[bbmapple]

We both work. He earns more than me. I gave him a loan, 5 digits. He has not returned. We are still married.

I don't see why anyone has any right to claim any amount from the other party. Even married also. U only spend what u can afford.

Yes u buy gifts for each other on special occasions. U can give her "extra shopping money" when u get extra bonuses or pay raise. But don't ever just pamper for the sake of stop her complaining.

U will fall into deep shit !!!!