My Relationship With a BKK Bargirl - A Trap?
 

This is a true story on my "relationship" with a Bangkok Bargirl. Some info on me: 34, Chinese, average looking bro, 1.75m, skinny fat, CBD job, live in HDB and sadly divorced about 2 years ago.

Now I go to Bangkok quite often for work and relaxation. Sometimes for play and cheonging but most times just a quick trip to makan, get clean massage and relax and some cheap shopping. I've been to all the red light spots and am actually recognized at some spots as regular with my fellow bros. I can speak basic Thai and have dated a couple Thai girls in Singapore who were working at Thai disco. So by no means am I a noob when it comes to BKK. I know all the pitfalls and hookers are hookers even if they make you feel special.

About a year ago, one of my bros, Tan, wanted to check out the scene in BKK. He has never been so i invited a another bro, Lee, and the three of us went on our merry way for a 7 day trip to Bangkok. In BKK, I always stay in the Sukhumvit area just for convenience. If you want to shop then Pratunam is a good spot but I like the convenience of being near the BTS and all the "play" spots that you can work too. Always stay near where you will spend your nights rather than your days.

Anyway, over three nights we showed him all the hot spots at Nana, Patpong and of course Soi Cowboy. Tan was enamored with Soi Cowboy altho to me nowadays the costs here are much higher and too many farangs. White guys and Japs are everywhere and it's annoying. Thai girls love white guys cos they want to get married to them and live in a new country and Japs overpay like crazy for these girls. For us Singaporeans, we are the 3rd choice if you're lucky or if you flash the cash.

I also took him to two of my favorite spots - scratch dog and Thermae bar. Scratch Dog is a good after-hours bar which fills up with FLs and bar girls who don't get fined. Thermae is a low key with cheaper FLs and if you don't like girls bothering you every 5 seconds, good place to go. Just have a drink, see girls who are lined up, pick one and ciao.

During the days, we makan at local spots, went to different massage spots - clean and dirty and just chilled. After the three nights, Tan just wanted to go to one Soi Cowboy and specifically just one bar where he was smitten with one girl.

Anyway we made this our go to spot and even made friends with the bouncer and mamasan. This would be our home for the next four days and this is where I saw her.

(TBC)

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Now at this bar, the girls would dance on stage in various states of undress. Topless or in tiny bikinis and sometimes they would flash you to entice you. Most of the time, this bar is known for having some of the cuter girls tho it's a bit more expensive than other clubs in BKK.

Bar girls are interesting. Most times they're from smaller towns and have come to BKK to make the big bucks. They know how to make men feel special and many of them have a way with men. But be warned, as nice as they are, they are bar girls - they are hookers. They love money more than anything and many enjoy the lifestyle - someone paying for them all the time. They also ALL have a sob story - helping their family, sick family member, have a child they need to care for, saving for school etc. etc. There is always some truth to it but they definitely love the bar girl life - having many boys who pay for their shit, buying them gifts, dinners, drinks and giving them money.

So it's obvious to all. You can definitely take a bar girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl. Anyway at this bar, my friends and i had a good time. Knowing that we'd be here for the next few days, we decided to get a couple bottles knowing we could keep them at the bar for the next couple days. When you get bottles, you immediately send a signal to the girls - these assholes have money (even tho when it comes to SG terms, it's super cheap) but it also makes them attracted to you and you get a one up on any Ang moh or japs.

We all also look younger than our age and being normal, friendly Chinese bros, the girls were immediately giving us smiles from the stage. My bro Tan had seen a certain girl, number 35, and the night before he wanted to take her but he had drunk too much and didn't want to embarrass himself. This time, he called her down and bought her lady drink at once. For those who dunno, lady drinks are drinks you buy for the girl of your choice - this means she comes down to drink with you where you can have a better inspection and also see if you have chemistry. I like girls who can talk english and communicate a bit so that it doesn't completely feel like just fucking. Anyway 35 and Tan were hitting it off and my friend Lee and I gave them some space by shifting one seat over. This gave me a chance to set my eyes on who I was talking about.

(TBC)

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Camping here :)

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Good start TS, please continue

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Her number was 71. And unlike the other girls, she seemed different. (Jialat! They're not different. They're the same.) Most of the girls are tan or at least have that Thai hue skin color but this girl seemed like more from Chiang Mai. If you saw her in SG, she would seem like a regular Chinese girl. She had sweet fresh face and her hair was jet black and short. Her body was slim and toned. She was wearing a bikini and while a few girls wore a floss G-strings, hers was a normal bikini bottom and even though she was holding on to a stripper pole in her undies, she seemed almost innocent. (Bad sign)

My friend Lee also thought she was pretty and even tho I wasn't planning on bringing a girl back, I thought why not have a couple drinks with this chio boo. 71 hadn't seen us yet as she was facing a different part of the bar. The bar is large U shape with seats all around set up in stadium seating. So depending on where you sit, you get to see certain girls facing you while others faced other part. But there are mirrors all around so you can always check out all the talent. I asked the mamasan to bring down 71. A couple Japs who were eyeing her up looked disappointed as she came down and headed towards me.

She gave me a nice smile and I saw clean white teeth - a major plus. A lot of Thai girls have braces. Due to less fortunate background, many have poor dental issues so they can only afford to fix their teeth in their 20s when they earn money like this case, from being a prostitute. 71 greeted me in Thai and sat beside me with her drink. I soon find out her name is Pearl (a fake name but her thai name was too long and crazy - I added her on line later on so I found out what it was).

Pearl could speak basic english which is good thing. If a bar girl can speak proper english or even fluent Japanese, rest assured she's been in the business for a long time unless its some unique circumstance where she's a uni girl. But uni girl won't be bar girls, if they do become hookers, they will work as freelancers and rather meet via Line or Tinder. If you find a girl that can't speak much english, it's probably cos she just entered the business and hasn't had a farang bf teach her. With my basic thai, we managed to communicate quite well.

Usually bar girls are friendly and flirtatious to make you feel special but Pearl seemed a bit shy. Maybe this was her style but I knew I was falling already for this sweet young thing. Jialat. She spoked about just moving here from north of Isan. Isan is a village area near Chiang Mai - now the girls here are farm girls. North Isan girls look more like Chaing Mai girls - fair skin and beautiful but less worldly. South Isan girls are more tan and many have had hard lives. If you meet, a north Isan girl it's literally like finding a pearl in the oyster. Pun intended.
I was already liking her.

(TBC)

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Pls continue bro

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Pearl sat closer to me. And I peered over at Tan who was happy with his girl and my friend Lee had asked for another beauty to come sit with him. Leave no bro behind I say. So i felt better to give Pearl my full attention. Anyway, Pearl placed her hand on my thigh and I could smell her fruity perfume as she was close. Her eyes were big and almost anime like. She had a quite smile and what killed me was her dimples. She had a cute laugh.

Her body was tight and toned but she didn't have big tits, 34Bs which I would find out about later. Her ass was small but cute and round. I'm ok with smaller slim body type. I like the fit JC girl body type. She had a small scar in the shape of a line on her right shoulder where she said she fell down from climbing a tree. Seems like she was a tomboy as a child. She talked about Isan a bit and said she only started working at this bar for about 3 months (can usually add 6 months to 1 year to this number but I decided to give the benefit of the doubt). I find out that she's 22 (also can add 5 years to that) and she looked young.

It's in the eyes that you can usually tell if a bar girl is a true bar girl. Pearl's eyes still had an innocent sparkle to them. If you notice some bar girls, they usually have dead shark eyes ready to attack your wallet or their just have bored eyes. Seasoned girls usually start the night having a few drinks on their own to take the edge off and dealing with their inner conscious to work that night. Pearl didn't smell like alcohol and the lady drink she had (usually cheap tequila and a stale cola mixer) she wasn't even really drinking. Seasoned bar girls know how to drink booze well and hold their booze. Pearl seemed more tentative.

I immediately bought her another lady drink. This bar had a two drink minimum before you can bar fine the girl out. Now what's a bar fine? A bar fine is an amount you pay the bar before you can take the girl out for a night out. Then you pay the girl separately if you want to spend a short time with her or a long time. Short time is a one shot deal - you fuck the girl at your hotel and send her on her way. Great for slutty chicks that just make your dick hard. These are girls you just want to fuck cos they have a CFM face or nice tits, ass etc. For a long time, the girl stays the night and morning - you fuck her when you get back and you get to fuck her again in the morning.

Many times the girl stays for breakfast/brunch or even the day. These are girls that give you a GFE - girlfriend experience. They are the sweet girls that walk the like of hooker and paid girlfriend. You usually spend a long time with girls you might want to see again and spend time with. Pearl was definitely one of those girls. I saw my friend Tan leave with his girl and Lee said he was going to another bar. Sometimes we split up so it's ok for my bros to leave. I was going home with Pearl but I wanted to stay at the bar a bit longer.

(TBC)

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camping here too!

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TS, very nice and support.

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As Pearl and I talked with our broken english and thai, i started to like her more and more. Not just in a sexual way. I liked how she laughed, how she would softly touch me on my thigh and chest and adjust my hair. Jialat I know! Bar girl and her tricks but I couldn't resist. Her cute giggles for my poorly pronounced thai words. She was a real cutie. Sometimes, these bar girls give you a nice feeling that's not sexual and I knew Pearl was either an expert at this or simply being genuine. I felt a real attraction.

As she finished her second drink, the hawk eyed mamasan came over as asked if I wanted to bring her back. Trying to be a "gentleman" I asked her "You want me to?" to which she nodded enthusiastically. I know it's a sex transaction and if I wanted her she would have to come but it made me feel good that she seemed like she wanted to come. Little things la.

As i paid her fine, she ran off to change. I looked around at the bar and the girls were just a blur to me. I told the mamasan to keep the bottles and we would be back tom. Although in the back of my mind, i knew that Pearl would be the only girl i spent time with for the next days. Pearl quickly returned and she was even cuter with clothes on some how. She was wearing a very modest but well fitted jumper shorts one piece with adidas shoes. It was a white outfit and she looked almost angelic.

After tipping the mamasan, we walked out of the bar into the busy night hand in hand. Pearl snuggled up close with her head on my shoulder. She was about 1.60m which was perfect for me. I looked down at her smiling at me. I knew I was in trouble.

(TBC)

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Nice story TS. Can you include a bit more details uch as pricing, etc? Been planning to go BKK for a while but it helps to be prepared.

Thanks. Keep it going!

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camping here for more stories...

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I was staying close to Soi Cowboy - just a 5 min walk so we picked up some street food as we walked and just chatted and ate as walked along. Hand in hand, it fell like walking with your girlfriend down Orchard Road when you were in JC or Poly. It was an old nice feeling.

We entered the hotel and went up to my room. For bros going to BKK, make sure your hotel is girl friendly if not you'll have to pay an extra occupant fee. Also girls will normally have to leave their ID at the front desk if they look like working girls. Sometimes, they won't ask if they think you look like a normal couple. In this case, they didn't ask Pearl as she looked quite Chinese and we didn't speak much as we entered.

In my room, we sat down on a sofa to relax and chit chat. I opened up a bottle of wine for us to share while we ate our snacks and watched a bit of TV. It was very good to listen to her talk in her broken english and trying to explain her life. I learned about why she was doing this.

Warning to all bros - every bar girl has a sob story. Some true, some sorta true and some just plain lies. Whatever it is, don't feel bad for them cos unless you're heartless, you will feel bad. Truth is that bar girls can do other things like go to school and learn or at least have a plan to get out of this lifestyle but after a while they enjoy the money and what it allows them to do. Not saying all of them love it but if you get X amount of money for a period of time - more than you ever had and then I tell you now you're going to get 1/10 of that amount and have to work in a 9-5 job where you have to work for everything, you won't be able to switch out. It's the sad reality.

Pearl was a bargirl cos her dad was sick so only her mom was supporting her and her little sister who was 10. Her mom was a street food vendor and so Pearl needed to make enough money for all of them and also for her dad's hospital bills. Sad story indeed. True? Well i find out later that it was. Pearl's plan was to do this for 2 years and have enough to buy a stall in an outdoor food court where her mom and her could run the stall. Modest goals but one she needed to work work.

I told her about my life and soon we started sharing Facebook, line and instragram photos and links. It was like sharing everything with a new girlfriend. It wasn't even about the sex anymore. I mean i def wanted to fuck her but I was enjoying her company. (Another bad sign bros!)

(TBC)

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Fucking good bro, I like this story alot, nearly as much as ilock and Pusslurvers'.
Keep typing you beautiful beautiful man.