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Originally Posted by slave.alan
I guess this is the most active BDSM thread so I post here... sorry if it is a wrong thread...
A bit of my situation.... I am lucky that my wife agrees to do little SM in our sex life. Now she likes to slap on my balls and kuku, ride my face with her pussy, and pee on my face.
But... what she knows (I think) is... I enjoy it, she doesn't know it is the humiliation makes me so hard and enjoy it.
Correct my thinking if I am wrong, I think there are two types of subs/slaves.
First type is the one who enjoys the physical effects of BDSM (pain, suffocation, so on so on). Another type is the one who enjoys BDSM mentally (humiliation, so on and so on).
So.. under CBT session, the first type of subs will enjoy it because of the painful feeling, the second type will enjoy the CBT because it makes him helpless... his 'pride' is being played and tortured by a woman.
But.. of course nobody is purely first or second type. For me, my tendency is more to the second type.
Need all bros opinion: should I tell my wife about my humiliation fetish? I really don't want my wife disrespect me... I guess no wife wants to have husband who can be humiliated, laughed at...
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Bro. Instead of telling your wife that you want humilliation from her you should start calling her Mistress but do not ask your wife call you slave directly. in stead you can tell her that your wife own your cock and she can do anything she want.
Slowly train your wife physically. You can discuss her that during the intimate session you want to have tie up and blind fold while your wife can do gagging, peeing, CBT and etc. Then whenever there is a pleasure you shd tell her Thank you... its sooo good. thank you mistress. start calling her mistress. then she will slowly understand her power during bed time. but during normal time you shd stay like normal. This way youwill get respect during normal time and disrespect during bed time. Does it make sense to you?