That is why I thank you for starting this thread.
After some personal experience with a few VBs, guide from H88 and 1000 pages of understanding life partner to back me up.
Now I learn to say no and a firm no.
Otherwise they will have endless request. I ever have 3 requests within 2 hours....
Meet me told me need to buy phone card.
I say NO.
Say hungry need to eat, go and order food costing V500,000.
I tell her "NO".
Want to get money when she want to go home.
I say no.
I feel now I am in control; and VB now seriouly got to think clearly whether they like me for who I am.
Money is slowly leaving the picture.
Thanks TS.
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Originally Posted by SingViet
When you are firm, don't be afraid of them being angry. It takes time to make them understand.
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