Are you in the same category??
 

I have spoken to many friends and realised that the women that they most wanted to have sex with are usually their close frinds or distant relatives. Usually colleagues, friends wifes, sister- in- law, neighbour or friends you meet regularly.
It seems that it is not the beauty nor the sexy body that excite them but perhaps the comfort and familiarity of their close circle has set their imagination and wild fantasies run wild.
Do you fall into this category??

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it's true...... i am in this category...:)

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I guess we all do fantasize about people that we come into
contact with on a regular basis. Neighbours and colleagues
are the ones which come to my mind often.

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Me too ! Especically my sister- in- law and neighbour. ;)

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:eek: ......... :D

You Sure?
 

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Err... i think it's ZhaoFan sister in law not wife rite? :D

But any which way, ur message is loud and clear. :D

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I am in the same delima too. The people that I constantly think of having sex with need not be gorgeous or pretty. In fact out of my top ten list, the tenth lady is a woman working at a retail shop at the ground floor of my office building. She is probably 30, small build and only a 6/10 in terms of her look, however, she like to wear singlet and jeans but has always behave decent and respectfully wherever she is (smile and talk decently, palm on her chest to prevent zaogend when she bent over etc). maybe because of the bare shoulders, regular encounters, always seeing her behaved, has make me fantasize of stripping and kissing her whole body and having wild sex with her.

(I have already got to know her, but Of course I behave myself as we are all mature and sensible adults.)

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you are rite. It is the sister-in-law, not the wife according to the Annals of the Romance of the Three Kingdoms.

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How I wish I got such lobang. If only in singapore, ppl are really that open minded.

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Hmm..ya true..frankly speaking, in SG, not saying tat we have much of this kinda gd case where close ones to u r open minded..but..there is really cases where sis in law loves sex alot..although they dun show it, but once they noes tat u belong to the same frequency,..shes like a wild cat wanting sex every min until she leaves the room n pretend nothing happen..keke..this kind..siok!

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I guess with the people we know, there is more lust in the sex. ;)

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Actually tat's quite far apart... Sworn bro's sister in law... Not exactly related rite? Perhaps she not his type so Zaoyun jus find an excuse to turn him down? Kekeke

Much had change nowadays where marriage among cousins r quite common. :D

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The next in line for me is my dancing partner at our dance club (cha cha, salsa, latin dance, semi-competitive). Again she is not a stunning beauty(but pretty enough) but her tanned body, contouring curves and the well endow calfs and triceps just make her so healthy and tone. The sight of her body is enough to make many men head's turn.

Beside the looks and the body, I am attracted to her because we have many opportunity that our body just press against each other because of the dance. My hand will hold her waist, touch her bum, stroke her hair and event brush her breast if it is choreogragh that way. That is of course done professionaly...., if your mind is focus. There are times which those touch and labba has just set my fantasies running. But to add oil into burning flame, she sometimes will have all the naughty or even sexy looks which is required in the dance and while staring at her and feeling her sensual body, it is hard not for me to keep having wild dreams on her.

Unfortunately, she is my friend's wife and our spouse has been supportive in our dance, I am sure this can only remain as a fantasy as far as we are concern....

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same here, i had the hots for my cousin since i saw her a few years ago.
she looked really like her mother but real gorgeous, probably the best looking
amongst all my relatives.
pity sher now married with 2 kids :o

Replayed
 

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Err... Hehe okok. Let not argue on tat. Wat important is ur message "Incest is a no no" rite?? :D

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Mr Cypress67 Sir

I think most of us here have this type of fantasies in our mind. Be it conscious or subconscious. :)

However, i would caution you (and all) to let it remain just as it is. A fantasy.

No matter how open our society is becoming, Incest or touching (much less) a friend's wife is still strictly being frowned upon.

just a thought
Ah_Lim2005

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Ah Lim,

Thanks for the reminder and reinforcement, I agree with you.

Men have fantasies, desires, and needs, the difference that make a men is his self control.

Hope this is a breather for people like us...

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wah liao eh.. i hope u dont live near me... terror.. :eek:

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i've heard from my male colleagues from USA and europe, ang mo countries, that they are able to bonk with female colleagues and friends without strings attached.
so they do not look for prostitutes that often.

so i guess it is not much of fantasy to them, unlike most of us.

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Me right now have to feel comfoartable with the girl before I can instantly erect. Like my neighbour's daughter who is a divorcee, I am sexually attracted to her and I can erect without any problem. My recent trip to thailand, I bought ammo and consumed them 1/2 hr before the action started. I can't erect when I just see the person for the first unless she is Angela chow, huang sheng yi, karen lam etc.

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Probably every guy will take a second look at someone who's attractive. Sometimes we fantasize because the someone is sexually attractive to us, just like what some of the bros described, the way the dress, and/or behave themselves.

As for those close to us, the fact is that they're "forbidden" and that thrills us even more, especially if they are in the category of "sexually attractive". More so when we see their husbands or boyfriends as not "comparatively sexually attractive" to them.

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me too. part of my fantasy is my sister in law too...
Haha
How ironic

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Actually it's a very simple reason why many people find themselves fantasizing about close friends, colleagues, relatives etc.

The main thing is, you've been in contact with them on a regular basis, or definitely more often than those other "popular" fantasies (eg, pop stars, actress etc).

Because you've been in contact with them often, your mind remembers their face, facial expressions, body shape, hair, leg structure a lot clearer. This helps a lot when trying to build up a convincing fantasy that your mind can relate to.

Sometimes, when you fantasize about people you don't know, you might find that it gets stuck halfway, cos the posture, expression isn't right, then you start over again. With people you know, it's a lot easier, and the fantasy then becomes smoother, and in a way, more successful.

Also, many people fantasize about girls who are attached, even though the attached girl may be less attractive than a single girl they know. Why? Well, the mind thinks "If there's a guy who likes her, there must be something worth liking.. Hmmm..." then you start noticing her more.

Did all that make sense? You be the judge :D

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Basically it is very simple. Forbidden fruit tastes the BEST. Yummy. :)

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i hate to admit it but yes i am sexually attracted to my auntie .. i want to bonk her real bad .. especially when she hugs me . she's 30 + and her firm boobs touching against me is heaven i get very hard then , her husband is ang moh .. and sigh , she has a kid ....

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forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest yes not doubt but having a sexual affair with a relative or neighbour maybe too close for comfort :D

moreover if you don't approach the situation carefully with the lady you are interested in, things can get very messy.

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Yeah, u r rite..the office where i work, i mean my female colleagues, and my insurance agent lady..all I wish i can bonk them someday somehow..sigh, dun know when the time comes leh. Have to keep dreaming this desire..

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Me, are the biz contacts some of them like playing hide and seek and tug of war with you mentally.