ACCEPTABLE FOR MEN TO VISIT GL IF NO WIFE/GF/CHILDREN
 

Guys hope to hear some thoughts from all of you..

Do you think it is ok for guys who is single to visit GL?

Do you think single guys need to feel ashamed of visiting GL?

Personally, there should not be a problem for guys who are single to visit GL. Firstly, they are not cheating. Secondly, they are single so its as good as finding a "one night stand" equivalent.

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if you need to ask so many questions, i think better for you to hj to porn.

Brimo, while I agree with you, however, TS might need to know that possession of porn is illegal in sg

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Streaming porn is not illegal. :p

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what a tard. :o

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Lol I saw the same question in a telegram grp :rolleyes:

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I've a feeling his story will end up like...

TS will eventually try to justify going to GL by having a relationship with and end up marrying her..

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I personally don't think it is wrong as long as you are not committed to any relationship with another person.

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It is not illegal if you visit the legal establishment. Right or wrong is really up to you and who you choose to believe. It's the same as surfing porn too

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Why not? If sex is your endgame, and you're not one of those whose appetite is enhanced by the chase of a girl, then you'd be better off going to GL than trying for a ONS on say Tinder or in a nightclub with some random girl. Plus GL girls are a lot safer health wise. They have health checks every month. Can you say the same for any ONS with any girl outside?

Want to go GL for paid sex, just go. Life is too short to give a fuck about what others judge about you. They're not you, they don't walk in your shoes, they don't live your life, they don't think like you, who are they to you? Nobody. You're not robbing, not stealing, not raping, not killing, not burning houses, you're paying for sex, with legal working girls who are in it for the money. What's the big deal?

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How young are you bro?

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Totally agree with some bros here that it’s definitely not an issuer if u r not in any form of relationship.

However, out of curiosity, how many of you bros will share openly to your friends or colleagues that u went to GL, given that u r single, not in any kind of RS. ???

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My close friends know. But it's not something I just talk about without the topic of personal life/sex life coming up first. Like if we aren't talking about stuff anywhere close to personal or sex life I'm not gonna randomly say "so... the other day I went to so and so house to find so and so girl to check clear. Damn sibeisong!" :D

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I will share with them. But of course not right off the bat and tell them straight, "hey I go geylang and find prostitute". Haha.
Must be some sort of pervert conversation as a start then asking about first time and slowly go into that topic. I think straight away tell college or new people will be super awkward.

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Thanks for sharing bros. But do you bros think by sharing such info with friends/colleagues will come back to haunt you in the future, when u have a GF/Wife?

Words will spread and who knows one of you so called friends will leak it and eventually words will find its way to your future GF/Wife...

Maybe I’m paranoid, but recently my friends are starting to suspect me visiting GL, have been denying it even though they clearly know I’m single....

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You rather they suspect you go GL because you're a single guy and they don't see you dating or fucking around casually with random girls, or suspect you of being gay? V simple question.

Also, basic bro code is we don't out each other's sordid dirt to each other's GF/wife partners. Someone who would do such a thing is someone you never want to keep as a friend.

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No lah, they won't do that. Even if your future wife/gf found out. But that's in the past. Explain to them man have urges and is an old past. Now you are committed and devoted. Won't cheat, if your gf or wife is an understanding women. I am sure you have found the right women for your life. Relationship is about communicating and understanding one another.

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Now that i read you bros' advice, it does make sense. Together with the fact that GL is legal. Well, lets just keep chionging happily, life's indeed too short.

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Go out play means play. Don't fall in love with them or go too deep. Later kena gong tao 就 Gg 了

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Actuallly most of the girls would prefer that their future BF or husband had been out playing girls before......so that he is not new to outside world and can stay committed since he had played before....

a lot of divorce case happened becos most party married too early....and nv play before.....

there is a chinese words say....,.去北京嫌官太小…..去上海嫌钱太少…..去重庆嫌结婚太早:D:D

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I have 2 schools of thoughts on this. Although it's technically still wrong/immoral, but isn't going to Gland better than having an affair? At least it's just a satisfaction of a primal need. I always feel that physical 'betrayal' is lesser of a betrayal compared to mental/emotional betrayal. But that's just my 2cents.

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Correct. Just pay , fuck and go. Just like eating MCD. But having an affair is unlike going to GL. The feeling is very good. The frenching is real and love making is real. See how you play the cards.

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How YOUNG is acceptable to do this things.

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Yes, and that's when the KC element comes into play. Into the semi real not real zone. I think you understand what I mean.

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no molest no rape no sexual harassment

commercial sex played important role

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This is the winning champion post so far.

"Life is too short to give a fuck about what others judge about you. They're not you, they don't walk in your shoes, they don't live your life, they don't think like you, who are they to you? Nobody. You're not robbing, not stealing, not raping, not killing, not burning houses, you're paying for sex, with legal working girls who are in it for the money. What's the big deal?"

...should be a mantra or something

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Keep fucking till your cock cannot stand

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No wife/GF/children, you go Geylang sio gan you will thank yourself for it. "Heng ah, got release otherwise balls burst liao".

Have wife no children, you go Geylang sio gan your wife will thank you for it. "Heng ah, tonight I no need bedek I have headache"

Have wife have children, you go Geylang sio gan your wife will also thank you for it. "Heng ah, won't have another kid to clean up after"

Have GF, you go Geylang sio gan your GF will thank you for it. "Heng ah, that horny fucker won't pester me for sio gan later"

No GF, you go Geylang sio gan you will thank yourself for it. "Heng ah, no need waste money go pub try to hook up ONS. Pay so much also maybe won't get."

Have wife + have GF + have children, you go Geylang sio gan you will thank yourself for it. "Heng ah, got release stress otherwise I will kill someone".

Want to fuck just go and fuck, don't think so much :D

Up u bro. 😊