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soblur 17-01-2005 12:13 AM
A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 
Not sure if this is the correct place to ask, but I really would like some opinions on this.

Have this really good buddy that I somehow ended up fucking twice. Thing is I'm the sort that if anything happens between me and the girl, I feel an obligation to take up responsibility for it (that's how me and some of my ex-gfs started (unfortunately)). But for her case, after it happened, she treated it as though nothing had happened. Both times lor. That really gets me wondering, what is she thinking???

Any opinions?

Oh, forgot to mention, frankly I do kinda like her, but yet somehow feel apprehensive about expressing my feelings. Maybe afraid of rejection or that it'd spoil our friendship.

asdfghjkl 17-01-2005 12:15 AM
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erm.. blur nick? oic.. think u should confront her?

uglyger 17-01-2005 12:17 AM
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ask her how she feel about u whether u 2 haf chance to further it on..or wait n c...drop her hintz

asdfghjkl 17-01-2005 12:22 AM
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Originally Posted by uglyger
or wait n c..
procastination is the enemy of success.. :p

uglyger 17-01-2005 12:24 AM
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too fast alz o cannot lar...all my r/z dun work out coz too fast le

soblur 17-01-2005 12:24 AM
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Well, another reason why I'm apprehensive also is cos I have qualms about having someone like her as a gf. Having been out clubbing with her so often, her getting approached (almost always), her dressing, her behavior with her friends etc. all leave me feeling that if I were her bf, I'd definitely feel really insecure.

asdfghjkl 17-01-2005 12:25 AM
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yep.. ur sub conscience has spoken and told you the answer already.. :o

uglyger 17-01-2005 12:27 AM
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well then i suggezt wait.....maybe it'z juz an infatuation

Eternity_Gal 17-01-2005 12:30 AM
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if u like the gal, u should be bold to express ur feelings.. I wonder how come a guy can be so undecisive in making ur choice whether to get the gal or not..Tell u one tip: ur gd friend might be flinging, she may not like you at all... So, the next time you ask her out, try to be more daring. Look into her eyes and see her reaction lol.. U 'll know whether it's a fling or real love..

asdfghjkl 17-01-2005 12:35 AM
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ET is a lao jiao when it comes to bgr.. asking her about relationships is akin to asking zhuge liang about war strategies.. lol

Eternity_Gal 17-01-2005 12:39 AM
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Originally Posted by asdfghjkl
ET is a lao jiao when it comes to bgr.. asking her about relationships is akin to asking zhuge liang about war strategies.. lol
aiya.. I'm only just slightly above the surface.. there 're more seniors who are better in handling these.. hah.. and dont think too much.. even she turn u down, there are still others nice gals..

pexter 17-01-2005 12:42 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by soblur
Well, another reason why I'm apprehensive also is cos I have qualms about having someone like her as a gf. Having been out clubbing with her so often, her getting approached (almost always), her dressing, her behavior with her friends etc. all leave me feeling that if I were her bf, I'd definitely feel really insecure.
There there, deep down u already have ur answer... so listen to ur heart, not ur brain. Coz sometimes ur heart gives u the answer to ur problems... ;)

WWEF 17-01-2005 12:42 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by soblur
Oh, forgot to mention, frankly I do kinda like her, but yet somehow feel apprehensive about expressing my feelings. Maybe afraid of rejection or that it'd spoil our friendship.
Even if she pretends nothing happen at all, there is still a chance she might have feelings 4 u too. Some woman can really act "not interested" very well.
Hope u find the guts to tell her soon, even if that means risking yr friendship with her. Anyway thats just my Personal Opinion only.
GOOD LUCK WITH HER!

HellBoy Van 17-01-2005 12:43 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by soblur
Not sure if this is the correct place to ask, but I really would like some opinions on this.

Any opinions?

Oh, forgot to mention, frankly I do kinda like her, but yet somehow feel apprehensive about expressing my feelings. Maybe afraid of rejection or that it'd spoil our friendship.
Well, don;t be surprise that she might ve the same feelings as you too, didn't wanna lose a close buddy, yet unable to resist the kinda of touchy comfort from someone so close...................., my opinion, a rather bastard one, why spoil this relationship, if she like it this way, so be it............. things might not turns up good if the two of you starts to get together....... so why not let it remain as it is.......

soblur 17-01-2005 12:43 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Eternity_Gal
if u like the gal, u should be bold to express ur feelings.. I wonder how come a guy can be so undecisive in making ur choice whether to get the gal or not..Tell u one tip: ur gd friend might be flinging, she may not like you at all... So, the next time you ask her out, try to be more daring. Look into her eyes and see her reaction lol.. U 'll know whether it's a fling or real love..
Ah? See her reaction? How to tell the diff?

Eternity_Gal 17-01-2005 12:57 AM
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Share with u one tip: When you are making eyes to her, hold that look for a bit longer than you normally would but not too much longer.Next, look at the other, than look down or away and than look back again. This lets her know u are interested. When the other looks back at you, look a bit longer than the first time. If she's still keeping in contact, congrats...u are on your way...

asdfghjkl 17-01-2005 12:59 AM
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hey ET.. this often happens to me.. but when i approach them, they ran away!

Eternity_Gal 17-01-2005 01:03 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by asdfghjkl
hey ET.. this often happens to me.. but when i approach them, they ran away!
this shows two possiblities:(1) the gals aren't interested in you..(2) Ur looks must 've scare them away(just kidding lol)
Cheers..
Y.T

watmidoin 17-01-2005 01:05 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by asdfghjkl
hey ET.. this often happens to me.. but when i approach them, they ran away!
maybe because of ur beard :D

Quote:
Originally Posted by soblur
Well, another reason why I'm apprehensive also is cos I have qualms about having someone like her as a gf. Having been out clubbing with her so often, her getting approached (almost always), her dressing, her behavior with her friends etc. all leave me feeling that if I were her bf, I'd definitely feel really insecure.
ay, u go pub look for gerfrnd, screw arnd still want a nice dainty ger who won't be approached so can feel secure. abit too much rite. :rolleyes:

asdfghjkl 17-01-2005 01:06 AM
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ok.. tml i shave off my beard and then c wat happen..

soblur 17-01-2005 01:09 AM
Re: A question to ask... Fucked a buddy...
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Eternity_Gal

Share with u one tip: When you are making eyes to her, hold that look for a bit longer than you normally would but not too much longer.Next, look at the other, than look down or away and than look back again. This lets her know u are interested. When the other looks back at you, look a bit longer than the first time. If she's still keeping in contact, congrats...u are on your way...
Ah??? She's my buddy leh, not someone that I'm approaching leh. :confused:

watmidoin 17-01-2005 01:11 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by asdfghjkl
ok.. tml i shave off my beard and then c wat happen..
how abt a complete makeover? hairstyle need to change also. and dat costume. make u look like some chou dao shi. maybe the one dat xxxx xiao long nu :eek: dats y ppl scared of u. (once again, no offence.)

Eternity_Gal 17-01-2005 01:13 AM
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if she considered u as buddy, forget bout forming a relationship with her.. if she like u, she would 've not pretended to act as if nth had happened.. maybe u can continue her company, but not as in a BGR..

asdfghjkl 17-01-2005 01:13 AM
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erm.. while i dun look like him.. but i got ppl commenting i look like sima yi ler?!

maybe they scare of him thats why they ran away??

uglyger 17-01-2005 01:15 AM
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u like to watch san guo yan yi ar

curiouslook 17-01-2005 01:20 AM
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Bro, from my past experience she probably like you alot but not "in love" with you cos you are not her "type".. sex is just a desire and she also want to know what it is like doing it with you.. Why she pretend like nothing happen is she is after all a girl ma..so she is equally shy like you and best way is to act like nothing happens.. Just assure her that nothing will affect your friendship with her..be friends and unless you want to marry her then better let things be as it is now.. enjoy her friendship..good luck!

asdfghjkl 17-01-2005 01:21 AM
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what look has said is very true.. its like fighting a war and as you know, there is no end of deception in warfare..

Hakoshu 17-01-2005 01:29 AM
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Live with it... :)

SGALI 17-01-2005 01:31 AM
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Bro, there's a new word for this called 'FUBU' = Fuck Buddy. I think it's best to enjoy this relationship as it is.

oxilary 17-01-2005 01:32 AM
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ur buddy is single?

dis only happens to me.. when they're not single :p


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