Stopped for now, need some opinions
 

I have stopped visiting lewd masseurs and brothels for a period of time now, and since my last checkup I completely clear from common STDs (even from Herpes).

Now I am being increasingly distracted with thoughts about doing these activities again.

My main worry is that if I continue with these activities, I will eventually end up getting Herpes and spread it to any possible girlfriend/wife I will have in the future.

Even though a large number of people are tested positive for Herpes, and most of those people do not even show symptoms; I feel that if I were to spread it to my future spouse it would not be nice of me to do so.

I need some opinions. Do you think it is all right to just have a bit of fun and possibly contract Herpes since almost everyone has it? Or is that just irresponsible?

Abstain completely? Go for handjobs only? Or penetrative sex even?

Thanks

Re: Stopped for now, need some opinions
 

It is quite likely that your future spouse will already have Herpes.:p

Re: Stopped for now, need some opinions
 

u dont need to have sex to have hsv..

HSV1 can be transmitted via a kiss or by sharing a cup/spoon... so how?

Re: Stopped for now, need some opinions
 

I have visited Geylang broads, dirty massage parlours, local FLs, and had a few sugar babes over the past 15 years of my otherwise meaningless existence. Have not gotten any symptom-producing STDs. Even my Hep B was largely asymptomatic. The worst I got was a fungal infection during NS just two days after a tryst with a Malaysian Chinese broad, but that was likely to be the result of a field exercise and failure to wash clean afterward rather than transmitted by the broad. My current SB and I confirm have HSV. We are both asymptomatic.

Re: Stopped for now, need some opinions
 

Everyone has these thoughts TS, its normal but as long as you always use a rubber when having sex i feel you are being responsible enough

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No wonder it is so common in the population, hmm

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I am only worrried infecting gf/wife and answering for it. I do go for fun times when the thoughts are too strong.

Re: Stopped for now, need some opinions
 

does it worry you that your gf/wife might be fooling around and infect you? she might go for fun time when the thoughts are too strong..:p

Re: Stopped for now, need some opinions
 

The Herpes infection rate is higher in females than in males so there is a greater chance that your gf/wife will be infecting you.

Then both can go have fun times :)