what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

Believe it or not, here is the situation:

Have a FB, she's also married with a kid back in china, she's here with her husband who is also chinese, to work.

Long story short, we became FB. Have been quite long already, I jokingly say we can have a baby, and she agrees. She says give me chance, if within few mths, no baby, then it's not fated to be.

If have baby, she'll take it as her own, don't need my responsiblity...

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what does the bros here think of the situation?

can have a baby with a FB and no need be responsible is too good to be true ba, don't u think so?

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

Bro, better not. My advise

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

talk now is easy...

who knows what will happen when the baby arrive on earth and she suddenly turn the table on you? afterall she's married and her husband is here in singapore. you dont want the situation when they start using the kid to hold you ransom.

please think carefully.

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

Trap ! nothing more than Trap ! my 2 cents. :D

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

Once have your kid, can find u liability liao..

Fighting for the rights of your kid..

Dun b naive la

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

The answer is so clear cut. Just stick to the definition of FB.

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

Remember to check the husband's blood group versus your own. If the kid doesn't look like him or her, how? DNA test so easy now. If the hubby realises the kid isn't his and abandon the kid, how?

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

don't trust her word

if the child is yours, she can always sue you for childcare expenses -under the Singapore law, she can do that

this happened before, few years back, a Vietnamese woman came all the way here to sue the guy for childcare expenses and the court approved her requests

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

Theres no free lunch in this world... Everythin comes with a price once paper money is introduced

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

Bro,

Why you want to do this in the first place?

This one please think with your big head. ;)

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

Yeah why would you even consider this if she is yur FB? Dont complicate things. Go back to basics of having an FB. I think u have overshot this one. My 2 cents advice.

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

Bro, she do DNA test she will Own your ass... better not man.

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

But why do you wan to have a kid with her for???

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

Brother, please also spare a thought for the kid. Even if she doesn't sue ur ass for child support, the kid will grow up not knowing who is real father is, a tragedy waiting to happen. If husband and wife come to Singapore to work and leave a kid in China, sure not very well to do one. So totally not fair to the child who will probably grow up not having the best in life.

There is absolute no reason to intentionally bring a kid into this world if you are not going to be responsible for the child. To me that is kinda fcuked up!

Re: what if FB willing to have a kid with u.
 

Bro, why would you even wanna have a kid with a married FB? Seems like find trouble when there is no trouble at all lor...