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Originally Posted by hoian
I agree with Peanut123.
You: Are in need of sex and u don't find him repulsive. So u are normal.
He: Is not really keen so there is a problem with him. It could be one of the following reasons:
1) After the initial hoo-ha of courtship etc... now that he has managed to "catch you" he is losing interest in u sexually. This is common for some guys where the thrill is only at the courtship period. Perhaps u shld do some stuff to make him realise that he may lose u if he does not try hard enough. Keep him guessing day by day.
2) The reason why he comes quickly could be he just wants to get it over and done with. Sex has become a chore for him. Or he can cum fast because he closes his eyes and fantasize about something else.
3) Re-examine what was it that got u guys together in the first place. How desperate was he to marry u? Remind him often how difficult it was for him and that he should not rest on his laurels now that u are his wife.
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I think you may be right. I do get the feeling that sex is like a chore to him.
What kind of stuff should I do to keep him guessing? I am not good with playing mind games
