battle won.
You dont know yourself and the enemy is losing the battle.
You know the enemy and know yourself is a winning battle.

Relationships cannot be measured using Art of War tactics lah, but you know yourself best.. :D

All The Best To You Bro!!!

Re: A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 

Think its end of story liao. My buddy really acts as though nothing has happened and in fact, we've been seeing less of each other lately. Think I also should stay away from her so that I won't end up having too much feelings about this.

Re: A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 

soblur,
your buddy could be just trying to have some session with you. I know of some friends that bonk their buddy and even colleagues as well...without any string attached.

Re: A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 

Don't leh. Cannot have love but at least still can have sex, right? Very sayang. Wasted. :)

Re: A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 

i suggest telling her straight...but give her time if she hesitates...

if she rejects but treasure ur friendship, then she'll remain as ur buddy...

valentine day coming soon...ask her out and see her reaction...
good luck!!!

btw, don't miss the forest becoz of a tree blocking infront of u...
:)

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I have only got one last thing to say to you Soblur....

Its BLATANTLY OBVIOUS that she just took it as a physical thing with no emotions and no strings attached. If she really wanted to start anything with you, it would have happened long ago. And dont ever ever go back to her and dont ever screw her again... cos you will find yourself falling deeper into it.... and trust me its either, 1)U become shattered when she gets herself a new bf 2) Bitter like hell 3)Do something really really silly.

You are not a player.... and you cant afford to play with a player like her.... In the long run, you will get burned very badly... and if Im not wrong.... she should be dating someone pretty soon..... Just a gut feeling.... Someone she met pretty recently...

Re: A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 

Yeah, even girls sometime seeks a booty call and nothing more. :) you are probably convenient and she is probably comfortable with you.

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Brother to what I see hor.... since she treat it as nothing.... treat her like a part time lover lah..... when think of bonk can always look for her at the same time go and look for a gf :D

Re: A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 

me looking for pt lover so long liao still in vain,most need money one,his somemore free!
where to find.
haiz

Re: A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 

Bro, in my opinion, the problem lies with you but not her. Why dun you just continue the friendship and enjoy the relationship you have. Do not EXPECT anything, and when u have zero expectations, whatever that comes is a bonus.

If you are do that, you will at least have a friend. And if you are lucky, a FB. And who knows, you guys may even end up being an item.

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By the way guys, she patched back with her ex-bf, so definitely I can't be asking her out on Valentine's day. And well, 2 of us were out drinking yesterday after a movie and we weren't even close. Confirm end of story la.

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dun think too much dude.... got nice memories can liao...

Re: A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 

On hind sight, it could be she tried to hint to you during that meeting by using a 3rd party as the subject of the story. Since she did not get any +ve signal from you, she might think there is no chance. Hence she moved on and gave her ex-bf another chance. (This is from an outsider's perspective)

All is not lost. Remain as buddies and enjoy the friendship. Who knows what the future may be?

Re: A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 

Im sad to hear that ur babe patched back with her ex.... but alas.. guess I was rite? I did say that I had a feeling that she will be dating someone very soon.... Well relax and learn from it and dont fall into the same mistake again... U should be a really nice fellow... but unfortuntely girls dont like nice guys.... U are what they call.... "He is nice but..... he is too nice for me" Dont you notice how girls always complain abt their bfs but in the end of the day its their bfs that they have so much complains about that they fall for deeply? So learn and dont fall into the same trap of being "nice" and please dont buddy buddy..... u have already cross the line.... Its no way of turning back..... Meaning move on and dont go try getting close to her..... it will only hurt u more... and trust me.... dont be surprised she will look u up when she and her bf got quarrels and all... and maybe end up with u in bed again... but frankly ask urself this.... if she can do it to her bf.... will she do it to u one day IF you do win her heart???