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Sorry for starting a new thread and i been thinking too much and have no choice but to ask the advises of the lau jiaos in BKK.I am currently having a TG from bangkok. It all started when I went to NEP two months ago and met her at a-gogo bar. I paid bar-fined her and spent the night with her.Till now I never paid a single cent for her services and the entire trip of ten days I stayed with her. My current problem now is that I do love her and went down to bangkok every weekend to see her. She would stop work and spend the days with me. I paid for the hotels and expenditures but never gave her any $$ as she refused to. In fact twice when I was there she paid everything for me. As I do miss her now when i am in singapore,she is workin in the agogo bar but she does not go with customers.She calls me every hour while she is working and calls me after work and talks for me all the way home. Sometimes I do trust her but sometimes I fear she goes for ST with customers.I wanted to end this relationship because I do not see a future for both of us. She tells me that she wants me to go over bangkok to stay with her.As long as i do stay with her, she will take care of accomodation and the living expenses. I know she meant it and even to the expense of going with customers just to finance my stay there. I just could not do it be it egoistic or watever.I am not going to "depend" on a girl for the rest of my life but also i could not support her in singapore as i am just a employee getting paid...please advise...i tried breaking off with her telling her its just not possible for me and her and hopes she finds a rich man to take care of her...but she would threatens me she would do something stupid if i leave her...I am very tired of everything and every night i fear she goes with customers but i know she does not.

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have you read stephen leather's Private Dancer? Good to help you make some decisions.

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yes i read the story before I went to bangkok...she knows i do not have the financial capability to take care of her and she offers to take care of me instead and told me if i am really tired of singapore as I am currently feeling so strained travelling to and fro bangkok every weekend.

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Dear SM2,

If I were the go-go gal, I will fall for bro jun[ch] also ... he is a nice looking guy and very soft spoken... how I know? cos I had met him before.

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"Here we go again.. same old shit again.. up and down this avenue.. one more round and STILL won't be through..."

:D

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Assuming that the girl really likes him, what is your advise for Jun??
Jun do not want to carry on the relationship because he cant take it, too tiring, and too emotionally draining for him. How ?

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thanks bro DNAT, u put a smile across my face this morning seeing you posting a post from u. thanks for the flattering..I been troubled these days and have sleepless nights over the entire matter and had no place to turn to and decided to put my story here. I was afraid of remarks made thus waited till today. I really hope to get some advises here.. :confused:

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Like that both of you sure become very broke .. how to live on ??
-- In this real world, love still needs money to nourish :(


KNN, you ask you to be so handsome ... hahaha (joke oni lah, mai hot ya)

Last time you asked me to bring you go batam but I declined cos I scare you will get into such siutation in Batam also ..

For the above case, guess you gotta change your HP contacts etc and cut ties with her ... its good for both of you in the long run.

If you need to discuss further, do drop me a PM or SMS (my number remains unchanged)

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wah lanz.. tell ppl to wear your underwear!
unlike you.. some other ppl have heart one you know... :cool:

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she does love me because she knowing that I am broke,she does not mind and even sold her hp and gold just for paying for the accomodations when i went countless times over to see her in bangkok over the weekends. for the past two months i went over 8times over the weekends.My resources have depleted and i come back singapore because i need to work to carry on this tiring relationship. I do love her and wants to be with her but too much problems at hand. And somehow i do not trust her after reading so much from sammyboy and stickman posts. Fearing that she will go with customers though she calls me without fail every hour while she working till she after work and goes home. sometimes i blame myself for all that is happening..she is also very tired and hurt for me not trusting her. I just cant help it and i know Trust is very impt in any relationship..

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yah u know my weakness and thus prevented me from getting into one in batam but unfortunately i fell for one in BKK..if my girl ask me for $$ i sure can wake up and follow suit to break off as she is aftering my money...but this one is so much different...there is no such examples listed in sammyboy or stickman posts...

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I do hope to find a solution to my sleepless nights...I am having contradictions...my heart wants to stay with her but my mind tells me to let her go and get a rich man and i can not let her go with customers to get the money to keep me by her side..

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Now hia .. I where got no heart. I give my heart to the cewek - when I am with them ... hehehe.

ya, the medicine I prescribe might taste bitter but its good for him .. this kinda of thing no other choice 1 lah.

jun[ch]:
you may 1 2 PM collin_23 for his personal advise - cos he went thru some sort of same path as you.

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Wahhhh very the CHIM man, if kena this type of "love story" is worst then whatever sickness in the world, the heart always felt like got 1 big stone on it wan, haizzzz CHIM ahhhhhh cow also die ahhhhh :o

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maybe you know the rest.. but i dunno you.
just my advice.. you are right with the above statement.

if you cannot support her.. don't be her burden!
be a man..not a loser