I heard some brothers mention to me that they always regret after buying gifts or helping their VBs financially.
Personally I find them as a bunch of "forgetful and unappreciative" girls. So far I have not meet one that is different from the other.
My personal experience (November 2013, the day I gained enlightenment)
My girl wanted a Eyebrow fluid and Chanel perfume. After giving, she want a bike which I wanted to pay in a few months .... but my girl got upset and we stop talking. (so I was save by the bell and do not need to pay for a bike...)
Later on I meet a few more girls and all keep asking for things or money. Some requests are met while other "ridiculous" request are rejected. Some can keep talking about money the whole night that I chase her out of my room at 11:30pm by pushing her out of my room.
Their attitude is such that they forgotten what you have given to them earlier once a new request surface. And if the new request is not meet; you are a bad boyfriend.
I am now practising "NO". And once that is fulfilled I will be the last man a VB gold digger want to meet on earth.
And if I find one whom stick with me after countless "NO"; then I think I may found a "close to decent" girl finally. (however I will always keep in mind that she may be "acting" and it will take at least 2 years to see the truth.)
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Originally Posted by SingViet
Too many SGP man are too naive. They do not know what their viet spouses are thinking about. They assume that their viet spouse think and act in the same way, just like any other Singaporean. But the truth is, no matter how demure their viet spouse may be (cook them a meal when they are hungry, make love with them when they are horny) , thinking is mostly different from their actions. Actions are for show only and is part of the long term plot. But of course, not all Viet spouse are bad, some are really committed to be good wives and mothers. (minority) Those that have frequent contacts with Viets in Vietnam will have better idea of their thinking relative to those SGP man who assumes that all humans in the world think and act like Singaporeans.  |