Possibly. Did you put on a lot of weight since marriage? Are you the "same" girl he used to lust for, physically?
Now, I think for most guys, as long as his wife didn't put on 30kg and doesn't look like a fish-monger, he should still want to have sex with her. Sex is hardwired into a guy's brain, and though he may say no once in a while, he won't say long repeatedly for long periods of time, as he will naturally have the urge too.
So, either something is killing the urge (stress, lack of physical attraction), or he's getting it outside.
If something is killing the urge, you need to talk to him to find out what it is. If he's getting it outside, well, then its a different story.
Does he wank off regularly? When he does have sex with you, does he produce a lot of semen? If he doesn't, then he's been releasing himself, so you then have to find out if he is doing it DIY or with another woman.
Finally, eh, I hate to ask this question, but could your husband be secretly gay?
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Originally Posted by cherielady
Thanks, he is quite tired from his job sometimes and stressed about finances at times too. But I would think that despite these, a man would still try to have sex regularly. Could it be (5) he doesn't find me attractive anymore?  |