How to get my targeted fuck buddy
 

There are countless threads about Fuck Buddies and how some guys have the luxury of having more than one at a time. On the other hand, others have found it difficult to even get one.

OK, some role reversal here. I am female and I am just wondering what are the signs that I should look out for if a guy is keen in becoming my fuck buddy. Let's say, I have a few "targets" in mind but am not sure if they want the same thing as I do.

It would be pretty embarassing to ask a guy directly and then get rejected in the face. So guys, any tell-tale signs or hints that I should look out for? Would you think a girl is too forward if she asks you directly to be her fuck buddy?

Re: How to get my targeted fuck buddy
 

reversal ah....don't worry coming SBF is the surest way to get your goal. Start by answering your PMs. sure flooded. if not PM me...I confirm fit your bill.:cool:

School holidays ah...

Re: How to get my targeted fuck buddy
 

haiz sung yong yup fu hau......translate literally send the goat to the tiger mouth...:D:D:D

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I never had a FB before.. I would like to look for one.. some guys just make it look so easy.

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I think what she meant is that she already has someone on her mind to be her fuck buddy, but she doesn't know how to approach and tell him...

I would probably recommend checking whether if he's engaged? if he's single, then does he even know about your existence? If he's your friend, and he does show some signs of interest in being more than friends, then it's quite safe for a gal to initiate the fuck buddy topic... cos guys usually sure ON one kekeke

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it may not be a good idea to ask a guy directly, if he happens to be stuck up (even though he's probably horny and would love to fuck your brains out) he would think you're too easy or probably have some motives or something.

instead you should just flirt with your targets, if they get the idea, they'll pounce at you faster than you can say condom.

it shouldn't be hard for you as most guys will never pass on a chance of a potential no strings attached, fuck buddy kinda relationship, it's like godsend to us.

however, i guess one problem for you, especially if both of you and your target are single, emotions might get entangled, you might find him falling in love with you instead, which could be quite a hassle for you.

so yeah, just flirt around with them, before long, you have to cancel all your lunch and dinner appointments with your girlfriends :)

Re: How to get my targeted fuck buddy
 

Simple and easy, seduce him by giving him hints of interest you have in him but just remember to say in advance, no emotion or relation involved.

Flirting with him regularly etc also helps :cool:

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Maybe you can start by talking about sex on the MSN? After 1-2 session you can jokingly ask him if he is horny. You can start teasing him by telling him that you are horny and try to flirt more with him.

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Yes, I do have someone in mind already but it is not easy initiating the topic directly. We are friends and we talk about everything under the sun and the topic on sex comes up once in a while. Somehow, I still can't "read" him and am not sure if he's keen in becoming my FB. Maybe I should give it time?

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got Chinese saying: Male chase after Female, like go thru mountain, Female chase after male, like go thru paper...

easy solution... go out for a drink with him, find excuse to get tipsy, but must get him to send u home... give him a good night kiss on cheek... linger.... if he kiss back (means he got balls)... if not, look for other target...

if things turn sour, jus blame on alcohol... :D

Re: How to get my targeted fuck buddy
 

We do flirt here and there and I have dropped subtle hints as well. Problem is, he is not making the first move. Either he is afraid that it will jepoardise our friendship or he is waiting for me to make the move. As I've mentioned earlier, I guess this will take time. Anyway, I am in no rush. :)

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yeah alcohol is a good excuse to get things going.

Also i recommend private times and naughty talks every now and then to get him turned on.

Then probably get him to join you for a private drink, linger and stuff like that as Angel.Janus mentioned.

After the thing then you can let him know about what you really want is his dick as and when you need it.

Make him sign the FB contract and make him your slave forever!!! :D
With no opt out clause of course unless you lose interest.

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My 2 cents
It a very intriguing area... usually (pardon the pun) its easier for a guy to fuck with no string attached as opposed to a lady. Call it chemistry, call it emotions call it in our genes but I have seen that.

I believe the same rules apply when guy seek or bump into FB as the same with girl except the negative labels or stigma stick only to the girls.

I think in general chats bout sexual pattern, their opinion bout open sex, their feeling and vibes you get out of it give you a good indication. The usualy old line like "i have a fen who preached the Fb concept..." does work sometimes.


A lot of time when we get FB it dun land on our lap but we get a feel, we ask questions and we talk bout sexual orientation

Re: How to get my targeted fuck buddy
 

Just flirt with him. That's not too difficult. Dress appropriately when planning the flirt - I'm sure you know how.

If he is receptive, trust me, it will show. Maybe not immediately...

Rejection? Hey, I'm an expert on that! :) Frankly, you can get over any rejection soon enough to not worry about it.

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You have a PM. :)