Originally Posted by a380 (Post 20320223)

Recently got to know an American-educated PRC lady in my workplace; she came to get my contact no as she asked if I could help her with work. Tbh I didn't really check her out prior to that, but somehow our work convos on text led to discussions about our personal lives.

We had dinner together on one night, and it was fun, with lots of laughter. Then we proceeded to her house (she lived in a single bedroom unit) as I claimed my phone was running out of battery (I was half-hoping something would happen!)

So we continued to talk and joke, and I gave her a light massage, with me behind her. Then I went to hug her from the back and gave her some light pecks on her neck. She was actually surprised and rejected me outright, saying that she needed time to explore, blah blah blah... It sucks to be me, so it was damn sian, and I left her house blue-balled.

Subsequently, she texted me and asked if we could go for movies etc. This was clearly a warning sign that she wanted more from me - I simply want a FWB and not a girlfriend (as I've one already lol). But I still met her for dinner, and the convo was still fun. Once back at her house (I told her I wanted somewhere discreet, without our masks, so I could tell her serious stuff hehe), I clarified with her that I wasn't looking for emotional attachment , and preferred physical relationships.

She was clearly disappointed about it! Just shortly before I left, we had a hug... and that was when things became slightly heated. I gave her a peck and some nibbling on her neck, and she kind of surrendered and lay down on the bed for me to French kiss her neck. But once again she rejected me moving on to the next stage, though she also kissed me on the lips and licked my neck. We were unfortunately interrupted by her PRC friend, who was coming up to pass something to her. So I left blue-balled for the second time LOL!

I haven't texted her since then, as this happened a few days earlier. Bros, any suggestions? She's clearly ok with the physical part despite denying it. But I'm afraid of the emotional intimacy that she wants (which I clearly don't!). Really want to get into her pants - she's very tall and slim, and damn I just want to feast on her tummy and legs!

Just a pic of her here...

https://i.ibb.co/RTMYF1x/Screenshot-...8-13-43-PM.png

Originally Posted by tuyp (Post 20324016)

So I had another kbbq dinner yesterday but with a diff lady, know her from bumble, and im not sure what i want from her but we did talk sexually and teased each other or say what we wanna do to each but she always leave me hanging. I thought she just play play only

Went for KBBQ dinner and had soju + beer ( we drank quite a bit so decided in chill in car with engine on, she decided to rest on my shoulder and i touched her hand a bit, no rejection)

After a while, i decided to drive her back thinking that she had too much drinks, so while driving and leaning on my shoulder, she suddenly said ' you smell good and proceeded to kiss/lick my neck and her hands getting naughty rubbing me

I didnt do much as i have to focus and drive but managed to squeeze her boobs at traffic light and light make out.

Anyway end of story. Nothing more than kissing and her rubbing me with her hands but seems kbbq plus drinks plus perfume seems like way to go

Originally Posted by a380 (Post 20316107)

Wah alot bros PM me to ask about this affair... haha why so interested in pastor’s wife?? They are also ordinary human beings like us who fall to lust hehe

Originally Posted by tuyp (Post 20324016)

So I had another kbbq dinner yesterday but with a diff lady, know her from bumble, and im not sure what i want from her but we did talk sexually and teased each other or say what we wanna do to each but she always leave me hanging. I thought she just play play only

Went for KBBQ dinner and had soju + beer ( we drank quite a bit so decided in chill in car with engine on, she decided to rest on my shoulder and i touched her hand a bit, no rejection)

After a while, i decided to drive her back thinking that she had too much drinks, so while driving and leaning on my shoulder, she suddenly said ' you smell good and proceeded to kiss/lick my neck and her hands getting naughty rubbing me

I didnt do much as i have to focus and drive but managed to squeeze her boobs at traffic light and light make out.

Anyway end of story. Nothing more than kissing and her rubbing me with her hands but seems kbbq plus drinks plus perfume seems like way to go

Originally Posted by JasonPhang (Post 20325175)

Matched my gf’s good friend on tinder. And then went on to fuck her at MBS. Never discuss further.

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal (Post 20325077)

Rather strange of you not proceeding further than just squeezing her boobs. There again, with COVID, also not likely to check in hotel to take it further. At best a quickie in the car.

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal (Post 20280743)

The are many of us living under the disguise of different faces. We may or may not even know all of them.
There are men or women who venture out of their relationship due to boredom, unsatisfactory sexual relationship and many other permutation.
There are also some that tell lies to look pathetic while others brag to sound like a champion. Whatever the case maybe, to have a fling with a married person,
can get very complicated if being found out, or the married person wants to divorce and get serious.
There's not many free lunches. It's only pay first or later with arrears.

Originally Posted by Greenfrog (Post 20326233)

junior bro, well said.

Originally Posted by a380 (Post 20320223)

Recently got to know an American-educated PRC lady in my workplace; she came to get my contact no as she asked if I could help her with work. Tbh I didn't really check her out prior to that, but somehow our work convos on text led to discussions about our personal lives.

Originally Posted by sgflyman (Post 20319921)

Haha thanks bro.

The CBD area is definitely a good place for a run after work hours. Lots of eye candies for our eyes to feast on.

Originally Posted by donut88 (Post 20326513)

Yea, but make sure you look good and fit when running, not like an old car that huff and panting with pale face. The eye candies will be laughing at you.

Originally Posted by a380 (Post 20320223)

I haven't texted her since then, as this happened a few days earlier. Bros, any suggestions? She's clearly ok with the physical part despite denying it. But I'm afraid of the emotional intimacy that she wants (which I clearly don't!). Really want to get into her pants - she's very tall and slim, and damn I just want to feast on her tummy and legs!

Just a pic of her here...

https://i.ibb.co/RTMYF1x/Screenshot-...8-13-43-PM.png

Originally Posted by lancelim (Post 20328530)

Last couple of months bonked 2 former classmates of mine. One rejected my advance almost 10 years ago. Another was married but had a crush on me for years.

All these bonk happened because at one of my former classmate's hen night, the bride to be revealed I've bonked her before and news spread.

Originally Posted by chenzong (Post 20327509)

Too many red flags. I find PRC women to be clingy if they are really into you. Especially dangerous. Go for another one. Safer.

Originally Posted by enzyme (Post 20328564)

Bro you really power. 👍

Originally Posted by lancelim (Post 20328530)

Last couple of months bonked 2 former classmates of mine. One rejected my advance almost 10 years ago. Another was married but had a crush on me for years.

All these bonk happened because at one of my former classmate's hen night, the bride to be revealed I've bonked her before and news spread.

Originally Posted by Orange22 (Post 20329128)

You are so lucky to be invited to hen's night!
Any sexciting happening on that night? :)

Originally Posted by wantedbryan (Post 20321831)

same fear as you hence rather go for commercial pay and forget. however can't deny the thrill of wooing

Originally Posted by Magericks (Post 20334619)

Not sure counted or not, had bj from my gf in the car while driving, nv thought she was that adventurous

Originally Posted by ahquan12 (Post 20344608)

During CB, my estate had a lot of group buy and soon we had our own private smaller group with afew of us

Chatted up a single mum and we started going out for drinks and dinner and the rest is history. She still can tell me ladies in theirs 30s are very hungry. Every session min 3 shots. She made me feel young again