how to get over the fact that nowadays gals no more virgins left?
 

talked about our history with my gal and she told me her past


she had guys before me but she's my first :(

not sure why :(
I'm my bor's number 4 relationship, I'm not her first. but she's my first.
don't see what's wrong, as long as she's done it out of love for her exes and not a slut/public toilet... then I don't see any issue.

Re: how to get over the fact that nowadays gals no more virgins left?
 

U can only blame yourself for being a virgin
:D

Re: how to get over the fact that nowadays gals no more virgins left?
 

spend $50 go geylang, deed done, that it, no longer first or only woman ever fuck. spend $500, you fuck more gals than your gf.

there is no problem with your gf for having a past. if there any problem, it your own ego, go watch the movie FROZEN 10 times ,sing the song LET IT GO 100 times, maybe that will help too.

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4th or 10th does not make her a lesser person. I too am my wife's 4th relationship. I.....she is the best to me compared to all the past girls n exgirls n exwife.

Accept her for what she is or else....move on. If you want to hold this as a grudge against her....then go GL and equalise :D

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Ppl already marrying wl, fl, prostitute. Don't see marry a non virgin gal got any issue. It is just a hole, it makes no different. The only different is u know your gal has been share with other men. Just go for body checkup n use condom.

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Virgin make a better wife?? TS you should look at her for what she is.. Don't bother about her past..

So what she is virgin, but her character makes something out of nothing, causing whole family disharmony..

I rather have a wife whose character is those can help and bond family..

Able to walk together 10-20 years down the road together is both's character..

Re: how to get over the fact that nowadays gals no more virgins left?
 

There is nothing to "get over" because her virginity, and yours are but temporary states.

When you move on to your next relationship you won't be virgin either.

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TS must be looking or hoping his gf is someone who is very pure & chaste, with high moral value. Want to find such woman with good character is hard or rare to come by. Men are very funny creature, if the gf dun give him sex or virginity to him, he will claim the gf is not love him enough or too conservative then will dump her. Double-standard? Normally, if guy just looking for flirt, fb, fwb, lover, cohabit partner, he dun mind she is non-virgin, looking for experience gal, feel more thrilled. But coming to real gf or wife still hoping she is virgin, never share her body with other, his own property. Normally, guy want face will claim aiyo what century liao, who care for virginity? Where still got this type old fashioned thinking? Man is still man, mouth say dun mind, in their heart they still mind, and even see as a thorn to them.

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And to add on women lost their virginity might be due to ignorance, naively, playfulness or fun seeker. If TS gf is those character and u r serious, family-oriented type, your both character are clashed, she might not suitable for u in long term relationship. Normally, opposite attract, introvert like outrovert, cheerful type like gloomy type, talkative type like quiet type.......looking for partner with elements they lack of. Initially, both with opposite character will find their partner interesting, out of curiosity, they get together, when they get to know them well, they quarrel and drift apart. Ying Liao jie er fen kai.

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TS, so when you get there first, do you get a medal. Yes you may get there first, what if later people get there second or even third or forth. So how, you go for divorce and also first right.

In this current society you don't expect to be like in the pioneer generation where you expect women to be virgin before marriage and only faithful to the husband no matter at what circumstance.

Both hand has to clap so you don't expect wonders other than you go work out for it. You can slowly wait for a virgin no problem, maybe one day, nobody knows.

Take care and be happy.

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Dun say nowadays no more virgin gal left. I sure still have. But do u like them if they r
Average looking/ plain looking type
Bbw type
Old fashioned type
Conservative type
Too introvert type
Religious type
&
Etc?????:rolleyes:

Re: how to get over the fact that nowadays gals no more virgins left?
 

I was pissed when my gf told me her ex bf took her virginity. In fact she's the one who wants to do it.

But slowly, I'm ok now. Even though her ex really fuck her like madman last time.

When I hear her story, it's like she was a sex machine.

Re: how to get over the fact that nowadays gals no more virgins left?
 

Are you worried that your girl is not a virgin or you are still a virgin?

Tiagong nowadays XDD very brave one...
If you slower than them by 1 step they jiak all the XMM very fast.
Then 10 years down the road everyone will be like you...
KPKB about the girl not being a V.

:D

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Didnt it sound good.. now u will be her sex machine.. haha enjoy bro..