Advice needed... Pregnancy
 

Hi all experienced bros.....

Had a rendevous with a ktc girl.
China woman, some time 2 weeks ago...
No strings attached, managed to sweet talk and brought her to bed.
Only spent some $$$ on food and bought her some clothes.

After 2 weeks passed, no meeting, only conversed through SMSes...
Now the china woman smsed to say she missed her period.
Did not answer her calls or sms.
She then say if no call her or no actions, she will cry rape...

What should i do?

I know on this issue, she is definitely working illegally in ktv.
Thus likelyhood of she going to police is almost zero.
But if even if she go, there is definietely no case right?

Any bros can give advice on this issue?
Many thanks in advance......

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yo,

you went raw on her ah ? not wise on a woman who fuck for a living.

are you married ? attached ? anything that she can hold and destroy ? like your life ?

you don't have to react so violently.

she's a professional, so even if pregnant, she most probably wouldn't want to keep the baby. Go for abortion lor.

If you are in the mood, you can be gentleman about it, bring her to abortion clinic etc, pay for the fee. cheap cheap only.

if you hide and just ignore all her sms and calls, I think not very 'man' thing to do. but it's your choice. how old are you brudder ? why act this way ?

if you think she is using this to exhort money from you, make it clear you are only willing to bring her to abortion clinic and settle it there. What's the point of paying her extra. You didn't force her into it. if you are not married, no wife or gf to worry about, then tell her, to go police. What kind of job she is holding. who will the police believe.

if she wanna make you pay for loss of income, then you should have a limit (perhaps 0). For all you know, she didn't miss her period. just miss her period, can continue to do her ktv 1. no loss of income to talk about.

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TS, this is least of your problem. Ask ger go report lor.

Wait for next 6 months to check for AIDS.

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Wait a minute.

How would you know if it was yours in the first place?

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I'm in a kaypoh mood today:D

For a moment there I tot it was a Katong Convent gal (ktc), well I really hope for your sake that you did not delete any of her sms, cause you already have proof in your hands that it was consensal sex leading to her blackmailing you;) (provided it is not genuine pregnancy cos if it is, it may be more ethical for you to try & help her out in some ways instead of avoiding her)

Cheerios........SS08

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I believe when you go hotel, CCTV had capture that she is willing to go with you.

So when police approach you, you must tell them that you meet her in KTV and not aware she is illegal. So Goverment no law say cannot have sex with tourist.

Now if the girl threaten you, you should file a police report first. Because you are the victim.

Bro, last piece of advise, no free lunch in the world, especially China girl.

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[QUOTE=pokeman71;2206665]I believe when you go hotel, CCTV had capture that she is willing to go with you.

/QUOTE]

Wonder how long the hotels kept those CCTV tapes? There was a case about this commando who was saved by the CCTV after the gal cried rape.

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Bro, i agree with you..most PRC they just want $$, even you KC with her still need to give $$$:D

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The most important is that do you have any concern that the relationship is being exposed. - e.g wife, parents or work.

If the above is a great concern, then really very tough.
No matter how much you do, the gal will use your concern as a threat.
If the gal know your home address, number, work place, or car plate, it will come even faster. Try to remove this barrier. For example, confess. Although this is tough, but still have to do it.

If no concern, nothing to worry.
- It is not easy to cry rape.
- Expose her occupation
- Retain the sms send to you
I think that should be enough to stop cry rape.

Of course as a gentleman, just bring her for the abortion. Please do not waste time in arguing whether it is yours? Just pay and forget.

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Bro,doing raw is really dangerous,not only u get ppl pregnant,u might catch some undesirable dieases..

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the thing is if she was willing to let u up her raw...she could have been willing to let other ppl up her raw also...what makes her so sure the baby's urs(if she is really pregnant)....

then again..to put an end to this prob..just get her to an abortion clinic and get it over and done with....

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2 weeks after sex can know confirmed pregnant meh ?

If you garang and has nothing to loose, tell her to prove baby is yours after delivery la.

Like other mentioned above, she is a WL and most likely will not keep baby.

Sounded cruel but is poker game here isn't it?

Best not to be tempted by such situations with WL. Remember : There is no free lunch !!

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Think 2 weeks cannot confirm pregnant...must be at less 3 to 4 weeks. PRC were pro on this lah.... dun think she will go to Police case. Just my humble opinion.

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you see lah, you think you handsome so dont need to pay for the fuck. many samsters like NBA and siamcutey more handsome than you also rather pay. :D

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my personal opinions:

meet her up, ask her wat she want (most probably $$$)... if she demand u to give her a properly status, u shld know wat to say back to her...

rape?? even if she really go to police, i doubt anything will happen... she got nothing to prove that u did anything to her.. sillypore police wont juz listen to her one sided stories

:o :p

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You only scare if you are married, this might cause you some problem.

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ask her to show the proof of pregnancy.
if dun have, she juz tcss. now worried so much also no use.

0.02

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For doing RAW, you do deserve this headache now.
But regarding the PRC pregnancy, ask her F Off lah ... if confirm yours, the most you kena pay for abortion, ask her go back PRC, cheaper ...

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Unlikely story this pregnancy story, school holiday again??

Anyway, TS can just ignore thread lah, after so long can shout Rape meh ...

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Right on brudder , Raw is War

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What advice you want?

My advice is quick quick tell your mother. :rolleyes:

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Now not school holidays, maybe he is a dropout ... or waiting for NS.

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Bros, put ourself in his shoe. IF he is married and earn 6-7K in a well known company as a dept head or worst a grade 9 civil servant.

So if this incident expose and caught his wife attention, his boss attention. He might risk his family and job.

So we much approach in this direction.

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Bros,

This is just like getting a ONS and the gal threat for $$$. If not, cry rape!

Your questions did not mention how much that PRC know about you, your work, family, .... She might use this against you by making your life miserable. But, once you agreed to pay some money, she will ask you for more, and believe me, there is no end to this asking for more money.
She attacking you emotionally, you might want to use that back against her!

Crying rape after such a long time is not likely to be valid. For rape to be consider, there must be some kind of forcing, and body injuries. Your case should be a mutual consent....both of you walk happily into the hotel holding hand and check out at same time happily???!!!

The most important is your health...HIV????
A high percentage of these PRC are HIV-infected.
If you married, avoid raw sex with your wife, GF, ... for at least one yr, and tested after 6, 9 & 12 mths.
If you are afraid to expose your identity (for fear of tested positive in SGP), had your test done in overseas.

Also, the evidence of checking in together, shopping, makan, ...can be a good proof of mutual consent.

Do not meet her anymore.
Remain the SMS in your phone as some evidence, and record the phone conversation in your hp as much as possible. These will be helpful for you.

Even though the pregnancy is truly yours!
WTF! This is mutual consent and she just had to abort it!

Do not give in so easily, dun give in at all!
sillypore should not be so silly after all.
Play your poker game well and shown these PRC what we are really are!!!

Good Luck!

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TS, nothing much u can do now. no point running away, although i suspect there is nothing much the police can do to u, actually. probably keep u in custody to question u. but that would mean everyone in your family will know about it. in order to be on the safe side, i suggest u do this:

1. meet up with her, console her and confirm her pregnancy. go get a test kit from any pharmacy. the clear blue one is quite accurate. if nothing, then console the girl lor and maybe get a few more free bonks. if positive, then proceed to no.2

2. go see a doctor to confirm. if so "suay" positive, then proceed to no.3.

3. since china girl cannot get married cos sg govt will not approve due to the pregnancy. so 2 ways, she go back and give birth or abortion. ask her what she wants lor...

4. whatever she wants, ask for DNA testing. costs about $1k. tell her u would pay for everything if the baby is really yours. otherwise, u r not coming up with a single cent, regardless whether abortion or giving birth. she even had to fork out the $1k for the DNA test!!!;)

usually, the cheats will run after this part... if not, then good luck to u. pay for the DNA test and abortion lor... if she wants to give birth, tell her that u do not have much to pay for her living expenses cos u r not making a lot and convince her to go for an abortion. tell her that u were lying when u told her previously that u were making tons of money!!!:p

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Just test her....

Let her know that you had vasectomy and impossible to make anyone pregnant. See is she still continues to hound you.

Anyway, go for check-up soon.

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Thanks for the many valuable advices.

To the bros whom think i am a dropout or create story.
I'm not.

Think the problem can be resolved by just paying 500 for the abortion.

But is really can get pregnant after 18 days?
She said that she has checked with doc liao.
Think i wil request for her report.
But think is i dun even know her true name.
What is the report is her fiend's or something.

Think the most give fher $$$ to abort.
She does not want to be pregnant as well. not possible of wanting status.
i am single. so no wife or gf to worry about.

She only has my hp thats all.
Car was a rented car when my car was in workshop.
So no info she has got of me.

i think will meet her pass her 500 and ask her to f off, out of my life.

Painfully lesson of $500.
Not earning much, thats why thought of ignoring her

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1. DO NOT PANIC. Keep calm and consider everything bros had suggested here.

2. Too late to tell you nothing is free in this world, so much for your 'free fucks'. This is what happens and one of the type of price one pays when you attempt to woo her for free fucks.

3. Fact:- too late to cry rape. The most will get you hauled up to a police station for a statement. If she engages a lawyer, which is her right to a hearing, she will most certainly lose, but it will drag your name in mud which you might not be able to cover up to your family.

4. You claim she is KTV girl working illegally. She can always cover up by claiming she is only a patron or your guest, not a worker there. You will have to dig up evidence that she is indeed working there, but if she is illegal, then the owners and the mamasans would have cover up their own tracks. You are on your own. As a visitor with social visit pass, she is entitled to due legal process.

5. Give her the benefit of the doubt - if you are indeed the father of the child, you must be responsible for follow-up actions as a man, to keep or to abort the child ( i am personally against abortion, but then, its your responsibility, not mine)

However, you do have the right to insist on a paternity check - DNA. If she disagrees, which is her right as well unless directed by the Courts, then you will have a sticky situation in that she will make your life miserable to your family. If you dont want to lose your family, then you will have to use

a. soft approach - ignore her totally, works only if you had not inform her of your address or working place. Change your handphone. Avoid public places for a period of time. Change your hairstyle, grow a beard, wear different style of dressing.

b. hard approach - if she has your personal details. Confront her and find out what she wants. If she insists on more than you can afford, then she is out to blackmail you. Record her conversation and report to the cops. If you have a family, let them know your indiscretion and beg on your knees for forgiveness, but never give in to blackmail, cos it will never end and u will face a divorce when you cant keep up payments eventually and do something stupid to yourself criminally to solve the problem.

As mentioned, her rape charge is uselss or too late and faces a near impossible task to gather evidence, so no fear pouring everything out to the cops. And I sincerly hope you didnt rape her for we bros here hate rapists.

If you have no family, just parents, beg for forgiveness, and next time becareful.

PS. Get a bodyguard with you or at least close by when you confront her, to take pics and be a witness to events, and most important of all, never agree or commit to anything on spot. Ask for time so that you can consider an offer's implication carefully.

Take care bro, keep calm. Problems can be solved.



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bro..safer not to delete those sms that she had sent to you..u may need to use them to yr advantage in future..

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Bro, maybe he really very hansome leh? Maybe the gal call him 帅哥... (alot of PRCs like to call me 帅哥, 要按摩吗？ （At this moment i 'know' i am really hansome...) :D
Peng you... both 01 and esp 02 can have all you can bonk and shoot liao lah... :D
Since alreadly '闹出人命' and 于事无补 already... kekekeke